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SAFE MARRIAGE

A RETURN TO SANITY

BY

ETTIE A. ROUT

WITH PREFACE BY

SIR WILLIAM ARBUTHNOT LANE, BART., C.B., M.S.,

(Consulting Surgeon to Guy's Hospital), etc.

LONDON:

WILLIAM HEINEMANN

(Medical Books) Ltd.

1922

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| _PREVENTION OF VENEREAL DISEASE_ |

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| By SIR ARCHDALL REID, K.B.E., M.B. |

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The French Government has bestowed the premier decoration for

women, The Reconnaissance Française, upon Miss Ettie Rout, of the

New Zealand Volunteer Sisters, "for work done during the war (as

head of Anzac Soldiers' Club in Paris), and in 1919-1920 as head of

American Red Cross Depôt and Canteen at Villers-Bretonneux, where

she helped a great many French soldiers, and rendered precious

service to the civilian population of the commune." The War Office

also conveyed thanks to Miss Rout "for gallant and distinguished

services in the field." "I have it in command from the King," wrote

the Secretary of State for War, on 1st March, 1919, "to record His

Majesty's high appreciation of the services rendered."

PREFACE.

It affords me great pleasure to write a short preface to this book, since

it deals with a matter in which I (in common with all those who are

intensely interested in the health of our race) am glad to take an active

part.

To no woman has it been permitted to do the same amount of good, and to

save more misery and suffering, both during and after the war, than to

Miss Ettie Rout. Her superhuman energy and indomitable perseverance

enabled her to perform, in the most efficient manner possible, a work

which few women would care to handle, and of which but an infinitesimally

small number are capable. The French Government fully recognised the great

services she rendered to the Allies, and did her honour. The book she has

written is one of very great value, in that its object is the Health,

Happiness, Morality and Well-being of the Community.

Not only has Miss Ettie Rout the qualities that characterise all great

humanitarians, but she also possesses, in a unique degree, an intimate

knowledge of the terrible troubles that arise from irregular intercourse,

and of the manner in which they can be reduced and perhaps eliminated.

In this book she deals with such simple hygienic measures as are little

known in England, though they are in common use in France and in the

United States, in both of which countries sound practical common sense

prevails.

She is persuaded that marriage is the goal to be reached by all, and that

everything possible should be done to facilitate it, and so to diminish

vice. In her efforts to bring about this happy issue she has the good

wishes and congratulations of all who have the health of the community at

heart.

W. ARBUTHNOT LANE. 21, Cavendish Square, London, W.1.

_March 25th, 1922._

CONTENTS.

PAGE

FOREWORD xiii

I. INTRODUCTION 17

II. PRACTICAL METHODS OF PREVENTION

A. FOR WOMEN 32

B. FOR MEN 51

III. MEDICAL FORMULÆ 59

IV. COMPULSORY TREATMENT 63

V. CONCLUSION 65

APPENDIX I 69

APPENDIX II 73

NOTE AND ADVERTISEMENT 75

"Knowledge comes, but Wisdom lingers, and I linger on the shore,

And the Individual withers, and the World is more and more."

TENNYSON.

FOREWORD.

This book embodies the considered opinions of twenty-five years' practical

experience of adult life--as an official reporter and journalist, as a

voluntary war-worker, and as a married woman. For many of the thoughts and

expressions used I am indebted to large numbers of men and women whom I

cannot name, and with whom I have been personally and professionally

associated in different parts of the world. I am also indebted to the

following medical journals for the publication, during the last five

years, of many letters, articles, notes, etc.: _The Lancet_, _The British

Medical Journal_, _Public Health_, _Municipal Engineering_, _Hospital_,

_New York Medical Journal_, etc., etc.

I have to thank the Society for the Prevention of Venereal Disease, the

National Birth-Rate Commission, and the Joint Select Committee (House of

Lords) on Criminal Law Amendment Bills for recording various statements

and evidence.

It remains only to state this fact: That on January 25th, 1922, Sir

Arbuthnot Lane, Sir Frederick Mott, Surgeon-Commander Hamilton Boyden, of

the Royal Navy, and Mr. Harman Freese, of Freese & Moon, manufacturing

chemists, of 59, Bermondsey Street, London, S.E.1, met at my home to

decide upon the best medical formulæ for self-disinfecting ointment for

men and contraceptive-disinfecting-suppositories for women. Mr. Freese

made up sanitary tubes and sanitary suppositories in accordance with these

formulæ, but he is prohibited by law from recommending these for the

prevention of venereal disease, and forbidden to supply printed directions

with them, whereas similar medicaments are being retailed with printed

directions in the State of Pennsylvania, and the Health Department

circularises medical practitioners thus:--

"The self-treatment packet, obtainable at drug stores, to arrest

venereal infection after exposure, is approved by the State

Department of Health on the same principle as is antitoxin given to

diphtheria contacts. Proof is lacking that the use of this packet

lowers social standards. Reduction in the incidence of venereal

disease is a direct result."

But not only in the clear, cool air of American State Departments of

Health is the knowledge and love of sexual cleanliness fructifying. In the

_Dublin Review_ for January-March, 1922, there is a wonderfully fine

article on "The Church and Prostitution," by the Right Rev. Monsignor

Provost W.F. Brown, D.D., V.G., in which he quotes from a very recent

Moral Theology, "De Castitate," by the Rev. A. Vermeersch, S.J., Professor

of Moral Theology at the Gregorian University, Rome, published in May,

1921. The author of "De Castitate" gives brief answers to three questions

put to him, which Mgr. Brown quotes in the original Latin, and of which

the following is a translation furnished by a Catholic priest:--

"You ask

1. Whether or not it is formally sinful to use antiseptic ointment

before illicit intercourse.

2. Whether or not the use of such ointment may be advocated.

3. Whether or not it is lawful for chemists to sell it.

Ad. 1. Although it seems that in England (_cf. Times_, January,

1917) some have made a scrupulous distinction between the use of

this ointment _before_ and _after_, and have forbidden the former

while approving the latter, you need make no such distinction (of

course, supposing the ointment is not used by a woman to

sterilize). It is not wrong to seek means, indifferent in

themselves, which will prevent the evil consequences of sin.

Ad. 2. It would indeed be a sin to reveal such drugs or to persuade

their use with the intention to induce a man to commit sin; but

there is no harm in telling a man who is certainly going to sin how

to avoid the consequences. Ad. 3. If men could be restrained from

vice by prohibiting the sales, this should be done; but so many are

ready to expose themselves to danger that you cannot hope for such

a result from forbidding the sale. It is true this removes _fear_,

but the general good, and the removal of danger to the innocent

justifies this. Besides, it is a poor virtue which is kept from sin

only by the fear of disease."

Having gone so far as to admit the desirability and necessity of the

medical prevention of sexual diseases, the Roman Catholic Church will

certainly find itself later unable to deny the desirability and necessity

of preventing the birth of children liable to be born diseased or unfit.

It is not practicable for a wife to take any suitable precautions against

infection by a diseased husband, which precautions will not at the same

time be effective, to a greater or lesser extent, in the prevention of

conception. There is no half-way house in the matter of sexual hygiene.

ETTIE A. ROUT.

I.--INTRODUCTION.

At present marriage is easily the most dangerous of all our social

institutions. This is partly due to the colossal ignorance of the public

in regard to sex, and partly due to the fact that marriage is mainly

controlled by lawyers and priests instead of by women and doctors. The

legal and religious aspects of marriage are not the primary ones. A

marriage may be legal--and miserable; religious--and diseased. The law

pays no heed to the suitability of the partners, and the Church takes no

regard for their health. Nevertheless, the basis of marriage is obviously

mating, or sexual intercourse. Without that there is no marriage, and with

it come not merely health and happiness but life itself. Cut out sexual

intercourse, and society becomes extinct in one generation. Every

generation must, of necessity, pass through the bodies of its women; there

is no other way of obtaining entry into the world. Hence, it is clearly

the duty of women to understand precisely the processes involved, from

beginning to end.

With the lower animals sexual intercourse is desired only seasonally, and

only for the purpose of reproduction. With the higher animals--man and

women--sexual intercourse is desired more or less continuously throughout

adult life, and desired much more for romantic than for reproductive

considerations--that is, for the sake of health and happiness rather than

for the sake of procreation only. A few women, and still fewer men, have

no sexual desires. To them sexual abstinence seems more natural than

sexual satisfaction. But for the majority of mankind and womankind--for

all normally healthy men and women--there is this continuous desire to be

happily mated.

For the sake of health and happiness there is everything to be said for

early marriage, but better late than never.[A] The chief obstacles to

early and happy marriage are financial, and these would largely disappear

if women were able to control fecundity. The chief obstacles to healthy

marriage are the venereal diseases, and these could be extirpated in two

or three generations if sexual cleanliness was properly taught to all

adults, and if promiscuous intercourse was properly regulated during the

same period. Unfortunately most women's idea of regulating promiscuous

intercourse is to have none of it. This is impossible in the present stage

of moral evolution, but it will become increasingly possible as we

succeed in extirpating the venereal diseases, particularly syphilis.

Syphilis is the one great cause of immorality, because persons born with a

syphilitic taint (and what family is entirely free from this hereditary

disease?) are apt to be mentally and morally deficient; hence, tend to

indulge in anti-social and unnatural practices, such as engaging in

promiscuous intercourse.

[Footnote A: Marriage, whether early or late, cannot of course benefit and

elevate society until the present mischievous and archaic Divorce Laws are

simplified and reformed in accordance with modern sociology and ethics.

Unhappy and unsuitable marriages necessarily foster immorality and promote

disease, and the community as a whole gains by their being dissolved in a

ready but responsible and dignified manner. The refusal of the Church to

marry diseased persons would greatly benefit the nation, whereas its

refusal to marry healthy divorced persons not only injures the nation but

dishonours the Church.--E.A.R.]

The normally healthy man is a highly selective creature, and the normally

healthy woman still more fastidiously selective in romantic relationship.

Neither man nor woman is naturally in the least attracted by promiscuous

intercourse. On the contrary, it is repugnant to both. Both regard the

elements of romance, reciprocity and permanence as essential. These

elements are present in marriage and absent in prostitution. Therefore, it

is beneath the dignity of any decent, intelligent woman to suppose that

promiscuous relationship can ever be as happy and satisfying and

attractive as marriage. This, apart altogether from the fact that marriage

is fertile and prostitution infertile. No, both man and woman desire

love-relationship, not loveless-relationship; and they are really quite

fit to be trusted with the evolution of the race through passionate love

and the worship of beauty, as soon as society makes harmonious provision

for their normal sexual needs. Until society does make early marriage

practicable for all healthy adult men and women, say between twenty and

twenty-five years of age, extra-marital relationship, however undesirable,

is inevitable, because there are many men to whom, at times, any woman is

better than no woman.

But extra-marital relationship is never even safe, because of its

promiscuity and impermanence, except in properly conducted and effectively

supervised tolerated houses. The tolerated house is absolutely necessary

at present to protect women from disease and immorality, by confining this

kind of intercourse as far as possible in certain definite channels. The

abolition of the tolerated house spreads both disease and immorality into

classes of women who would otherwise be immune, and enormously increases

the dangers of promiscuous intercourse. Separated from their toilet

equipment the women cannot make and keep themselves clean; on the streets

they are not taught to refuse intercourse with diseased men; thus their

occupation becomes more and more dangerous as medical supervision is

removed. They inevitably become diseased; sometimes contract mixed

infections, which they pass on to their clients--the future husbands and

fathers of the nation--and "The sins of the fathers are visited upon the

children even unto the third and fourth generation." All this would be

impossible if women generally would recognise the primary fact that

because a man is immoral that it is no reason why he should become

syphilitic. We all want to abolish sin, but failing that we must cease

wanting to poison the sinner. We must actively work to save him from the

penalties of his folly, for that is the only way in which we can save his

victims and succeed ultimately in "Making Marriage Safe."

Similarly every effort should be made to prevent women becoming diseased,

no matter how immoral they may be. The prostitute is very often a woman of

peculiar mentality or overdeveloped animal instincts; and many women are

driven to prostitution by drink and poverty. The prostitute class is

largely recruited from mentally and morally deficient girls, who are

themselves the offspring of syphilitic or alcoholic parents. Prostitution

is the effect--not the cause--of anti-social acts and conditions. We must

remedy the causes of these before we can hope to remove the effects. Under

present social conditions, attempting to abolish prostitution by shutting

up tolerated houses is just as idle as attempting to lower the temperature

of a room by smashing the thermometer. All we can do is to make and keep

these women clean. If we decline to do even that, then diseased women will

succeed in contaminating our men much faster than we can instruct the men

in sexual cleanliness.[B]

[Footnote B: Diseased women will continue to cater for men so long as they

are left free to do so, but as knowledge grows their clients will tend to

be limited to _diseased men_. Once men clearly understand that _every_

casual connection is a risk of disease, they will certainly tend to run

fewer risks.--E.A.R.]

And again, just as the medical prevention of venereal disease was not

proposed, and has not been applied for the purpose of fostering or

condoning promiscuous intercourse,[C] so the conscious control of

fecundity by contraception must not be applied in such a way as to lessen

the proportion of well-born citizens in the nation taken as a whole.

Birth-control applied only by the responsible classes of the community

combined with indiscriminate fecundity among the irresponsible masses,

must inevitably lead to the lowering of the general average in character,

brains and physique. It is a form of reverse selection--the responsible

being out-bred by the irresponsible. What is wanted is the general

application of birth-control by voluntary contraception, and the

particular application of voluntary and compulsory sterilisation of the

feeble-minded and unfit.

[Footnote C: My own experience among the troops quite convinced me that

the more thoroughly and carefully self-disinfection was taught, the less

immorality there was. It was impossible to teach self-disinfection

properly without at the same time instilling a living sense of danger into

the minds of men and women; and this danger-sense certainly led to more

self-restraint.--E.A.R.]

Enthusiastic advocates of birth-control claim it as a means of _improving

the race_. It is not necessarily anything of the kind. You cannot improve

a flock of sheep or a herd of cattle by letting all the individuals breed;

whether each individual has a small number or a large number of offspring

makes comparatively little difference. The way to improve the flock or

herd is to breed only from _the best_ and eliminate the unfit as breeding

material. Changes in environment may improve or deteriorate the

individuals of one generation, but such changes are not inheritable,

excepting in the case of venereal disease. Syphilis, _e.g._, may damage

the germ-cells of a man's body, and thus lead to his procreating diseased

and damaged offspring--idiots, imbeciles, mental or moral deficients, and

so forth, who unfortunately are fertile. Thus the prevention of venereal

disease is a eugenic force. It is in fact the _only_ eugenic force in

operation at present. Generally speaking, it is the well-developed and

high-spirited and enterprising young men who travel most, and who,

therefore, are most likely to contract and spread venereal disease. They

come in contact with a much larger number of women than those who stay at

home instead of wandering abroad. These well-to-do young travellers often

marry the finest of our women, and later in life damage or sterilise them

through latent or chronic venereal disease. Hence many one-child

marriages--due not to the use of contraceptives, but to the action of the

gonococcus transferred to the body of the wife.

But there is this hope. It is among the mentally alert and well-informed

men and women that birth-control is first understood and applied, and it

is among this very same class that the medical prevention of venereal

disease is also first understood and applied. Thus, there will tend to be

less disease among this class than among the mentally torpid and

ill-informed masses of the community. This in itself will not _improve_

the race, but it will prevent the deterioration of certain classes and

increase their numbers. Nevertheless, so long as the irresponsible and

feeble-minded and diseased are permitted to multiply indiscriminately, as

at present, they must ultimately outnumber and overwhelm the classes which

are practising self-restraint or applying birth-control. This process may

even be hastened by a political enfranchisement, which enables twelve

feeble-minded persons to outvote two wise men six times over. Thus, to

succeed democracy must raise and maintain the general average of brains

and character throughout the community. In so far as it permits low-grade

individuals to be born in the homes of the masses, and high-grade

individuals in the homes of the classes, it is manufacturing a rod to

thrash its own back, successful rebellion against which mode of Government

ends in mere anarchy and chaos.[D]

[Footnote D: The present need of the white race is to increase its numbers

of fit and decrease its numbers of unfit. Over-population (except in a few

patches of the Old World) is not likely to be a problem for the white race

for centuries. They have several continents practically empty and

undeveloped, and science has as yet touched only the fringe of the

possible productivity of the earth in the matter of food supplies. The

worst feature of the British Empire is that there are too many Englishmen

and not enough Anzacs.--E.A.R.]

One duty at any rate is quite clear. No woman should run any chance of

conception unless she is certain of her own health and the health of her

partner--the man who is to be the father of the child she is to bring into

the world. If her husband's health is unsound, and she cannot avoid

intercourse, she can certainly take precautions against conception and

against infection. The control of fecundity and the control of infection

are parallel problems, and generally speaking, the measures a woman takes

to prevent conception will also prevent infection. If these precautions

are not taken, a woman may not only become seriously ill herself, but she

may blast the health of her unborn babe--or infect it herself during or

after birth. Clearly then it is her personal, as well as her maternal and

national, duty to apply preventive measures.

Women should understand that there is _always_ a great deal of venereal

disease--millions of fresh cases every year in the British Empire. During

the war there were about half-a-million fresh infections per annum among

the soldiers in the British armies alone--about two million men infected

altogether at the very least.[E] Some were cured, others patched up; some

very badly treated; some not treated at all; many demobilised while in an

infective condition, and thus liable to come home and sow in the bodies of

clean women the seeds of diseases picked up in foreign lands in moments of

excitement and folly. Blame these men if we must, but in all fairness let

us ask ourselves: _Who infected them?_ And the answer is: _Diseased

women._

[Footnote E: The devastation of these diseases among the British armies

abroad (in the Rhine, Black Sea, and Palestine areas, etc.) has been much

worse since the Armistice than during the war. Approximately one-fourth

(sometimes one-half) of these armies become infected with venereal disease

every year. From 1919 to 1921 somewhat soothing statistics were issued for

the army of the Rhine, but these have now been admitted in Parliament to

be "_quite unreliable_" (Parliamentary Debates, House of Commons, November

3rd, 1921, p. 1952). It must be remembered that, owing to the exchange

value of the £, the English soldier on the Rhine is now being paid about

£8 or £10 per day; that is, he draws a far higher salary than the highest

paid German official; hence there is no riotous pleasure, however

expensive and extravagant, which he cannot afford. These conditions do not

promote manly virtue or even sexual cleanliness.--E.A.R]

The venereal diseases are passed on from one sex to the other in a

continuous chain, but the chain can be broken at any time _by either sex_.

And now it is the _married women_ on whom we must rely to see that these

infections are stopped. Leaving women to the chance protection of their

partners is demonstrably a failure. Here is an extract from a letter sent

me recently by an old and experienced medical practitioner:--

"I have had many women under treatment _who have been continually

re-infected by their husbands_."

Men and women must both seek knowledge and both accept responsibility for

the venereal problem. They must face this problem independently and in

co-operation, and above all--face it _honestly_. There is no other way.

It is all very well to say that the man is responsible. That is only a

partial truth.[F] The woman is equally responsible as soon as she is

equally well informed. A woman's body is her own, and she will never be

really free until she knows how to look after it properly. If she is fit

to vote, fit to pay taxes, fit to hold her own estate under the Married

Women's Property Act, why should she not learn to exercise intelligent and

responsible control over her own self? Why do so many women _allow_

themselves to be impregnated and infected against their will? Because they

do not understand the construction and functions of their own body. When

they do understand this, they will guard their own health as carefully as

they guard their reputation. They will then not only keep their own sexual

organs scrupulously clean, but they will encourage their husbands to do

the same. Sexual intercourse is far more refreshing and exhilarating in

every way when both husband and wife have cleansed their parts immediately

before enjoying it. It is only natural that both should wish to be sweet

and clean before approaching the closest of all bodily intimacies.

[Footnote F: It would be much less untrue to say that the remedy for the

venereal problem is _clean women_.--E.A.R.]

But more than this. Every well-informed woman knows that there is far more

venereal disease in the world to-day, among men and among women, than

there was before the war, and she should train all the members of her

household in habits of strict cleanliness. Instinctively they will then

avoid risking their health by contact with a possible source of

defilement, or if the risk has most unfortunately been taken, they will

instantly and instinctively remove and destroy the possible infection, in

the same rapid and effective way as they would cleanse their boot from

filth accidentally coming in contact with it. By all means let the

mothers continue to inculcate virtue, but they should also teach sexual

cleanliness directly and indirectly, themselves setting the example. After

all, the microbes of venereal disease grow almost exclusively in the

genital passages, and if these were kept sweet and clean there would soon

be an end to venereal disease. It is not a matter of making _vice_ safe:

it is a matter of making _marriage_ safe: a matter of restoring and

maintaining physical health, family and national, and above all, of

protecting innocent women and children, for if vice has its dangers so

also in these days has innocence its own peculiar perils, and it is the

cry of these victims--often so young and so fair--that must affect us most

deeply.

More than fourteen years ago, Mr. George Bernard Shaw, in the Preface to

"Getting Married," wrote the following regarding "The Pathology of

Marriage":--

"As to the evils of disease and contagion, our consciences are

sound enough: what is wrong with us is ignorance of the facts. No

doubt this is a very formidable ignorance in a country where the

first cry of the soul is, 'Don't tell me: I don't want to know,'

and where frantic denials and furious suppressions indicate

everywhere the cowardice and want of faith which conceives life as

something too terrible to be faced. In this particular case, 'I

don't want to know' takes a righteous air, and becomes 'I don't

want to know anything about the diseases which are the just

punishment of wretches who should not be mentioned in my presence

or in any book that is intended for family reading.' Wicked and

foolish as the spirit of this attitude is, the practice of it is so

easy and lazy and uppish that it is very common, but its cry is

drowned by a louder and more sincere one. We who do not want to

know, also do not want to go blind, to go mad, to be disfigured, to

be barren, to become pestiferous, or to see such things happening

to our children. We learn, at last, that the majority of the

victims are not the people of whom we so glibly say, 'Serve them

right,' but quite innocent children and innocent parents, smitten

by a contagion which, no matter in what vice it may or may not have

originated, contaminates the innocent and the guilty alike, once it

is launched, exactly as any other contagious disease does; that

indeed it often hits the innocent and misses the guilty, because

the guilty know the danger and take elaborate precautions against

it, whilst the innocent, who have been either carefully kept from

any knowledge of their danger, or erroneously led to believe that

contagion is possible through misconduct only, run into danger

blindfold. Once knock this fact into people's minds, and their

self-righteous indifference and intolerance soon change into lively

concern for themselves and their families."

The facts seem so plain, and yet there is still great opposition to the

promotion of a knowledge of sexual cleanliness and self-disinfection. Only

a short time ago (the end of 1920), Sir Frederick Mott, the great

authority on syphilis, felt obliged to oppose some opponents of

self-disinfection at a public enquiry in London in this fashion:--

"The point is that large numbers of innocent women have suffered

from disease. They are rendered sterile, have miscarriages and

abortions, and large numbers have been ruined. I have been

connected with the London County Asylums for twenty-five years, and

I have seen in those asylums people from all states of society, and

I have seen them die of general paralysis. Five per cent. of the

people who get syphilis, in spite of treatment, develop this

disease. That is only one aspect of it. I was on the Royal

Commission on Venereal Disease, and Sir William Osier, who was a

great authority, said that he could teach medicine on syphilis

alone, because every tissue in the body is affected by it, and that

the diseases of blindness, deafness, insanity and every form of

disease may be due to syphilis. You have only to consider the

effect that it had upon the army, and I understand that more than

two army corps were invalided during the war on account of venereal

disease. What have you to say to that? Does not that create some

anxiety?"

It is difficult even to read this eloquent appeal--the more eloquent

perhaps because it was quite unpremeditated--without being deeply moved.

Yet the witnesses opposing Sir Frederick Mott were apparently unaffected.

Of them, as of men of old, it might justly be said:--

"He hath blinded their eyes, and hardened their heart; that they

should not see with their eyes, nor understand with their heart,

and be converted."

And now large numbers of hospitals all over the Empire are issuing appeals

for the means to treat venereal disease.

"It is tragic," says one London hospital, "to see the

sufferers--men, women and even little children--innocent little

mites, knowing not from what they suffer or why they should. It is

thought by many that venereal disease is a sign of guilt, but large

numbers of our patients are innocent victims."

Is it not time then that we all stopped repeating timid platitudes about

making vice safe, and did something practical to _make marriage safe?_

_Why don't we?_

Is it because we are afraid to define the terms we use so glibly? We talk

of promoting chastity, for example. _What is chastity?_ Surely chastity is

happy, healthy sexual intercourse between a man and a woman who love one

another; and unchastity is sexual intercourse between those who do _not_

love one another. No sexual intercourse at all is neither chastity nor

unchastity; it is the negation of both, and it ends in extinction. Why

trouble so much about a negation that inevitably means racial death? Why

not devote ourselves to life and love; to the building of a happy healthy

human family--a family that instinctively realises that the clean

blood-stream of a nation is its most priceless possession?

But the national blood-stream can never be clean until there is a complete

knowledge of sexual control and sanitation among all of us, and especially

among women. One of the very first things which women must learn to

understand is the control of conception and the control of venereal

diseases. They must learn how to prevent the birth of the unfit; how to

secure the birth of the fit; and even though their husbands are infective

they must learn how to break the chain of infection in their own bodies,

so that what is bad for the race does not become worse. If women are brave

enough and wise enough, they can in most cases _wipe out the scourge of

venereal diseases from their own hearths and homes_, and ensure that every

child born is at least physically fit. But this cannot be done without

_knowledge_, and that knowledge is at present lacking.

The following pages are written with the object of imparting useful,

practical knowledge to sensible and serious women. The women who accept

and apply this knowledge can rest calm in the sure and certain faith that

it is their offspring who will build up the coming race.

II.--PRACTICAL METHODS OF PREVENTION.

A. FOR WOMEN:

SEXUAL REPRODUCTION.

To understand the practical methods of birth-control, or the control of

conception, we must first have a clear view of the processes involved when

the reproductive organs are in activity, and of the nature and situation

of the sexual organs themselves. The diagrams on pages 34, 35 and 36 show

in general outline the reproductive organs of man and woman.

Now fertilisation does not necessarily occur whenever the male organ comes

in contact with the female organ. Fertilisation occurs only when a

male-cell (spermatazoon) unites with a female-cell (ovum); in other words,

when the spermatazoa in the seminal fluid of a man meet and unite with the

germ or ovum in the body of a woman. That is the beginning of the child.

This union of the two cells need not take place during or immediately

after sexual intercourse. It may occur many hours, or even two or three

weeks, after connection, because the spermatazoa have motion of their own.

They are tiny threadlike bodies, which may work their way towards the

ovum long after they have left the body of the man and been placed in the

body of the woman, and the uterus has a searching movement, and may by its

pulsations draw the spermatazoa upwards. For these reasons a woman cannot

be quite sure of the exact time of fertilisation, and hence cannot predict

exactly the date of the child-birth. Generally the pregnancy lasts nine

months, but it may last longer--say ten months on rare occasions; and it

may be extended apparently by a delay in fertilisation.

PREVENTION OF CONCEPTION.

For many reasons which I need not enumerate here, the precautions against

impregnation can most easily and effectively be taken by the _woman_,

rather than by the man. She is the one fertilised, and therefore she is

the one to guard herself against fertilisation.

There are _two methods_ of preventing fertilisation:--

(1) _The chemical method_, that is, the destruction of the male

cells (spermatazoa) by means of a suitable germicidal substance,

such as many of the disinfectants; and

(2) _The mechanical method_, that is, the adoption of measures

which keep the male and the female cells apart from one another.

[Illustration: INNER SIDE OF THIGH.

DIAGRAM 1.--Female organs of generation in normal condition. This shows

diagrammatically the position of the organs if a woman were cut in two

between the thighs. The rubber pessary is shown in position, slightly

distending upper end of vagina (or front passage), and covering the

opening into interior of womb. A suppository introduced beforehand will

dissolve and occupy the dotted space above rubber pessary, forming a pool

around the mouth of the womb. The walls of the vagina are elastic and

collapsible. Infection with gonorrhoea may occur in the female urethra (or

water passage) or in the vagina, etc. Syphilis may infect internal and

external parts of female organs; also breasts, mouth, tongue, etc., and

other openings of the body.]

Neither of these two methods in practical application by ordinary women

can be said to be _completely certain_. Both are apt to fail at times. The

chemical method, that is, the application by the woman of a suitable

soluble contraceptive suppository before connection, or of a germicidal

douche (such as a dilute solution of lysol) after connection, or both

these measures taken consecutively, may fail because of some fault in

application, or because the seminal fluid actually enters the womb during

intercourse; that is to say, when emission takes place, the end of the

male organ may be exactly opposite and close to the mouth of the womb, and

the spermatazoa in the seminal fluid enter directly into the womb, and

cannot then be removed or destroyed by douching or contraceptives of any

kind. Now if the physical conformation of the reproductive organs of the

husband and the wife render this event possible or probable, then soluble

suppositories and contraceptive douching are alike unreliable, by

themselves or in combination. On the other hand, the mechanical method,

that is, the use of a rubber protector, preferably the spiral-spring

occlusive[G] "Dutch" pessary, by the woman may also fail, because the

protector is porous or ill-fitting. But--_if the two methods are

combined_, the chemical method and the mechanical method, _then the

protection against fertilisation may be regarded as almost absolute_. The

completeness of the protection depends, of course, upon the proper

application and combination of the measures advised.

[Footnote G: Judging by certain original letters (dated December, 1888, to

November, 1892), which I have seen myself, by the courtesy of Messrs. E.

Lambert & Son, of 60, Queen's Road, Dalston, London, E.8, the rubber

spring pessary was first suggested here by an English doctor, and

manufactured for him by Mr. E. Lambert Sen. Under date December 23rd,

1888, the doctor wrote:--

"I think highly of the watch-spring rim. There will be very little fear of

conception with one of these new pessaries properly adjusted, as the rim

will press equally all round. The inflated pessary would be the most

perfect, however, if you could only contrive some method to prevent escape

of air and consequent flattening. Such a pessary would be most

comfortable."]

[Illustration: UTERUS, OVARY AND FALLOPIAN TUBE.

DIAGRAM 2.--The Fallopian tubes and ovaries are not shown on Diagram 1.

There are two ovaries and two Fallopian tubes, one on each side of the

uterus. The female cells or ova are formed in the ovaries and discharged

into the Fallopian tubes, along which they travel into the uterus. It is

believed that the union of the male with the female cell usually occurs in

the Fallopian tubes, but that it may occur in the uterus.]

[Illustration: DIAGRAM 3.--This diagram shows the male urethra or passage

down the male organ as somewhat distended. Generally, the walls of this

passage are collapsed together. The seminal fluid is discharged down the

urethra and emitted at orifice marked "meatus." The small glands indicated

are especially liable to be infected with gonorrhoea germs, but infection

may occur almost throughout the entire length of the male passage.

Infection with syphilis may occur on the outside of the male organs and

elsewhere.]

I have discussed the various measures fully with leading medical

authorities in London and Paris and elsewhere during the last five years,

and have gradually evolved the recommendations made here, and these

recommendations have the highest medical and scientific support and

approval. Other methods than those recommended are referred to in Appendix

I; to enumerate here those that have been eliminated would be purposeless

and confusing. We are satisfied that we have selected the least harmful

and most reliable methods known to science yet. These methods and these

only will be explained and recommended. Everything possible has been done

to make the methods _acceptable to women_.

UNATTAINABLE CONDITIONS.

Before detailing these methods, I want to ask every woman to rid her mind

of certain false hopes and impossible demands. It is no use asking for

something which gives no trouble at all, which costs nothing, and which is

at the same time absolutely certain to prevent conception. These

conditions are unattainable. But almost absolute control of her

reproductive functions is most certainly attainable by every careful,

intelligent woman willing to spend a good deal less time and money over

her sexual toilet than she now spends over the care of her teeth, for

example.

SEXUAL TOILET OUTFIT.

To begin with, it is necessary to obtain suitable sexual toilet outfit,

and the requirements for this are as follows:--

Enamel bidet, soluble suppositories, suitable syringe, and

properly-fitting rubber pessary. These are illustrated on pages 38 and 43.

[Illustration: Diagram 4]

GENERAL CONDITIONS.

1. _Cleanliness._--Sexual control is largely a matter of sexual

cleanliness. We must all learn to keep the genital passages cleansed in

the same way as we keep all the other openings of the body clean. The

ears, eyes, nostrils, mouth, anus, orifice to the urethra, and the vagina

should be appropriately cleansed daily. The openings of the body which

stand most in need of daily cleansing are the anus and the vagina, and yet

many women fail to cleanse these properly at all. Every home should have a

suitable bidet (preferably fitted into the bath-room, with hot and cold

water attached), and every member of the family should be trained from

childhood to use the bidet, night and morning, with the same care and

regularity as they use their sponge or toothbrush. All over the Continent

and in the United States of America this is done in well-ordered

households nowadays, but hardly anywhere in the British Empire is it done

at all.

2. _Soluble Suppositories._--Generally speaking, the soluble quinine

pessaries or suppositories which are sold in the shops are unreliable.

Several brands have recently been analysed and found to contain no quinine

at all--or particular pessaries have been without sufficient quinine.

Quinine is fatal to the spermatazoa, and without it these pessaries are

simply pieces of soluble cocoa-butter. Cocoa-butter is the substance

generally chosen for cheap soluble pessaries, because it is easily

obtainable, and has what is called a sharp melting point--that is, it

dissolves or melts very suddenly and readily at body-heat, but is solid

below that heat. Cocoa-butter in itself is quite harmless--usually

non-irritating (unless it is "rancid")--and it gives some mechanical

protection, in the same way as vaseline or any kind of fat or oil would

do, provided, of course, it is in the right place to catch and entangle

the spermatazoa and thus prevent their uniting with the ovum. Research and

experiment have proved conclusively that no spermatazoa--indeed, _no

microbes or germs of any kind--can pass through a film of oil_. But if the

protective covering of grease is incomplete at any point, it may there

prove ineffective, and there is no chemical protection whatever if the

particular germicide relied upon, such as quinine, has been omitted.

Quinine is sometimes omitted on the ground of expense, and sometimes

because it proves irritating to many women. Only really suitable

suppositories, guaranteed to be made in accordance with accredited medical

formulæ, should be used. These suppositories should be composed of

specially selected and tested fats, should be soothing and cleansing, as

well as protective; should be stainless, odourless, and quite

non-irritating. If they do cause any woman discomfort temporarily,

vaseline or soap-suds could be substituted, but might not be quite so

certain to prevent conception.

3. _Syringe._--The ordinary enema is not a particularly suitable appliance

for the purpose of douching. The kind of syringe required is one which

will not only flood the vaginal passage with warm water or very weak

antiseptic lotion (such as dilute solution of lysol), but one which is

sufficiently large for the contents on injection to distend slightly the

walls of the vagina, straighten out their folds and furrows, and thus let

the cleansing and protecting lotion touch every part as far as possible. A

movable rubber flange is necessary to act as a stopper at the mouth of the

vagina, and thus enable the woman to retain the lotion for a minute or so.

Care should be taken, when filling the syringe, to express all the air

from it--by filling and refilling it two or three times with the nozzle

under water; otherwise the first thing put into the vagina would not be

warm water or antiseptic lotion, but simply a large bubble of air.

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