_1. If you desire to be respected, keep clean. The finest attire and
decorations will add nothing to the appearance or beauty of an untidy
person._
_2. Clean clothing, clean skin, clean hands, including the nails, and
clean, white teeth, are a requisite passport for good society._
_3. A bad breath should be carefully remedied, whether it proceeds
from the stomach or from decayed teeth._
_4. To pick the nose, finger about the ears, or scratch the head or
any other part of the person, in company, is decidedly vulgar._
_5. When you call at any private residence, do not neglect to clean
your shoes thoroughly._
_6. A gentleman should always remove his hat in the presence of
ladies, except out of doors, and then he should lift or touch his hat
in salutation. On meeting a lady a well-bred gentleman will always
lift his hat._
_7. An invitation to a lecture, concert, or other entertainment,
may be either verbal or written, but should always be made at least
twenty-four hours before the time._
_8. On entering a hall or church the gentleman should precede the lady
in walking up the aisle, or walk by her side, if the aisle is broad
enough._
_9. A gentleman should always precede a lady upstairs, and follow her
downstairs._
_10. Visitors should always observe the customs of the church with
reference to standing, sitting, or kneeling during the services._
_11. On leaving a hall or church at the close of entertainment or
services, the gentleman should precede the lady._
_12. A gentleman walking with a lady should carry the parcels, and
never allow the lady to be burdened with anything of the kind._
_13. A gentleman meeting a lady on the street and wishing to speak to
her, should never detain her, but may turn around and walk in the same
direction she is going, until the conversation is completed._
_14. If a lady is traveling with a gentleman, simply as a friend, she
should place the amount of her expenses in his hands, or insist on
paying the bills herself._
_15. Never offer a lady costly gifts unless you are engaged to her,
for it looks as if you were trying to purchase her good-will; and when
you make a present to a lady use no ceremony whatever._
_16. Never carry on a private conversation in company. If secrecy is
necessary, withdraw from the company._
_17. Never sit with your back to another without asking to be
excused._
_18. It is as unbecoming for a gentleman to sit with legs crossed as
it is for a lady._
_19. Never thrum with your fingers, rub your hands, yawn or sigh aloud
in company._
_20. Loud laughter, loud talking, or other boisterous manifestations
should be checked in the society of others, especially on the street
and in public places._
_21. When you are asked to sing or play in company, do so without
being urged, or refuse in a way that shall be final; and when music is
being rendered in company, show politeness to the musician by giving
attention. It is very impolite to keep up a conversation. If you do
not enjoy the music keep silent._
_22. Contentions, contradictions, etc. in society should be carefully
avoided._
_23. Pulling out your watch in company, unless asked the time of
day, is a mark of the demi-bred. It looks as if you were tired of the
company and the time dragged heavily._
_24. You should never decline to be introduced to any one or all of
the guests present at a party to which you have been invited._
_25. A gentleman who escorts a lady to a party, or who has a lady
placed under his care, is under particular obligations to attend to
her wants and see that she has proper attention. He should introduce
her to others, and endeavor to make the evening pleasant. He should
escort her to the supper table and provide for her wants._
_26. To take small children or dogs with you on a visit of ceremony is
altogether vulgar, though in visiting familiar friends, children are
not objectionable._
[Illustration: Children should early be taught the lesson of Propriety
and Good Manners.]
[Illustration: AN EGYPTIAN BRIDE'S WEDDING OUTFIT.]
[Illustration]
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