HOME LIFE IN GERMANY.

Housekeeping in Germany is reduced to a science; an accurate knowledge

of principles, gained by experiment, experience and reflection.

Personal and domestic expenditures are regulated in strict accordance

with the best theories in consumption of capital and consumption of

labor. This is especially true in the large cities where the houses

are built to accommodate eight or ten families in addition, various

people below in the basements, such as shoemakers, seamstresses, and

washerwomen, who are ready to give service to the _herrschaften_ above.

These houses are generally built of brick, stuccoed, and oftentimes

in the early years of their existence present a very handsome front,

deceiving a stranger’s eye with the impression that they are stone.

The massive front door opening to the corridor which leads to the

_porte-cochère_, is in modern houses, most ornamental. Wrought iron, in

arabesque patterns, with the monogram of the owner, serves to protect

the plate-glass behind. The panels of wood below are elaborately

carved. This door opens to the touch of a bell attached to a rubber

tube and bell which remains in the basement where the _portier_ lives.

Invariably on the inside of the door one sees in large German letters,

“_Bitte die Thür leise zu zumachen_.” Every person entering or going

out reads this request, and, while occupied with reading, naturally

lets the door slam the louder. Only sly young men returning from the

_kneipe_ in the darkness feel obliged to bear it in mind. The slamming

of the great corridor door, however, makes no impression upon the

numerous families above, and if it chanced to be a friend of Frau

Schültze who just entered the house, there is yet time for the gracious

lady (_gnädige frau_), who probably lives up the second flight of

stairs, to take off her morning cap (which a German woman is apt to

wear until she hears some one coming) before her friend has time to

ring the bell to her own apartment.

On each floor in the largest houses are two apartments, usually of

seven or eight rooms—large enough, the Germans think, to accommodate a

family of eight or nine. And if you are a foreigner, examining these

houses with a view to renting, the _portier frau_ will accompany you

around, exclaiming how comfortable it all is! There is a _salon_ in

the front, a large, finely-proportioned drawing-room, with bay-window

and frescoed ceiling, and inlaid floor. Then the smaller room to the

right, or left, as it may chance to be, looking also on the street

with two windows, and generally a balcony, is intended for the library

or sitting-room. Then throwing the folding-doors wide open, between

the _salon_ and dining-room, she explains how handsome the two rooms

look during a dinner party. The dining-room has an alcove with a

large window looking down into the court. Then you follow her through

a narrow hall, passing perhaps the bath-room, with the servants’

room above—only five feet high—coming next to the kitchen. “But the

bed-rooms, where are they?” you ask, not being able longer to suppress

your anxiety on this point. “_Ach, hier sind die!_” exclaims the

astonished _frau_, and opens the door to two small rooms, about 10x12.

You look at your companion, the significant glance is returned and you

start for the next house, or up a second flight of the same, to see

if the division of rooms be there as ridiculous. After visiting about

twenty-five houses, however, and finding them all alike, you conclude a

bed-room with a German is a secondary consideration, and as to “guest

chambers,” they have never dreamed of them! Goethe was a true German

in this respect, and no wiser than the rest of his countrymen. Lewis,

in his biography of Goethe, never fails to express astonishment at

the small, dark room, in which the great man slept and finally died.

In the handsome old house at Weimar the spacious reception rooms and

commodious dining-room contrast strangely with the dark little closet

which is called the bed-room. I heard a German gentleman, who came to

America at the time Mr. Schurz did, but who was not so successful,

and who returned to Germany, and was consequently embittered with

everything, say, “The Berlin houses remind me, with their swell fronts

and elegant drawing-rooms, of the fashion of wearing embroidered

chemisettes when the rest of the toilet is mean and contemptible.” “The

Germans,” said he, “put all the elegance on the front of their houses,

while the sleeping-rooms are miserably ventilated little holes.” This

does not apply to the houses built recently. There is no longer such

discrepancy between bed-room and _salon_—economy, convenience and

rich designing characterize many German houses now, which would have

astonished the German mind a half-century ago.

The system by which these houses are rented or occupied is worth our

attention, since it has come to be a matter of great expense for one

family to rent or own a single house in our large cities. Let us

suppose the man who owns an apartment house in a large German city to

have a capital of $60,000 invested. He lives himself with his family

in the _parterre wohnung_, or what we would call the first floor. The

_bel étage_, or second floor, is the choice apartment, and rents,

if the house be in a desirable part of the city, for 3,000 marks (a

mark equals 25 or 24 cents). If the house be a double one, and this

is generally the case, the first _étage_ would bring 6,000 marks, the

second _étage_ 4,800 marks, and the third _étage_ 3,600. He has also

his own apartment, and below, the shoemaker, furnishes shoes for the

family; the seamstress does the sewing and the washerwoman is the

family laundress. From his capital he realizes a large percentage. The

taxes are heavy, but the outlays are not great, being in most cases

incidental, for the water, gas, and garbage, etc., are met by the

different tenants.

As to the housekeeping in one of these apartments or _wohnungs_—the

windows are casement style, with double glass, easy for washing but

difficult for drapery. The floors are inlaid with different colored

woods, and waxed. The walls are papered with rich and dark colors,

and the ceilings finished in stucco. A characteristic German house

will be furnished about as follows: Grand piano in the drawing-room

or upright if preferred; in front of the sofa, a good imitation of

Smyrna rug, (made in Silesia generally). A table stands on the rug

removed from the sofa only far enough to allow a stout matron to

squeeze in for a seat in one corner, which is her prerogative. Around

the sofa are arranged a half dozen chairs, all belonging in color and

form to the sofa. It would be unjust here not to say that the modern

craze for bric-a-brac, for elegant hangings and unique furniture has

penetrated the German mind as it has the English and American, and the

revival of house decoration is appreciated in Germany by those who

have the means to investigate the subject, but the house we describe

is “pre-æsthetical” and stands for characteristic German taste, and it

will be found compares most favorably with an American house before

the “highly æsthetical” fever developed. The dress circle of Smyrna

rug, sofa, table and chairs, is the center of attraction, but the

opposite walls and the corners of the room are not neglected. The piano

occupies a conspicuous position, and one or two pedestals, with choice

copies from the antique, are hid in the corners. A lady’s writing desk,

with delicate note paper ready for her use, a beautiful chair for

her service, and a rich robe for her feet, completes a German lady’s

drawing room. If she can not afford good pictures, she will have none.

Steel engravings from the old masters are frequently found, but seldom

oil paintings unless the parties be very wealthy or where artistic

home talent prevails. How shocking many houses in America are made, by

horrid crude pictures—in color, houses which maintain some beauty in

wood work, carpets, walls, and furniture. The portfolio of etchings

which are now sent to the farthest west and all over the United States

for inspection, are creating a higher taste, and it is a laudable

scheme, although accompanied with exorbitant prices.

The arrangement of our Teutonic lady’s drawing-room is so national that

the palace and the poor man’s house has the same link of resemblance;

for if a man owns but one table and one sofa, the table will stand

in front of the sofa, and the chairs around it. This impresses a

foreigner as being stupid and dull, and the American or French or

English woman living in Germany conscientiously avoids all proximity of

sofas and tables. There is some excuse for this stupid regularity in

the circles which still have the _kaffee klatsch_; an old and artless

entertainment which traveled women eschew, and women of high rank

long ago ignored, but which remains a blessing to women of moderate

means and unpretentious life. The hour for the _kaffee klatsch_ is

always 4 o’clock, and each guest is requested to bring her knitting

or fancy work, to take her seat at a table spread with a white cloth,

upon which the _kaffee_ stands, covered up with a quilted hood to keep

it warm, and flanked on either side by large baskets of cakes. Here

these innocent women sit for hours sipping coffee and knitting and

gossiping to their hearts’ content. It is the hour _sans-souci_ for the

genuine “_hausfrau_.” In such society one can recognize the simplicity

and ingenuousness of the German woman, and contrast the startling

differences of education and habit with her American sisters.

Returning to the furniture of the house, we find the library, or

sitting-room (_wohnstube_), for private libraries are rare, and only

found in the house of the _gelehrte_. It is true that every house has

Goethe, Schiller, Wyland, Heine, Schlegel’s translation of Shakspere,

Humbolt’s travels, and, it may chance to be, Kant, Hegel, and Strauss,

if the paternal mind cares no longer for Martin Luther. In the

neighborhood of the old _wartburg_ the memory of Luther is too sacred

to allow David Strauss to lie on the same shelf with the Reformer. If

the family taste runs to æsthetics more than ethics, a cabinet of rare

porcelain will take the place of a book-case in the sitting-room. But

in either case the inevitable sewing table stands by the window with

an easy chair by its side. If the gentleman of the house has writing

at home, or any business engagements, then the sewing table finds its

way to the big window in the alcove of the dining-room. This room is

more comfortable than an American dining-room, inasmuch as it has, in

addition to the set of dining-room chairs, a sofa and some easy seats,

two closed cabinets for the damask, on either side of the buffet,

which glistens with glass and china. Sofa pillows and footstools are

abundant, which one can not say are easily discovered in the American

home. But first of all a German house is comfortable, then ornamental.

“Wine, wife and song,” is the motto, as it was in the days of Martin

Luther, and _gemüthlich_, which may mean friendly, well-disposed,

good-natured, kind-hearted; snug, comfortable, lack-a-daisical, is

the word which expresses the tone of home life. The bed-rooms are

unattractive, as we have said. Two mahogany bedsteads, side by side,

“too short than that a man can stretch himself on them, and the

covering narrower than that he can wrap himself in it.” These German

beds are fearfully and wonderfully made, feathers below and above,

pillows hid during the day under the covers, and finally, a white

spread thrown over the entire mountain, in such a manner that it is

impossible to distinguish head from foot.

Of late the sense of the beautiful has brought to light in the shop

windows blue silk quilted spreads and lace coverings for these

monstrosities, and corresponding materials for the toilet table. But

the genuine _hausfrau_ considers them a “snare and delusion.” A German

lady who had just returned from a visit to America, said to me, “How

do the American women make up their beds? I must come and learn. But,”

added she, in the same breath, “I should think you would die under

such thin covers!” The floors of the bed rooms are painted with yellow

ochre and varnished. Small rugs lie in front of each bed, and before

each piece of furniture. A candle, matches, and water _carafe_ stand

on the table by the bed. During the Philadelphia Exposition, a German,

writing from an American hotel, observed: “How exasperating it is to go

to bed in a room with no candle, only gas in the centre of the room,

and innumerable chairs between one and the gas at midnight; and how

dreadful to awaken and find white walls staring at one and reflecting

the morning sun into one’s eyes.” Just criticism! The Germans are too

highly cultivated in art to tolerate white walls, and the Americans are

rapidly becoming so.

The kitchen is the German woman’s pride, and no wonder, with its

shining rows of brass and copper kettles and cooking utensils, hanging

so orderly against the gray wall, and the white porcelain oven,

brass-doored and brass-knobbed. Does it surprise you that she likes

to take a seat there every morning and talk over the _menu_ for the

day with Frederika, then unlock the pantry door and survey the clean

shelves, all dressed up in perforated paper, or red leather and brass

tacks, and loaded with groceries and confectioneries. What woman’s

heart would not swell at the sight of such a pantry and kitchen, and

such a capable, white-capped, white-aproned girl as Frederika? It is an

ideal picture, but one often and often seen in Germany.

We shall make the acquaintance of German servants presently, but first

some reference to the German ovens will be necessary, for it is with

these that the servant’s time is first engaged in the morning and last

at night. Next to the Dutch stove, the German oven is probably the

most economical, and as far as mere temperature is concerned, the most

effective of all warming arrangements. They are built of brick covered

with porcelain and are part of the house, being built in with the

walls. The cost is about seventy-five dollars for those finished with

plain white tiles; but frequently the tiles are colored like majolica,

and are highly decorated. In the Gewerbe Museum, of Berlin, there is

a collection of tiles used in Nürnberg on the old ovens—some are most

curious and beautiful. Since the spirit of decorative art is reviving

in Germany, as elsewhere, the artists of highest rank do not consider

it beneath their dignity to paint tiles or panels, or anything that

can ornament the “house beautiful.” These ovens are generally built

in the corner of a room, and are oftentimes eleven feet high. The

fire is burned in a furnace near the bottom, and the heated smoke is

made repeatedly to traverse the structure from side to side along the

winding passage before it reaches the top, where a pipe conveys it,

when comparatively cold, into a flue in the wall. The heated mass of

brick continues to warm the room long after the fuel is burned. The

same quantity of fuel which heats a German oven for a day is consumed

in an open grate in three hours. In Northern Germany the poorer classes

burn turf and charcoal, the better classes use the turf to mix with

the stone-coal. Wagons of turf are brought to the front of the house

early in the morning, the horses unhitched and taken away. The fuel is

then carried basket by basket full, on the backs of old women, to the

attic or fifth story of the house, which is divided into store rooms

for the different _herrschaften_. On this floor is stored the wood, the

coal, the turf. Early in the morning the back stairs are crowded with

the various servants, from the different apartments, going up and down

with their baskets of fuel. The fire must be lighted one hour before

the rooms become comfortable. While the fires are beginning to burn

the waxed floors are being polished, which is the time in our American

or English economy for cooking the breakfast. If our German friends

however prefer polished floors to gladden their sight on rising,

to heavy beefsteaks to warm their stomachs, what reason have we to

criticise? Frederika is lighting not the kitchen fire, but a little

spirit lamp underneath the “coffee machine,” or boiler, and carrying

in the fresh (but cold) rolls which she has just received from the

baker’s wife at the back door, and in ten minutes she will formally

announce to the _gnädigen herrn_ and the _gnädiger frau_ (gracious

lord and gracious lady) that “_frühstück ist fertig_” (breakfast is

ready). The _gnädiger herr_ will appear wrapped up in a heavy morning

wrapper (made of gray cloth, trimmed in mazarine blue) with newspaper

in hand, and the _gnädige frau_ will take her seat at the table where

the coffee is sending up its smoke. She looks, in her morning cap and

white apron, surely as healthy as her English sisters, and much more

so than the beautiful but frail American woman, who sits eating her

mutton chops and warm muffins. Who shall settle the question if doctors

disagree? Continental Europe has existed on coffee and cold bread and

eggs and never had dyspepsia, while England and America have grown fat

or nervous on the beefsteak and muffins.

The German washing is so well-known, and has afforded so much

amusement, that I would not overthrow the traditions; yet after a long

residence in Germany, and an experience of years in keeping house in

a German apartment, I learned to regard the “_grosse wäsche_” as a

necessary development of the apartment system of keeping house. For

instance, there is one common wash-room, and one drying-room; the

family in the _parterre wohnung_ engage it the first two days in the

week, then it belongs to the family on the opposite side of the house,

and successively to the other inmates of the house, so that weekly

occupancy is out of the question. But a foreigner can escape this

egregious imposition by sending the washing out of the house every week

and waiting patiently for it to return in ten days.

I was asked repeatedly by my German lady friends, “Where is your

wedding chest of linen?” meaning a carved cedar chest containing a

wedding dowry of linen, enough to last through four generations, which

is quite the thing to be inspected by one’s intimate friends, more than

the _trousseau_. How should an American woman answer such a question,

or place herself in the favorable estimation of her good German friends

again after shocking their education and hereditary taste by confessing

that her house linen was only sufficient for present use. There is a

sense of pride in the monthly washing in Germany little dreamed of by

the general observer.

A cook, a house-girl, or _kindermädchen_, and a man-servant (_diener_)

are the usual number of domestics employed by a well-to-do German

family where there are children. If there are no children, a cook and

_diener_ are sufficient help, even in a large city. In the country one

girl is enough. She is “Jack-of-all-trades,” and gets poor pay and less

praise for her proficiency. Her brawny arms and rosy cheeks are only

found admirable by some wandering artist, who makes a hasty sketch of

her carrying water from the village fountain. Among people who keep up

any social style a _diener_ in livery is indispensable. He opens the

door, serves at table, sets the table, polishes the floors, does the

errands, carries the invitation, walks behind the ladies when they go

out, or sits on the box with the coachman when they are driving. Above

all, he keeps Frederika in a good humor by polishing the doors of her

oven, and sipping coffee with her while the _herrschaften_ are sipping

theirs. She learns to call him her “_lieber Schatz_,” and by and by,

Frederika’s head becomes turned, and the cooking is not so perfect.

The wages of this _diener_ are not large according to American ideas;

he receives, according to his ability, per month, twenty thalers, ten

thalers, five, or even two and a half, if he is young, and has never

served outside a restaurant. In addition to his wages, he gets good

food, or the equivalent in money, which he generally prefers, for he

can then go to the _bier garten_ and get his meals, or eat with the

family of the porter below. A servant must understand his or her work

distinctly before entering into an engagement. Each must have a book

in which the employer can read the date of birth, place of birth, the

occupation of parents, the character of the employe, the recommendation

or condemnation of the last employer. This book is kept by the lady

of the house as long as the servant remains in her service, and when

leaving, if the person has been faithful, she is expected to write a

good recommendation in the book. There are two classes of cooks in

Germany—the finished cook (_die fertige köchin_), and the cook who is

willing to do any kind of work. _Die fertige köchin_ is an educated

queen in her department, and like every autocrat, her power renders

her unaccountable for her actions. She prefers to do the marketing,

and is in league with all the grocers and butchers. This coalition

of butchers, bakers, grocers, and cooks in Germany is a confederacy

which threatens the _hausfrau_, the baroness and royal household

alike. Socialism is a ubiquitous monster, and who feels it more than

the helpless woman with her account books before her, knowing there is

no remedy if the cook says “Meat has risen, and the butcher would not

take less.” An unending task in a European kitchen is dish washing,

for six dozen plates in serving the dinner there go no farther than

one dozen in the ordinary American way. The _diener_ is expected to

help the cook in this work, and once a week a _schauer frau_ (scouring

woman, or woman inspector), comes to help. It is a distracting day in

the _wirthschaft_, and serves as a weekly reminder of what is to come

before Christmas and Easter. This _schauer frau_ comes early in the

morning, tears down all the kitchen utensils, takes off the brass oven

doors, sets all the copper kettles and tin ware in a row, and goes to

work scouring them as bright as we would think necessary for a spring

cleaning. Then she washes the windows, scrubs the floors, and returns

with her fifteen silver groschen in the evening as contented as a

woman in America would be with a dollar. Christmas and Easter are the

seasons above all other times of the year for thorough cleaning. Then

the floors are so highly polished, and the brass knobs and doors of

the porcelain ovens made so brilliant that the servants go around in

felt slippers and old gloves, for fear of dimming the luster before

the dawn of the sacred days. Christmas is an expensive season for the

_herrschaften_—so many presents expected: the cook, the _diener_,

the porter and the _portier frau_, the lamp lighter, the gas man,

the butcher, the baker, and candlestick-maker, and above all, the

letter carrier. Eight and five dollars are small amounts for the cook

and _diener_. But we must remember the cook’s small wages during the

year (from five to twelve dollars is the usual monthly wages), before

pronouncing the Christmas gift too much.

_Feiertage_, or holidays for servants in Germany, are a great annoyance

to the order of domestic life. They are so importunant in their

demands, and so obstinately disagreeable if not gratified, that it

is better for the family to go to the restaurant for dinner and “eat

bitter herbs where there is peace,” than to remain at home for “a

stalled ox,” with angry servants to serve it. While they demand so much

for themselves, they are equally disappointed if the _herrschaften_

do not celebrate every birthday of their own. The extra work is no

consideration, and by touching little ways they show their pleasure

when extra company is expected. Bouquets are placed on the coffee

table by the plate of the member of the family whose birthday has

arrived; a cake, with the number of candles to indicate the age of the

person is found burning, and Frederika and August have broad smiles on

their faces as they come in and rattle off some poetry which they have

committed to memory for the occasion, wishing the person whose birthday

they are celebrating _glück_ and _heil_.

Dinner parties are the most frequent and most formal entertainments in

Germany. They are stereotyped, but the type belongs purely to Germany.

When the ladies enter the room, after the introductions they are

invited to be seated on the sofa and chairs of the “dress-circle” which

we have described. The gentlemen stand around the fair ones, bending

or breaking their backs in the effort to talk, or the more unconcerned

stand off in groups, learning from the hostess at the earliest moment

which ladies they are to escort to the table. The seat on the sofa is

the seat of honor, and if a lady of inferior rank has arrived first and

occupied that place, she rises immediately and resigns it on seeing

her superior enter the room; so that a captain’s wife will offer the

seat to a major’s wife, and a major’s wife to a general’s wife, and so

on. The white-gloved _diener_ throws open the doors of the dining-room

ten minutes after the arrival of the guests, and the guests have the

privilege of speaking to each other at the table if an introduction has

failed in any case in the _salon_. The dinner is served entirely from

the buffet; the snowy damask, flowers and glass are only presented upon

the table for the guests to feast their eyes upon. The meats are all

carved in the kitchen, and handed around by the servants. A good _menu_

resembles the French taste and order somewhat, although a discerning

eye will detect the German element in the following:

Bouillon (consommé).

Caviar (caviare).

Lobster.

Salmon du Rhin.

Turbot d’Ostende.

Poulets Santés aux Truffes.

Pâté de Foie Gras.

Filet de Bœuf Garni, Remouladen Sauce.

Rehbraten, } Salad Compotes.

Petit Pois,}

Butter und Käse und Radieschen, mit Pumpernickel.

Pudding d’Orange.

Dessert.

Café et Liqueurs.

There is much leisure, much conversation, and much “toasting,” at a

German dinner. Instead of the ladies retiring when the cigars and

coffee are served, as they do in England, the gentlemen and ladies

leave the table at the same time, and upon entering the _salon_ each

guest goes to the host and hostess and offers his or her hand, saying

in the most gracious manner, “_gesegnete malzeit_.” The guests all

shake hands with each other and repeat the same, and then the gentlemen

go into the library to smoke, and coffee is taken to them, as it is

also brought to the ladies in the _salon_. The German hostess does

not dress for her dinner parties as much as the English women. She is

never _décolleté_—generally appears in light or black silk, square

neck and half sleeves, with long white gloves. When the hour for

departure comes, the _diener_ goes down to the street corner, orders

a _droschke_ (cab) for those who have not private carriages, for one

mark (twenty-five cents), the old _kutcher_ will drive away the happy

or weary guest, and the _diener_ returns with a bright countenance and

full pocket, having received from each guest in the corridor below

enough “five silver _groschens_” to take Frederika to twenty concerts,

and buy as many glasses of beer as they want. And so goes life in the

“Vaterland!”

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