CHAPTER XIV.

Among the most prominent opposers of immediate emancipation were Dr.

Lyman Beecher and the members of his remarkable family; and though

they ultimately became converts to it, even so far as to allow a

branch of the "underground railway" to run through their barn, their

conversion was gradual, and only arrived at after various

controversies and discussions, and much bitter feeling between them

and the advocates of the unpopular cause. Opposed to slavery in the

abstract, that is, believing it to be a sin to hold a fellow creature

in bondage for the "_mere purposes of gain_," they utterly condemned

all agitation of the question. The Church and the Gospel were, with

them, as with so many evangelical Christians, the true means through

which evils should be reached and reforms effected. All efforts

outside were unwise and useless, not to say sinful. And further, as

Catherine Beecher expressed it, they considered the matter of Southern

slavery as one with which the North was no more called to interfere

than in the abolition of the press-gang system in England, or the

tithe system in Ireland. Some chapters back, the short but pleasant

friendship of Catherine Beecher and Angelina Grimké was mentioned.

Very soon after that little episode, the Beechers removed to

Cincinnati, where the doctor was called to the Presidency of the Lane

Theological Seminary. We can well understand that the withdrawal of

nearly all its students after the great discussion was a sore trial to

the Beechers, and intensified their already adverse feelings towards

abolitionists. The only result of this with which we have to do is the

volume published by Catherine Beecher during the summer of 1837,

entitled "Miss Beecher on the Slave Question," and addressed to

Angelina Grimké.

Catherine was the true counterpart of her father, and the most

intellectual of his children, but she lacked the gentle, feminine

graces, and was so wanting in tenderness and sympathy that Angelina

charitably implies that her heart was sunk forever with her lover,

Professor Fisher of Yale, who perished in a storm at sea. With

independence, striking individuality, and entire freedom from timidity

of any sort, it would appear perfectly natural that Catherine should

espouse the Woman's Rights reform, even though opposing that of

abolitionism. But she presented the singular anomaly of a

strong-minded woman, already successful in taking care of herself,

advocating woman's subordination to man, and prescribing for her

efforts at self-help limits so narrow that only the few favored as she

was could venture within them.

Her book was received with much favor by slave-holders and their

apologists, though it was harshly criticised by a few of the more

sensible of the former. These declared that they had more respect for

abolitionists who openly denounced the system of slavery, than for

those people who, in order to please the South, cloaked their real

sentiments under a garb like that of Miss Beecher's book. It was also

severely handled by abolitionists, and Lucretia Mott wrote a very able

review of it, which Angelina, however, pronounced entirely too mild.

She writes to Jane Smith:

"Catherine's arguments are the most insidious things I ever read, and

I feel it my duty to answer them; only, I know not how to find

language strong enough to express my indignation at the view she takes

of woman's character and duty."

The answer was given in a number of sharp, terse, letters, sent to the

_Liberator_ from various places where the sisters stopped while

lecturing. A few passages will convey some idea of the spirit and

style of these letters, thirteen in number. In the latter part of the

second letter she says:--

"Dost thou ask what I mean by emancipation? I will explain myself in a

few words.

"1st. It is to reject with indignation the wild and guilty phantasy

that man can hold _property_ in man.

"2d. To pay the laborer his hire, for he is worthy of it.

"3d. No longer to deny him the right of marriage, but to let every man

have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband, as saith

the apostle.

"4th. To let parents have their own children, for they are the gift of

the Lord to them, and no one else has any right to them.

"5th. No longer to withhold the advantages of education, and the

privilege of reading the Bible.

"6th. To put the slave under the protection of equitable laws.

"Now why should not _all_ this be done immediately? Which of these

things is to be done next year, and which the year after? and so on.

_Our_ immediate emancipation means doing justice and loving mercy

_to-day_, and this is what we call upon every slave-holder to do....

"I have seen too much of slavery to be a gradualist. I dare not, in

view of such a system, tell the slave-holder that he is 'physically

unable to emancipate his slaves.'[6] I say _he is able_ to let the

oppressed go free, and that such heaven-daring atrocities ought to

cease _now_, henceforth, and forever. Oh, my very soul is grieved to

find a Northern woman 'thus sewing pillows under all arm-holes,'

framing and fitting soft excuses for the slave-holder's conscience,

whilst with the same pen she is _professing_ to regard slavery as a

sin. 'An open enemy is better than such a secret friend.'

"Hoping that thou mayst soon be emancipated from such inconsistency, I

remain until then,

"Thine _out_ of the bonds of Christian abolitionism.

"A.E. GRIMKÉ."

[6] The plea made by many of the apologists was that, as the laws of

some of the States forbade emancipation, the masters were physically

unable to free their slaves.

The last letter, which Angelina says she wrote in sadness and read to

her sister in tears, ends thus:--

"After endeavoring to show that woman has no moral right to exercise

the right of petition for the dumb and stricken slave; no business to

join, in any way, in the excitement which anti-slavery principles are

producing in our country; no business to join abolition societies,

etc., thou professest to tell our sisters what they are to do in order

to bring the system of slavery to an end. And now, my dear friend,

what does all thou hast said in many pages amount to? Why, that women

are to exert their influence in private life to allay the excitement

which exists on this subject, and to quench the flame of sympathy in

the hearts of their fathers, husbands, brothers, and sons. Fatal

delusion! Will Christian women heed such advice?

"Hast thou ever asked thyself what the slave would think of thy book

if he could read it? Dost thou know that, from the beginning to the

end, not a word of compassion for _him_ has fallen from thy pen?

Recall, I pray, the memory of hours which thou spent in writing it.

Was the paper once moistened by the tear of pity? Did thy heart once

swell with sympathy for thy sister in _bonds_? Did it once ascend to

God in broken accents for the deliverance of the captive? Didst thou

even ask thyself what the free man of color would think of it? Is it

such an exhibition of slavery and prejudice as will call down _his_

blessing on thy head? Hast thou thought of _these_ things? or carest

thou not for the blessings and prayers of these our suffering

brethren? Consider, I entreat, the reception given to thy book by the

apologists of slavery. What meaneth that loud acclaim with which they

hail it? Oh, listen and weep, and let thy repentings be kindled

together, and speedily bring forth, I beseech thee, fruits meet for

repentance, and henceforth show thyself faithful to Christ and His

bleeding representative, the slave.

"I greatly fear that thy book might have been written just as well,

hadst thou not had the heart of a woman. It bespeaks a superior

intellect, but paralyzed and spellbound by the sorcery of a

worldly-minded expediency. Where, oh, where in its pages are the

outpourings of a soul overwhelmed with a sense of the heinous crimes of

our nation, and the necessity of immediate repentance? ... Farewell!

Perhaps on a dying bed thou mayst vainly wish that '_Miss Beecher on

the Slave Question_' might perish with the mouldering hand which penned

its cold and heartless pages. But I forbear, and in deep sadness of

heart, but in tender love though I thus speak, I bid thee again,

farewell. Forgive me if I have wronged thee, and pray for her who still

feels like

"Thy sister in the bonds of a common sisterhood.

"A.E. GRIMKÉ."

While Angelina was writing these letters, Sarah was publishing her

letters on the "Province of Woman" in the _Spectator_. This was a

heavier dose than Boston could stand at one time; harsh and bitter

things were said about the sisters, notices of their meetings were

torn down or effaced, and abolitionism came to be so mixed up in the

public mind with Woman's Rights, that anti-slavery leaders generally

began to feel anxious lest their cause should suffer by being

identified with one to which the large majority of abolitionists was

decidedly opposed. Even among them, however, there was a difference of

opinion, Garrison, H.C. Wright and others, non-resistants, encouraging

the agitation of Woman's Rights. A few lines from one of Angelina's

letters will best define the position taken by herself and Sarah.

"Sister and I," she writes, "feel quite ready for the discussion about

women, but brothers Whittier and Weld entreat us to let it alone for

the present, because it will involve topics of such vast

importance,--a paid ministry, clerical domination, etc.,--and will,

they fear, divert our attention and that of the community from the

anti-slavery cause; and that the wrongs of the slave are so much

greater than the wrongs of woman, they ought not to be confounded. In

their letters, received last week, they regret exceedingly that the

letters in the _Spectator_ had been written. They think just as we do,

but believe that, for the time being, a persevering, practical

assertion of woman's right to speak to mixed audiences is the best one

we can make, and that we had better keep out of controversies, as our

hands are full. On the other hand, we fear that the leaven of the

Pharisees will be so assiduously worked into the minds of the people,

that if they come to hear us, they will be constantly thinking it is a

_shame_ for us to speak in the churches, and that we shall lose that

influence which we should otherwise have. We know that _our_ views on

this subject are quite new to the _mass_ of the people of this State,

and I think it best to throw them open for their consideration, just

letting them have both sides of the argument to look at, at the same

time. Indeed some wanted to have a meeting in Boston for us to speak

on this subject now, and we went into town on purpose to hold a

conference about it at Maria Chapman's. She, Mary Parker, and sister

were against it for the present, fearing lest it would bring down such

a storm upon our heads, that we could not work in the country, and so

Henrietta Sargent and I yielded, and I suppose this is the wisest

plan, though, as brother Stanton says, I am ready for the battle

_now_. I am still glad of sister's letters, and believe they are doing

great good. Some noble-minded women cheer her on, and she feels

encouraged to persevere, the brethren notwithstanding. I tell them

that this is _a part_ of the great doctrine of Human Rights, and can

no more be separated from emancipation than the light from the heat of

the sun; the rights of the slave and of woman blend like the colors of

the rainbow. However, I rarely introduce this topic into my addresses,

except to urge my sisters up to duty. Our _brethren_ are dreadfully

afraid of this kind of amalgamation. I am very glad to hear that

Lucretia Mott addressed the Moral Reform Society, and am earnest in

the hope that _we_ are only pioneers, going before a host of worthy

women who will come up to the help of the Lord against the mighty."

The letters of Whittier and Weld, alluded to by Angelina, are so good

and so important that I feel no reluctance in giving them here almost

entire. The first is Whittier's, and is dated: "Office of Am. A.S.

Soc., 14th of 8th Mo., 1837,"--and is as follows:

"MY DEAR SISTERS,--I have been waiting for an opportunity to answer

the letter which has been so kindly sent me. I am anxious, too, to

hold a long conversation with you on the subject of _war_, human

government, and church and family government. The more I reflect on

this subject, the more difficulty I find, and the more decidedly am I

of opinion that we ought to hold all these matters far aloof from the

cause of abolition. Our good friend, H.C. Wright, with the best

intentions in the world, is doing great injury by a different course.

He is making the anti-slavery party responsible in a great degree, for

his, to say the least, startling opinions. I do not censure him for

them, although I cannot subscribe to them in all their length and

breadth. But let him keep them distinct from the cause of

emancipation. This is his duty. Those who subscribe money to the

Anti-Slavery Society do it in the belief that it will be spent in the

propagation, not of Quakerism or Presbyterianism, but of the doctrines

of Immediate Emancipation. To employ an agent who devotes half his

time and talents to the propagation of 'no human or no family

government' doctrines in connection--_intimate connection_--with the

doctrines of abolition, is a fraud upon the patrons of the cause. Just

so with papers. Brother Garrison errs, I think, in this respect. He

takes the 'no church, and no human government' ground, as, for

instance, in his Providence speech. Now, in his prospectus, he engaged

to give his subscribers an anti-slavery paper, and his subscribers

made their contract with him on that ground. If he fills his paper

with Grahamism and no governmentism, he defrauds his subscribers.

However, I know that brother Garrison does not look at it in this

light.

"In regard to another subject, '_the rights of woman_,' you are now

doing much and nobly to vindicate and assert the rights of woman. Your

lectures to crowded and promiscuous audiences on a subject manifestly,

in many of its aspects, _political_, interwoven with the framework of

the government, are practical and powerful assertions of the right and

the duty of woman to labor side by side with her brother for the

welfare and redemption of the world. Why, then, let me ask, is it

necessary for you to enter the lists as controversial writers on this

question? Does it not _look_, dear sisters, like abandoning in some

degree the cause of the poor and miserable slave, sighing from the

cotton plantations of the Mississippi, and whose cries and groans are

forever sounding in our ears, for the purpose of arguing and disputing

about some trifling oppression, political or social, which we may

ourselves suffer? Is it not forgetting the great and dreadful wrongs

of the slave in a selfish crusade against some paltry grievance of our

own? Forgive me if I have stated the case too strongly. I would not

for the world interfere with you in matters of conscientious duty, but

I wish you would weigh candidly the whole subject, and see if it does

not _seem_ an abandonment of your first love. Oh, let us try to forget

everything but our duty to God and our fellow beings; to dethrone the

selfish principle, and to strive to win over the hard heart of the

oppressor by truth kindly spoken. The Massachusetts Congregational

Association can do you no harm if you do not allow its splenetic and

idle manifesto to divert your attention from the great and holy

purpose of your souls.

"Finally, dear sisters, rest assured that you have my deepest and

warmest sympathy; that my heart rejoices to know that you are mighty

instruments in the hands of Him who hath come down to deliver. May the

canopy of His love be over you, and His peace be with you!

"Your friend and brother,

"JNO. G. WHITTIER."

Weld's first letter, written the day after Whittier's, begins by

defining his own position on the disturbing question. He says: "As to

the rights and wrongs of woman, it is an old theme with me. It was the

first subject I ever discussed. In a little debating society, when a

boy, I took the ground that sex neither qualified nor disqualified for

the discharge of any functions, mental, moral, or spiritual: that

there is no reason why woman should not make laws, administer justice,

sit in the chair of State, plead at the Bar, or in the pulpit, if she

has the qualifications, just as much as man. What I advocated in

boyhood, I advocate now--that woman, in every particular, shares,

equally with man, rights and responsibilities. Now that I have made

this statement of my creed on this point, to show you that we fully

agree, except that I probably go much further than you do, I must say

I do most deeply regret that you have begun a series of articles in

the papers on the rights of woman. Why, my dear sisters, the best

possible advocacy which you can make is just what you are making day

by day. Thousands hear you every week who have all their lives held

that women must not speak in public. Such a practical refutation of

the dogma which your speaking furnishes has already converted

multitudes."

He then goes on to urge two strong points:--

1st. That as Southerners, and having been brought up among

slaveholders, they could do more to convince the North than twenty

Northern women, though they could speak as well, and that they would

lose this peculiar advantage the moment they took up another subject.

2d. That almost any other women of their capacity and station could

produce a greater effect on the public mind on that subject than they,

because they were Quakers, and woman's right to speak and minister was

a Quaker doctrine. Therefore, for these and other reasons, he urged

them to leave the lesser work to others who could do it better than

they, and devote, consecrate their whole souls, bodies, and spirits to

the greater work which they could do far better than anybody else. He

continues: "Let us all first wake up the nation to lift millions of

slaves from the dust and turn them into men, and then, when we all

have our hand in, it will be an easy matter to take millions of women

from their knees and set them on their feet; or, in other words,

transform them from _babies_ into _women_."

A spirited, almost dogmatic, controversy was the result of these

letters. In a letter to Jane Smith, Angelina says: "I cannot

understand why they (the abolitionists) so exceedingly regret sister's

having begun those letters. Brother Weld was not satisfied with

writing us _one_ letter about them, but we have received two more

setting forth various reasons why we should not moot the subject of

woman's rights _at all_, but our judgment is not convinced, and we

hardly know what to do about it, for we have just as high an opinion

of Brother Garrison's views, and _he_ says, '_go on_.' ... The great

effort of abolitionists now seems to be to keep every topic but

slavery out of view, and hence their opposition to Henry O. Wright and

his preaching anti-government doctrines, and our even writing on

woman's rights. Oh, if I _only_ saw they were _right_ and _we_ were

_wrong_, I would yield immediately."

One of the two other letters from T.D. Weld, referred to by Angelina,

is a very long one, covering over ten pages of the old-fashioned

foolscap paper, and is in reply to letters received from the sisters,

and which were afterwards returned to them and probably destroyed. I

have concluded to make some extracts from this long letter from Mr.

Weld, not only on account of the arguments used, but to show the

frank, fearless spirit with which he met the reasoning of his two

"sisters." When we consider that he was even then courting Angelina,

his hardihood is a little surprising.

After observing that he had carefully read their letters, and made an

abstract on half a sheet of paper of the "positions and conclusions

found therein," he continues:--

"This abstract I have been steadily looking at with great marvelling,

"1st. That you should argue at length the doctrine of Woman's Rights,

as though I was a _dissentient_;

"2d. That you should so magnify the power of the New England clergy;

"3d. That you should so misconceive the actual convictions of

ministers and Christians, and almost all, as to the public speaking of

women;

"4th. That you should take the ground that the clergy, and the whole

church government, must come down _before_ slavery can be abolished (a

proposition which to my mind is absurd).

"5th. That you should so utterly overlook the very _threshold_

principle upon which alone any moral reformation can be effectually

promoted. Oh, dear! There are a dozen other things--marvellables--in

your letters; but I must stop short, or I can say nothing on other

points.

"... Now, before we commence action, let us clear the decks; for if

they are clogged we shall have foul play. _Overboard_ with everything

that don't _belong on board_. Now, first, _what is the precise point

at issue between us?_ I answer first _negatively_, that we may

understand each other on all points kindred to the main one. 1st. It

is _not_ whether _woman's_ rights are inferior to _man's_ rights."

He then proceeded to state the doctrine of Woman's Rights very

forcibly. Of _sex_, he says:--

"Its _only_ design is not to give nor to take away, nor in any respect

to modify, or even touch, rights or responsibilities in any sense,

except so far as the peculiar offices of each sex may afford less or

more opportunity and ability for the exercise of rights, and the

discharge of responsibilities, but merely to continue and enlarge the

human department of God's government."

For an entire page he continues in this manner of "_negatives_" to

"_clear the decks_," until he has shown through seven negative

specifications what do _not_ constitute the point at issue, and then

goes on:--

"Well, waving further negatives, the question at issue between us

_is_, whether _you_, S.M.G. and A.E.G., should engage in the public

discussion of the rights of women as a distinct topic. Here you

affirm, and I deny. Your reasons for doing it, as contained in your

two letters, are the following:--

"1st. The _New England Spectator_ was _opened_; you were invited to

write on the subject, and some of the Boston abolitionists _urged_ you

to do so, and you say, 'We viewed this unexpected opportunity of

throwing our views before the public, as _providential_.'

"_Answer_. When the devil is hard pushed, and likely to be run down in

the chase, it is an old trick of his to start some smaller game, and

thus cause his pursuers to strike off from his own track on to that of

one of his imps. It was certainly a very _providential_ opportunity

for Nehemiah to 'throw his views before the public,' when Geshem,

Sanballat, and Tobiah invited and urged him to stop building the wall

and hold a public discussion as to the _right_ to build. And doubtless

a great many Jews said to him, 'Unless we _establish_ the right in the

first place, it will surely be taken from us utterly. This is a

providential opportunity to preach truth in the very camp of the

enemy.' But who got it up, God or the devil?... Look over the history

of the world, and in nine cases out of ten we shall find that Satan,

after being foiled in his arts to stop a great moral enterprise, has

finally succeeded by diverting the reformers from the _main_ point to

a _collateral_, and that too just at the _moment_ when such diversion

brought ruin. Now, even if this opportunity made it the duty of

_somebody_ to take up the subject (which is not proved by the fact of

the opportunity), why should _you_ give _your_ views, and with _your

name_? Others as able might be found, and as familiar with the

subject. But you say, others 'are driven off the field, and cannot

answer the objections.' I answer, your _names_ do not answer the

objections.... How very easy to have helped a third person to the

argument. By publicly making an onset in your own names, in a

widely-circulated periodical, upon a doctrine cherished as the apple

of their eye (I don't say really _believed_) by nine tenths of the

church and the world; what was it but a formal challenge to the whole

community for a regular set-to?"

He proceeds to speak of such a "set to" and debate as "producing

alienation wide-spread in our own ranks, and introducing confusion and

every evil work." He urges the necessity of vindicating a right "by

exercising it," instead of simply arguing for it.

Of ministers he says: "True, there is a pretty large class of

ministers who are fierce about it, and will fight, but a still larger

class that will come over _if_ they first witness the successful

practice rather than meet it in the shape of a doctrine to be

swallowed. Now, if instead of blowing a blast through the newspapers,

sounding the onset, and summoning the ministers and churches to

surrender, you had without any introductory flourish just gone right

among them and lectured, _when_ and _where_ and _as_ you could find

opportunity, and paid no attention to criticism, but pushed right on,

without making any ado about 'attacks,' and 'invasions,' and

'opposition,' and have let the barkers bark their bark out,--within

one year you might have practically brought over five hundred thousand

persons, of the very moral _élite_ of New England. You may rely upon

it.... No moral enterprise, when prosecuted with ability and any sort

of energy, _ever_ failed under heaven so long as its conductors pushed

the _main_ principle, and did not strike off until they reached the

summit level. On the other hand, every reform that ever foundered in

mid-sea, was capsized by one of these gusty side-winds. Nothing more

utterly amazes me than the fact that the _conduct_ of a great, a

_pre-eminently_ great moral enterprise, should exhibit so little of a

wise, far-sighted, comprehensive _plan_. Surely it is about plain

enough to be called _self-evident_, that the only common-sense method

of conducting a great moral enterprise is to _start_ with a

_fundamental, plain principle, so_ fundamental as not to involve

side-relations, and _so_ plain, that it cannot be denied."

The main obvious principle he urges is to be pushed until the

community surrenders to it. He adds:--

"Then, when you have drawn them up to the top of the general

principle, you can slide them down upon all the derivative principles

_all at once_. But if you attempt to start off on a derivative

principle, from any other point than the summit level of the main

principle, you must beat up stream--yes, up a cataract. It reverses

the order of nature, and the laws of mind....

"You put the cart before the horse; you drag the tree by the top, in

attempting to push your woman's rights until human rights have gone

ahead and broken _the path_.

* * * * *

"You are both liable, it seems to me, from your structure of mind, to

form your opinions upon _too slight_ data, and too narrow a range of

induction, and to lay your plans and adopt your measures, rather

_dazzled_ by the glare of false _analogies_ than _led on_ by the

relations of cause and effect. Both of you, but especially Angelina,

unless I greatly mistake, are constitutionally tempted to push for

_present_ effect, and upon the suddenness and impulsiveness of the

onset rely mainly for victory. Besides from _her_ strong

_resistiveness_ and constitutional obstinacy, she is liable every

moment to turn short from the main point and spend her whole force

upon some little one-side annoyance that might temporarily nettle her.

In doing this she might win a _single battle_, but _lose a whole

campaign_. Add to this, great pride of character, so closely curtained

as to be almost searchless to herself, with a passion for adventure

and novel achievements, and she has in all an amount of temptation to

poor human nature that can be overmastered only by strong conflicts

and strong faith. Under this, a sense of justice so keen that

violation of justice would be likely to lash up such a tide of

indignation as would drive her from all anchorage. I say this to her

_not_ in raillery. I _believe_ it, and therefore utter it. It is

either fiction or fact. If _fiction_ it can do no hurt; if _fact_, it

may not be in vain in the Lord, and then my heart's desire and prayer

will be fulfilled. May the Lord have you in his keeping, my own dear

sisters.

"Most affectionately, your brother ever,

"T.D. WELD."

"One point I designed to make _more_ prominent. It is this: What is

done for the _slave_ and _human rights_ in this country _must be done

note, now, now_. Delay is madness, ruin, whereas woman's rights are

not a life and death business, _now or never_. Why can't you have eyes

to see this? The wayfaring man, though a _fool_, need not err _here_,

it is so plain. What will you run a tilt at next?"

And he names several things,--the tariff, the banks, English tithe

system, burning widows, etc., and adds:--

"If you adopt the views of H.C. Wright, as you are reported to have

done, in his official bulletin of a 'domestic scene' (where you are

made to figure conspicuously among the conquests of the victor as rare

spoils gracing the triumphal car), why then we are in one point of

doctrine just as wide asunder as extremes can be."

This letter was answered by Sarah, and with the most admirable

patience and moderation. She begins by saying:--

"Angelina is so wrathy that I think it will be unsafe to trust the pen

in her hands to reply to thy two last _good_ long letters. As I feel

nothing but gratitude for the kindness which I am sure dictated them,

I shall endeavor to answer them, and, as far as possible, allay thy

uneasiness as to the course we are pursuing."

She then proceeds to calmly discuss his objections, and to defend

their views on the woman question, which, she says, she regards as

second in importance to none, but that she does not feel bound to take

up every _caviller_ who presents himself, and therefore will not

notice some others who had criticised her letters in the _Spectator_.

About H.C. Wright, she says: "I must say a few words concerning

Brother Wright, towards whom I do not feel certain that the law of

love predominated when thou wrote that part of thy letter relative to

him.... We feel prepared to avow the principles set forth in the

'domestic scene.' I wonder thou canst not perceive the simplicity and

beauty and consistency of the doctrine that all government, whether

civil or ecclesiastical, conflicts with the government of Jehovah, and

that by the Christian no other can be acknowledged, without leaning

more or less on an arm of flesh. Would to God that all abolitionists

put their trust where I believe H.C. Wright has placed his, in God

alone.... I have given my opinions (in the _Spectator_). Those who

read them may receive or reject or find fault. I have nothing to do

with that. I shall let thee enjoy thy opinion, but I must wait and see

the issue before I conclude it was one of Satan's providences.... I

know the opposition to our views arises in part from the fact that

women are habitually regarded as inferior beings, but chiefly I

believe from a desire to keep them in unholy subjection to man, and

one way of doing this is to deprive us of the means of becoming their

equals by forbidding us the privileges of education which would fit us

for the performance of duty. I am greatly mistaken if most men have

not a desire that women should be silly.... I have not said half I

wanted, but this must suffice for the present, as Angelina has

concluded to try her hand at scolding. Farewell, dear brother. May the

Lord reward thee tenfold for thy kindness, and keep thee in the hollow

of His holy hand.

"Thy sister in Jesus,

"S.M.G."

Angelina's part of the letter is not written in the sweet, Quaker

spirit which prevails through Sarah's, but shows a very interesting

consciousness of her power over the man she addressed.

"Sister," she writes, "seems very much afraid that my pen will be

transformed into a venomous serpent when I employ it to address thee,

my dear brother, and no wonder, for I like to pay my debts, and, as I

received ten dollars' worth of scolding,[7] I should be guilty of

injustice did I not return the favor. Well! such a lecture I never

before had from anyone. What is the matter with thee? One would really

suppose that we had actually abandoned the anti-slavery cause, and

were roving the country, preaching _nothing_ but woman's rights, when,

in fact, I can truly say that whenever I lecture, I forget _everything

but the slave_. He is all in all for the time being. And what is the

reason _I_ am to be scolded because _sister_ writes letters in the

_Spectator_? Please let every woman bear _her own burdens_. Indeed, I

should like to know what I have done yet? And dost thou really think

in my answer to C.E. Beecher's absurd views of woman that I had better

suppress my own? If so, I will do it, as thou makest such a monster

out of the molehill, but my judgment is _not_ convinced that in this

incidental way it is wrong to throw light on the subject."

[7] Angelina and Sarah had sent Mr. Weld ten dollars for some

supposed debts. He returned it, and said if any trifling sums fell

due, he would take them out in scolding, and pay himself thus.

She speaks very gratefully of "Brother Lincoln, of Gardner," who

rejoiced to have them speak in his pulpit, and says:--

"My _keen sense of justice_ compels me to admire such nobility. He

hoped sister would give her views on this branch of the subject in the

_Spectator_. He thought they were needed, and _we_ are well convinced

they are, T.D.W. notwithstanding. So much for my bump of obstinacy

which even thy sledge-hammer cannot beat down."

The subsequent correspondence, which I regret I have not room to

insert, shows that the remonstrances of Whittier and Weld were

effective in restraining, for the time being, the impatience of the

sisters to urge in their public meetings what, however, they

faithfully preached in private--their conviction that the wrongs of

woman were the root of _all_ oppression.

Sarah meekly writes to "brother Weld."

"After a struggle with my feelings, so severe that I was almost

tempted to turn back from the anti-slavery cause, I have given up to

what seemed the inevitable, and have thought little of it since.

Perhaps I have done wrong, and if so, I trust I shall see it and

repent it. I do not intend to make any promises, because I may have

reason to regret them, but I do not know that I shall scribble any

more on the objectionable topic of woman."

This interesting controversy did not end until several more letters

had passed back and forth, and various other topics had been brought

in; but it was carried through with the same spirit of candor and love

on all sides which marked the beginning. There was one subject

introduced, a sort of side-question which I must notice, as it reveals

in a very pleasant manner the religious principle and manly moral

courage of Theodore D. Weld. At the close of one of her letters, Sarah

says:--

"Now just as it has come into my head, please tell me whether thy

clothing costs one hundred dollars per annum? I ask because it was

insisted upon that Mr. Weld must spend that amount on his wardrobe,

and I as strenuously insisted he did not. It was thought impossible a

gentleman could spend less, but I think anti-slavery agents know

better."

To this, he answered thus, at the end of one of _his_ letters.

"Oh! I forgot the wardrobe! I suppose you are going to take me to task

about my shag-overcoat, linsey-woolsey coat, and cowhide shoes; for

you Quakers are as notional about _quality_ as you are precise about

_cut_. Well, now to the question. While I was travelling and

lecturing, I think that _one_ year my clothing must have cost me

nearly one hundred dollars. It was the first year of my lecturing in

the West, when one entire suit and part of another were destroyed or

nearly so by mobs. Since I resigned my commission as agent, which is

now nearly a year, my clothing has not cost me one third that amount.

I don't think it _even_ cost me fifty dollars a year, except the year

I spoke of, when it was ruined by mobs, and the year 1832, when, in

travelling, I lost it all with my other baggage in the Alum River.

There, I believe I have answered your question as well as I can.

However, I have always had to encounter the criticism and chidings of

my acquaintances about my coarse dress. They will have it that I have

always curtailed my influence and usefulness by such a John the

Baptist attire as I have always been habited in. But I have remarked

that those persons who have beset me on that score have shown in some

way that they had their hearts set more or less on showing off their

persons to advantage by their dress. Now I think of it, I believe you

are in great danger of making a little god out of your caps and your

drab color, and '_thee_' and '_thou_.' Besides, the tendency is quite

questionable. The moment certain shades of color, or a certain

combination of letters, or modulation of sounds, or arrangement of

seams and angles, are made the _sine qua non_ of religion and

principle, that moment religion and principle are hurled from their

vantage-ground and become _slaves_ instead of _rulers_. I cannot get

it out of my mind that these must be a fetter on the spirit that

clings to such stereotyped forms and ceremonies that rustle and

clatter the more because life and spirit and power do not inhabit

them. Think about it, dear sisters."

In Sarah's next letter to him she says:--

"Now first about the wardrobe. Thou art greatly mistaken in supposing

that I meant to quiz thee; no, not I, indeed. I wish from my heart

more of us who take the profession of Jesus on our lips were willing

to wear shag cloaks and linsey-woolsey garments. Now I may inform thee

that, notwithstanding my prim caps, etc., I am as economical as thou

art. I do many things in the way of dress to please my friends, but

perhaps their watchfulness is needful."

Dear Aunt Sarah! these last words will make many smile who remember

how scrupulously careful she was about spending more on her dress than

was absolutely necessary to cleanliness and health. Every dollar

beyond this she felt was taken from the poor or from some benevolent

enterprise. The watchfulness of her friends was indeed needful!

It appears from the above correspondence that both Sarah and Angelina

had become tinctured with the doctrines of "non-resistance," which,

within a few years, had gained some credit with a few "perfectionists"

and active reformers in and about Boston. They had been presented by

Lydia Maria Child, a genial writer, under the guise of the Scriptural

doctrine of love. This sentiment was held to be adequate to the

regulation of social and political life: by it, ruffians were to be

made to stand in awe of virtue; thieves, burglars, and murderers were

to be made ashamed of themselves, and turned into honest and amiable

citizens; children were to be governed without punishment; and the

world was to be made a paradise. Rev. Henry C. Wright, a man of some

ability, but tossed by every wind of doctrine, embraced the new

gospel. He applied its principles to public matters. From the

essential sinfulness of all forms of force, if used towards human

beings, he inferred that penal laws, prisons, sheriffs, and criminal

courts should be dispensed with; that governments, which, of

necessity, execute their decrees by force, should be abolished; that

Christians should not take part in politics, either by voting or

holding office; that they should not employ force, even to resist

encroachment or in the defence of their wives and children; and that

although slavery, being a form of force, was wrong, no one should vote

against it. The slave-holder was to be converted by love. The free

States should show their grief and disapprobation by seceding from the

slave States, and by nullifying within their limits any unjust laws

passed by the nation. All governments, civil, ecclesiastical, and

family, were to disappear, so that the divine law, interpreted by each

one for himself, might have free course. To this fanciful,

transcendental, and anarchical theory, Mr. Wright made sundry

converts, more or less thorough, including Parker Pillsbury, Wm. L.

Garrison, and Stephen S. Foster. That he took a good deal of pains to

capture the subjects of our biography is evident. He attended their

lectures, cultivated their acquaintance, extended to them his

sympathy, and made them his guests. There are certain affinities of

the non-resistance doctrines with Quakerism, which made them

attractive to these two women who had little worldly knowledge, and

who had been trained for years in the peace doctrines of the

Philadelphia Friends.

It was fortunate for the anti-slavery cause that Sarah and Angelina

were warned in time by their New York friends of the fatally dangerous

character of the heresies they were inclined to accept. They went no

further in that direction. In all their subsequent letters, journals,

and papers there is not a word to show that either of them ever

entertained no-government notions, or identified herself with persons

who did. During the remaining months of their stay in Massachusetts,

they devoted themselves to their true mission of anti-slavery work,

accepting the co-operation and friendship of all friends of the slave,

but avoiding compromising relations with those known as "no human

government" non-resistants. This course was continued in after years,

and drew upon them the disapprobation and strictures of the

non-voting, non-fighting faction. In a letter from Sarah to Augustus

Wattles, dated May 11, 1854, about the time of the Kansas war, she

says:--

"We were fully aware of the severe criticisms passed upon us by many

of those who showed their unfitness to be in the judgment seat, by the

unmerciful censure they have pronounced against us when we were doing

what to us seemed positive duty. They wanted us to live out Wm. Lloyd

Garrison, not the convictions of our own souls, entirely unaware that

they were exhibiting, in the high places of moral reform, the genuine

spirit of slave-holding by wishing to curtail the sacred privilege of

conscience. But we have not allowed their unreasonableness to sever us

from them; they have many noble traits, have acted grandly for

humanity, and it was perhaps a part of their business to abuse us. I

do not think I love Garrison any the less for what he has said. His

spirit of intolerance towards those who did not draw in his traces,

and his adulation of those who surrendered themselves to his guidance,

have always been exceedingly repulsive to me, weaknesses which marred

the beauty and symmetry of his character, and prevented its

symmetrical development, but nevertheless I know the stern principle

which is the basis of his action. He is Garrison and nobody else, and

all I ask is that he would let others be themselves."

The feeling thus expressed was probably never changed until after the

sisters had taken up their residence in the neighborhood of Boston,

when visits were interchanged with Mr. Garrison, and friendly

relations established, which ended only with death. It is certain,

however, that Sarah and Angelina sympathized with the stalwart freemen

who used Sharp's rifles in the defence of free Kansas, who voted the

Liberty, Free Soil, and Republican ticket, who elected Abraham Lincoln

President, and who shouldered muskets against the rebels.

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