XIII. THE OUTLAWED PARENT

There is one thing at least of which there is never so much as a whisper

inside the popular schools; and that is the opinion of the people. The

only persons who seem to have nothing to do with the education of

the children are the parents. Yet the English poor have very definite

traditions in many ways. They are hidden under embarrassment and irony;

and those psychologists who have disentangled them talk of them as very

strange, barbaric and secretive things. But, as a matter of fact, the

traditions of the poor are mostly simply the traditions of humanity,

a thing which many of us have not seen for some time. For instance,

workingmen have a tradition that if one is talking about a vile thing it

is better to talk of it in coarse language; one is the less likely to be

seduced into excusing it. But mankind had this tradition also, until the

Puritans and their children, the Ibsenites, started the opposite idea,

that it does not matter what you say so long as you say it with long

words and a long face. Or again, the educated classes have tabooed most

jesting about personal appearance; but in doing this they taboo not only

the humor of the slums, but more than half the healthy literature of

the world; they put polite nose-bags on the noses of Punch and Bardolph,

Stiggins and Cyrano de Bergerac. Again, the educated classes have

adopted a hideous and heathen custom of considering death as too

dreadful to talk about, and letting it remain a secret for each person,

like some private malformation. The poor, on the contrary, make a great

gossip and display about bereavement; and they are right. They have hold

of a truth of psychology which is at the back of all the funeral customs

of the children of men. The way to lessen sorrow is to make a lot of it.

The way to endure a painful crisis is to insist very much that it is a

crisis; to permit people who must feel sad at least to feel important.

In this the poor are simply the priests of the universal civilization;

and in their stuffy feasts and solemn chattering there is the smell of

the baked meats of Hamlet and the dust and echo of the funeral games of

Patroclus.

The things philanthropists barely excuse (or do not excuse) in the life

of the laboring classes are simply the things we have to excuse in all

the greatest monuments of man. It may be that the laborer is as gross as

Shakespeare or as garrulous as Homer; that if he is religious he talks

nearly as much about hell as Dante; that if he is worldly he talks

nearly as much about drink as Dickens. Nor is the poor man without

historic support if he thinks less of that ceremonial washing which

Christ dismissed, and rather more of that ceremonial drinking which

Christ specially sanctified. The only difference between the poor man of

to-day and the saints and heroes of history is that which in all classes

separates the common man who can feel things from the great man who can

express them. What he feels is merely the heritage of man. Now nobody

expects of course that the cabmen and coal-heavers can be complete

instructors of their children any more than the squires and colonels and

tea merchants are complete instructors of their children. There must be

an educational specialist in loco parentis. But the master at Harrow is

in loco parentis; the master in Hoxton is rather contra parentem. The

vague politics of the squire, the vaguer virtues of the colonel, the

soul and spiritual yearnings of a tea merchant, are, in veritable

practice, conveyed to the children of these people at the English public

schools. But I wish here to ask a very plain and emphatic question. Can

anyone alive even pretend to point out any way in which these special

virtues and traditions of the poor are reproduced in the education of

the poor? I do not wish the coster’s irony to appeal as coarsely in the

school as it does in the tap room; but does it appear at all? Is

the child taught to sympathize at all with his father’s admirable

cheerfulness and slang? I do not expect the pathetic, eager pietas of

the mother, with her funeral clothes and funeral baked meats, to be

exactly imitated in the educational system; but has it any influence at

all on the educational system? Does any elementary schoolmaster accord

it even an instant’s consideration or respect? I do not expect the

schoolmaster to hate hospitals and C.O.S. centers so much as the

schoolboy’s father; but does he hate them at all? Does he sympathize

in the least with the poor man’s point of honor against official

institutions? Is it not quite certain that the ordinary elementary

schoolmaster will think it not merely natural but simply conscientious

to eradicate all these rugged legends of a laborious people, and on

principle to preach soap and Socialism against beer and liberty? In

the lower classes the school master does not work for the parent, but

against the parent. Modern education means handing down the customs of

the minority, and rooting out the customs of the majority. Instead of

their Christlike charity, their Shakespearean laughter and their high

Homeric reverence for the dead, the poor have imposed on them mere

pedantic copies of the prejudices of the remote rich. They must think

a bathroom a necessity because to the lucky it is a luxury; they must

swing Swedish clubs because their masters are afraid of English cudgels;

and they must get over their prejudice against being fed by the parish,

because aristocrats feel no shame about being fed by the nation.

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