A WIDOW, desirous of marrying her servant John, consulted the curate on
the subject.
"I am not yet beyond the age of marriage."
"Marry then."
"But people will say that my intended is too young for me."
"Don't marry."
"He would assist me in managing the business."
"Marry then."
"But I am afraid he would soon despise me."
"Don't marry."
"But on the other hand a poor widow is despised who has no protector."
"Marry then."
"I am sadly afraid, however, that he would take up with the wenches."
"Then don't marry."
Uncertain from these contradictory responses, the dame consulted the
bells when ringing, and which seemed to repeat, "Marry your man John."
She took this oracular advice, married, and soon repented. She again
applied to the curate, who told her, "You have not observed well what
the bells said; listen again." She did so, when they distinctly
repeated, "Don't marry John."