CONVERSATION VII.

The little party assembled this evening, as usual; but, being Sunday,

the conversation was less general, though not less cheerful than at

other times. Mr. and Mrs. Bernard possessed the happy art of presenting

religious instruction to their children, under the most pleasing form;

consequently, they did not dread the approach of the sabbath, as a day

when all pleasure must be excluded. On the contrary, it was hailed with

gladness: the business of the week was entirely laid aside, and their

minds were naturally turned, in thankfulness, towards the Divine Being

to whom they owed so much. The gracious God was always presented to

their view, surrounded by his benign attributes. They were instructed to

regard him, not only as the author of their existence, but as the source

whence every comfort flowed. They were taught to consider him, not a

severe judge, delighting in punishment, but a merciful father, who

withheld not even his only Son, but freely gave him up to die for

sinners, that they might be pardoned through his blood. They were

instructed, fully to appreciate that mercy, which delighteth not in the

death of a sinner, but would rather that he should be converted and

live. The beautiful prayers in the Liturgy, were explained to them in a

manner suitable to their different capacities; consequently, they were

not repeated by rote, as is too frequently the case, where the same

attention is not paid. Mr. and Mrs. Bernard took unremitted pains with

their children, and felt themselves amply rewarded by their conduct; for

though, like other human beings, they were fallible, and, consequently,

often did wrong, yet religious principle being the ground-work of their

characters, conviction instantly followed the commission of a fault, and

sorrow and repentance succeeded.

I hope, my dear young readers, you feel some degree of interest in my

little family, and some of you, perhaps, may wish to be as good and as

happy as they were: let me then most earnestly and affectionately

entreat you, to "remember your Creator in the days of your youth: while

the evil days come not, nor the years draw nigh, when you shall say, I

have no pleasure in them."

After Ferdinand had repeated the text, and Emily, Edward, and Louisa,

had given an abstract of the sermon they had heard in the morning,

Louisa added: "I should have liked the sermon much better, mamma, if the

preacher had not been such a disagreeable-looking man."

"I should not have expected to have heard my little Louisa make so

foolish and improper a remark," replied Mrs. Bernard: "it reminds me of

an anecdote which I read a short time ago. I will relate it to you, as

I think I cannot give you a more suitable reproof. A person once

excusing his non-attendance at public worship, by pleading the

disagreeable appearance and manner of the minister, 'Let us look,' said

the good Bishop of Alet, to whom this man was addressing himself, 'more

at our Saviour, and less at the instrument. Elijah was as well

nourished, when the bread from heaven was brought to him by a raven, as

Ishmael, when the spring of water was revealed to him by an angel.'"

"Thank you, my dear mamma," said Louisa: "it is a beautiful anecdote,

and I shall endeavour not to merit another reproof upon that subject."

Mrs. Bernard then produced a letter, which she had received from a

friend the day before, and desired Emily to read it aloud, as it

contained an account which she thought would both interest and instruct

the children. "Read it slowly, my dear girl," continued she, "endeavour

to avoid hesitation, and lay your emphasis properly. This is a very

material point. Lindley Murray, in his excellent Introduction to the

English Reader, says: 'It is one of the most decisive trials of a true

and just taste, and must arise from feeling delicately ourselves, and

from judging accurately of what is fittest to strike the feelings of

other.'"

Emily promised to attend to her mother's instructions, and taking the

letter, read the following extract.

"In the autumn of the year 1808, eight passengers, consisting of seven

gentlemen and one lady, embarked on board an American vessel, bound from

the port of Cronstadt to America, purposing to touch at England, in

company with a brig and another vessel. They had scarcely proceeded

fifty leagues, when a violent storm arose. The night was unusually

dark, and the ship ungovernable. In this extremity, the brig suddenly

dashed against them with such force, that every plank seemed rent

asunder, and an instant after, they found themselves transfixed upon a

rock. It was now near five o'clock in the morning. They repeatedly

fired guns of distress, hung out signals, and at daybreak beheld, with

grateful delight, a large boat, rowed by two stout females, approaching

their ship. The captain insisted that his eight passengers should go on

board the boat, whilst he and the seamen hastened to attempt the

preservation of their luggage and stores. He entreated the women to

land their charge in safety, and then return, as expeditiously as

possible, for himself and his six sailors; as the ship leaked very fast,

and though the storm was abated, they were surrounded by such a cluster

of rocks, as to deprive them of all hope of getting off in safety. The

two heroines steered their charge to the island of Stameo, a barren

rock, which they reached in about an hour. They conducted them to the

best hut on the island. It was built of mud, and was the habitation of

two sisters, and several other females, who resided under the same roof.

They produced milk, dried fish, and rye bread, for the refreshment of

their wearied and exhausted guests. They prepared a room, with beds,

for the gentlemen; and one of the boat-women gave up her own to the

lady, sleeping herself upon the oven. Hospitality, affectionate

civility, and tender solicitude for their comfort, accompanied every

action, and occupied every thought.

"In vain they sought to gain the ship a second time: the swell was so

great, and the surf so strong, that no boat could venture--no vessel

dared approach. Meanwhile, the generous crew were agitated by a

thousand fears. In vain they waited for the wished-for boat: no answer

was returned to their signals of distress--no pity shown for their

perilous state.

"Distracted by this delay, the captain ordered them to man the jolly-

boat, and arming himself and sailors with swords and pistols: 'My lads,'

said he, 'we will instantly seek our friends, and if the merciless

barbarians have robbed and murdered them, their lives shall pay the just

forfeit of their treachery.'

"The sailors instantly prepared to obey their commander. They struggled

successfully against the roaring billows, and, benumbed with horror and

despair, at length reached the shore. Here they wandered from one

wretched hovel to another, but no human voice broke upon their ear. At

length they espied a solitary cow, and, mute with apprehension, sword in

hand, they hastened to the cot near which she was trying to graze. With

a trembling hand and beating heart, the captain lifted up the latch,

and, on opening the door, imagine his joy on beholding his happy

shipmates safe. His tongue denied him utterance--tears gushed

spontaneously to his eyes: with eager grasp he pressed his lost

companions to his heart, and in the rapture of that moment, all his

former sufferings were forgotten. The hospitable board was filled

again, and every guest received a cordial welcome.

"Eleven days elapsed before the ship was again fit to put to sea. When

the hour of departure arrived, a mutual interest animated their breasts,

and gratitude broke forth in thanks, from every tongue. They begged

their kind hostesses to name the sum that would pay, as far as money

could, their offices of Christian charity. Fourteen persons, for eleven

days, to board, wash, and lodge, had nearly exhausted all their winter

store. After a short consultation, the elder sister returned, with a

large Bible, translated into the Fins language, and given to the

islanders by Gustavus Adolphus, and said: 'We are not aware that we have

acted beyond what every Christian is in duty bound to do.' Then,

opening the Bible, 'in this,' continued she, 'we learn that duty which

all our Christian brethren practise. Distress, which claims, must

always find relief while it can be obtained; if, however, it will make

you more happy, that we should take some reward, provided two rubles

(four shillings and eight-pence) be not thought too much, that sum will

amply repay us.' Then, taking the lady's hand, 'we regret,' continued

she, 'that we can never be assured of what would rejoice our hearts, and

reconcile us most to your departure, which is, that you all reach your

native land in safety, and find your parents and relations well. Then

wishing them prosperous gales, they bid farewell, and parted, probably

for ever.

"Stameo is situated in the Gulph of Finland. It is one of the small

islands nearly opposite Fredericstadt, and distant about twenty verstes

[Footnote: A Verste is about 3½ English miles.]. It is a barren rock of

granite, with scarcely any herbage, and only a few fir-trees here and

there. It is about three miles in extent, and has ten or twelve mud

huts, containing, men, women, and children, fifty souls. They were

formerly under the dominion of Sweden; but at the defeat of Charles the

Twelfth, by Peter the Great, became subject to the Russian government.

They are of the Lutheran church, though there is no place of public

worship on the island. Both men and women are expert at fishing, on

which they chiefly depend for subsistence; and keep up a sort of traffic

with Fredericstadt, exchanging fish, both dried, fresh, and pickled, for

rye, flax, wood, and vegetables. Their labour exceeds belief: they rise

at four o'clock, and instantly begin the labour of the day. The hut is

first cleaned and put in order: they then commence spinning, in which

they particularly excel, and continue working till eight at night. Their

breakfast is dispensed by the hostess of the hut, to all the family, who

eat it standing. It consists of black bread, fish dried or pickled, and

goat milk, when it is to be had: when that cannot be procured, they are

satisfied with pure water. Sixteen persons out of the fifty lived in

this hut, and were in possession of more comforts than might have been

expected.

"They are very net in their houses, persons, and dress. The bedding is

excellent: the blankets and linen are fine, warm, and white; the pillow-

cases and sheets have fine, open-worked, deep borders. Their dress is

becoming and modest, uniting warmth with convenience. The married women

hide their hair under a close, embroidered, silk cap, with a plain lace

border over their cheeks. The single women exhibit their beautiful

flaxen tresses, which they plat round their heads, or let it hang at

full length, with a knot of ribbon at the end, to confine the braid.

"Their government is truly patriarchal. The mistress of the house is

called mamma, and when advice is wanted, they assemble five or seven of

the elders, who confer on the subject, and decide, in a few minutes, on

the best means of acting. Such was the case when they determined on the

sum to be paid by the strangers.

"As soon as their youth attain the age of fourteen years, they go every

Sunday in boats to Fredericstadt, to learn their creed and catechism,

and to hear the word of God: they are also taught to read and write. In

winter, the clergyman crosses twice to them, to administer the sacrament

to the sick and aged.

"One Christian charity unites their minds. They are faithful to their

promises, honest, temperate, sober, and benevolent. They fear God, and

honour their king. In a word, they are virtuous, innocent, and happy;

and when told of vices, they seem to consider it as we do fairy tales:--

stories to listen to, but not believe.

"Two cows supply them all with milk; a few pigs with animal food: when

these fail, fish and water are the substitutes."

_Edward_. It is a very interesting account, my dear mother; but I did

not think that any people in the world were so innocent--so free from

vice. The Scriptures tell us, that the heart of man is deceitful above

all things, and desperately wicked; but this happy little community

seems quite an exception to the general rule.

"No doubt, their hearts, like those of the rest of mankind, are prone to

evil," replied Mrs. Bernard, "but being, from their insulated situation,

in a great measure removed from the commerce of men, and, consequently,

from many temptations by which the inhabitants of large societies are

beset, and making the sacred Scriptures the guide of their conduct, they

appear happily preserved from the commission of those crimes, to which

many individuals, more exposed to the temptations of the world, so

fatally fall victims. Nothing is so destructive to the morals of the

young, as indiscriminate intercourse with the world. In the bosom of

your own family, you are most likely to be secured from a temptation to

false pleasures; and there do I earnestly hope, my dear children, you

will ever find your chief enjoyment; since no felicity is so pure and

innocent, as that which results from an affectionate attachment to your

domestic circle."

_Emily_. We should be ungrateful, indeed, were we not happy at home; as

I am sure it is the constant endeavour of both you and our dear father,

to make us so.

"We are amply repaid for all our efforts," said her tender mother, "when

the smile of good-humour enlivens your countenances, and beams delight

around our little circle.

"Now, Edward, read us the extract you have made from Sir Matthew Hale's

Contemplation upon Contentment," said Mr. Bernard.

"Indeed, my dear father," replied he, "I am sorry to say I have not

finished it. I put it off on Monday and Tuesday, when I had, certainly,

plenty of time, thinking I should readily accomplish it before the end

of the week; but in consequence of this delay, and several unexpected

circumstances intervening, to employ my time, it is wtill unfinished. I

hope you will excuse this neglect, and by next Sunday I will endeavour

to be prepared."

_Mr. B_. I am sorry to see in you a sad habit of procrastination, and

want of punctuality. I assure you, my dear boy, that, to a man of

business, such a habit is more ruinous; and if not subdued in youth,

will surely grow the more confirmed by age, and blight his fairest

prospects.

Edward felt the justice of his father's reproof, and, bending his eyes

upon the ground, remained silent, forming a resolution to amend, and

hoping that he might never again incur his father's displeasure for a

similar fault.

Mr. Bernard perceived, by his countenance, what was passing in his mind,

and affectionately taking his hand, confirmed his good resolve by a

smile of approbation. Then, taking up Cecil's Remains, that lay upon the

table, he opened it, and read aloud the following passage:

"Method, as Mrs. More says, is the very hinge of business, and there is

no method without punctuality. Punctuality is important, because it

subserves the peace and good-temper of a family. The want of it not only

infringes on necessary duty, but sometimes excludes this duty.

Punctuality is important, as it gains time: it is like packing things in

a box; a good packer will get in as much again as a bad one. The

calmness of mind which it produces, is another advantage of punctuality.

A disorderly man is always in a hurry: he has no time to speak with you,

because he is going elsewhere; and, when he gets there, he is too late

for his business, or he must hurry away to another before he can finish

it. It was a wise maxim of the Duke of Newcastle:--'I do one thing at a

time.' Punctuality gives weight to character. Such a man has made an

appointment;--then I know he will keep it. And this generates

punctuality in you; for, like other virtues, it propagates itself.

Servants and children must be punctual, where their leader is so.

Appointments, indeed, become debts.--I owe you punctuality, if I have

made an appointment with you; and have no right to throw away your time,

if I do my own."

When Mr. Bernard had finished reading, Edward thanked his father, and

promised to endeavour to correct his bad habit. His parents united in

encouraging him to make a steady effort, assuring him that they felt

convinced that it would be attended with success, and recommending him

to commit to memory the preceding admirable paragraph. His father then

changed the subject, by enquiring whether Louisa had any thing new to

repeat to them before they separated. She answered in the affirmative,

and immediately recited the following lines from Miss Carter's Poems.

"Grant me, great God, a heart to thee inclin'd, Increase my faith, and

rectify my mind; Teach me by times to tread thy sacred ways, And to thy

service consecrate my days. Still, as through life's perplexing maze I

stray, Be thou the guiding star to mark my way; Conduct the steps of my

unguarded youth, And point their motions to the paths of truth. Protect

me by thy providential care, And warm my soul to shun the tempter's

snare. Through all the shifting scenes of varied life, In calms of ease,

or ruffling storms of grief; Through each event of this inconstant

state, Preserve my temper equal and sedate. Give me a mind that nobly

can despise The low designs, and little arts of vice, Be my religion

such, as taught by thee, Alike from pride and superstition free. Inform

my judgment, regulate my will, My reason strengthen, and my passions

still. To gain thy favour, be my first great end, And to that scope may

every action tend. Amidst the pleasures of a prosperous state, Whose

fluttering chains the untutor'd heart elate, May I reflect to whom those

gifts I owe, And bless the bounteous hand from whence they flow. Or, if

as adverse fortune be my share, Let not its terrors tempt me to despair;

But, fix'd on thee, a steady faith maintain, And own all good, which thy

decrees ordain; On thy unfailing providence depend, The best protector,

and the surest friend. Thus on life's stage may I my part sustain, And

at my exit, thy applauses gain. When the pale herald summons me away,

Support me in that dread catastrophe; In that last conflict guard me

from alarms, And take my soul, aspiring, to thy arms."

_Mrs. B._ The lines are excellent, Louisa, and you have repeated them

as if you understood their meaning. What is the "pale herald," alluded

to in the last verse?

_Louisa_. Is it not Death, mamma?

_Mrs. B._ It is, my dear. The concluding lines contain a supplication

for fortitude and serenity at that awful hour, which every individual

must one day meet.

_Emily_. There is something very solemn in the contemplation of death,

my dear mother. It is an idea that often casts a gloom over my gayest

hours.

_Mrs. B._ A firm reliance on the power and mercy of God, with an humble

confidence in the redeeming love of Christ, will banish that fearful

dread which might otherwise obscure the closing scene. Even in that

extremity, the true Christian has nothing to fear; he may say, with the

Psalmist, "though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I

will fear no evil, for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they

comfort me."

At this moment the clock struck eight, at which hour the servants always

joined the family, that they might have the advantage of hearing their

excellent master read such portions of the sacred Scriptures as were

best adapted to their capacities and circumstances; after which, the

solemn duties of the day were closed with prayer and thanksgiving, and

the children retired to their pillows, serene and happy.

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