THE INVITATION

"Come hither!"--It is not at all strange if he who is in danger

and needs help--speedy, immediate help, perhaps--it is not strange

if he cries out: "come hither"! Nor it is strange that a quack

cries his wares: "come hither, I cure all maladies"; alas, for

in the case of the quack it is only too true that it is the

physician who has need of the sick. "Come hither all ye who

at extortionate prices can pay for the cure--or at any rate

for the medicine; here is physic for everybody--who can pay;

come hither!"

In all other cases, however, it is generally true that he who

can help must be sought; and, when found, may be difficult of

access; and, if access is had, his help may have to be implored

a long time; and when his help has been implored a long time,

he may be moved only with difficulty, that is, he sets a high

price on his services; and sometimes, precisely when he refuses

payment or generously asks for none, it is only an expression

of how infinitely high he values his services. On the other hand,

he[2] who sacrificed himself, he sacrifices himself, here too;

it is indeed he who seeks those in need of help, is himself the

one who goes about and calls, almost imploringly: "come hither!"

He, the only one who can help, and help with what alone is indispensable,

and can save from the one truly mortal disease, he does not

wait for people to come to him, but comes himself, without having

been called; for it is he who calls out to them, it is he who

holds out help--and what help! Indeed, that simple sage of antiquity[3]

was as infinitely right as the majority who do the opposite are

wrong, in setting no great price, whether on himself or his

instruction; even if he thus in a certain sense proudly expressed

the utter difference in kind between payment and his services.

But he was not so solicitous as to beg any one to come to him,

notwithstanding--or shall I say because?--he was not altogether

sure what his help signified; for the more sure one is that his

help is the only one obtainable, the more reason has he, in a

human sense, to ask a great price for it; and the less sure one

is, the more reason has he to offer freely the possible help

he has, in order to do at least something for others. But he

who calls himself the Savior, and knows that he is, he calls

out solicitously: "come hither unto me!"

"Come hither all ye!"--Strange! For if he who, when it comes

to the point, perhaps cannot help a single one--if such a one

should boastfully invite everybody, that would not seem so

very strange, man's nature being such as it is. But if a man

is absolutely sure of being able to help, and at the same time

willing to help, willing to devote his all in doing so, and with

all sacrifices, then he generally makes at least one reservation;

which is, to make a choice among those he means to help. That

is, however willing one may be, still it is not everybody one

cares to help; one does not care to sacrifice one's self to

that extent. But he, the only one who can really help, and really

help everybody--the only one, therefore, who really can invite

everybody--he makes no conditions whatever; but utters the invitation

which, from the beginning of the world, seems to have been reserved

for him: "Come hither all ye!" Ah, human self-sacrifice, even when

thou art most beautiful and noble, when we admire thee most: this

is a sacrifice still greater, which is, to sacrifice every provision

for one's own self, so that in one's willingness to help there is

not even the least partiality. Ah, the love that sets no price on

one's self, that makes one forget altogether that he is the

helper, and makes one altogether blind as to who it is one helps,

but infinitely careful only that he be a sufferer, whatever else he

may be; and thus willing unconditionally to help everybody--different,

alas! in this from everybody!

"Come hither unto me!" Strange! For human compassion also, and

willingly, does something for them that labor and are heavy laden;

one feeds the hungry, clothes the naked, makes charitable gifts,

builds charitable institutions, and if the compassion be heartfelt,

perhaps even visits those that labor and are heavy laden. But to

invite them to come to one, that will never do, because then all

one's household and manner of living would have to be changed.

For a man cannot himself live in abundance, or at any rate in

well-being and happiness, and at the same time dwell in one and

the same house together with, and in daily intercourse with, the

poor and miserable, with them that labor and are heavy laden! In

order to be able to invite them in such wise, a man must himself

live altogether in the same way, as poor as the poorest, as lowly

as the lowliest, familiar with the sorrows and sufferings of life,

and altogether belonging to the same station as they whom he invites,

that is, they who labor and are heavy laden. If he wishes to

invite a sufferer, he must either change his own condition to be

like that of the sufferer, or else change that of the sufferer to

be like his own; for if this is not done the difference will

stand out only the more by contrast. And if you wish to invite

all those who suffer--for you may make an exception with one of

them and change his condition--it can be done only in one way,

which is, to change your condition so as to live as they do;

provided your life be not already lived thus, as was the case

with Him who said: "Come hither unto me, all ye that labor and

are heavy laden!" Thus said he; and they who lived with him

saw him, and behold! there was not even the least thing in his

manner of life to contradict it. With the silent and truthful

eloquence of actual performance his life expresses--even though

he had never in his life said these words--his life expresses:

"Come hither, unto me, all ye that labor and are heavy laden"!

He abides by his word, or he himself is the word; he is what he

says, and also in this sense he is the Word.[4]

"All ye that labor and are heavy laden." Strange! His only concern

is lest there be a single one who labors and is heavy laden who

does not hear this invitation. Neither does he fear that too many

will come. Ah, heart-room makes house-room; but where wilt thou

find heart-room, if not in his heart? He leaves it to each one how

to understand his invitation: he has a clear conscience about

it, for he has invited all those that labor and are heavy laden.

But what means it, then, to labor and be heavy laden? Why does

he not offer a clearer explanation so that one may know exactly

whom he means, and why is he so chary of his words? Ah, thou

narrow-minded one, he is so chary of his words, lest he be narrow-minded;

and thou narrow-hearted one, he is so chary of his words lest

he be narrow-hearted. For such is his love--and love has regard

to all--as to prevent any one from troubling and searching his

heart whether he too be among those invited. And he who would

insist on a more definite explanation, is he not likely to be

some self-loving person who is calculating whether this explanation

does not particularly fit himself; one who does not consider that

the more of such exact explanations are offered, the more certainly

some few would be left in doubt as to whether they were invited?

Ah man, why does thine eye see only thyself, why is it evil because

he is good?[5] The invitation to all men opens the arms of him

who invites, and thus he stands of aspect everlasting; but no

sooner is a closer explanation attempted which might help one

or the other to another kind of certainty, than his aspect would

be transformed and, as it were, a shadow of change would pass

over his countenance.

"I will give you rest." Strange! For then the words "come hither

unto me" must be understood to mean: stay with me, I am rest;

or, it is rest to remain with me. It is not, then, as in other

cases where he who helps and says "come hither" must afterwards

say: "now depart again," explaining to each one where the help

he needs is to be found, where the healing herb grows which will

cure him, or where the quiet spot is found where he may rest

from labor, or where the happier continent exists where one is

not heavy laden. But no, he who opens his arms, inviting every

one--ah, if all, all they that labor and are heavy laden came

to him, he would fold them all to his heart, saying: "stay with

me now; for to stay with me is rest." The helper himself is the

help. Ah, strange, he who invites everybody and wishes to help

everybody, his manner of treating the sick is as if calculated

for every sick man, and as if every sick man who comes to him

were his only patient. For otherwise a physician divides his

time among many patients who, however great their number, still

are far, far from being all mankind. He will prescribe the medicine,

he will say what is to be done, and how it is to be used, and

then he will go--to some other patient; or, in case the patient

should visit him, he will let him depart. The physician cannot

remain sitting all day with one patient, and still less can he

have all his patients about him in his home, and yet sit all

day with one patient without neglecting the others. For this

reason the helper and his help are not one and the same thing.

The help which the physician prescribes is kept with him by the

patient all day so that he may constantly use it, whilst the

physician visits him now and again; or he visits the physician

now and again. But if the helper is also the help, why, then

he will stay with the sick man all day, or the sick man with

him--ah, strange that it is just this helper who invites all men!

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