From the 'Dialogue on Friendship'

But there arises on this subject a somewhat difficult question: Whether

ever new friends, if deserving friendship, are to be preferred to old

ones, just as we are wont to prefer young colts to old horses?--a

perplexity unworthy of a man; for there ought to be no satiety of

friendship as of other things: everything which is oldest (as those

wines which bear age well) ought to be sweetest; and that is true which

is sometimes said, "Many bushels of salt must be eaten together," before

the duty of friendship can be fulfilled. But new friendships, if they

afford a hope that, as in the case of plants which never disappoint,

fruits shall appear, such are not to be rejected; yet the old one must

be preserved in its proper place, for the power of age and custom is

exceedingly great; besides, in the very case of the horse, which I just

mentioned, if there is no impediment, there is no one who does not more

pleasurably use that to which he is accustomed than one unbroken and

strange to him; and habit asserts its power, and habit prevails, not

only in the case of this, which is animate, but also in the cases of

those things which are inanimate; since we take delight in the very

mountainous or woody scenery among which we have long dwelt.

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