The Belle of the Opera

What is Beautiful?

Kate Richmond’s Betrothal

The Corsair’s Victim

A Dirge for O’Connell

The Illinois and the Prairies

A Dream of Italy

The Letter of Introduction

Dirge

The Fugitive

The Gentle Step

Barbara Uttman’s Dream

Sunset Upon “The Steine-Kill”

A Song

The Old New House

The Wounded Guerilla

Lines

Speak Kindly

Marie

Love, Duty and Hope

Do I Love Thee?

Ode to Shelley

Marion’s Song in the School-Room

All About “What’s in a Name.”

Game-Birds of America.—No. XII.

Visitants From Spirit-Land

History of the Costume of Men

Maple Sugar

To My Love

Softly O’er My Memory Stealing

Cathara

The Departed

The Dead

The Homestead of Beauty

Gems From Late Readings

Editor’s Table

Review of New Books

Transcriber’s Notes can be found at the end of this eBook.

GRAHAM’S

AMERICAN MONTHLY

MAGAZINE

Of Literature and Art.

EMBELLISHED WITH

MEZZOTINT AND STEEL ENGRAVINGS, MUSIC, ETC.

WILLIAM C. BRYANT, J. FENIMORE COOPER, RICHARD H. DANA, JAMES K. PAULDING,

HENRY W. LONGFELLOW, N. P. WILLIS, CHARLES F. HOFFMAN, J. R. LOWELL.

MRS. LYDIA H. SIGOURNEY, MISS C. M. SEDGWICK, MRS. FRANCES S. OSGOOD,

MRS. EMMA C. EMBURY, MRS. ANN S. STEPHENS, MRS. AMELIA B. WELBY,

MRS. A. M. F. ANNAN, ETC.

PRINCIPAL CONTRIBUTORS.

G. R. GRAHAM, J. R. CHANDLER AND J. B. TAYLOR, EDITORS.

VOLUME XXXIV.

PHILADELPHIA:

SAMUEL D. PATTERSON & CO. 98 CHESTNUT STREET.

1849.

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CONTENTS

OF THE

THIRTY-FOURTH VOLUME.

JANUARY, 1849, TO JUNE, 1849.

All About “What’s in a Name.” By CAROLINE C——, 62

A Recollection of Mendelssohn. By J. BAYARD TAYLOR, 113

A Voice from the Wayside. By CAROLINE C——, 300

Barbara Uttman’s Dream. By Mrs. EMMA C. EMBURY, 43

Christ Weeping Over Jerusalem. By JOSEPH R. CHANDLER, 189

Cousin Fanny. By M. S. G. NICHOLS, 354

Doctor Sian Seng. From the French, 123, 174

Deaf, Dumb and Blind. By AGNES L. GORDON, 347

Editor’s Table, 79, 153, 215,

273, 330, 387

Eleonore Eboli. By WINIFRED BARRINGTON, 134

Fifty Suggestions. By EDGAR A. POE, 317, 363

For and Against. By WALTER HERRIES, Esq. 377

Game-Birds of America. No. XII., 68

Gems from Late Readings, 78, 149, 211

History of the Costume of Men. By FAYETTE ROBINSON, 71, 140, 196,

264, 319

Honor to Whom Honor is Due. By Mrs. LYDIA JANE PEIRSON, 192

Jasper Leech. By B., 15

Kate Richmond’s Betrothal. By GRACE GREENWOOD, 8

Love, Duty and Hope. By ENNA DUVAL, 56

Lessons in German. By Miss M. J. BROWNE, 118

Mormon Temple, Nauvoo, 257

Mr. and Mrs. John Johnson Jones. By ANGELE DE V. HULL, 277

Montgomery’s House, 330

May Lillie. By CAROLINE H. BUTLER, 365

Passages of Life in Europe. By J. BAYARD TAYLOR, 307

Passages of Life in Europe. By J. BAYARD TAYLOR, 373

Reviews, 81, 151, 213,

270, 334, 385

Rose Winters. By ESTELLE, 258

Reminiscences. By EMMA C. EMBURY, 325

Speak Kindly. By KATE SUTHERLAND, 53

St. Valentine’s Day. By J. R. CHANDLER, 110

The Belle of the Opera. By J. R. CHANDLER, 1

The Illinois and the Prairies. By JAMES K. PAULDING, 16

The Letter of Introduction. By Mrs. A. M. F. ANNAN, 26

The Fugitive. By the VISCOUNTESS D’AULNAY, 37

The Old New House. By H. HASTINGS WELD, 47

The Wounded Guerilla. By MAYNE REID, 50

The Young Lawyer’s First Case. By J. TOD, 85

The Man in the Moon. By CAROLINE C——, 91

The Wager of Battle. By W. GILMORE SIMMS, 99

The Chamber of Life and Death. By PROFESSOR ALDEN, 129

The Lost Notes. By Mrs. HUGHS, 144

The Naval Officer. By W. F. LYNCH, 157, 223, 286

The Unfinished Picture. By JANE C. CAMPBELL, 182

The Adventures of a Man who could Never Dress Well.

By M. TOPHAM EVANS, 199

The Plantation of General Taylor, 206

The Poet Lí. By CAROLINE H. BUTLER, 217

The Recluse. By PARK BENJAMIN, 232, 298

The Missionary, Sunlight. By CAROLINE C——, 235

The Brother’s Temptation. By SYBIL SUTHERLAND, 243

The Gipsy Queen. By JOSEPH R. CHANDLER, 250

The Darsies. By EMMA C. EMBURY, 252

Taste. By Miss AUGUSTA C. TWIGGS, 310

The Man of Mind and the Man of Money. By T. S. ARTHUR, 312

The Picture of Judgment. By W. GILMORE SIMMS, 337

The Battle of Life. By LEN, 362

The Birth-Place of Benjamin West, 378

The Young Dragoon. By C. J. PETERSON, 379

Unequal Marriages. By CAROLINE H. BUTLER, 169

Western Recollections. By FAY. ROBINSON, 178

Wild-Birds of America. By PROF. FROST, 142

Wild-Birds of America. By PROFESSOR FROST, 208

Wild-Birds of America. By PROF. FROST, 267

Wild-Birds of America. By PROF. FROST, 322

Wild-Birds of America. By PROF. FROST, 382

POETRY.

A Dirge for O’Connell. By ANNE C. LYNCH, 15

A Dream of Italy. By CHARLES ALLEN, 25

A Song. By GIFTIE, 46

A Song. By RICHARD WILKE, 112

A Twilight Lay. By W. HORRY STILLWELL, 128

An Hour Among the Dead. By J. B. JONES, 148

A Billet-Doux. By FRANCES S. OSGOOD, 177

A Summer Evening Thought. By COUSIN MARY, 285

A Sonnet. By FAYETTE ROBINSON, 306

A May Song. By S. D. ANDERSON, 316

Ariel in the Cloven Pine. By BAYARD TAYLOR, 324

Cathara. By WALTER COLTON, U. S. N. 76

Christine. By E. CURTISS HINE, 90

Dirge. 36

Do I Love Thee? By RICHARD COE, JR. 60

Dreams of Heaven. By M. E. THROPP, 378

Earth-Life. By J. BAYARD TAYLOR, 133

Extract. By HENRY S. HAGERT, 181

Egeria. By MARY L. LAWSON, 195

Florence. By HENRY B. HIRST, 165

Fancies About a Lock of Hair. By S. D. ANDERSON, 207

From Buchanan. By RICHARD PENN SMITH, 297

Human Influence. By MARIE ROSEAU, 191

Jenny Lind. By Miss M. SAWIN, 269

Lines. By R. T. CONRAD, 52

Love. By CHARLES E. TRAIL, 173

Lost Treasures. By P. D. T., 242

Lines to an Idea that Wouldn’t “Come.”

By FRANCES S. OSGOOD, 285

Luna. An Ode. By H. T. TUCKERMAN, 297

Marie. By CAROLINE F. ORNE, 55

Marion’s Song in the School-Room.

By Mrs. FRANCES S. OSGOOD, 61

Maple Sugar. By ALFRED B. STREET, 73

My Bird Has Flown. By Mrs. E. W. CASWELL, 117

My Study. By WM. H. C. HOSMER, 377

Night. By Miss AUGUSTA C. TWIGGS, 372

Ode to Shelley. By J. BAYARD TAYLOR, 61

On a Diamond Ring. By CHARLES E. TRAIL, 231

Parting. By Mrs. LYDIA JANE PEIRSON, 329

Paraphrase. By RICHARD PENN SMITH, 361

Requiem. By WM. H. C. HOSMER, 109

Rome. By R. H. STODDARD, 234

Reminiscences of a Reader.

By the late WALTER HERRIES, Esq., 249

Raffaelle D’Urbino. By W. H. WELSH, 352

Sunset Upon the Steine-Kill. By KATE DASHWOOD, 46

Summer’s Bacchanal. By J. BAYARD TAYLOR, 206

Sonnet to Machiavelli. By FAY. ROBINSON, 251

Storm-Lines. By J. BAYARD TAYLOR, 270

Stanzas. By Mrs. O. M. P. LORD, 346

Steinhausen’s Hero and Leander. By H. T. TUCKERMAN, 364

Stanzas for Music. By HARRIET S. HANDY, 376

The Corsair’s Victim. By WM. H. C. HOSMER, 14

The Gentle Step. By HARRIET J. MEEK, 42

To My Love. By HENRY H. PAUL, 73

The Departed. By Mrs. MARY S. WHITAKER, 76

The Dead. By “AN AULD HEAD ON YOUNG SHOUTHERS,” 77

The Homestead of Beauty. By S. D. ANDERSON, 77

The World. By R. H. STODDARD, 89

The Ennuyee. By Mrs. S. A LEWIS, 90

The Mirror of Life. By ANNA, 97

To the Thames, at Norwich, Conn.,

By Mrs. LYDIA H. SIGOURNEY, 98

The Song of the Axe. By C. L. WHELER, 98

The Past. By Miss CAROLINE E. SUTTON, 112

The Phantasmagoria. By A. J. REQUIER, 120

The Beating of the Heart. By RICHARD HAYWARDE, 122

The Highland Laddie’s Farewell. By AUGUSTA C. TWIGGS, 128

The Old Year and the New. By CLARA, 143

The Dial-Plate. By A. J. REQUIER, 168

The Icebergs. By PARK BENJAMIN, 173

The Heart’s Confession. By HENRY MORFORD, 188

The Precious Rest. By RICHARD COE, Jr., 207

The Pine-Tree. By CAROLINE MAY, 210

To My Little Boy. By Mrs. HENRIETTA L. COLEMAN, 212

To Mother. By ANNIE GREY, 231

Thermopylæ. By Mrs. MARY G. HORSFORD, 242

The Unsepulchred Relics. By Mrs. GOODWIN, 249

The Brother’s Lament. By AMELIA B. WELBY, 251

The Unmasked. By S. ANNA LEWIS, 257

The Zopilotes. By FAYETTE ROBINSON, 263

The Rustic Shrine. By GEO. W. DEWEY, 296

The Grass of the Field. By CAROLINE MAY, 309

To an Absent Sister. By MARY G. HORSFORD, 309

Thoughts. By MARIE ROSEAU, 346

Turn Not Away. By HENRY MORFORD, 353

The Sleep of the Dead. By S. G. HAGERT, 361

The New Search After Happiness. By E. FOXTON, 371

Visitants from Spirit-Land.

By E. CURTISS HINE, U. S. N. 70

Vincente Filicaja’s Sonnet to Italy.

By FAYETTE ROBINSON, 384

What is Beautiful? By AUGUSTA, 7

MUSIC.

Softly O’er My Memory Stealing. Words by S. D. Patterson.

Music by John A. Janke, Jr.

The Bells of Ostend. Words by W. L. Bowles.

Music by J. Hilton Jones.

Oh, Have I Not Been True to Thee?

Written and adapted to a beautiful melody

by John H. Hewitt.

Adieu, My Native Land. Words by D. W. Belisle.

Arranged for the piano by James Piper.

Virtue’s Evergreen. Words by Theodore A. Gould.

Music by Theodore Von La Hache.

I Can’t Make Up My Mind. Words from Hood’s Magazine.

Arranged for the piano by C. Grobe.

ENGRAVINGS.

Day on the Mountains, engraved by W. E. Tucker.

The Belle of the Opera, engraved by W. E. Tucker.

The Wounded Guerilla, engraved by Rice.

Oglethorp University, engraved by Rawdon & Co.

A Valentine, engraved by W. E. Tucker.

Home Treasures, engraved by Addison.

The Mirror of Life, engraved by Wilmer.

Portrait of Mrs. Davidson, by Rawdon & Co.

Christ Weeping Over Jerusalem, by W. E. Tucker.

Why Don’t He Come, engraved by Addison.

The Bridal Night, engraved by Addison.

View of the Plantation of Gen. Taylor.

The Gipsy Queen, engraved by Thomas B. Welsh.

The Church of St. Isaac’s, engraved by A. L. Dick.

The Miniature, engraved by an American Artist.

Paris Fashions, from Le Follet.

May Morning, engraved by T. B. Welsh.

View of Tortosa, engraved by J. Dill.

Paris Fashions, from Le Follet.

The Star of the Night, engraved by Addison.

The Cottage Door, engraved by Humphreys.

Col. Washington at the Cowpens.

Paris Fashions, from Le Follet.

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[Illustration: OGLETHORP UNIVERSITY, Engraved by Rawdon & Co.]

[Illustration: THE BELLE OF THE OPERA, Engraved by W. E. Tucker.]

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GRAHAM’S MAGAZINE.

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VOL. XXXIV. PHILADELPHIA, JANUARY, 1849. No. 1.

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THE BELLE OF THE OPERA.

AN ESSAY UPON WOMAN’S ACCOMPLISHMENT, HER CHARACTER AND HER MISSION.

BY JOSEPH R. CHANDLER.

[SEE ENGRAVING.]

It is not a small thing to be an engaged writer for a magazine that has

admittance into numerous families, and, by the costliness and adaptation

of its decorations, and the general proclivity of its contents, is in no

small degree the handbook of young females.

A good book, an octavo or quarto, upon sound morals or religious

doctrines comes like a wholesome breeze, “stealing and giving

odors”—but then, like that breeze, it is only occasional—a current

rushing in but rarely, and seldom finding the right object within its

healthful influence. But the magazine is the atmosphere in which the

inmates dwell; they are constantly within its influence, and their

general life, their mental sanative properties become imbued with its

qualities: And this is the more important as the influence is commenced

at home, and upon the female portion; so that it becomes constantly,

permanently, and extensively operative upon, and through others.

The writers for this magazine seem to have been impressed with this idea

of these consequences, and hence the importance of their contributions;

or the editor has been exceedingly careful in his winnowing, to allow

nothing to pass the sieve that might be productive of evil in the field

which he is called to cultivate.

The writer of this article is deeply impressed with the importance of

his position, and the danger of an error. A magazine that is devoted to

taste, the arts and the fashions, it would seem, from the opinions of

some, must be in a great degree light, and in no degree instructive,

save in the very subject of taste, fashion and the arts, to which it is

ostensibly devoted, and according to the general acceptation of the

words, taste and fashion, and the ordinary uses to which the arts are

applied.

“A magazine, then, of polite literature, of the arts and fashions, must

be for the day—must treat of ephemeral subjects—must make the fashions

of female dresses a leading and permanent matter of thought—must

recommend amusements as matters of life-consideration, and erect the

finer arts as an image of universal worship.”

We say plainly that we differ from those who make this estimate of

periodical literature. We cannot consent to such a degrading standard

for the monthly press—we certainly will not submit ourselves or our pen

to this shortening process of the Procrustean bed of literature—we will

do what we can to keep “Graham’s Magazine” from such debasement—we will

do it for the long established character of the periodical, and for what

we think it capable of—we will do it for our own credit—and, most of

all, we will do it for the good of that large portion of society to

which this magazine supplies the mental _pabulum_. When we furnish forth

the table of those who look to our catering, we will take care that

there shall be no poison in the ingredients, no “death in the pot.”

But in a secular magazine there _must_ be light reading—all, or nearly

all, the contents must be of a kind addressed to the fancy as well as

the understanding—and consequently of a character to excite the

censure, or at least forbid the approach, of the ascetic. Nay, it must

greatly differ from the class of periodical literature devoted to, and

sustained upon sectarian religious grounds. The task, the labor of the

magazine editor is to sustain the high moral tone of his work, and yet

have it the vehicle of fashion, taste and the arts—to take the pure,

the good, and the beneficial, and give to them attractions for the young

and gay—or, to take that which is attractive for the young and the gay,

and make it the vehicle of high moral truth—of sober, solid reflection,

the means of heart-improvement, and the promoter of home joys—to

overlay the book with gold, and with sculptured cherubim, and all the

magnificence of taste and ingenuity—but to be sure that within are the

prophet’s rod—the shew-bread of the altar—and the written law of

truth.

Our sense of the duty of a magazine writer of the present time, is

rather hinted at than set forth in the above remarks. The subject is one

that might command the pages of a volume, and if properly handled would

be made eminently useful to writers and to readers. Our attention was

awakened to the subject by an examination of the exquisitely executed

picture of “THE BELLE OF THE OPERA,” with which that accomplished

artist, W. E. Tucker, has enriched the present number of this Magazine.

We do not know that he who drew the figure had such a thought in his

head as the improvement of magazine literature; and it is probable that

Tucker when he exhausted the powers of engraving, or almost all its

powers, to produce the figure, was impressed rather with the importance

of his contribution to the artistic importance of periodicals, than to

the high moral influence which he was aiding to promote. But true

genius, wherever exercised, is suggestive—and the beautifully drawn

figure is as promotive of useful reflection as the best composed essay.

Hence the fine arts and literature are allied—allied in their elevating

influence upon the possessors, and their power of meliorating and

improving the minds of the uninitiated. Hence they go hand in hand in

the path of usefulness—hence they are united in this Magazine.

The Belle of the Opera! Will the reader turn back once more and look at

the picture? How full of life—how much of thought—how

self-possessed—how desirable for the possession of others—how

conscious of charms—and yet how charmed with the tasteful objects

represented.

The Belle of the Opera! To be that—to be “the observed of all

observers,” in a house crowded with objects for observation, to be made

preeminent by exceeding beauty is “no small thing.” It must be

costly—it must demand large contributions from other portions of the

possessor of the proud object. If acres went to enrich the dress of the

ancient nobility of England, something as desirable and as essential to

the possessor, as those acres were to the British nobility, must have

been sacrificed to perfect the attractions of the Belle of the Opera.

Were they social duties? were they domestic affections? were they the

means of womanly usefulness? of healthful and almost holy operation upon

the minds of others? were they prospective or present? is present

moderate but growing happiness sacrificed, or is the present enjoyment

of distinction so great as to balance all of immediate loss, and to make

the sacrifice that of future peace, future happiness, future domestic

usefulness, future social consequence, all that makes mature womanhood

delightful, all that makes age respectable and lovely?

Such reflections and such pregnant queries arise in the mind, when we

contemplate the representation of such loveliness, so displayed. (I

might say such loveliness displayed, for the representation is

loveliness itself.) And the moralist has taken just such a beauty, (if

his mind ever “bodied forth” the forms of things _so_ unknown,) and

marked upon all the display “vanity and vexation of spirit”—the very

display, and especially the place of the display, warranting the

conclusion.

We confess that we have looked at The Belle of the Opera until our mind

has arrived at other conclusions. We think it fair to conclude that so

lovely a face, and such a majestic form, are at least _prima faciæ_

evidence of an elevated and beautiful mind, and that the enjoyment of

opera music, nowhere to be enjoyed but at the opera, is by no means

inconsistent with that elevation or that beauty. Music, that constitutes

half our worship on earth, and all in heaven, shall that be regarded in

itself as a sin or a means of degradation?

“But the display of the person, the vanity of the dress, the folly of

the personal exhibition, these are against the character and usefulness

of the Belle—”

How so? There is certainly no improper diminution of dress. The most

that can be said is, that a beautiful woman, beautifully dressed, is

sitting in the front seat of an opera-box, surrounded by hundreds of

persons of both sexes, who have come with the same ostensible object,

and who sit equally exposed.

But it is the exceeding beauty of the person and the elegance of the

dress that make her conspicuous; and it is that conspicuousness which

constitutes the ground of censure.

But fortunately The Belle of the Opera did not make herself beautiful.

Those elegant proportions, those enticing charms, are the gift of Him

who made human beings in his own image; and let it be confessed that

half the elegance of the _dress_ is attributable to the elegance of the

form which it covers, and the exquisite beauty which it is not intended

to conceal.

Beauty is a gift—a gift of God—like all personal or mental endowments,

dangerous, it is confessed—but, like all, to be used for personal

gratification and the promotion of social advantage.

If it is conceded to be a means of mental melioration to dwell among the

beauties of artistic skill and lofty architectural efforts, then surely

it must be still more advantageous to be reared within the influence of

_living_ charms; “to grow familiar day by day” with features and forms

that constitute models for the representation of angels, and to pass

onward through life with the sense of seeing constantly improved and

gratified with objects of exquisite beauty exquisitely clothed. This is

viewing The Belle of the Opera with an artist’s eye.

“But,” the moralist will say, “the high office of woman is vacated by

such a sacrifice to display, and such a devotion of time to amusement.

That The Belle of the Opera can never be The Bonne of the Nursery, and

therefore woman is out of her place when out of such an exercise of her

faculties as shall minister directly to domestic advantage.”

We take issue with the moralist on this question of the direct

application of female faculties; and we do this because we feel that the

narrow bigotry of the unenlightened, which leads them to condemn the

elegant enjoyments of life, and to ground their condemnation on the

demand which is constant upon human beings, “to do good and to

communicate,” is founded on a want of a full appreciation of female

powers, and a mistake as to what constitutes these, and their means of

usefulness.

There will be no space for a discussion of the measure of female duties,

though it is intended to enter upon such a discussion hereafter; but we

may say that however extensive or however limited they may be, their

discharge will be more or less effectual and complete, as she is

qualified by the elegance of education, the improvement of her mind, the

cultivation and adaptation of her faculties, to impart to others the

graces of life, and to fix them by constant example.

Virtue is embraced for its charms—it is not admired for deformity or

its negligence of mind; it has its attractions and its means of

compensation, as much as has vice—but they are not always as obvious.

The young must be made to _trust_ in the results of a virtuous course;

they must have their faith fixed by the graces of parental, of maternal

precept and example—and this good cannot be hoped for if the mother is

incapable of attracting, if she has not the means of charming—if,

indeed, she cannot show that what constitute the pleasures of life

(pleasures which in excess become crimes) are, while properly enjoyed,

wholesome and advantageous, and at the same time can show the line of

demarcation between their uses and their abuses. She must know what are

the true accomplishments of life—she must understand the influence of

refinement and cultivation on the mind—and she must bring herself to

apply all these. She must know the difference, too, between the uses and

the abuses of cultivated talents, and she must learn to discriminate.

She who would deny to the young the cultivation of talents, musical,

literary or artistic, is like the beings who would pile up the snows of

winter, that the accumulated heap might prevent the budding and the

blossoming of spring; while she who would force the mind of her child to

an unnatural development of merely ornamental faculties, is like one who

would concentrate the rays of the sun through a burning-glass, in order

to accelerate the growth of a delicate plant.

What we mean to assert is the obvious fact, that the female, the mother,

cannot discharge the high responsibilities of her sex, without many of

those acquisitions which are condemned as worthless in themselves, and

perhaps the condemnation is in some measure correct; that is, the

acquisition separately considered may be rather injurious than

beneficial.

Music itself, if it be the only or the principal attainment of a woman,

must be valuable only as a means of obtaining money or fame. So of

dancing—so of painting—so of poetry, that divine gift—each one of

these, allowed to become predominant, loses its meliorating influence,

and devotes the possessor to a solitary enjoyment, or, at most, assists

her in acquiring notoriety and a living.

It is our intention to laud the cultivation of tastes only as parts of

the meliorating means of woman’s character—the acquisition or rather

the improvement of ingredients to fit her for that office of delicate

influence for which God evidently designed her. Her personal beauty may

be a part of the means of her wholesome domestic influence—her love of,

and attainments in, music, her improvement in drawing, her literary

gifts and acquirements all go, when all are mingled, to give to her

consequence and usefulness in the nursery, and to make her beloved and

beneficially influential in the domestic circle, and to add attraction

to her charms in social life. There is no incompatibility between all

these acquisitions with great personal beauty, between a sense of that

beauty, indeed, and the entire fulfillment of all domestic and social

duties, that are likely to be devolved on one thus highly endowed, thus

qualified by extensive attainments.

The Belle of the Opera is at a place of refined amusement, where the

richest productions of musical science are properly delivered. She is

dressed to suit her own means and the place which she occupies. There is

as much propriety in the proper presentation of her charms, as in the

appropriate delivery of the music. The place itself is one of enlarged

social intercourse. Elegant attire is the requisite of the place, and is

due from the female (who has it) to him who incurs the expense of the

visitation, and receives the honor of her company.

“But she is admired in her display; her dress, her form, the beauty of

her face, attract marked attention. She is the object of general

observation.”

And why not? Is it inconsistent with good taste to admire beauty? Is not

the whole opera a place where the taste is to be improved and gratified?

Is it music alone that is to be relished? When went forth the decree

from morals or religion that beauty—female beauty—should not be

adorned? And to be adorned it must be seen.

Let us not hear the platitudes about the worthlessness of beauty; it is

not worthless—it is of high price—of exceeding worth—of extensive

usefulness; and, appropriately displayed, its influence is humanizing,

tranquilizing, and every way beneficial.

To personal charms The Belle of the Opera adds a cultivated taste for

music—a taste which she indulges at the fountain-head of such

enjoyments. But does she less, on that account, or rather on _these_

accounts, (beauty and musical taste, namely,) fulfill her mission at

home? Does the lesson of virtue which the accomplished mother gives to

her young child, fall less _impressively_ on the heart because the

infant pupil, in looking upward, gazes into a face replete with all of

earthly beauty? Is there not a certain coincidence between the looks of

his beloved teacher and the excellence of her delightful instruction? or

rather, does not her beauty tend to make these lessons delightful? And

if the charm for the child is the morning or evening hymn, does not the

sacred simplicity of the text drop with extraordinary unction on the

ear, if conveyed in the rich melody of a cultivated voice.

I might thus enumerate all the high attainments, and show how each

becomes _useful_; but it is enough to have it understood, that the true,

the great value of all these high gifts and extraordinary cultivation is

derived from their influence, when combined, to form the character of

the possessor. The Belle of the Opera is also The Belle of the

Ball-room. The same variety of characteristics, without a necessity for

the same attainment, marks each, and both are liable to be set down by a

superficial observer, as destitute of any qualities, except those which

distinguish them in the places of amusement.

May not the Belle of the Opera, or the Belle of the Ball-room, be the

guardian genius of the sick chamber, the faithful, devoted director of

the nursery?

I knew The Belle of the Opera, and she was as fond of the dance as of

the song, and shared in both in the social circle, and enjoyed them in

_others_ in more public displays. Her buoyant spirits, her happy gayety

of disposition, made her the marked object of admiration in all parties

in which she shared—the first to propose that in which all could

gracefully and appropriately join, and the last to propound a thought

that could cast a gloom over the countenance of a single being around

her. She seemed so much the spirit of the joyous assembly, that serious

thought, deepth of feeling, or firm principles of good, were not

suspected by those incapable of looking into the heart. The Belle of the

Opera was deemed by such, one set apart for the enjoyment of the opera

and the dance, and to be without life when without these means of life’s

pleasures; to have no sympathy with her kind, excepting through music

and display, and to reckon none among her intimates but the

light-hearted and the gay.

Men may be thus exclusive, but women are not.

Returning one night from opera or route, the Belle entered her parlor

wearied _with_, but not tired _of_ the pleasure in which she had shared,

when suddenly a cry of distress was heard; it was caused by the

appearance of a case of small-pox in a neighboring house. At once the

Belle changed her dress, and was at the bed of the sufferer.

“But, madam, have you had the small-pox?”

“No; but I have been vaccinated.”

“Ah! so was my sister.”

“But evidently not well. I will tarry and assist until she be removed,

or some change take place.”

The change took place after a few days, and the Belle of the Opera

carefully wrapped the body of the deceased in its grave-clothes, and

having committed it to a coffin, she went to purify herself, give thanks

for her preservation, and to enjoy again the fine arts which she so much

admired.

The pleasant laugh could at times, and _did_, give place to tears of

sorrow or of sympathy; and the appearance of indifference would promptly

yield, when thoughtlessly or wickedly some sentiment opposed to strict

morality, would drop from the lip of a companion. Never did hours of

gayety tend to moments of unkindness, or the full enjoyment of the

abundance to which all were happy to contribute, obliterate a sentiment

of gratitude toward those whose earlier kindness might have assisted to

prepare for that enjoyment.

Beneath the exterior of frequent devotion to admissible pleasure, there

was a depth of feeling and a soundness of principle that sustained

themselves in all circumstances, and exhibited themselves where-ever

their exercise was requisite, that were seen, indeed, influencing even

in the midst of gayety, and throwing a charm around that freedom of

conversation in which those of well-regulated minds may indulge.

The virtues of The Belle of the Opera are not sudden, fitful, dependent

upon excited feelings—they are constant, influencing, ruling. They

appear in private conversations, they are manifest in delicate

forbearance toward the errors of others, they exhibit themselves in

unwavering attachment to known established principles, and a delicate

tolerance of the views of friends; and they are set forth for admiration

by the charms of those accomplishments which the world admires, and

which that world supposes to be her principal attraction.

And that world judges in this case as in most others; it has no interest

in the object before it, and it is not concerned to look into the effect

of its own judgment upon that object. Ten thousand who saw the late

laughter-moving Jefferson upon the stage, supposed that he never moved

without laughing himself, and making others laugh. They supposed that he

must delight in and be the delight of social life; and as they had

nothing to do with his life off the stage, they never cared to correct

their judgment—they never knew that the most pleasant of all comedians

was fond of solitude, loved the quiet silence of angling—and was a prey

to melancholy.

The inward man, the man to himself, the household man, the man of the

fireside and social circle, is different from the man abroad, the man

professionally, the man to others, and this not from hypocrisy, not from

a difference of character throughout, but simply because the many who

judge see only one phaze, and one, indeed, is all that is exhibited, all

that is required to fill up the part in which the many know the man. But

justly to judge, and fairly to decide, we must see the whole man, we

must know how all his relations are sustained; we must see how he

discharges the high, solemn duties of his life, and carries the

influence of that discharge into minor relations. We must understand how

much of himself, his better self, he gives to the amusements and light

enjoyments of life, and how much he brings from them to influence his

conduct elsewhere; or, if weak, how much of himself he leaves in scenes

where artistic taste only is exercised; how much he sacrifices of

himself to mere gratification—a burnt-offering never to be recalled.

And here we reach a point toward which we have attempted to steer; we

mean the fullness of character, the entire inward person—the

meeting—the combination—the fusion, indeed, of all those properties

and qualities of the mind, by a well-directed education; the balancing

of the various propensities and gifts by the skillful hand of

instruction, so that no appetite, natural or acquired, shall have an

undue predominancy, or serve to constitute the distinguishing

characteristic of the possessor.

The Belle of the Opera, we have already said, brought to the place of

amusements only the charms which God has bestowed and cultivated taste

has well set off. She did not elect herself as The Belle of the Opera;

she did not inaugurate herself as “the observed of all observers.” Such

results, though made probable by the charms of her person, and promoted

by the opportunities afforded by the indulgence of a high order of

talents, was, nevertheless, the work of the admiring many, who felt and

acknowledged the charms of person thus displayed, and at once rendered

to them the kind of homage which their excellence and position seemed to

suggest. They, the multitude, judged in part, judged by what they saw,

and what they imagined—and deified the woman with the appellation of

“Belle of the Opera;” it was all the attribute they had to bestow; they

felt an influence that they did not comprehend; and not knowing of the

charms concealed, that made effective what they saw, they gave to the

visible and the ostensible, the regard which was only due to the

concealed and the influencing, as the shepherds of old saw with

admiration and delight the fiery part of the stars of the firmament in

all their loveliness, and feeling an influence from the celestial

display, adored the hosts of heaven for their beauty and their use,

forgetful or ignorant of the power that made them seem

beautiful—uninstructed in all the relations of those orbs by which

their beauty and their usefulness are secured.

We have taken the reader to one scene, in which The Belle of the Opera

showed how little the accomplishment of person, and the cultivation of

taste had disturbed the feelings of humanity; and yet we confess, that

such an example standing alone, seems to be a contradiction, or a sort

of accidental effort, rather the result of impulse, rather dependent

upon caprice or individual affection, than to be regarded as

illustrative of, or consistent with, the ruling characteristics. We are

speaking now of a whole character—and a character cannot be judged of

by one strong propensity on one hand, and one great but contradictory

act on the other.

Is the character of The Belle of the Opera complete? Is the distance

between the lustre and display of the opera-box, and the devotion to the

loathsomeness of the small-pox chamber, all occupied with corresponding

virtues, and similar graces mingling, shading, combining, perfecting? If

the great offices of the woman’s life, (we are speaking now of the Belle

as a _woman_, looking at her higher vocation,) if all these offices are

well discharged, if as mother, wife, as friend and neighbor, she stand

unimpeachable; if she is as notable in all these relations as in the

opera-box, still we want to inquire what is the influence exercised upon

all these relations, by those qualities which made her The Belle of the

Opera. How stand the opera-box and the nursery related? Because in the

complete character of a woman are very few isolated qualities; they all

bear upon each other, or exercise mutual influences, and each is less of

itself by the qualities which it derives from others. The Belle of the

Opera gave to her own fireside the attraction of her personal charms, if

less gorgeously accompanied, still the more directly effective. The

adventitious aid of ornaments, that was a sacrifice to public taste, was

not required; and these charms gathered a circle which the exercise of

mental accomplishments retained; and thus all within their influence

derived the advantage which association with high gifts and large

attainments necessarily impart, and the _home_ was made gladsome by

those charms which are attractive to their like, and compensating to

their admirers.

The attainment of the science of music, and the display of that science

at home, meliorated the manners of the inmates, and invited to

association those whose taste was elevated, and whose talents were of a

kind to sustain and appreciate high cultivation; and beyond the parlor

these extended even to the nursery, or rather the nursery, by their

exercise, was transferred to the parlor. That is what The Belle of the

Opera understood by making _all_ her accomplishments subservient to her

duties as wife and mother. The mind of the child, by this constant

intercourse with the gifted and the improved, became expanded, received

character from the atmosphere in which it was placed, derived pleasure

from the development which it witnessed, and had its _habits_ formed to

those graces which, in others, are only extraordinary results of

extraordinary means, distinguishing the possessor only by one quality or

attainment, making _her_ The Belle of the Opera _alone_.

It is this association of the young with the beautiful and the

accomplished, which infuses into their character, and fixes there those

meliorating influences that constitute the charm of life, ruling,

modifying, illustrating their whole character, making it _whole_,

harmonious, consistent.

It must be understood that The Belle of the Opera was not a mere

pianist, not a mere strummer upon the harp, she understood music as a

_science_, and was therefore capable of conversing upon the subject as

well as playing upon an instrument. This power of conversation, resting

upon a deep knowledge of subjects, is the secret and charm of

association; and it is worthy of remark, that gossip, even among the

elevated, soon wearies; and what is more remarkable, it is wearisome and

disgusting to children compelled to listen, while conversations or

discussions upon subjects well understood by the interlocutors, are at

once interesting to general listeners, and attractive, gratifying and

instructive even to children. We appeal to general experience for this.

Eminently did The Belle of the Opera comprehend that truth, and practice

upon it; hence a musical entertainment in her house was not a mere

exercise of vocal powers, or a fearful attack upon the piano-keys. Music

was _discussed_ and then performed; and music, too, was not alone the

theme. The well-lined walls denoted a taste for kindred arts; and the

degrees of excellence of pictures, the distinguishing attributes of

masters, were so lucidly illustrated, that the junior members of the

family grew into connoisseurs without dreaming of study—grew directly

and certainly into such characters without forethought, as a blade of

corn, in all its greenness, is tending in the warmth of the sun, and the

favor of the soil, to produce a golden harvest. But the discipline of

mind necessary to acquire the advancement which The Belle of the Opera

attained, gave to her habits of care with regard to the education of her

children; and the superficial study which makes amateurs in any branch,

was unknown in her family. Various degrees of perfection were

observable, and in different branches of pursuits and studies there was

a superiority among them, according to gifts; but compared with other

families, these children evinced pre-eminence in almost every thing they

undertook.

But it was as a _wife_ that The Belle of the Opera most distinguished

herself; we mean the special, particular duties of a woman to her

husband—all the other qualifications to which we have referred, were of

a kind to make her desirable as a wife—but in constant affection,

manifested in various ways in those delicate arts, appreciable but

inimitable by man, with which a beautiful and an accomplished woman

makes attractive her home, preserves it at once from the restraints of

affected knowledge, which is always _chary_ of near display, because

fearful of detection, and from that ostentatious exhibition of

attainments which wearies and disgusts by obtrusiveness. In all these,

and the graces of intimate and reciprocal affection, she made her

husband proud of his home, happy in his companion, and gratified at her

superiority in those things which belong more especially to her sex and

made her beauty beautiful.

There was a cloud thrown suddenly across the brilliant prospects of the

husband, a threatening of utter insolvency; the evil seemed inevitable.

Who should tell The Belle of the Opera that the means of gratifying her

highly cultivated taste, and displaying her admirable accomplishments

were about to cease?

The husband had all faith in the _affections_ of his wife; he

appreciated the excellence of her character, for he was worthy of her.

But it was a terrible blow to pride—to womanly pride—the pride of

condition, which had never been straightened; it must be a terrible blow

to her who knew how to use and how to give, but had never been called

upon to suffer or acquire. He carried to her the fearful news of the

anticipated disaster; he did not annoy her by the prelude of weeks of

abstraction and painful melancholy, but with the first consciousness of

danger he announced to her his fears, and awaited the consequences of

the shock.

“And what, my dear husband, will become of us all—of you, of me, and of

the children?”

“That is the misery of my situation. It is not only the loss of the

property I received with you, and that which I had acquired, but it is

the difficulty of pursuing any business without some of the means which

I thought so safe. I know not now how to sustain my family even in the

humble state which we must assume until I can again make a business. And

you, with all your charms, with all your attainments, and all your power

to enjoy, and means of affording pleasure—what a blow—what a fall!”

“And while you enumerate my attainments, do you forget that they are

like yours, marketable; have you forgotten what that education cost?

Will not others pay _me_ as much for instruction as I have paid for my

education? And will not the task of imparting be a pleasure rather than

a pain, because it will be the exercise of those talents, and the uses

of those attainments, whose employment has been the delight of our home,

the pride of our social relations, and the solace of my solitary hours.

Be assured, my dear husband, that with the exception of _giving_, most

of the pleasures of wealth may be had in poverty—and the substitute for

the pleasure of giving must be found in that of earning.”

The apprehended evil was never realized. The losses, though

considerable, did not reach an amount that rendered necessary any

diminution of style in the family.

“I think the alarm has not been uninstructive,” said The Belle of the

Opera; “either that, or the approach of age,” (there was nothing in the

lustre of her eye, or the brilliancy of her complexion that denoted the

proximity of years—and she knew it when she said so—women seldom speak

lightly of such _foes_ when they are within hearing distance,) “either

that or the approach of age has taught me to relish less many of the

amusements which our means have allowed and with which my taste was

gratified.”

“A natural gratification of so cultivated a taste,” said her husband,

“could be nothing but correct; and it is only when others _are_

acquired, that we need feel regret at indulging such as you have

possessed. We, who approach the midsummer of life, find fewer flowers in

our pathway than spring presented, but let us not complain of those who

gather the vernal sweets; rather let us rejoice that we take with us the

freshness of appetites that delights in whatever the path of duty

supplies, and by discipline are made to enjoy those latent sweets that

escape the observation of the uncultivated.”

We repeat our remarks, that to judge of a woman we must know her whole

character. We must not suppose because a lady is at the opera, that she

has no pleasure in other positions, or that a cultivated taste for music

is inconsistent with the general cultivation of her talents. It is wrong

to imagine that a beautiful woman is necessarily vain, or that her

beauty is inconsistent with the discharge of all the high and holy

duties that belong to her sex; the wife, the daughter, the mother, and

the friend.

Excessive amusement, we know, vitiates the mind; and a woman, whose

whole pride is to be The Belle of the Opera, has evidently no mission

for domestic usefulness. But the domestic circle is blessed, and woman’s

office honored, when an improved taste and generally cultivated talent,

the charms of person and elegance of manners are made subservient to,

and promotive of, the full discharge of the duties that belong to woman

in her exalted sphere.

And, we may add, that religion itself is made more lovely, more

operative, when the offices of humanity which it suggests, and the

services of devotion by which it is manifested, are discharged by one

who brings to the altar talent, beauty, acquirements, with a sense of

their unworthiness, and takes thence a spirit of piety and devotion that

throws a charm about all the graces that have been so attractive to the

world.

We would have our Magazine commend to our fair readers for approval and

acquisition, all the gifts and graces which belonged to The Belle of the

Opera; we would not have them seek that title. _She_ did not; as

unconscious of the admiration of the audience, as the performers were of

her individual presence; she came to enjoy the music, not to acquire

fame. We would have those for whom we write bear in mind that the

character of woman is incomplete, whatever talents or acquisition she

may boast, if she has not the charm that attracts to and delights its

domestic circle. And she should know that the basis of all those charms

which give permanent beneficial influence, is _religion_; a fixed

principle of doing right, from right motives. Upon _that_ basis let the

lovely fabric be erected; beauty, music, literature, science, social

enjoyment, all become and all ornament the structure. And woman’s

character with these is complete, if she add the discharge of the duties

of a friend—a wife—a mother. She who is the charm of social life must

be the benignant spirit of home—the source and centre of domestic

affection.

* * * * *

WHAT IS BEAUTIFUL?

BY AUGUSTA.

Flowers are beautiful—every hue

Colors their petals, and pearly dew,

The nectar the fairies love to sup,

Sparkles brightly in each tiny cup,

While the dark leaves of the ivy shine,

And its clustering tendrils closely twine

Round the old oak, and the sapling young,

And when it has lightly round them clung,

It laughs, and shouts, and it calls aloud,

Have I not now a right to be proud?

I’ve mastered the lordly forest-tree,

I’m King of the woods, come see, come see.

Night’s gems are beauteous, right rare are they,

Gloriously bright is each gentle ray,

Flashing and twinkling up so high,

Like diamonds set in the deep blue sky;

Who is there but loves night’s gentle queen,

Gorgeously robed in her silver sheen?

Shedding her pale, pure brightness round,

O’er hill and valley, and tree and ground;

Gilding the waters as on they glide

In their conscious beauty, joy and pride;

Or sending a quiet ray to rove,

And wake the shade of the deep-green grove.

The Sun is beautiful—“God of day,”

He sends o’er the earth a lordly ray,

He shames the sweet pensive Orb of night

By his radiant beams so fiercely bright.

Wind is beautiful—not to the eye—

You cannot see it—but hear it sigh

Lowly and sweet in a gentle breeze,

Rustling the tops of the lofty trees,

Sending the yellow leaves to the ground,

Playfully whirling them round and round,

Filling the sails with their fill of air,

Then dancing off on some freak more rare;

Scat’ring the snow and the blinding hail,

Shrieking aloud in the wintry gale,

Rudely driving the pattering rain

’Gainst the lonely cottage’s humble pane,

Uprooting the aged forest-tree,

Then whistling loud right merrily;

Owning no king save a _mighty One_!

Following _His_ dictates, and _His_ alone.

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