And that year, also, went to join the years of the Yesterdays.
It is as though Life, bringing to man every twelve months a new year,
bids him try again. Always, it is necessary for man to try again.
Indeed Life itself is nothing less than this: a continual trying
again.
In the world laboratory, mankind is conducting a series of elaborate
experiments--always on the verge of the great discovery but never
quite making it--always thinking that the secret is about to be
revealed but never quite uncovering it--always failing in his
experiments but always finding in the process something that leads
him, with hope renewed, to try again.
The man had failed.
Sadly, sternly, with the passing of the year, he admitted to himself
that he had failed. Humiliated and ashamed, with the coming of the new
year, he admitted that he must begin again. Bitterly he called himself
a fool. And perhaps he was--more or less. Most men are a little
foolish. The man who has never been forced to swallow his own folly
has missed a bitter but wholesome tonic that, more than likely, he
needs. This man was not the kind of a man who would blame any one but
himself for his failure. If he had been that particular kind of a fool
his failure would have been of little value either to him or to any
one. Neither would there be, for me, a story.
I do not know the particulars of this man's failure--neither the what,
the why, nor the how. I know only that he failed--that it was
necessary for him to fail. Nor is this a story of such particulars for
they are of little importance. A man can fail in anything. Some, even,
seem to fail in everything. This, therefore, is my story: that as
Failure enters into the life of every man it came into the life of
this man. In some guise or other Failure seems to be a necessity. It
is one of the Thirteen Truly Great Things of Life. But the man did
not, at that time, understand that his failure was a necessity.
_That_ understanding came to him only with Success.
You may say that this man was too young to accomplish a real Failure.
But you need not bother about that, either. One is never too young to
experience Failure. And Failure, to the one who fails, is always, at
the time, very real.
So this man saw the castles that he had toiled so hard to build come
tumbling down about him. So he was awakened from his bright dreams to
find that they were only dreams. So he came to see his work as
idleness and folly. Sorrowfully he looked at the ruin of his building.
Hopelessly he recalled his dreams. Despairingly he looked upon his
fruitless labor. With his fine manhood's strength dead within him, he
bitterly felt himself to be but a weakling; fit only to be pushed
aside by the stronger, better, men among whom he went, now, with
lifeless step and downcast face. There was left in his heart no
courage and no hope. He saw himself a most miserable coward, and,
ashamed and disgraced in his own sight, he shrank from the eyes of his
fellows and withdrew into himself to hide.
And the only thing that saved the man was this: he did not pity
himself. Self-pity is debilitating. It is the dry rot that weakens the
life lines. It is the rust that eats the anchor chains. At the last
analysis, a man probably knows less about himself than he knows about
others. The only difference is that what he knows about others is
sometimes right while that which he thinks he knows about himself is
nearly always wrong. Salvation is in pitying someone else. If one must
have pity he should accept it from strangers only. The pity of
strangers is harmless to the object of it and very gratifying--to the
strangers. Self-accusation, self-censure, self-condemnation: these are
the antidotes for the poison that sometimes enters the soul through
Failure. But these antidotes must be administered with care.
Self-accusation has, usually, a very low percentage of cause.
Self-censure, undiluted, is dangerous to self-respect. And
self-condemnation is rarely to be had pure. When one brings himself to
trial before himself his chance for justice is small--the judge is
nearly always prejudiced, the jury packed, and the evidence
incomplete.
The man, when he had withdrawn into himself, saw the world moving on
its way without him as though his failure mattered, to it, not at all.
He was forced to realize that the work of the world could be done
without him. He was compelled to see that the sum of human happiness
and human woe would be neither less nor more because of him. The world
did not really need his success--he needed it. The world did not
suffer from his failure--he suffered. He did not understand, then,
that no man is in line for success until he understands how little
either his success or his failure matters to the world. He did not
know, then, how often a good strong failure is the corner stone of a
well builded life.
A child is not crippled for life because it falls when it is learning
to walk; neither has a man come to the end of his upward climb because
he "stubs his toe." The man knew this later but just then he was too
sore at heart to think of even trying to get up again. All those first
months of that new year he did nothing but the labor that was
necessary for him to do in order to live. And, in that which he did,
he had no heart but toiled as a dumb beast toils in obedience to its
master. The joy of work which is the reward of labor was gone.
So the spring came. The air grew warm and balmy. The grass on the
lawns and in the parks began to look soft and inviting to feet that
were weary with the feel of icy pavements. The naked trees were being
clothed in spring raiment, fresh and green. The very faces of the
people seemed to glow with a new warmth as though a more generous life
was stirring in their veins. As the sun gathered strength, and the
coldness and bleakness of winter retreated farther and farther before
the advance of summer, the manner and dress of the crowds upon the
streets marked the change as truly as the habits of the birds and
flowers, until, at last, here and there, straw hats appeared and
suddenly, as bluebirds come, barefooted boys were playing marbles in
the alleys and fishing tackle appeared in the windows of the stores.
All his life the man had been an ardent fisherman. And so, when his
eyes were attracted that noon, as he was passing one of those windows
filled with rods and reels and lines and hooks and nets and all things
dear to the angler's heart, he paused. His somber face brightened. His
form, that was already stooped a little, straightened. His listless
eyes, for a moment, shone with their old time fire. Then he went on to
his work.
But, less than ever, that afternoon, was the man's heart in his labor.
While his hands mechanically performed their appointed tasks and his
brain as mechanically did its part, the man himself was not there. He
had gone far, far, away into his Yesterdays. Once again, in his
Yesterdays, the man went fishing.
The boy was a very small boy when first he went fishing. And he fished
in the brook that ran through the valley below the little girl's
house. His hook was only a pin, bent by his own fingers; his line, a
bit of string or thread borrowed from mother's work basket; and his
rod, a slender branch of willow or a green shoot from one of the trees
in the orchard, or, it might be, a stalk of the tall pigweed that grew
down behind the barn; and for bait, those humble friends of boyhood,
the angle worms. How the boy shouted and danced with glee when he
found a big one; even though he did shudder a little as he picked it
up, squirming and wiggling, to drop it into the old baking powder can
he called his bait box! And how the little girl shrieked with fear and
admiration! Very proud was the boy that he had courage to handle the
crawling things--though many of them did escape into their tiny holes
before he could bring himself quite to the point of catching them and
pulling them out. "Only girls are afraid of worms and toads and bugs.
Boys can bait their own hooks." Manfully, too, did he hide his
thoughts when conscience pricked him, even as he the worm. "Do worms
have feelin's?" He wondered. "Does it hurt?" Half frightened, he had
laughed, one day, when the little girl asked: "What if some wicked
giant should catch you and stick you on a great hook and swing you
through the air, kicking and squirming, and drop you into the water
where it's deep, and leave you there till some great fish comes along
to swallow you like the man in the Bible that mother reads about?"
But the boy in his Yesterdays carried home no fish from that little
brook; though he spent many hours in the hot summer sun watching
eagerly for a bite. He knew there must be fish there--great big
fellows--there were such lovely places for them under the grassy
banks--if only they would come out--but they never did. Not until he
was older did the boy understand the real reason of this failure. The
water was not deep enough. He learned, in time, that big fish are not
found in shallow streams.
I do not know, but perhaps, the man, even as the boy, was fishing in a
too shallow stream.
As he grew older, the boy wandered farther down the creek. A "sure
'nough" fishhook took the place of the bent pin and a real "boughten"
line, with a sinker, was tied to the hook though he still used the
slender willow rods. And, now, he sometimes brought home a fish or two
from the deeper water down in the pasture lot; and no success in after
life would ever bring to the man the same thrill of delight that was
felt by the boy when he landed a tiny "chub" or "shiner." No Roman
general, returning in triumph from the wars with captives chained to
his chariot, ever moved with a prouder spirit than he, when he went
home to mother with his little string of captured fishes.
Then there came a day that was the proudest in his life--the day when
he was given a larger hook, a longer line, a cane pole, and permission
to go to the mill pond. No more fishing for him in the brook now! He
had outgrown all that. How small the little stream seemed, now, as he
crossed it on his way down the road! Could it be possible, he asked
himself, that he was ever content to fish there, and with a bent pin,
at that? And he felt carefully in his pocket to see if those extra
hooks were safe; and took another peep at the big worms in his bait
box--an old tomato can this time. There would be no twinge of
conscience when he baited his hook that day. And proudly he tried to
take longer steps in the dusty road; almost breaking into a run as he
neared the turn where he knew that he would see the pond.
Often, the boy wondered if there could be anywhere in all the world
such another body of water as that old mill pond. Often, he wondered
how deep it was down by the dam in the shadow of the giant elms that
half hid the mill. Many times, he questioned: "Where did all the water
come from anyway?" Surely it could not _all_ come from the tiny
stream that flowed down the valley below the little girl's house! Why,
he could wade in that and there were boats on this!
Once again, the man, in his Yesterdays, stood at that turn in the
road; under his bare, boyish, feet the hot, hot, dust; over his head
the blue, blue, sky; before him the beautiful water that mirrored back
the trees, the clouds, and the buildings. Once again, he sat in the
shadow of the old covered bridge, fish pole in hand, and, with boyish
delight and pride, hailed each addition to the string of catfish and
suckers that swam near by, safely anchored to the bank. He could hear
the drowsy hum of the mill across the pond and the merry shout of the
miller hailing some passer-by. And, now and then, would come, the
clatter of horses' hoofs and the rumble of a farmer's wagon on the
planks above his head and he would idly watch the ever widening
circles in the water as some bit of dirt, jarred from the beams above,
marred the glassy surface. The swallows were wheeling here and there
in swift, graceful motions; one moment lightly skimming the surface of
the pond and the next, high in air above the trees and buildings. A
water snake came gliding toward an old log close by. A turtle was
floating lazily in the sun. And a kingfisher startled him with its
harsh, discordant, rattle as it passed in rapid flight toward the
upper end of the pond where the tall cat-tails were nodding in the
sunlight and the drooping willows fringed the bank with green.
The shadows of the giant elms near the dam grew longer and longer. A
workman left the mill and started across the pasture toward his home.
A farmer stopped on his way from the field to water his team. The
frogs began to call shrilly from the reeds and rushes. The swallows,
twittering, sought their nests beneath the bridge. It was time that
the boy was going home.
Slowly, reluctantly, the little fisherman drew his line from the water
and wrapped it carefully round the pole. Then, picking up his string
of fish, he inspected them thoughtfully--admiring the largest and
wishing that the others were like him--and, casting one last glance at
the water, the trees, the mill, started down the road toward home.
He must hurry now. It was later than he thought. Mother would be
watching and waiting supper for him. How pleased she would be to see
his fish. He wished that the string were longer. How quickly the night
was coming on. It was almost dark. And then, as the boy went down into
the deepening dusk of the valley, he saw, on the other side, the light
in the windows. He was almost home.
Tired little fisherman. Wearily he crossed the creek and made his way
up the gentle slope toward the lights that gleamed so brightly against
the dark mass of the orchard hill, while high above, the first stars
of the evening were coming out. And then, as in the gloaming he
reached at last the gate where the little girl lived, he found her
waiting--watching anxiously--eager to greet him with sweet solicitude.
"Did you catch anything?"
Proudly the boy exhibited his catch--wishing again in his heart that
the string were longer. Sadly, he told how the biggest fish of all had
dropped from his hook just when he had it almost landed. And
sometimes--the man remembered--sometimes the boy was forced to answer
that he had caught nothing at all. But always, then, would he bravely
declare that he would have better luck next time.
Tired little fisherman--going home with his catch in the evening!
Always--disappointed little fisherman--wishing that his string were
longer! Always-brave-to-try-again little fisherman--when his day was a
day of failure!
The man came back from his Yesterdays, that afternoon, to wonder: when
the shadows of his life grew longer and longer--when his sun was
slowly setting--when he reluctantly withdrew, at last, from the busy
haunts of men--when he went down the road toward home, as it grew
darker and darker until he could not see the way, would there be a
light in the window for him? Would he know that someone was waiting
and watching? And would he wish that his string of fish were longer?
However great his catch, would he not wish that the string were
longer? And might it not be, too, that always in life the largest fish
would be the one that he had almost landed?
And it was so that the old fire came again into the man's eyes to
stay. He stood once more erect before men. Again his countenance was
lighted with courage and with hope. With the brave words of the little
fisherman who had caught nothing, the man, once again, faced the world
to work out his dreams.
* * * * *
And the woman who knew herself to be a woman was haunted by the
thought of Failure.
After Death had come with such suddenness into her life, she had gone
back to her work, and, in spite of the changes that Death had wrought,
the days had gone much as the days before. But, because of the new
conditions and the added responsibilities, she gave herself, now,
somewhat more fully to that work than she had ever done before. She
left for herself less time for the dreams of her womanhood--less time
for waiting beside that old, old, door beyond which lay the life that
she desired with all the strength of her woman heart.
And that world in which she labored--that life to which she now gave
herself more and more--rewarded her more and more abundantly. Because
she was strong in body with skillful hands and quick brain; because
she was superior in these things to many who labored beside her; she
received a larger reward than they. For the richness, the fullness, of
her womanhood, she received nothing. From love, the only thing that
can make that which a woman receives fully acceptable to her, she
received nothing.
There were many who, now, congratulated the woman upon what they
called her success. And some, who knew the measure of the reward she
received from the world that set a price upon the things of her
womanhood, envied her; wishing themselves as fortunate as she. She was
even pointed out and spoken of triumphantly, by certain modern,
down-to-date, ones, as an example of the successful woman of the age.
Her success--as it was called--was cited as a triumphant argument for
the right of women to sell their womanhood for a price: to put their
strength of mind and flesh and blood, their physical and intellectual
vigor, their vitality and life, upon a market that cannot recognize
their womanhood; even though by so doing they rob the race of the only
contribution they can make that will add to its perfection.
Really, if the customs and necessities of this age of
"down-to-date-ism" are to take the world's mothers, then it would seem
that this age of "down-to-date-ism" should find, for the perpetuation
and perfection of the race, a substitute for women. The age should
evolve a better way, a more modern method, than the old-fashioned way
that has been in vogue so long. For, just as surely as the laws of
life are beyond our power to repeal, so surely will the operation of
the laws of life not change to accommodate our newest thinking and the
race, by spending its best woman strength in work that cannot
recognize womanhood, will bequeath to the ages to come an ever
lowering standard of human life.
The woman felt this--she felt that she could most truly serve the race
by being true to the dreams of her womanhood. She felt that the work
she was doing was not her real work but a makeshift to be undertaken
under protest and discarded without regret when her opportunity to
enter upon the real work of her life should present itself. But still,
even while feeling this, gradually there had come to be, for her, an
amount of satisfaction in knowing that she was succeeding in that
which she had set her hand to do. In the increasing reward she
received, in the advanced position she occupied, in the deference that
was shown her, in the authority that was given her, in the larger
interests that were intrusted to her, and even in the attitude of
those who held her to be a convincing example of the newest womanhood,
there was coming to be a kind of satisfaction.
Then came that day when the woman expressed a little of this
satisfaction to the man who had always understood and who had been
always so kind. In this, too, the woman felt that he understood.
The man had not sought to take advantage of the intimacy she had
granted him in those trying days when Death had come into her life. He
had never failed in being kind and considerate in the thousand little
things of the work that brought them together and that gave her
opportunity to learn his goodness and the genuine worth of his
manhood. Nor had he failed to make her understand that still he hoped
for the time when she would go with him into the life beyond the old,
old, door. But that day, when she made known to him, a little, her
growing satisfaction in that which the world called her success, she
saw that he was hurt. For the first time he seemed to be troubled and
afraid for her.
Very gravely lie looked down into her eyes. Very gravely he
congratulated her. And then, quietly and convincingly, with words of
authority, he pointed out to her the possible heights she might
reach--would reach--if she continued. He told her of the place that
she, if she chose, might gain. He spoke of the reward that would be
hers. And, as he talked to her of these things, he saw the light of
interest and anticipation kindling in her eyes. Sadly he saw it. Then,
pausing--hesitating--he asked her slowly: "Do you really think that it
is, after all, worth while? For _you_, I mean, do you think that
it would be a satisfying success?" He did not wish to interfere with
her career, he said--and smiled a little at the word. He would even
help her if--if--she was sure that such a career would bring her the
real happiness he so much wanted her to have.
And the woman, as the man looked into her eyes and as she saw the
trouble in his thoughtful face and listened to his gravely spoken
words, felt ashamed. Remembering, again, the dreams of her womanhood,
she was ashamed. From that day, the woman was haunted by the thought
of Failure.
Why, she asked herself, why could she not open the door of her heart
to this man who had been so good to her--so true to her and to
himself? If he had taken advantage in any way, if he had sought to use
his power, she would not have cared so much. But because she knew him
so well; because she had seen his splendid character, his fine
manhood, his kindness of heart, and his strength; because of the
dreams of her womanhood; she had tried to open the door and bid him
take possession of her heart that was as an empty room furnished and
ready. But she could not. She seemed to have lost the key.
Why--why--could she not give this man what he asked? Why could she not
go with him into the life of her dreams? What was it that held her
back? What was it that held shut the door of her womanhood against
him? Could it be that, after all, she was fit only for the career upon
which she was already entered? Could it be that she was not worthy to
enter into the life her womanhood craved--the life for which she had
longed with such passionate longing--the life she had desired with
such holy desire? Could it be that she was unworthy of her womanhood?
Bitterly this woman, who knew herself to be a woman, who had dreamed
the dreams of womanhood, and who was pointed out as a successful
woman--bitterly she felt that she had failed.
She knew that her failure could not be because she had squandered the
wealth of her womanhood. Very carefully had she kept the treasures of
her womanhood for the coming of that one for whom she waited--knowing
not who he was but only that she would know him when he came. Might it
be that he _had_ come and she did not know him? Might it be that
the heart of her womanhood did not know? If this was so then, indeed,
Life itself is but an accident and must trust to blind chance the
fulfillment of its most sacred mission--the perpetuation and
perfection of itself.
That the Creator should give laws for the right mating of all his
creatures except man--leaving men and women, alone, with no guide to
lead them aright in this relationship that is most vital to the
species--is unthinkable. Deeply implanted in the hearts of men and
women there is, also, an instinct; an instinct that is superior to the
dictates of the social, financial, or ecclesiastical will. And it is
this natural instinct of mate selection that should govern the
marriages of human kind as truly as it marries the birds of the fields
and the wild things that mate in the forests.
The woman knew, instinctively, that she should not give herself to
this man. She felt in her heart that to do so would make her kin to
her sisters in the unnamable profession. The church would sanction,
the state would legalize, and society would accept such a union--does
accept such unions--but only the divine laws of Life, given for the
protection of Life, can ever make a man and a woman husband and wife.
The laws that govern the right mating of human kind are not enacted by
organizations either social, political, or religious, but are written
in the hearts of those who would, in mating, fulfill the purpose of
Life. These laws may be broken by man but they cannot by him be
repealed; and the penalty that is imposed for their violation is very
evident to all who have eyes to see and who observe with
understanding.
The woman knew, also, that, in respect and honor and gratitude to this
man, she dared not do this thing against which the instinct of her
heart protested. But still she asked herself: "Why? Why was the door
shut against him? Why was it not in her power to do that which she so
longed to do?"
And still, the thought of Failure haunted her.
And so it was, that, in asking, "why"--in seeking the reason of her
failure, the woman was led back even to the years of her childhood.
Back into her Yesterdays she went in search of the key that kept fast
locked the door of her heart against the man whom she would have so
gladly admitted. And, all the way back, as she retraced the steps of
her years, she looked for one who might have the key. But she found no
one. And in her Yesterdays she found only a boy who had entered her
heart when it was the heart of a little girl.
That the boy of her Yesterdays lived still in the heart of the woman,
she knew. But surely--surely--the boy was not strong enough to hold
her woman heart against the man who sought admittance. The boy could
not hold the door against the man and against the woman herself. Those
vows, made so solemnly under the cherry tree, were but childish vows.
It was but a play wedding, after all. And the kiss that had sealed the
vows--the kiss that was so different from other kisses--it was but a
childish kiss ... In the long years that had come between that boy and
girl the vows and the kiss had become but memories--even as the games
they played--even as her keeping house and her family of dolls. That
child wedding belonged only to the Yesterdays.
The woman was haunted by the thought of Failure.