MY EMANCIPATION.
The many, long, dreary days of suspense that followed awaiting a reply
from Archbishop Christie were surely days of indescribable penance. No
one for a confident but myself, and my thoughts so pent up within me
that I had to contrive some means of relief. My heart was crushed and
broken. The suppression of my feelings and the burning sensation of the
physical pain I had to endure in the awful conflict of soul and body
were almost unbearable. I took advantage of the only remedy within this
Roman "house of correction." I would go to the garret, which was the
nurses' dormitory, and holding my garb up so that I could move freely, I
would pace the floor, hundreds of times, exhausting, so to speak, the
surplus energy caused by the unrighteous indignation. And, at the same
time, praying in my simple way to the saints for light as to the next
step to take. During the late hours of the sleepless nights, with the
heavy burden of my troubles on my mind, I would walk the floor of my
little room (about ten feet square) like some caged animal pacing his
den in quest of liberty.
At the holiday season I wrote a short letter to Archbishop Christie,
wishing him the greetings of the season, to which I received the
following reply:
Portland, Oregon, January 2, 1912.
Dear Sister:
I thank you sincerely for your kind Xmas remembrance.
My Xmas was an exceedingly busy one. But it brought me great
consolation. The large number of men and women who received
holy communion was most edifying. Asking God to grant you a
blessed New Year, I am,
Sincerely in Xto,
X A. CHRISTIE.
It had been over four months since I had written my letters for redress
to him, and he never once even acknowledged receipt of them, and in this
letter, as you can see, he never once mentioned anything about them.
In my depressing perplexities, I had begun to think that there was no
such thing as redress in the order, and that the clause in my book of
rule, "the right to apply to high ecclesiastical authority," was a blind
and a farce, as was the teaching of "fatherly" kindness.
As my eyes opened I realized that I might as well try to tear down the
mighty stone walls of the Rocky Mountains, which I could behold daily,
as to move the Roman Catholic "religious" machine to interest itself in
righting wrongs for a sister in the community. There was nothing for me
to do but live on and take whatever wrongs the system was pleased to
mete out to me to the end of my days, or to play the hypocrite for a few
years, waiting for something better, if those in authority saw fit to
give me a change.
I should have had the same privilege of receiving and sending mail in
Canada as other American citizens are accorded, but not so. The system,
as it always does, demanded and delegated to itself the right to
scrutinize all mail sent or received by its subjects. So, in order that
I might send and receive letters dealing with subjects other than the
Roman Catholic religion and convent, I had to gain the confidence of a
"secular" and receive my mail outside the convent.
I had written to a friend in Spokane, Washington, Mrs. A. J. Kearney,
who was a graduated nurse from St. Vincent's Hospital, telling her of my
trouble and that I was contemplating leaving the order, as I was at last
satisfied in my own mind that this was the only step to take. I received
an encouraging reply and wrote again, planning further.
In the meantime, I continued my novenas to the Blessed Virgin Mary, St.
Anthony and St. Joseph, in heart-breaking sorrow and tears--praying for
enlightenment, as I had been doing for weeks and months. In all
earnestness and sincerity I was bowing, scraping, kneeling, pleading to
the images, the statues and the fourteen stations of the cross.
At last, after so long a time, it came to me as if a thunderbolt had
come from Heaven, that these statues and images and relics could do me
no good. They were all clay and material. What I needed was something
divine, but after living what I had lived, I was now ready to believe in
nothing. I thought that if God was a just God, He could not and would
not permit such oppression and cruelties and injustices to be
perpetrated in the name of Christian religion and in His name. I decided
that if there was a God who was the Creator of heaven and earth and all
things therein, He would surely hear me if I would pour out my heart to
Him. So I fell upon my knees and prayed as I had never prayed
before--not to St. Anthony, not to St. Joseph, not to St. Vincent de
Paul, no, not even to the Blessed Virgin Mary or any other saint, but to
God Almighty, asking Him to show me the light and right; that "if what I
am living is right, give me strength and courage to live it and endure
it to the end, and I will try to believe it. But, O, God! if it is not
right, show me the right that I may do Thy will; be Thou my helper now
and forever," and I left my future in His hands, continuing to ask His
help and guidance each day.
I had been suffering for several months from eye trouble, caused by the
excessive cold temperature, it being such a decided change from what I
had been accustomed to for so many years. I was being treated by the
government physician, but I used the trouble as a pretext to get
permission from Mother Nazareth, who was in Portland, to go to Spokane
to obtain the services of a specialist. The real reason for which I
wished to go to Spokane was to see Mrs. Kearney and make the final
arrangements for my leaving the community.
About March 10, 1912, I went to Spokane. During my three weeks there I
stopped at the Sacred Heart Hospital. Mrs. Kearney was friendly to the
sisters of the hospital, so I had her accompany me to the office of Dr.
Hopkins, who was treating me. In that manner, Mrs. Kearney and I had
ample time to talk and perfect the plans for my emancipation from the
everlasting demands of Rome.
When the time came, I could not reconcile myself fully to the thought of
leaving. My childhood and novitiate teaching of the terrible sins of the
outside world would come to my mind, and I would then think that I could
never leave the convent. The final test came two days before I left
Spokane for my return trip to Cranbrook. I concluded that I could not
get worse treatment in the world than I had received in the community;
that I would not have to work any harder in the world than I had for
nearly thirty-one years for the Roman Catholic system; that I would not
have to live a more abasing or humiliating life in the world than I had
been subjected to, by serving the meanest despotism of government; and I
realized that death was preferable and a thousand times more honorable
than to remain living in this sort of injustice. I loved the name
"Sister of Charity," but I knew I could no longer be a real Sister of
Charity under the cruel, oppressive, authoritative guidance I had
endured for so many years. I knew that I could be a better Sister of
Charity in the world than I could under the dictation of the Pope or his
representatives.
On April 2d, I returned to Cranbrook to get my few belongings and to
spend a few days with my sister before making the change. My heart was
so filled with what I had planned, that I could not refrain from telling
her almost as soon as I arrived from Spokane. When I told her of my
decision to leave the order, neither of us could restrain our feelings
and it was a day of tears and sorrow. We could neither eat nor talk. So
in the evening I told her that I had intended to spend several days with
her before going, but as it would do neither of us any particular good,
only causing grief, sorrow, and in the end probably nervous prostration,
I had decided to leave on the next train, which was on the following
afternoon.
The next morning I packed my trunk, then called my sister to my room and
asked her to read two letters which I had written while in Spokane,
excepting for the date, one to Archbishop Christie and one to Mother
Nazareth. I told her that the authorities and sisters of the order would
come to her with all kinds of reports in regard to my leaving, and that
I wanted her to read the letters so she would know for herself my
reasons for leaving. She read them and then said, "You will regret
this." I simply replied, "I cannot have more regrets than I have here."
I had my trunk taken to the railroad station, and after lunch, in
company of my sister, I went to the post office where I mailed the two
letters, sending them by registered mail. Then we went to the station
and in a very few minutes the train arrived that was to take me from a
darkness to light and liberty that I had no conception of at that time.
At 2:15 I boarded the train and left my poor, deluded sister standing
there alone, until the train started, and then watched her walk slowly
toward the hospital, until I was carried from her view.
During this last visit to Cranbrook, my sister was in authority at the
hospital, the sister superior, Sister Mary Vincent, being away on
retreat. This I did not know until I arrived from Spokane, but it would
have been just the same if the superior would have been there, as I had
made up my mind to leave.
My last letter written to Archbishop Christie, as Sister Lucretia, was
as follows:
Cranbrook, B. C.
St. Eugene Hospital, April 3, 1912.
Most Reverend A. Christie, D.D.,
Portland, Oregon.
Very Dear Bishop:
I have now had my situation before my eyes and present to my
mind the past eight months. I cannot reconcile myself to live
this punishment existence out, as I know others of my
companions are doing in exiled corners of this earth, like
five-year-old children who dare to speak when they should have
been only seen. Really, this sort of treatment is equal to
locking a grown woman advanced in years up in a closet as a
child for misbehavior. The only difference the parent would
tell the child what its punishment was for, while the woman in
my case is not to be given a reason, except one false report by
my higher superior, which she heard and held against me years
before she knew me or was in authority, to knock me as she did
shortly after she was in office.
The mission I was sent to was alright as far as mission goes,
but I will never believe that it was alright to me, under the
circumstances. If this had to be done, the blow might just as
well have been applied with a little less cruelty. Of all the
houses our very prosperous order owns and controls, I had to go
at my years of life to this place enclosed by snowy mountains,
the weather temperature being twenty to forty degrees below
zero about one-half the year. Having always lived in a warm
climate and not feeling well, I was unable to resist the cold.
It caused me systemic disturbance and the consequence was eye
trouble. The government doctor of the place said the cold did
it.
I had to miss Sunday mass from the first of November to the
first Sunday in March. I had to sit with a blanket around me
near a radiator most of the winter and a comforter over the
window to keep the cold out. Splendid remedy to get one over
wretched loneliness and sorrow--to make one feel religious and
grateful for having worked and sacrificed ones self nearly to
the end of ones life and then hear from those over you, "now
you can work if you want to," and a sister stays where she is
sent, even if she dies, and more bold talk of that kind.
I am not tired of being a Sister of Charity, but I am more than
tired living it under the conditions that we have to live it. I
will never be anything else at heart than a Sister of Charity;
I was that from the age of fifteen, and I will be that to my
dying day. It takes nothing short of a trained hypocrite to get
along in here. I do not think myself so good or of such
excellent worth--I lay no claim above being an ordinary person,
but if I do not have the spirit of a good religious and Sister
of Charity, I am sure not so many of those I have lived with
have it, and I would have to be punished to death, and then I
could not in my conscience copy the leading or guiding spirits
I lived with knowing all I do from daily practical life and
experience for years. If what was done to me in this change is
the good spirit, then I have not the least idea what good or
evil spirits mean. One thing I know it did for me; I have a
dreadful horror of a repetition of anything of the kind and
want to remove myself from its possibility. I was not only
deprived of every right, but of the least share of interest in
any one thing in the community.
Now you know this is maddening and most cruel and
disheartening. This usage kills the body and all ones
personalities and fitness for anything. They have done to me
in action what others have been told boldly, in so many words,
when you are not wanted, get out of the way. After it is plain
to see one is about to the end of doing the very hardest work,
the meaning is, hurry up and die or get out of the order. It
has all it wants of you and is not going to need you or have
any further regard for you.
I have made up my mind to leave and do what I can to get a new
lease on a home of some sort, because this means neither home,
occupation, nor pastime to me.
I am asking the community two thousand dollars. That would be
for my clothing and towards getting myself situated for my
support. I cannot expect anyone to take me in on absolutely
nothing at my years. I am not able to work like a beginner, but
with that amount and with what I can do, I will arrange to get
along the best I can.
I have been the means through my economy and ingenuity, of much
more than that to the community, without the regular earnings
of my services. In Canada, I was told that our community is
paying twenty dollars a month to some sisters that left, and
have been doing that for years. My request does not come to as
much, considering.
I wish to get everything settled quietly. I dislike any
publicity about it whatever. As soon as I can get it I intend
to leave the country.
I have asked dispensation, not that I intend to break any of
God's commandments. I cannot tell you how much I am pained to
have to leave you. I have shed many a tear since I left St.
Vincent's, and before I could decide to write this letter. If I
am to be exiled from friends, that would be only additional
sorrow, etc. Or, even if I were stationed where you are and
had to feel the uneasiness of some punishment coming upon me
for speaking to my higher superiors, that would not add very
much to making things agreeable. I appreciate your very great
and fatherly kindness to me, and I will always remember you as
a very dear friend.
Begging a remembrance in your prayers,
Most sincerely,
SISTER LUCRETIA.
P. S.--I leave here this afternoon at 2 p.m. My address until
things are settled is 0707 Toledo St., Spokane, Wash.
My letter to Mother Nazareth was as follows:
St. Eugene Hospital,
Cranbrook, B. C., April 3, 1912.
Mother M. Nazareth,
Portland, Oregon.
Dear Mother:
I have decided to leave the community. Will you please see
about obtaining the dispensation of my vows. I have written to
His Grace Archbishop Christie.
If authority is all that is necessary to constitute right, I
think I can continue to save my soul better elsewhere, as that
was what I took these obligations upon myself for. I am not
tired of being a Sister of Charity, but I am more than tired of
living it the way we have to do. I did not know until last
summer that the spirit of a good religious and Sister of
Charity meant to be the victim of evil reports, and that
reports were for the satisfaction of the feelings of those in
authority. I lay no claim to high perfection, but I cannot see
virtue or religion in being taken advantage of as I was. I
have always tried to do my best, but at last I see plainly that
it is impossible to do enough or to sacrifice enough. The
extreme cold has caused me systemic disturbance and the result
is eye trouble. The doctor said it was the cold that did it.
Well, I do not want to refer to too much useless talk. I have
made arrangements with a friend of mine for a home. But as I
cannot expect anyone to take me in on absolutely nothing at my
years, not being able to work any more like I did twenty-five
years ago, I must have some little means, and I ask two
thousand dollars which would be for my clothing and towards my
support. With that amount and with what little I can do, I will
have to manage somehow.
I wish to have things settled quietly, if possible, as I do not
care to have publicity about this affair any more than the
community I am leaving. I must have some means to go out on or
I would not ask anything. As soon as I can get this little sum
requested, I will leave the country.
Begging a remembrance in your prayers, and those of the
community and wishing the community and every one of the
sisters God's blessing,
Very sincerely and respectfully,
SISTER LUCRETIA,
S. C. S. P.
P. S.--I leave here at two p.m. My address, until I get away
will be 0707 Toledo St., Spokane, Wash. If I can get the
business part settled as soon as possible, I can move on. This
same address will forward my dispensation whenever it can be
sent to same.
Humbly yours, Sr. L.