WHAT ONE GIRL CAN DO FOR ANOTHER
"No work will have as much happiness as it ought to have, or will be as
well done as it should be, until fellow-workers exchange experiences and
advice with one another."
Every girl can learn something about her work from others in the same
occupation. To learn from a friendly fellow-worker is pleasant and easy
compared with the difficulty that we find in learning from people who are
not specially interested in showing us how to work. Some of the happiest
groups of workers are those who have organized to promote friendship and
good feeling amongst girls and women who are in the same occupation.
This is what the girls of one such group say of the benefit of belonging
to a friendly social organization of which the members are fellow-workers:
"It improves our work, because we know how the others do theirs and we
want to do as well as they do. We talk over problems in our work, and
hearing the various ideas and solutions that others have thought out helps
us in solving our problems. We do not meet to discuss our work primarily;
as a rule our gatherings are for enjoyment and recreation. But work every
now and then comes into general conversation and in this way we learn.
It is a help to have for a friend one of the best workers in your
occupation. You try your best to keep up with her. If any of the girls
needs a new position, or is in difficulty about her work, she may talk it
over with one of the older workers. In the same way we advise one another
about wages. We can find out what is the average wage and the best wage
paid in the occupation and what are the average hours of employment.
Many girls in the club have found new positions and have been able to ask
for and get higher wages through the advice and help of other club members."
Every girl knows what a help it is to work with others when sewing,
mending, dressmaking and trimming hats. The girl in paid employment finds
this work more trying than the girl who remains at home, because the girl
at home generally has spare hours during the day when she may do work of
this character. A mending circle meeting once a week could plan some
entertainment to accompany work. One of the circle might read aloud, or
all the members might take turns in telling a story and adding in some
way to the evening's entertainment. Girls in such a circle could all help
in blouse making or in millinery. One or more of the members might have
a special gift in cutting and fitting. Others might be more skilful in
sewing. One or more of the girls might have a special gift in buying.
The possibilities of co-operative work of this kind for girls in the
twentieth century are very great indeed.
There was a time in the history of the world when work of this kind was all
done in private homes. Women and girls worked together at home, spinning,
weaving, sewing and dressmaking. A great part of such work is now done in
factories. But girls know that they still have mending, sewing, dressmaking
and millinery to do. People are seldom well advised if they do work of this
kind in isolation. The work is often not so well done and the worker is
lonely and apt to be discouraged. It is part of the duty of the twentieth
century girl to restore happiness and companionship in all this women's
work, a great part of which is still done by hand. The happy circle of girl
workers is often the best solution to the problem of how this work of
making, trimming and mending should be done.
One such group of girls, in this case, a group of stenographers, who, as it
happens, have all come from farm homes, have made a success of co-operative
housekeeping. There are eight girls in the group. The city in which they
work is by a lake and during the summer months these girls rent a cottage
on the lake shore outside the city. They have the cottage for four months.
Two girls undertake the housekeeping for a month at a time, which means
that each girl has one month of housekeeping responsibility and three
months when she helps only with tidying and cleaning. Their individual
expenses for rent and housekeeping amount to $4.50 per week. This is an
excellent example of the good to be obtained from co-operative effort.
Other girls find companionship, recreation and improvement in reading
circles, study clubs, and clubs for walking, snowshoeing, skating and
other outdoor enjoyment. Clubs formed to promote play and exercise are
among the best of these organizations. Some circles are for dancing;
others are dramatic clubs. Practically every group of this kind undertakes
some benevolent work, and should do so in order to share happiness and
good times with others. Such clubs entertain the inmates of hospitals,
children's and old people's homes, give Christmas trees to children, send
gifts to the needy, or work for benevolent organizations.
The club for outdoor play is one of the most important of group
organizations. It has a wonderful effect on the health of its members.
Tennis, basket ball, cricket, hockey and croquet are played by groups of
girls who often challenge boys' clubs and are able to enter such contests
with skill and ability. The gardening club is one of the many ways in which
a club of girls can raise money to help in benevolent and other objects.
To form a group of this kind successfully the girl members require to have
kindly impulses and enthusiasm, a willingness to work and play together,
and the wish to be useful and to do something worth doing. Other requisites
are a few simple rules, loyally lived up to, and one or two girls who have
organizing ability. Leaders should train others to lead also, and each girl
should take her turn in leading and in following.
The ideal group is not made up of girls exclusively, but should take its
pattern as much as possible from family life. The girls of the group play
together and work together. But the fathers and mothers of some of the
girls will be glad to be honorary members and should share at times both
in work and in play. A boys' club may be a friendly rival in games and may
co-operate in benevolent work and entertainment.