While the imitation of dress and the lighter vanities of life are more
indulged in by the girl, the boy also is a decided imitator in other
weaknesses. A boy will imitate any quality which he thinks manly. Would
that the points they imitate deserved this name, but most of the things
they copy are those which will sooner or later, make slaves of them. How
early we see the tiny tot of three or four years placing a piece of
stick or anything which resembles a cigar, between his lips. Watch him
puff at it; see him imitate the strut of a man. This sometimes appears
comical, and the child is often prevailed upon to show how clever he is.
Alas, this is only the first attempt to imitate the manly arts, and if
not guided in the right direction his imitations may become a tragedy
instead of a comedy.
By imitation of acts the character becomes slowly and imperceptibly, but
at length decidedly formed. Do not think, mother, that because your
child is young it cannot judge. In this you are greatly mistaken.
Children are very clever judges and especially do they see through any
inconsistency. They hear you say: “You mustn’t do thus and so.” What do
you think is in their childish minds when they discover you doing it?
Children do not appreciate the motto which the preacher gave to his
congregation: “Do as I say, not as I do.” No, indeed, they follow the
example. The precept is forgotten.
The habits, which are our constant companions and followers through
life, are based on imitation. If good habits are to be formed, childhood
is the time to plant them. You cannot begin too early. The little tot
who sees her mother throw down her belongings cannot be expected to take
care of her playthings, nor, as she grows up, to be neat and tidy. Order
is Heaven’s first law and the successful mother will start with having a
place for everything and have everything in its place.