The real beauty of dress resides in being suitably gowned. Suit the attire
to the time and place. Fashion prescribes and regulates styles; etiquette
settles the appropriate garb for the occasion. Every detail, from shoes to
hat, should be harmonious and suited to the occasion and consequently to
the hour of the day. But how many, many violations of this rule we see!
Ostrich feathers worn with shirtwaists; low shoes on the street; dressy
hats in the morning; jewels at breakfast--all inappropriate and unrelated!
The correct street wear in the morning in the winter is a tailored suit
with medium sized hat in felt or beaver, walking shoes, and rather heavy
gloves in glace kid. More elaborate suits or gowns in fine smooth cloth or
velvet are worn at afternoon functions, for calling and receptions. One
does not choose light or showy colors for these if she must walk or take a
street car. Ostrich feathers can be worn on the velvet or satin hat that
accompanies this costume, which is completed by patent leather shoes and
white or pearl-gray gloves.
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When Decollete Gowns are Worn.--High-necked and long-sleeved gowns are
worn at every daytime function.
At balls, cotillions, formal dinners, evening parties, and in the large
cities in opera boxes, decollete gowns may be worn.
No "nice" woman wears a low gown when dining at restaurant or hotel. The
neck may be cut low, under a lace yoke, unlined, and the sleeves finished
from the elbow with lace. Hats are worn.
One chooses a handsome velvet or other dressy material for a dinner dress,
and wears with it her rarest jewels. Good taste and modesty forbid too
lavish a display of shoulders. As a rule, in our average social life, the
unlined lace yoke and collar and lace sleeves are preferred for dinner
wear, the decollete gown being reserved for balls and cotillions.
Young girls' dancing gowns are never cut very low; the "Dutch" neck and
the slightly low round cut being preferred. A string of pearls, a fine
gold chain and locket, or gold beads, which have been restored to favor,
are the usual ornament.
For theatre wear, where one is not to occupy a box, one may wear a
handsome reception gown, or a handsome bodice and skirt. Shirt and
lingerie waists are not appropriate theatre wear, unless one patronizes
some second-class house of amusement.
Wearing the Hat.--The rule to bear in mind as to the wearing of hats is
this: At all daytime affairs, hats are kept on. At all evening
affairs--musicales, concerts, receptions, the play, they are removed.
Tea-gowns and negligees are for the boudoir; the kimona is for the
bedroom.
Gloves are removed at a luncheon or dinner. Of course they would not be
kept on at a card-party or a tea. One may retain them at a stand-up
supper.
Ornaments.--An abundance of ornament is in bad taste. Don't be one of the
See-me-with-'em-all-on type. A cheap ornament spoils a handsome costume,
better none at all; too many ornaments, even if good, look tawdry.
At a certain fashionable summer hotel a young woman was seen dancing in
high shoes and wearing a demi-trained lingerie gown over a petticoat of
ordinary walking length. She was certainly "the observed of all
observers," but hardly the object of admiration.
The Debutante's Dress.--The debutante usually wears white on the occasion
of her introduction to society. The material should be light and
youthful--crepe de chine, some soft white silk like messaline, chiffon or
organdie being the usual choice, made with high neck and long sleeves if
the affair takes the form of an afternoon reception. Only a ball or
cotillion permits a low gown, and then the gown is not "low" in the usual
sense: it is merely cut out modestly in the neck and the sleeves are
short. In the afternoon her mother, who presents her, wears a handsome
reception gown; her young friends, who "assist," wear light colored,
dressy gowns of chiffon, net, etc. At such an affair guests remove wraps
but retain hat and gloves.
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Dressing on a Modest Allowance.--The woman who wishes to be well dressed
but must produce that effect on a moderate allowance, must be particularly
careful in her purchases. She should confine herself to two colors, of
which black will be one. She must choose conservative styles as well as
colors, and above all, she must study very closely the relationship of her
purchases in order to avoid incongruities. A hat may be beautiful and
becoming and within her means, yet a very unwise purchase because it will
not harmonize with or be suited to the costume with which it is to be
worn.
Neat gloves and good shoes are items of dress not to be disregarded by the
woman who wishes to look well dressed. Shabby gloves are ruinous to a
well-dressed appearance.