When invitations are sent out for a reception, the recipient dons her
handsomest afternoon gown for the occasion. This may be a dressy tailored
suit; by this is meant one not severely simple; or she may wear some
handsome trained gown under a long coat. Small cards for presentation at
the door are sometimes enclosed with invitations to a large reception or
buffet luncheon, since "the pushers" have been known to present themselves
at such functions without having been invited. These cards are handed to
the man who opens the carriage door. An awning extends from the door to
the curb, and strips of carpet are laid under it, A maid opens the door
and directs guests to the dressing room, where wraps are laid aside, hats
and gloves being retained.
Receiving.--The hostess stands near the door of the drawing room,
welcoming her guests with hand and smile. Next to her stand the ladies who
receive with her. During the hour of arrival there is seldom opportunity
for more than a word of greeting, and one should not linger but pass on
down the line. A reception is often given to some visiting stranger, who
is introduced by the hostess.
The guests then circulate through the rooms, greeting acquaintances, and
drifting eventually to the dining room, where refreshments are served.
They may stay as long as they find it agreeable, within the hours named on
the card of invitation, but people seldom stay more than an hour.
The hostess remains near the door after the rush is over to greet the
belated guest and bid adieu to those who are leaving.
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Decorations.--It is usual to decorate the rooms with flowers, and the
services of the florist as well as the caterer are required if it is a
large affair. Cards are usually left, as a token that one has been
present, but in this case a card is manifestly not a visit, since it would
be absurd for a woman to invite fifty, a hundred, or even five hundred
people, who would expect her to call on them afterwards. Cards are sent by
those who do not attend, on the day. A reception given for forty or fifty
people is less formal, perhaps, but requires flowers--in less
profusion--and refreshments. The awning may be dispensed with if the day
is fine, but seldom is. The door must be promptly opened, and the maid
remains at her post during the affair if there are many guests, to open it
for those who leave as well as those who arrive.