CHAPTER III.

THE BACHELOR'S TOILET.

The first care of a bachelor is his bath or tub. To-day,

houses--especially clubs and bachelor apartments--are fitted up so

luxuriously that each tenant has his own individual tiled bathroom,

which he uses also as a dressing room. But where these are not, the tin

or the India-rubber bath tub serves as well the purpose of our first

ablution. A cold bath to many is a good refresher and awakener, but

there are others again whose constitutions can not stand the shock,

especially in winter, of icy-cold water. For cleansing purposes, tepid

water is best, or a mixture of hot and cold, so as to take the chill

off.

A gentleman takes at least one tub a day, and that, as may be inferred

from the previous remarks, when he arises. If the tub is in the bedroom,

have a rubber cloth placed under, and fill it only half full. The sponge

is used for the bath, the wash rag for the washstand. The body should

have a thorough soaping. The soap should be either Castile or a pure

unscented glycerin. Sweet-scented soaps, perfumery, and sweet waters of

all kinds should be eschewed. The Turkish towel is the best for drying,

and it should be vigorously but not roughly applied. A flesh brush may

be also used with comfort. As soon as the body is perfectly dry the bath

robe or large Turkish towel, which some prefer to wrap themselves in,

like Indians, should be resumed and shaving begun.

Every man should learn to shave himself. Razors are very delicate

instruments and should be kept in thorough order. Safety razors with

little blades for each day in the week are excellent, but if you use the

ordinary razor add to your collection from time to time, until you have

at least half a dozen. Once a month send these to a barber to be

stropped, and strop them yourself both before and after using. Wipe them

dry with a piece of chamois cloth and put them back in their cases. The

best strop is of Russia leather or of canvas.

Warm water is not absolutely necessary for shaving, as some beards are

soft and resist heat.

If possible, arrange a shaving stand with a triplicate mirror and places

for your razors, shaving mug, brush, and soap. You can purchase one of

these, with the entire outfit, for a few dollars at any of the large

city shops. A ring or little silver or metal hook for shaving paper can

be placed on one side of the stand. A cleanly man shaves every morning.

After shaving, wash the face with a little warm water and wipe it

thoroughly dry. Add to the water a few drops of ammonia or of Pond's

extract, if the skin is liable to chap.

In the fashion of beards, the clean or smooth-shaven face, the pointed

beard, and the simple mustache are those generally in vogue. Should you

wear a beard, you should have for it a special comb and brush.

A small tin basin, a package of sea salt, and a special wash rag are the

requisites for a morning eye bath. Sea salt and warm water are

recommended by oculists as the best tonic for the eyes.

The teeth next claim your attention. There is nothing more disgusting

than foul breath, which comes frequently from neglected teeth. Use a

soft toothbrush. Avoid patent tooth washes and lotions. An excellent

tooth powder is made of two thirds French chalk, one third orris root,

and a pinch of myrrh. Any chemist will put this up for fifteen cents.

Tepid and not cold water should be used. In rinsing the mouth a drop or

two of listerine added to the water is excellent. Teeth should be

brushed at least twice a day--morning and evening. Never use soap on

your toothbrush. Get a spool of dental silk--it will cost you eight

cents--and draw the thread between your teeth before you retire, so as

to remove any substance which might have got into a crevice. And, above

all, have your teeth examined carefully by a good dentist at least twice

a year.

See that your toothbrush is sweet and clean, and place it handle down in

the tooth mug.

The hands should be well washed and dried, tepid water, scentless soap,

and a smooth towel being used. The nails should have a vigorous rubbing

with a good nailbrush in the morning before your meals and before you go

to bed at night. The nail file and nail scissors must be used as often

as possible. Remember, dirty finger nails betray the vulgar and the

unkempt. A man with dirty hands is impossible.

The nails should not be pointed, but well rounded and kept free of bits

of callous skin around the base, called "hangnails." Finger nails should

be kept short, just a bit beyond the fleshy tip of the finger.

The nails of the toes should be kept as carefully as those of the hands.

In summer a little talcum powder on the feet will prevent the odor of

perspiration.

The fashions for parting the hair change with the times. At present it

is the direct part in the middle which is most fashionable. Very young

men wear their hair unusually long, but this fad is uncleanly. The hair

should be cut at least once a month, and a glimpse of the skin of the

neck should always intervene between the roots and the collar.

Pomatums and greases and scents of all kinds are sticky and injurious.

If you suffer with dryness of the scalp rub a little vaseline into it

occasionally. Washings with tar soap or with a little alcohol and

rosemary are beneficial. The scalp should be well brushed with

moderately firm but not hard bristles. The best brushes are those

without handles, known as army and navy. Water is bad for the hair.

Constant combing with a fine-tooth comb is apt to irritate the scalp and

provoke dandruff, which can be allayed by brushing, shampooing, and the

use of borax and warm water.

Turkish or Russian baths are beneficial now and then, and the vigorous

massage after a thorough steaming is admirable for the skin. A man

should be scrupulously neat about his toilet articles and appliances. In

your bathroom you should have a rack for your coarse and fine towels.

Always place the towel you have used at the side of a stationary or on

the back of a movable tub to dry. See that the soap is removed from your

sponges, and once a fortnight clean them in one quarter of an ounce of

borax dissolved in tepid water. Let them soak for an hour, and squeeze

them out in clean water.

Hairbrushes are washed in a little soda put into a quart of hot water.

The brush must be dipped downward so as not to wet the back. When they

are cleansed they can be rinsed in cold water and stood on their side,

after the water is shaken out, until quite dry.

Nailbrushes must be turned on their sides, after using, so that the

water will not soak in and crack their backs.

A man's toilet articles, whether in silver or wood, should be of one

distinctive style and material. Tooth and nail brushes should never

have silver handles, but hair and clothes brushes with silver backs are

very smart. They should be kept polished with a chamois cloth, and

occasionally a little silver polish or whiting. Your bureau or dressing

table is the place for the hair and clothes brushes, the combs, the

toilet mirror, nail files, nail scissors, and such smaller articles.

Your nail and tooth brushes and soaps go on the wash-hand stand. Your

sponges are best put in a little wire basket at the side of the

wash-hand stand, or the immovable washstand if your room or bathroom has

the latter convenience.

Your bedroom should be ventilated and all the windows opened after you

leave it, and you should have at least one window up during your

sleeping hours. If you have a movable tub see that it is aired each

morning after using.

Always make a change of clothes and of shoes when you come in from a

busy day and from the street. Nothing ruins clothes so much as lounging

about your room in them. And last but not least, as it contains the

essential of all these rules and hints, be always immaculately clean.

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