You have heard the ticking of your father's watch, and have seen the
hands on its face, but did you ever get a peep inside at the wonderful
tiny wheels and springs? These are called the =works=, and if =they= are
not right and true the hands and the face are of no use at all, because
it is only when the =wheels= and =springs= work properly that the hands
can tell the time correctly.
It is just the same with us. If the =character= is true and good, it
will not be difficult to be polite and nice in manner, for manners are
the =outside= part of us (just as the hands and face are the outside
parts of the watch). The kind, good thoughts =within=--in our
hearts--will teach us how to behave.
There is nothing that makes people so rude as thinking of self and
forgetting the comfort of others; some call it "Thoughtlessness," but we
fear the true name is "Selfishness". If we are =un=selfish and
thoughtful for others, we shall not be likely to do anything that
=hurts= people, and so we shall not be likely to be rude.
In the Story Lessons on "Manners" which follow, just see if you can find
out what it is that causes each rude action. You will probably say that
it is "=want of thought=" for others.
(The writer would ask the teacher, or mother, who
reads the following Story Lessons to the little
ones to emphasise this fact in each--that =thought
for others= induces nice manners, while
"Thoughtlessness" and "Selfishness" invariably
lead to rudeness. Spoilt children, and those whose
mothers are in the habit of doing everything for
them, =miss= the training in "Thoughtfulness for
others" which is so essential to the building up
of an unselfish character; and so the mother's
intended kindness is in reality =not= kindness,
seeing that it causes distinct loss to the child,
_viz._, =loss= of those traits of character which
are the most desirable, and which tend to the
greatest happiness.)