ADVICE OF A DYING FATHER TO HIS SON.

Dated January 27, 1716.

[The following article was addressed by the Rev. William Brattle

of Cambridge to William Brattle, his son and only child who lived

to maturity, while he was preparing for college. The father was a

man distinguished for "piety, wisdom, and charity;" and the son

"was a man of extraordinary talents and character, acceptable

as a preacher, eminent as a lawyer, celebrated as a physician."

He was a Major-General in the militia, and much in public

office. May it not be supposed that this paternal Advice from an

affectionate father to a son of filial affection and an obedient

disposition, had great effect in making him what he was? For

this and several other articles of an antiquarian nature we are

indebted to Charles Ewer, Esq.]

1. Agreeably to what is written 1 Chron. xxviii, 9, My dear Son, know

thou the God of thy father, & serve him with a perfect heart, and

with a willing mind. If thou seek him, he will be found of thee; but

if thou forsake him, he will cast thee off for ever.

2. Think often of thine own frailty, and of the uncertainly and

emptiness of all Sublunary Enjoyments. Value not Self upon riches.

Value not thy Self upon any worldly advancement whatsoever. Let faith

and Goodness be thy treasure. Let no happiness content and Sattisfie

thee but what secures the favour and peace of God unto thee.

3. Remember thy baptism, acquaint thy Self well with the nature

and obligations of that Ordinance. Publickly renew thy baptismall

Covenant. Renew it Seasonably in thy early Days with humility and

thirsty desires to enjoy Communion with God in the ordinance of the

Lord's Supper and in all Approaches before God therein bringing

faith and Love and a Self abasing Sence of thine own Emptiness and

unworthyness.

4. Prize and Esteem the holy word of God infinitly before the finest

of Gold. Reverence it with thy whole heart, read it constantly with

seriousness, and great delight. Meditate much upon it, make it thy

Guide in all thy wayes, fetch all thy Comforts from thence, and by a

religious and holy walk, establish thine Interest in the blessed and

glorious Promises therein contained.

5. Remember the Sabbath day to keep it holy. Reverence God's

Sanctuary. In prayer, in Singing, in hearing God's word Read or

preached, and in every public administration Wait upon God with

outward Reverence and true devotion in thine heart, Remembering that

holyness for ever becomes God's house. When in thy more private

retirements, Still let it be thy Care to Sanctifie God's Sabbath. Be

watchfull therefore over thine heart and over thy thoughts. Call to

mind and run over what thou hast heard in God's house. Read Savoury

books. Catechise thy Self, and others too when God gives Opportunity.

6. Take care of thy health, avoid all Excess in eating and in

drinking, in taking thy pleasure, and in all innocent Recreations

whatsoever. Let not immoderate heatt and Colds needlessly Expose thy

body.

7. Beware of Passion. Let not Anger and Wrath infect thine heart,

suffer wrong with Patience, Rather than to right thy Self by

unchristian methods, or by suffering thy spirit to be out of frame.

8. Labour to establish thy Self and begg of God that he would

Establish thee in the grace of Chastity, keep thine heart clean and

Chast, keep thy Tongue clean and Chast, keep thine hands clean and

Chast, keep thine Eyes clean and Chast. Never trust to thy Self to

be thy keeper, avoid temptations to uncleaness of every nature, be

watchfull over thy Self night and day, but in the midst of all Let

thine heart be with God, and be thou much in prayer, that God would

be thy keeper. Let all the incentives to Lust as farr as may be, be

avoided by thee.

9. Speak the Truth alwayes. Let not a Lye defile thy Lips, be content

with Suffering rather than by telling the Least Lie to Save thy Self.

Beware of Shuffling off by disimulation.

10. Let Pride be an abomination in thy Sight. Cloth thyself with

humility. Let humility be thine under Garment. Let humility be thine

upper Garment.

11. Despise no man, let the State of his Body or mind or other

circumstances of his, be what they will, still reverence humanity,

consider who made thee to differ.

12. Be just to all men; be thou courteous and affable to all men;

render not Evil for Evil, but recompense evil with Good. Owe no man

any thing but Love.

13. Be thou compassionate, tender hearted, and mercifull; do good

to all men, be rich in good works, ready to distribute, willing to

communicate; for with such sacrifices God is evermore well pleased.

14. Avoid sloth and idleness, give thy Self to thy Studys; converse

with such Authors as may tend to make thee wise and good and to

forward thy growth in true wisdom and goodness.

15. Acquaint thy Self with History; know something of the

Mathematicks, and Physick; be able to keep Accompts Merchant like

in some measure; but let Divinity be thy main Study. Accomplish thy

Self for the worke of the Ministry, begg of God that he would incline

thine heart therto, and accept thee therin, and if it shall please

God thus to Smile upon thee, aspire not after great things; let the

Providence of God chuse for thee, and let the Flock have the Love of

thy heart; be Solicitous for their Spirituall good, and for the glory

of God; and let thy Aims be this way in all thy private meditations,

and public administrations, all the dayes of thy Life.

My dear Child, be of a Catholick Spirit.

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