What are you going to be? is a question that has to be settled very early
in life--earlier amongst the so-called working classes than any other. It
must be settled at about thirteen years old. Fortunately for you it is
not whether you shall do anything for your living or not, but in what way
you shall earn your living. Some people seem to look upon work as if it
were a degrading thing, and only to be used until they can afford to live
without it. Life is not worth calling life that is not downright honest
work, and a man is hardly a man at all who is not a working man--working
either with his hands or his brain, or both.
In determining what your calling in life shall be you must consider two
things, 1st. Whether the calling you wish to follow is an honest and
lawful one. 2nd. Whether you are fitted for it.
If you can say yes to both these questions, then, provided your parents
approve, follow out your natural inclination. A lad is far more likely
to succeed in life if his heart is in his work, than if he has to work
against the grain. On the other hand, you will never deserve success if
you go against your parents' wishes. If they see reasons against the
particular calling you wish for, (and perhaps are really fitted for),
your duty is to follow their wishes, and bide your time. If your
inclinations really point to that to which God calls you, He will show
you the right way to it in His time, and your obedience to your parents
will not have been wasted time.
There are certain occupations which are not honourable, but by which men
gain a living, which are not to be considered for a moment, as _e.g._,
gambling and betting. There are certain for which you would not be
fitted by education or ability. Whatever calling you choose seek God and
His righteousness first, _i.e._, choose that which will make you fit for
the next world as well as that which will make you comfortable here.
Honest work thoroughly done here will be no bad passport for another
world. When you have once chosen your calling stick to it, carry it out
thoroughly, and with a determination to get on. Never be in a hurry to
change, and never do so without a good reason. Never rest satisfied that
you have done enough, or think that you cannot do better. It is told of
a celebrated sculptor, that he said, "I shall fail in my next effort, for
I am satisfied with this."
Aim high and do your best. Every shop-boy may not become a Lord Mayor,
but every one who aims at getting to the top of the tree, and goes
steadily at it, will find himself at last a good way from the ground.
Now supposing you have made your choice and started in work you will find
a great difference between this and school life. You will mix with elder
people and a different set; you will have more freedom, and possibly a
little more money.
Don't think you are a man all at once, because you are nothing of the
sort, and nothing makes a lad look more ridiculous than to see him trying
to be a man before his time. You know the story of the toad and the ox.
You have much to learn yet. Stick to classes and learn all that you can.
Sunday classes as well as night classes. There is nothing manly in
giving up religious duties; quite the contrary, it is cowardly. Do your
work honestly and thoroughly, even though it be the custom to do
otherwise. Boys are pretty sure to have some hobby of their own, and a
very good thing too. A boy is all the better for a hobby, even if he
takes it up and drops it again. It is a good thing for a lad to have
some private interest of his own. If therefore your hobby is not
anything harmful follow it out with a will.