CHAPTER XXV

THE WOMAN 'GOOD FELLOW'--A SOCIETY TYPE

The woman who belongs to the 'jolly good fellow' type is frank and

sincere, and as steady in her friendships as the most perfect gentleman.

In love, she is disappointing, if not absolutely a fraud. Indeed, the

idea of her possibly falling in love would seem to her quite as funny as

it would to other people. She is of a cool temperament.

In friendship, her heart is set in the right place; in love, it is deaf

and dumb.

She is fond of good living and of gaieties of all sorts, both in town

and country. She prefers the society of men to that of women. She is no

coquette, but has no objection to flirting--in fact, she enjoys it, and

all the more that she knows it cannot make her run the least danger. 'It

amuses men,' she thinks, 'and it doesn't hurt me.'

She sleeps, eats, drinks, dresses, rides, drives, dances, smokes, talks,

laughs, and throws her money out of every window from the garret to the

cellar.

People enjoy her society because she is cheerful and gay, a bright

conversationalist, generally pretty, always elegant and fashionable,

and most exquisitely dressed. She is unconventional, and the men like

her for it; she seldom indulges in silly gossip, and the women are

grateful to her for it. In fact, she is popular with men and women

alike, because neither of them has anything to fear from her. The hearts

of men and the reputations of women are safe in her hands; she does no

damage to either.

Most people think that this type of woman is the happiest. As a girl,

yes, perhaps; but not after twenty-five. The woman 'jolly fellow' very

often makes all that noise in order to shake off her thoughts. If her

heart is unable to speak and unable to hear, the reason often is that it

is dead.

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