HIS GRAVITY AND AFFABILITY.

Grace produced in him that wonderful and perfectly harmonious blending

of gravity and affability, which was perhaps his most distinguishing

characteristic. There was in his whole demeanour and in the very expression

of his face a lofty and dignified beauty which inspired reverence and even

a sort of fear--that is, such fear as engenders respect and makes any undue

familiarity impossible. Yet, at the same time he displayed such sweetness

and gentleness as to encourage all who approached him. No one, however

conscious of his own want of attractiveness, feared a repulse from the holy

Bishop, and all, feeling sure of a welcome, were only eager to please and

satisfy him.

For my own part I must confess that when I succeeded in doing anything

which he was able to praise, and which consequently gave him pleasure, I

was so happy and elated that I felt as if I were raised to the seventh

heaven! Indeed, had he not taught me to refer everything to God, many of

my actions would, I fear, have stopped half-way thither. People of high

standing in society, accustomed even to come into close contact with

royalty itself, have assured me that, in the presence of our Saint, they

felt a subtle influence guarding, restraining, elevating them as no other

companionship, however noble and distinguished, could ever do. It was as

though in him they saw some reflection of the all-penetrating intelligence

of God Himself, lighting up the inmost recesses of their heart, and laying

bare its mysteries.

Yet his affability was no less marvellous, making itself felt the instant

you came in contact with him. It was not like a quality or grace acquired;

it was not in any way apart from his own personality, it was as if he were

affability personified. Hence that power of winning over others, of making

himself all things to all men, of gaining the support of so many in his

plans and schemes, all of which had but one aim and object, namely, the

increase of the glory of God and the promotion of the salvation of souls.

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