LOVE AND FORGIVENESS

In these instances it is the singular completeness of Christ's

forgiveness which is the most startling feature. It would be a libel on

human nature to say that men do not forgive each other, but human

forgiveness usually has reservations, reticences, conditions. Jesus

taught unlimited forgiveness, and what He taught He practiced.

"_Then came Peter, and said to Him, 'Lord, how oft shall my brother sin

against me and I forgive him? Until seven times?' Jesus said unto him,

'I say not unto thee, until seven times; but until seventy times seven.'_"

It is a vehement reply, in which a quiet note of scorn vibrates; not

scorn of Peter, but scorn of any kind of love that is less than

limitless. But whose love is limitless? Do we not commonly speak of

love as being outworn by offense or neglect? In the compacts which we

make with one another in the name of love, do we not specifically name

certain offenses as unpardonable? Thus one man will say, "I can forgive

anything but meanness," and another says, "no friendship can survive

perfidy"; and in the relations between men and women unfaithfulness is

held to cancel all bonds, however indissoluble they may seem. Now and

again, it is true, some strange voice reaches us, keyed to a different

music. Shakespeare, for example, in his famous one hundred and sixteenth

sonnet, boldly states that

Love is not love

Which alters when it alteration finds,

Or bends with the remover to remove.

But who listens, who believes? Yet, if it should happen to us to be

placed in the position of the offender, we need no one to convince us

that a true love should be, in its very nature, unalterable. How

astonished and dismayed are we, when eyes that have so many times met

ours in tenderness harden at our presence, and lips which have uttered so

many pledges of affection, speak harshly! We do not deny our fault,

indeed; but we think we can discern reasons why it should be regarded

mercifully, why the very memory and sacredness of old affection should

make harsh judgment impossible; nay, more, why a deeply generous love

should even rejoice in the opportunity to forgive, and so should sanctify

our very shame with the healing touch of pity, and pour our tears into

the sacramental cup which ratifies a new fidelity.

It is so the sinner argues, his vision of what love ought to be growing

clearer by his offense against love. It is he alone, the sinner, who can

really sympathize with Christ's conception of love, for he alone feels

that this is the kind of love he needs. The elder brother does not

understand, Simon the Pharisee does not understand, because neither has

sinned in such a way as to be flung helpless at the feet of love. Peter

did not understand when he put his question to Christ. He spoke just as

the average man would speak, who has never sounded the tragic depths in

life, has never known the misery of weakness, and therefore has no fellow

feeling for the weak. Love as such men know it is less a passion than a

compact. It is a bond of mutual advantage, guarded from abuse by swift

penalty and forfeit. It is the reward of qualities, it gives no more

than it gets, it exists by an equal equipoise of service. If this

equipoise is disturbed its obligations are dissolved. It is easily

affronted, and under affront becomes resentful, bitter, even vindictive.

How oft shall I forgive my brother? Only as oft as a sense of duty shall

demand, only up to the point which is sanctioned by social custom, so

that I may save my reputation for magnanimity, always excepting certain

sins for which no pardon can be legitimately asked. But the hour was not

far off when Peter himself was to commit the very sins for which

customary love has no pardon. He was to be guilty of those offenses

which just and good men say they cannot forgive--meanness, cowardice,

perfidy, denial. That bitter hour revealed the true nature of love to

Peter. He knew that in spite of his sin against Jesus, he still loved

Him, and since love was unalterable in him, he expected an unalterable

love in Christ. It was the seventy times seven forgiveness that he

needed then; and how sweet to recollect in that hour that Jesus had

taught a love that knew no limit. "_Lovest thou Me_?" was the one word

his Master uttered when they met in the quiet morning light beside the

sea. "_Thou knowest all things, Thou knowest that I love Thee_," was the

swift reply. Storms disturb the sea but the central tides run on. Peter

found with equal astonishment and gratitude that not even perfidy was

able to separate him from the love of Christ, for that love was

unalterable as the morning star which hung above the lake, and cleansing

as the soft waves that lapped its shore.

The self-righteous man will never understand these things. Men and women

of meagre natures, with whom love is a compact, not a passion, will

vehemently disapprove them. People of smooth lives, ignorant of strong

temptations, will refuse even to discuss them. Jesus was well aware of

their implacable indifference or cold hostility, and boldly said that for

such people He had no gospel. His mission was not to the whole, but to

the sick. The Gospel of Jesus is in truth not designed for people of

comfortable lives. He has little to say to the children of compromise,

whose emasculated lives attain the semblance of virtue by the cautious

exercise of niggard passions. They can take care of one another, these

righteous ones, whose very righteousness is a negation.

But Christ's Gospel is for a tragic world. It is for the disinherited,

the weak, and the strong who have become weak; for those who have been

wrecked by folly and passion, and too much love of living; for those

whose capacities for good and evil, being both rooted in passion, are

equally a peril and a potency--it is to these Christ chiefly speaks. To

them the Gospel of unlimited forgiveness and unalterable love is the only

vital, because the only efficacious Gospel. The man whose very virility

of nature makes him the easy prey of murderous joy; the man shut up in

prison, who hears from the lips that once spake love to him, the sentence

of inexpiable disgrace; the outcast from honour, gnawing the bitter husks

of hated sin in far lands, and tortured in his dreams by the sweetness of

recollected happiness; these, and all like these, will understand Jesus,

for it is to them He speaks. Their very sin interprets Him. To their

forlorn ears the love He teaches will sound not strange, for it is the

only kind of love that can redeem them; nor foolish, for it is the only

love that dare stoop low enough to lift them up. These will not fail to

understand what conventional righteousness finds so difficult; these, and

also all good women who have had acquaintance with either deep love or

real grief, because it is a loving woman's sweet prerogative and divine

disposition to forgive, and to draw from her grace of forgiveness a more

tender and maternal power of loving.

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