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I shall be asked what changes I would suggest. The answer is not easy:

it is not so much a question of altering this regulation or that, of

removing hindrances and giving increased help; that is good, but more is

needed: we want a change of the entire system: _the firm understanding

that the clear aim before us is to place the child, as nearly as this

can be done, in the same position of advantage as it would have had if

it had not been illegally born. If there must be punishments, let them

fall on the parents, never on the child._

Now, how can this best be done? In the space I can devote here, it is

possible only to throw out a few suggestions.

First, and I think exceedingly important, the law should take account of

the attitude of the father. In all cases where the paternity of the

child is acknowledged openly by the man and with the mother, and

guarantees are given that the duties of both parents will be faithfully

fulfilled, the child should be legitimized, receive the name of the

father, be qualified to inherit from him, and in every way given the

same rights as the legitimate child, even if the parents are unable or

do not wish to marry. This opportunity of right conduct once given to

men by the law, I believe that many, who are fathers illegitimately,

would voluntarily take this course and gladly acknowledge and fulfill

the responsibilities of their fatherhood.

In all other cases, in which paternity is not voluntarily acknowledged,

I take the most important duty of the law to be the official

appointment of guardians. I believe nothing else is so urgently needed

to protect these fatherless little ones. Such guardianship[187:1] could

be provided without great difficulty or expense if _each illegitimately

born child, not openly acknowledged and willingly provided for by its

father, was made a ward of the Court of Summary Jurisdiction in the

district in which it lived and thus placed under authoritative

supervision. The child would, by the authority of the Court, be boarded

out (1) with the mother in all cases where her health, character and

previous records were such as to make this arrangement the best for the

child, (2) in hostels, either with the mother or without her, (3) with

paid foster-parents, (4) with adopted parents. In every case regular

visitation of the child would be necessary, and the child must not be

removed from one home to another or any change made with regard to it

without the authority of the Court, which shall have power (1) to

appoint guardians, either in addition to, or substitution for the mother

of the child; (2) to approve any scheme for the education or training

of the child, and at all times and in all ways to exercise authority in

every matter pertaining to the child's welfare._[188:1]

I would wish for a further restriction, which, however hardly it may

seem to bear on the mother, is, in my opinion, most necessary for

safeguarding the child. It is this: _If the child by the decision of the

Court is boarded out with foster parents, permanently adopted or placed

in a home apart from the mother, no interference or even visiting by the

mother shall be permitted except at the discretion of the Court._

I would suggest that in every town or rural district guardians should be

appointed (preferably a man and a woman) either paid or voluntary, but

officially appointed: all that is needed is an extension of the duties

of the Collecting Officer, appointed under the Affiliation Orders Act of

1914. This officer already takes out of the mother's hands the work of

collecting the weekly payments granted under a maintenance order, and he

also has certain powers of enforcing payments from a defaulting father.

But at present his taking action is dependent on the desire of the

mother. His duties ought in all cases to be compulsory. They would be

(1) to help the mother before and after the birth of the child; (2) to

seek out the father and urge a voluntary acknowledgment of his

paternity, and, when this cannot be gained, to see that the law is

rightly administered so that full alimony may be obtained; (3) to watch

over the interests of the child and see that the decisions of the Court

are carried out without interference from the mother.

The kind of help given would have to be varied and must be made suitable

to each individual case, but every child would be a ward of the

guardians in the district in which it lived, and would be regularly

visited. I would suggest further that there should be placed over these

visiting-guardians a Government-appointed, permanent, highly salaried

official--a kind of over-guardian-parent or Consultant, who would

supervise the work of the ordinary guardians in difficult cases, and

advise as to the best means of administering the law. This high official

ought, in my opinion, to be a woman.

Such a scheme as I have outlined (briefly and, I know, inadequately)

would achieve the three-fold purpose of (1) safeguarding the child, (2)

guiding and helping the mother, (3) fastening responsibility on the

father. If wisely administered by guardians, acting with sympathy and

understanding, it could hardly fail to achieve the desired result of

protecting the child. Every illegitimately born child would be placed in

a position of safety.

As a preliminary step, and pending legislation, it would be an excellent

plan if groups of interested people, or societies, were to form local

representative committees to appoint voluntary Visiting-guardians. By

this means the plan could be tried, and some kind of responsible and

authoritative guardianship at once undertaken. We ought to do this now,

for death and suffering to the little children are going on while we

delay.

There is no more for me to say.

The saving of these little ones is a plain duty upon me and upon you, my

readers. Let us clear hardness from our minds and sentiment from our

hearts; both will equally lead us astray. The child is the real care of

the State and of us all; it is the child who is dependent; the child who

has been sinned against; the child we have to protect. Save these

babies from death and from life that is worse than death; give these

children a right start in life. Let no illegitimately born child be able

to say in after years, "I have called and ye refused; I have stretched

out my hand and no man regarded."

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