REQUISITES FOR THE DINING-TABLE

_Table-Linen, etc._--Table-cloths of white damask, double or single, as

fine as the owner's purse admits, are used for the dinner-table, with

large square white napkins to correspond.

The table should first be covered with a mat of double-faced cotton

flannel wide enough to fall six inches below the edge of the table, all

around. This under mat greatly improves the appearance of the

table-cloth, which can be laid much more smoothly over this soft

foundation. Besides, the mat protects the table from too close contact

with hot dishes. Small table mats for the purpose of protecting the

cloth are not fashionable at present, though many careful housekeepers

retain them rather than risk injury to fine table linen.

Carving-cloths are used when carving is done at the table, but are not

needed when dinner is served _a la Russe_.

Napkin rings are discarded by many who hold that a napkin should be

used but once, and must be re-laundried before reappearing on the table.

Practically, such a fastidious use of table linen would exhaust most

linen supplies, and overcrowd the laundry. The neat use of a napkin

renders this extreme nicety superfluous as a rule of home dining, Care

should certainly be taken to remove all soiled table linen. Nothing is

more disgusting than a dirty napkin, but the snowy linen that comes

spotless through one using may, with propriety, be retained in the ring

to be used several times. This, of course, refers to every-day dining

at home. On formal occasions no napkin rings appear on the table; the

napkins are always fresh, and used for that time only. At the close of

the dinner they are left carelessly on the table; not rolled or folded

in any orderly shape.

Small fringed napkins of different colors are used with a dessert of

fruits. Fancy doylies of fine linen embroidered with silk are

sometimes brought in with the finger-bowls; but these are not for

utility, the dinner napkin doing service, while the embroidered "fancy"

adds a dainty bit of effect to the table decoration.

_China, Glassware, Cutlery, Silverware, etc._--Chinaware for the dinner

service should be of good quality. Fashions in china decoration are

not fixed; the fancy of the hour is constantly changing, but a matched

set is eminently proper for the dinner table, leaving the "harlequin"

china for luncheons and teas. In the latter style the aim is to have

no two pieces alike in decoration, or at least, to permit an unlimited

variety; a fashion that is very convenient when large quantities of

dishes are liable to be needed. But for a dinner served in orderly

sequence, the orderly correspondence of a handsome "set" seems more in

keeping. But even with this, the harlequin idea may come in with the

dessert; fruit plates, ice-cream sets, after-dinner coffees, etc., may

display any number of fantasies in shape and coloring.

Artistic glassware is a very handsome feature of table furnishing.

Carafes and goblets for water are always needed at dinner; wine

glasses, possibly; and the serving of fruits and bon-bons gives

opportunity to display the most brilliant cut-glass, or its

comparatively inexpensive substitutes, which are scarcely less pretty

in effect. Fine glass is infinitely more elegant than common

plated-ware, and though more liable to breakage is less trouble to keep

in order.

The best dinner-knife is of steel, of good quality, with handle of

ivory, ebony, or silver. Silver-plated knives are much used; they do

not discolor so readily as steel, and are easily kept polished. They

answer the purpose for luncheon, but they rarely have edge enough to be

really serviceable at dinner or breakfast.

Many people who own solid silverware store it away in bank vaults and

use its _fac simile_ in quadruple plate, and thus escape the constant

dread of a possible burglar. For the sense of security that it gives,

one may value the finest quality of plated ware, but it should be

inconspicuous in style and not too profuse in quantity, since its

utility, rather than its commercial value, should be suggested. Any

ostentation in the use of plated ware is vulgar. But one may take a

pride and satisfaction in the possession of solid silver. Every

ambitious housekeeper will devise ways of securing, little by little,

if not all at once, a neat collection of solid spoons and forks. The

simplest table takes on dignity when graced with these "sterling"

accompaniments. The fancy for collecting "souvenir" spoons, one at a

time, suggests a way to secure a valuable lot of spoons without feeling

the burden of the expense. Yet, on the other hand, these spoons are

much more expensive than equally good plain silver, the extra price

being paid for the "idea;" but the expenditure is worth while to those

who value historical associations. One may find in the silver-basket

salient reminders of all important epochs in our national life, a sort

of primer of United States history, to say nothing of the innumerable

"souvenirs" of Europe. Its subtle testimony to the intelligent taste

of its owner gives the souvenir collection its chief "touch of

elegance."

The towering "castor," once the central glory of the dinner table, is

out of style. The condiments are left on the sideboard, and handed

from there in case any dish requires them, the supposition being that,

as a rule, the several dishes are properly seasoned before they are

served. Individual salt-cellars are placed on the table, and may be

accompanied with salt spoons; if these are omitted, it is understood

that the salt-cellar is emptied and refilled each time that it is used.

On the family dinner-table the condiment line is not so severely drawn;

vinegar in cut-glass cruets, mustard in Satsuma pots, and individual

"peppers"--in silver, china, or glass, and of quaint designs--are

convenient and allowable.

A table covered with white damask, overlaid with sparkling china and

cut-glass, and reflecting the white light of polished silver, is a

pretty but lifeless sight. Add one magic touch--the centre-piece of

flowers--and the crystallized beauty wakes to organic life.

In arranging the modern dinner-table, when the service is to be _a la

Russe_, floral decorations are almost indispensable. Without something

attractive for the eye to rest upon, the desert stretch of linen looks

like the white ghost of famine mocking the feast.

The shape of the table, the available space, and the nature of the

occasion decide the quantity and distribution of the flowers. It is a

matter in which wide latitude is given to individual taste and

ingenuity, original designs and odd conceits being always in order,

subject only to the law of appropriateness.

For a square or extra wide table a large centre-piece, either round or

oblong, is usually chosen, with endless varieties in its component

arrangement. It may be low and flat, like a floral mat, in the middle

of the table, or it may be a lofty _epergne_, or an inter-lacing of

delicate vine-wreathed arches, or a single basket of feathery

maidenhair fern--in fact, anything that is pretty and which the

inspiration of the moment may suggest. In early autumn, in country

homes or in suburban villas, nothing is more effective than masses of

golden-rod and purple asters, gathered by the hostess or her guests

during their afternoon drive, and all the more satisfactory because of

the pleasure taken in their impromptu arrangement. Wild flowers should

be neatly trimmed and symmetrically grouped to avoid a ragged or weedy

appearance.

Fortunately, even quite elaborate floral decorations need not be

expensive. Nature has bestowed some of her choicest touches upon the

lilies of the field, and an artistic eye discerns their possibilities.

At the same time, art in floriculture has produced marvels, and those

who can afford it may revel in mammoth roses and rare orchids, lilies

of the valley in November, and red clovers in January, if it please

them to pay the florist's bill for the same.

For narrow "extension" tables, slender vases ranged at intervals may be

the most convenient disposition of the flowers; or, if the ends of the

table are not occupied, a broad, low basket may stand at each end, with

a tall, slender vase in the middle of the table.

On choice occasions a handsome centre-piece may be, for example, a

large bowl of La France roses, with small bundles of the same (groups

of three are pretty), tied with ribbon of the same hue, laid by each

plate. Any other single flower may be disposed similarly, or variety

may rule, and no two floral "favors" be alike, in which case it is a

delicate compliment to give to each guest a flower known to be a

favorite, or one that seems especially appropriate--a lily to Lilian, a

daisy to Marguerite, etc. These little marks of thoughtfulness never

fail to be appreciated, and add much to the grace of entertaining.

An elaborate centre-piece may stand upon a rich velvet mat, or on a

flat mirror provided for the purpose. The latter is a clever idea for

a centre-piece of pond-lilies or other aquatic plants, simulating a

miniature lake, its edges fringed with moss or ferns.

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