GOING ABROAD.
It was on a bright, warm, breezy morning in early June, that our
friends at Honeysuckleville decided that the home education of their
children had been attended with such success as to encourage the hope
that they would "come out" creditably to themselves, and their
parents. Arrangements were accordingly made, and I assure you there
was much talking and no little excitement and bustle upon the
occasion. It was proposed to spend some weeks in travelling, that the
young people might enjoy themselves, and acquire much useful
information, which could be obtained no other way.
The weather was delightful. A few light, fleecy clouds were floating
in the blue sky, continually changing from one form of beauty to
another. The sun shone forth in his splendour, cheering the tender
grass and the up-springing seeds, and drawing them nearer and nearer
to his bosom. They stretched toward him their feeble blades and
diminutive leaves, as if they would gladly be clasped in his arms; but
their growing roots were striking deeper and deeper into mother earth,
and binding them closer and closer to her.
The gentle, cooling zephyrs were playing among the leaves, and
winning sweet music from the tiny voices, which responded in glee to
their salutations. Often they lifted the soft hair from the brows of
the children, and frolicked amid their curls, and fanned their
sun-burnt cheeks. It was a morning which all nature enjoyed. There
could not have been a finer day to start upon a journey. As birds do
not need a change of dress, there was no trunk to pack, and no
travelling-bag to be laden with comforts. All the preparation
necessary was the usual attention to the toilet, and the instruction
and advice which the exigency required.
The hearts of the young adventurers fluttered with excitement. There
was a mingling of curiosity to visit the great world of which they had
heard such glowing descriptions, and of fears to trust themselves to
the power of their wings to bear them from their pleasant, happy home,
and keep them out of harm's way. They had seen Pussy, as she walked
about in her white and black robe, and though she seemed so gentle,
they had been warned against her as one of their most deadly enemies.
They knew she was often prowling about, with stealthy tread, to prey
upon the unwary. They feared that, instead of flying to the
walnut-tree, as was the plan, they should fall upon the grass, where
she could pounce upon them and destroy them, notwithstanding the
screams and agonizing entreaties of their parents. Puss is a full
believer in the doctrine that "might makes right;" and she is as
unmoved by the cries and appeals of her victims as if they had no
hearts to suffer, and were made merely for her own use.
Many words of encouragement were addressed to them by their parents.
They told them how they themselves had suffered from similar fears;
how difficult it was for them to trust implicitly in the wisdom of
their own father and mother; and how they stood, tremulous and
fearful, on the top of the nest, wishing they had sufficient
resolution to obey, and yet fearing to venture; but how easy and
pleasant they found it to spread their wings in the air, and be borne
up by it, when they fully determined to make the attempt.
Our little birdlings still hesitated, just as I have seen children
hesitate and quiver with terror when for the first time they go into
the water to learn to swim. They know their father tells them the
truth, for he has never deceived them. He has bound a life-preserver
beneath their arms, and has promised to remain near, to catch them, if
they begin to sink; yet they are afraid, and draw back. They lack
faith. When at last they timidly push from the shore, and find
themselves buoyed up on the water, their delight is almost unbounded,
and they are as unwilling to leave as they were reluctant to enter it.
The old robins stood on one of the branches of the walnut-tree, and
endeavoured to persuade their timid brood to come to them. They were
not stern and severe, for they had not forgotten their own youth, and
they sympathized deeply with these children; but the father found he
must be decided, so he told them, (as it seemed,) authoritatively,
that they must hesitate no longer. He would count one--two--three; and
when he said three, they must spread their wings and do as well as
they could. The mother smiled lovingly upon them, and they determined
to obey, whatever effort it might cost. "One--two--three," counted the
robin, in his full, musical tones. The birdlings fluttered their
wings, and strained every nerve to alight by the side of their
parents. With what joy they felt their feet clinging round the branch!
How elated they were with their success! They chirped continually, and
merry and brisk was the conversation. "What is this?" one asked, and
"What is that?" said another, till it seemed as if the old birds would
be weary of their questions; but they never lost their patience; they
thought the little folks remarkably intelligent.
When they were rested, away flew the birds to the elm, and called to
their young. Grown courageous by success, they quickly followed, and,
through the whole day, they were flying about from tree to tree,
enjoying themselves highly.
At sunset, I saw them on the locust-tree, near the cottage, inhaling
its delicious perfume, with their faces toward the west, wondering,
perhaps, what occasioned all that glorious beauty, as the sun escaped
from their view.
Presently they flew to a great cherry-tree, and, from the chirping and
calling, we concluded they spent the night in its shelter. How strange
it must have been to them, this first night of their perching! The sky
was clear, the stars twinkled, and the half-moon shed her silvery
light on the earth, and gleamed through the cherry-leaves, as it had
done through the honeysuckles; but it was not home, that cherry-tree,
and they sighed as they thought of their birthplace. They sat close to
their mother's side, and felt that, after all, where she was, was the
best place for them. They curled up one foot into the soft down, and
turned back their heads till their bills were beneath their wings. The
lids slowly closed over their eyes, and they slept quietly and
sweetly, till wakened in the morning by the warbling of songsters who
welcomed the rosy dawn.
A new sense of responsibility filled their hearts. They were no longer
mere children, their every want supplied by others; but they were
youth, and must begin to provide for themselves, and depend upon their
own energies. We frequently hear the young robins among the trees, but
we seldom see them. We really miss them, and think of them as
pleasant visitors who have been spending a few days with us.
We hope that Honeysuckleville will not be forsaken; but that every
year the birds will return, and rear their young beneath its fragrant
shade, making hearts of the little Dudleys glad, and teaching them to
love.
"All things, both great and small;
For the dear God who loveth us,
Hath made and loveth all."
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"MAY I POP SOME CORN?"
"May I pop some corn?" asked Eddie.
"Yes," answered his mother; and laying down her work, she went to the
closet and got for him several small ears--some red and some
white--the kernels of which where not half so large as those of common
corn.
Eddie took a white bowl and sat down on the carpet by his mother with
the tiny ears in his apron. He worked away for some time, shelling
first one ear and then another, till every little kernel was in the
bowl, and nothing but cobs left. These he thought would help to build
a "log-house," so he put them in his play-box, with those he had
treasured before, and took his bowl to the kitchen.
Kate, the cook, was a coloured woman, and she loved children. When he
said to her, "Mother told me I might pop some corn," she cheerfully
placed the iron pan on the stove, and when it was hot enough, told him
he might put in the corn. Pretty soon it went Pop! pop! pop! till the
pan was filled with snow-white kernels. Eddie always wondered how they
could turn inside out and suddenly grow so large. He did not
understand that it was because of the expansion or swelling of the air
within the hard case, which then burst open to find more room.
[Illustration: Eddie popping corn.]
Eddie was very busy for some time in the kitchen attending to his
corn. When it was all done, he separated that which was popped from
that which was only parched, and put it in different dishes. He gave
his dog Philo some of the brown kernels, and he seemed to like them as
well as Eddie himself. Eddie enjoyed hearing him crack them with his
sharp teeth, and would stroke his great head, and say kindly, "Poor
Philo! you are a good Philo;" and the dog would wag his tail as much
as to say, "Dear Eddie! you are a good Eddie."
After giving Philo his share, and Kate hers, Eddie carried up a large
dishful to his mother and the children. He did not wish to eat it all
himself for he was a generous boy and always liked to have others
partake of his pleasures, whatever they might be. He reserved some of
the nicest of it in a tumbler, which he placed on his mother's
work-table. Mrs. Dudley took a little, saying to him,
"If you miss your corn, Eddie, you will know what has become of it."
He looked up from his play quite soberly, and said slowly, "Mother, if
_you_ wish to eat more you may, but _I_ am not going to."
"Why not, my child?"
"I am going to save it for father."
Mrs. Dudley was pleased to see Eddie willing to deny himself to give
to others, so she said to him, "That is right." When his father came
home from his business, Eddie placed the tumbler beside his plate on
the tea-table. After the blessing was asked, Mr. Dudley, looking at
the children, inquired, "Where did this come from?" "I popped it,"
answered Eddie. And his father thanked him with a kind and loving
smile.
Eddie was much happier than if he had eaten all the corn himself, for
he had made others happy by his generosity. "It is more blessed to
give than to receive," the Bible tells us; and Eddie had been learning
this truth in the great pleasure he felt in dividing his popped corn
with others. I hope you who read this story know how to sympathize
with him. If you do not, will you try the experiment, and see if you
are not far happier to share your corn, or your candy, or whatever
else you may have, with your brothers and sisters, and those around
you, than you are to devour it yourself? I have seen little chickens
seize their favourite morsel and run away and hide where they could
eat it all alone; but I should be sorry to think that any child would
do so.
"WHICH WOULD YOU RATHER I SHOULD DO?"
"Which would you rather I should do?" asked Eddie of his mother, his
large blue eyes filling with tears.
"I should rather you would stay with me," was the answer.
"Then I will, mother!" and the tears remained where they were, and did
not chase each other down his plump cheeks. A trembling smile played
around his mouth; for he had conquered himself, and had readily
yielded to his mother's wishes. There had been a struggle, severe, but
short, in his mind, and when he said, "Then I will, mother," he meant
he could be happy to stay at home, and would not ask again for
permission to go with the other children. Mrs. Dudley could not resist
the impulse to clasp him to her heart, and tell him he was a good boy;
and this made him still happier. He saw he had pleased her, and her
approving smile was worth more to him than any enjoyment could be
without it.
Eddie, you know, is a little boy, five years old. He has brothers and
sisters older than himself, and they have fine sport in sliding and
skating. Their teacher takes them every day to enjoy it, and they come
home in high spirits, swinging their skates by their sides, and
talking loud and fast about it.
Eddie has watched them many days from the nursery window, and has
longed to be with them; but his careful mother has feared he would get
hurt among so many skaters, or perhaps be lost in one of those
"air-holes" which are often found in the most solid ice; so when Eddie
asked her if he might go to the river, she hesitated, for she did not
like to deny him. "Which would you _rather_ I would do?" then inquired
the dear boy; and when his mother told him, he did not tease her, but
resumed his place at the window.
Mrs. Dudley resolved to go herself with her little son to the river,
when the children went again. She did not tell him so, however; but
the next day, when the merry skaters were in the midst of their
enjoyment, she put on her hood, and her warm blanket-shawl, and thick
gloves, and calling Eddie to her, wrapped him in his wadded coat and
woollen tippet, and placing on his head his "liberty-cap,"--knit of
red and black worsted, with a tassel dangling from the point--and
pulling it well down over his ears, and covering his fat hands with
warm mittens, they started out on the white snow. The snow was frozen
sufficiently to bear them, and they had a pleasant walk above the
hidden grass and stones.
Eddie was in great glee. His mother enjoyed it almost as much as he
did, for it was an exhilarating sight. Some of the boys were sliding,
some skating, and others pushing sleds before them, on which a mother
or sister were sitting. It reminded one of the pictures we often see
of skating in Holland; and, to make the resemblance more perfect, a
Dutchman was there with his pipe, defiling the pure, fresh air with
its foul odour.
Mrs. Dudley was invited to take a ride, and, leaving Eddie in the care
of another, she was soon seated on one of the sleds, and speeding away
before a rapid skater. She found it far more swift and agreeable than
riding in the usual way. Eddie, too, had a ride, and his little heart
was brimfull of happiness. He walked about on the ice quite carefully
and fearlessly.
The river, on which these children were, rises and falls with the
tide. Eddie saw other boys sliding off towards an icy meadow bordering
on it, and he thought he would go too. The ice formed an inclined
plane; his feet slipped on its smooth surface, and down he went; he
jumped up, but the blood from his nose, flowing over his face and
coat, and staining the snow, frightened him, and he uttered a loud
cry. The skaters were with him before his mother, though she was but a
few steps away, for she could not move as quickly as they. It was
pleasant to see their sympathy, and hear their kind inquiries. His
mother soon comforted him; for he had not been cut by the ice as they
feared. The blood from his nose testified to a pretty hard bump. He
soon forgot the pain, and was as happy as ever. He will long remember
his first sled ride on the river.
Why do you think, dear children, I have told you this story about a
child whom you have never seen? I wanted to ask you, or rather have
you ask yourselves, if you are willing, as Eddie was, to do as your
mother thinks best? Much as he wanted to go on the river, he felt
satisfied to do as his mother wished. I hope, when you know what your
mother prefers, you will make up your minds to give up your own plans,
and be happy in doing so.
I am not one of those who imagine children have no trials. I know
their lives are not all bright and sunny. I have not forgotten being a
child myself. Many a hard battle has to be fought with wrong feelings
and wrong wishes; but never fear; resolve to conquer yourselves, and
subdue every thing that is sinful. Every victory will make you
stronger, and render it easier for you to do right. Will you try?
"If at first you don't succeed,
Try, try again."
THE BIRDS AND THE SNOW-STORM.
The weather is warm and sunny. The snow of winter has disappeared. The
grass is green, and growing finely. The early spring-flowers have
opened their blossoms, and we all think summer is so near, that the
cold weather must be over. The birds have thought so, too; for they
are flying from tree to tree, singing most beautiful melodies, and
peeping about, here and there, making arrangements for summer, and
selecting places where to build their pretty nests.
But the wind blows chill again. The sky is clouded, and people begin
to say, "I think we shall have another snow-storm." It is not long
before the feathery flakes begin to descend. The earth is so warm that
they scarce touch it before they are melted and absorbed. The snow
continues to fall, the earth grows colder and colder, and soon it
cannot melt the snow, but is itself chilled, and accepts it as a
mantle. For three days the storm rages. The ground is as white as in
mid-winter.
What is to become of the birds? They can find neither food nor
shelter. It is painful to see them flying distractedly through the
storm, not knowing where to go; but too cold and too hungry to remain
in the trees, and too fearful to seek comfort in the many warm houses,
that would have opened their windows, if they would have entered under
their protecting roof.
Mrs. Dudley's children are all watching them from the windows, and
throwing out hominy and bread-crumbs for them to eat. How cold the
little sparrows look, as they pick up their food! Children's hearts
are generally tender, and always so unless they have been hardened by
the practice of cruelty, and Mrs. Dudley's were full of sympathy for
the little sufferers. "Oh! mother!" said Eddie, the youngest, "if the
birds knew how we loved them, they would come into the house;" but the
birds did not know, and they stayed out in the snow, and many of them
perished.
The children were sadly grieved, when, after the storm, they found
many of their feathered friends dead. How much they regretted they
could not have saved their lives! If the birds had only known, as
Eddie said, how much the children loved them, they would have flown
into the house, and been warmed and fed.
There are many dear children who do not know how much Jesus loves
them; how much he wishes them to enter the "ark of safety," and escape
the dangers there are in the world. There are many who have not even
heard of him; and many of those who have, do not know he is their best
friend.
Do _you_ know how much he loves you, and have you sought his
protection amid all the dangers that surround you? If you have not
found refuge in that "high tower," of which David speaks in the
Psalms, you are no safer than were the birds flying through the cold
snow, and you surely will be lost if you do not fly to that kind
Saviour, who has prepared a way of escape for you.
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THE FIRST STRAWBERRY.
How bright and red it looked, half-concealed as it was by the green
leaves! It was the first strawberry of the season. Mary gathered it
with delight, and ran with it to her mother.
"Here is something for you, mother," she said, holding up the rosy
treasure.
"Thank you, my dear!" said Mrs. Dudley, smiling upon her daughter. She
ate it with a double relish. She was very fond of the fruit, and she
was gratified by this expression of the thoughtful, unselfish love of
her dear child.
How much more Mary enjoyed that look of love, and that approving
smile, than she would have enjoyed eating that luscious strawberry
herself!
Every day, Mary, Willie, and Eddie search for the fruit as it ripens,
and almost every evening their father and mother find a saucer of
berries, with sugar and cream, beside their plates at the tea-table.
How pleasant it is to see children think so much of their parents! I
hope they will continue obedient and attentive, for there is no more
beautiful sight than an affectionate, united family.
God will bless those who honour their parents.
"I PRAYED ALL DAY FOR HELP."
It was a beautiful evening early in June. The air was cool and
pleasant. The trees and shrubs were covered with luxuriant foliage,
and the roses were in their opening beauty. The frogs were croaking in
the pond, and the birds singing on the trees. The sun had just sunk
beneath the horizon. The clouds which lingered around his pathway
received his parting rays, and were most gorgeously decorated with the
richest of his colouring.
Willie walked about the lawn, his face lighted up with a smile, and
his dark gray eye bright with happiness. His heart was attuned to
harmony with all nature around him, and he would frequently look up to
his mother, who sat by the open window, enjoying the delightful
evening. Presently Willie came, and stood by her side.
"How happy I am this evening!" he said to her. She put her arm around
him, and drew him towards her.
"What makes you so happy?" she inquired.
"Because I have been trying to control my temper, I suppose"--was his
answer.
"You have not been angry to-day, have you?"
"No, mother."
"Did you pray about it, Willie?"
"Yes, mother. I prayed all day for help."
"How did you pray?"
"I said, Forgive my sins, and give me a new heart."
"God heard your prayers, and he has helped you to control your temper.
God always hears prayer, and helps those who ask his aid. I hope you
will never forget to pray for what you need," said his mother. Willie
smiled, and kissed her, and went out of doors again to enjoy the
evening--
"So cool, so calm, so bright."
Willie is generally a good boy, but he has a quick temper. When three
or four years old, he would sometimes get very angry. I have even
known him to throw things at children with whom he was playing, if
they did any thing to offend him. He did so one day when his mother
was from home. She was much grieved when she heard it, and talked
seriously with him. It made a deep impression on his mind. He speaks
of it now with great solemnity, and asks his mother if she remembers
it. He feels that he committed a great sin. He knows it is wrong to
let his temper govern his reason, and he is struggling to control
himself. I think he will succeed.
I knew his grandfather when I was a little girl, and I remember
hearing him say that he was naturally quick-tempered; but, although I
lived in the same house with him, and saw him under a great variety
of circumstances, I never heard him speak a hasty word. I hope Willie
will obtain as perfect control over himself, and, if he lives to
manhood, that his friends will be able to say of him what I can say of
his grandfather.
Willie was, at one time, playing with some children, and found he was
growing angry. He immediately left them, and sat down on the stairs
alone. Pretty soon they followed him. He did not feel entirely
good-natured, so he again left them, and went into the library. He
shut the door and prayed to his Father in heaven for strength to
conquer himself. He remained there alone till he felt he had obtained
the victory.
Willie is not the only little boy who has a quick temper, and I tell
this story about him for the sake of the dear children who sometimes
get angry. I hope, like Willie, they will learn to go to God for help,
and then, like his, their countenances will be radiant with gladness;
and they, too, can say, "How happy I am!"
"An angry man stirreth up strife, and a furious man aboundeth in
transgression."
"He that is slow to anger is better than the mighty; and he that
ruleth his spirit than he that taketh a city."
"He that hath no rule over his own spirit, is like a city that is
broken down, and without walls."
"EVER SO MANY BEAUTIFUL THINGS."
"There are ever so many beautiful things up in the sky, mother!" said
little Eddie, as he sat in his mother's lap, leaning his head upon her
encircling arm.
The clouds had gathered about the horizon, and assumed many beautiful
and fantastic shapes. Some of them were gorgeously coloured with the
rays of the departing sun, and were shaded from the most delicate rose
to the darkest, richest crimson. As the sun receded farther and
farther behind the green hills, they grew darker and darker, and the
imaginative boy had seen fancied ships with their sails spread;
steam-vessels with clouds of smoke rolling from their chimneys;
mountains piled upon mountains; trees, birds, and many other wondrous
things which filled his infant mind with admiration.
Soon the stars twinkled forth, and they awoke a new interest. At first
they appeared one by one, as if timidly venturing to look down upon
our beautiful planet, and when fully assured that the king of day had
disappeared, they came forth faster and more numerously, till the
whole heavens were bespangled with their glittering brightness. Then
their companion, the moon, came slowly up, shining with a soft and
mellow light, a new beauty in the "blue wilderness of interminable
air."
Eddie had long gazed silently before he uttered the exclamation,
"There are ever so many beautiful things up in the sky!" and I suppose
he had many thoughts which it would have been pleasant for his mother
to know. He did not often sit up so late that he could see the stars.
Eddie is not the only one who has been charmed with the glowing
sunset, the gray twilight, or the starry firmament. David loved to
look upon the works of God. In one of his psalms, he says, "When I
consider the heavens, the work of thy fingers, the moon and the stars
which thou hast ordained, what is man, that thou art mindful of him,
and the son of man, that thou visitest him!" It was astonishing to
David, that God, who was so infinitely superior to man, and who had
given such proofs of his power and greatness in the creation of the
heavens, should condescend to notice him, to provide for his minutest
wants, and to protect him from danger. I suppose this psalm was
written in the night, when the sweet singer of Israel had been looking
at just such a sky as drew from Eddie his exclamation of admiration.
I often think, as I look abroad, how wonderful it is that God has made
every thing so beautiful. We need never be weary in studying his
works. The more we learn of them, the more we realize his greatness
and perfection. "The heavens declare the glory of God, and the
firmament showeth his handiwork."
When you look at the clear blue sky, do you remember who has spread it
out, and who has created the innumerable worlds which we see, when
darkness covers our earth? "There are," indeed, "ever so many
beautiful things up in the sky," and it was a Father's hand that
placed them there. They are for us to enjoy, and many a lesson of love
and confidence have they taught God's children. Dear little Eddie! I
hope he will always love nature, and early learn to "look through
nature up to nature's God."
I shall never forget a drive with my father, when I was a child so
small that I sat on a little footstool in the carriage, between him
and my mother. We were returning from a visit to Aunt Harriet, at
whose house we had been spending the day. It was a fine evening. The
air was balmy and pleasant. I remember how the frogs sung in the low
ground, and how we listened to their quaint music. We had not ridden
far before the moon rose, and the stars, one by one, appeared. My
father had a true love for nature, and for whatever was beautiful or
grand. We drove on without speaking for a time, each enjoying the
evening. My father broke the silence by repeating that beautiful hymn
of Addison's, commencing with these lines--
"The spacious firmament on high,
With all the blue ethereal sky,
And spangled heavens, a shining frame,
Their great Original proclaim."
I was awed by the reverence of his manner, and I felt myself in the
presence of my Maker,--a mere speck amid his vast creations. An
ineffaceable impression was made on my mind, young as I was. My father
died many years ago, while I was still a child, but the lesson of that
hour has not been forgotten.
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LILY AND HER DUCKLINGS.
The white duck, Lily, made a nest on the ground, in a small enclosure,
from which some tame rabbits had been removed. She gathered the
scattered straw into one corner, and made a much neater nest than the
other ducks did, who laid their eggs under the wood-pile among the
small chips.
She laid several large, smooth, white eggs, and when she had as many
as she could conveniently take care of, she began to sit on them to
keep them warm, till the little ducks should be ready to peck their
way out. She plucked the soft white down from her breast, to line the
nest, and to make it of a more even temperature for the eggs; and,
whenever she left to procure food, or to take a short swim on the
pond, she carefully covered them.
The duck cannot spread her wings as wide as the hen, so she has to be
much more particular about her nest. She makes it deeper and warmer
than Biddy. It is wonderful with what skill all animals rear their
young. It shows the great goodness and kindness of God, that he should
thus fit the creatures he has made for the duties they must perform.
His care is continual, not only over us, but over them all. He hears
the young ravens when they cry, and the ducks and the chickens are not
forgotten by him. To the duck he has not given the brooding wings of
the hen-mother; but he has given her a coat of down, from which she
can make a warm bed for her cherished eggs.
It was a very pretty sight to see Lily on her nest, almost covered by
the straw, her head turned back, and her broad yellow bill partially
hidden beneath her wing. The down lay scattered about like
snow-flakes. She looked patient and hopeful, as she opened her eyes to
see who had intruded on her solitude.
When a sitting-duck goes in search of food, she acts so queerly that
you would surely laugh to see her, if you are not accustomed to her
odd ways. She bends her head back, and draws it close to her body, and
waddles about in the greatest haste, quacking all the time.
Lily waited four weeks before the ducklings appeared. Some of the
brood were of a straw-colour, and some were marked with spots of
black. They were all pretty. When I first saw them, they were partly
hidden beneath their mother. Their glossy bills and bright eyes were
visible, but they were afraid to venture from their shelter. They were
provided with water and food in the old rabbit-house, because, if they
followed their mother to the pond, the musk-rats would probably devour
some of them.
While the little ones remained with their mother, they were safe, but
when they became discontented, and wandered from home, they were
sometimes lost. The rats were their principal enemies, and those from
which they had most to fear. They were constantly lurking about to
catch the ducklings, and sometimes the defenseless little ones ran
directly into their deep holes, from which there was no possibility of
escape. Quite a number of Lily's family came to an untimely end in
this way.
When I saw them roving about in the high grass, seeking in vain to
find their way to their mother's presence, and hearing their calls for
help, and her answering cry of distress, I could but think of the dear
children who forget their mother's counsel, and leave her protection
before they are old enough to take care of themselves.
The ducklings, I observed, did not know who were their friends; for,
one day, when the prettiest of the brood had found a way out of the
rabbit-house, I thought I would catch it, and give it back to its
mother. It was much alarmed, and Lily was in equal trouble. It ran
away from me, thinking, perhaps that I was a greater enemy than the
rats, against which it had probably been warned. Just as I was going
to put my hand on it, it hid itself in a rat-hole, from which there
was no escape. I could not rescue it, neither could its mother. The
next morning, when I went to look at the ducks, and give them their
breakfast, there lay the poor duckling, close by the fatal hole. The
rat had brought it out, and partly devoured it.
Children often think they know what is best for them quite as well, if
not better, than their parents, and when told not to do this or that,
they are not satisfied to obey quietly, but ask, "Why not?" I think
children may often be told why they are bidden to do this, or
forbidden to do that; but they should obey their parents promptly,
whether they know their reasons or not.
Sometimes there are reasons which children cannot understand,
sometimes there are reasons which it would not be wise to tell them,
and sometimes it is not convenient to give the why and the wherefore.
Children are commanded to obey their parents,--not the reasons their
parents may give them. The young ducks could not understand why their
mother did not wish them to go out of that enclosure. They could not
comprehend the dangers which surrounded them. They saw the birds
flying about in the air, and heard the hum of the bees as they were
going abroad for honey, or returning loaded to the hive, and they
could not understand why they might not wander about too. The red
clover looked very beautiful, and the white clover was so fragrant,
they longed to ramble in it. They thought their mother unnecessarily
strict, because she wished to keep them with her, instead of
permitting them to see all the pretty things of which they could now
and then catch a glimpse, as they peeped through the cracks of the
rabbit-house.
Children sometimes feel unpleasantly because they are not permitted to
play in the street. Ah! they are as ignorant of danger as the poor
ducklings and they are too young to understand the peril to which they
are exposed. Even if their mother should explain it to them, they
could realize but little about it. It is by far the better way for
children to feel that their mother knows best, and to be satisfied
that her reasons are good and sufficient even if they do not know what
they are.
I once heard a distinguished clergyman say he had always observed that
those persons who had learned to obey their parents promptly, most
readily yielded to the claims of God, and became converted, while
those who had always liked their own way had generally a long, severe
struggle, before they were willing to give up their sins, and
oftentimes could not make up their minds to do so, and, though deeply
convicted, remained impenitent.
It is a fearful thought that, if you form a habit of disobedience to
your parents, it may cost you the salvation of your soul.
PRAYING FOR RAIN.
It was the first of July. There had been no rain for several weeks.
Every one feared there would be a drought. The farmer looked anxiously
upon his fields of corn, whose deep green leaves had not yet begun to
turn yellow, and upon the potatoes, whose blossoms were still
unwithered. They could not long remain thus beautiful and thriving, if
the refreshing rain was withheld. The ground was so dry that, in
hoeing the garden, no moisture could be observed.
Mrs. Dudley talked with her children about the need of rain, and the
propriety of praying to our heavenly Father to water the earth, that
it might "bring forth and bud," and "give seed to the sower, and bread
to the eater." She told them how Elijah prayed for rain, after there
had been none in the land of Canaan for three years and six months,
and how God heard his prayer, "and the heaven gave rain, and the earth
brought forth her fruit."
This great drought was a judgment upon the people of Israel for their
sin in departing from God, and worshipping idols. There had been, in
consequence of this want of rain, a "sore famine." We read in the
book of Kings of one poor woman, who had only a handful of meal in a
barrel, and a little oil in a cruse. When Elijah met her, and asked
her for water, and a morsel of bread, she told him this was all she
had, and that she was gathering two sticks, that she might bake it for
herself and her son, that they might eat and die! She know not where
to find any more food for herself or her child, and expected to "pine
away, stricken through for want of the fruits of the field," and to
die with hunger.
Elijah bid her not to fear, but go and do what she had said. He asked
her to make him a little cake first, and bring it to him, and
afterwards make one for herself and son. "For thus saith the Lord God
of Israel, the barrel of meal shall not waste, neither shall the cruse
of oil fail, until the day that the Lord sendeth rain upon the earth."
It would not have been strange, if this widow of Zarephath had been
unwilling to divide her handful of meal with Elijah, or if she had
doubted the promise which was made to her, but she did not. She baked
the little cake for the stranger, and afterwards one for herself and
her boy, and there was plenty of meal and of oil left for another
repast. "She, and he, and her house, did eat of it many days." The
barrel of meal wasted not, neither did the cruse of oil fail, till the
Lord sent rain upon the earth, and her wants could be supplied in the
usual way. She did not lose the reward promised to those who give a
cup of cold water to the friends of God.
God does not willingly afflict the creatures he has made. He is a
gracious God, merciful, and of great kindness, and has compassion even
on the beasts of the field. When Jonah complained that he spared
Nineveh, because its inhabitants humbled themselves before him, and
turned from their evil way, after having sent him to prophesy to them
that in forty days it should be overthrown, he said to Jonah, "Should
I not spare Nineveh, that great city, wherein are more than six-score
thousand persons that cannot discern between their right hand and
their left; and also much cattle?"
In this long drought in the land of Canaan, the cattle must have
suffered greatly, and many of them probably perished. Indeed, we read
that Ahab, the king of Israel, and Obadiah, the governor of his house,
searched the land for the fountains and brooks, to find grass to save,
the horses and mules alive, that they might not be all lost.
God is a Father, and, like a tender, loving father, he removes his
chastisements so soon as they have produced the effect designed. He
was "grieved for the misery of Israel." He told Elijah he would send
rain. The prophet went to Ahab, who, when he saw him, asked, "Art thou
he that troubleth Israel?" Elijah answered, it was Ahab, and his
father's house, who troubled Israel, because they had forsaken the
commandments of the Lord, and worshipped Baalim.
Elijah went up to the top of Mount Carmel, and earnestly prayed for
rain. God had promised that he would send it, and Elijah no doubt
pleaded this promise, as he interceded with him. He directed his
servant to go where he could look towards the sea. He went and looked,
and said, "There is nothing." Elijah was not discouraged. He knew God
would remember his promise, and he sent him seven times more. The
seventh time the servant returned, and said, "Behold, there ariseth a
little cloud out of the sea, like a man's hand." It grew rapidly
larger and larger, till the sky was black with clouds and wind, and
there was a great rain.
James, in his Epistle, says, "The effectual fervent prayer of the
righteous man availeth much," and he mentions this instance of
prevailing prayer in Elijah, as an encouragement to all Christians to
ask for needed blessings. "Elijah was a man subject to like passions
as we are," he tells us, and if he prevailed with God, so may others.
God is the "same yesterday, to-day, and forever." He does not change.
He is always a hearer of prayer.
Mrs. Dudley also told her children that God hears the cry of all who
are in distress. She referred to one of the psalms of David, where he
describes a storm at sea, and the great terror of the sailors. "Then
they cry unto the Lord in their trouble, and he delivers them out of
their distresses."
God does not forget any creature he has made. He provides the springs
and the streams to give drink to the beasts of the field, and to the
birds which sing among the branches. He causes the grass to grow for
the cattle, and herb for the service of man. He feeds the fowls, and
clothes the flowers with beauty. He has taught us to ask for our daily
bread, and as this must depend upon fruitful seasons it is proper we
should ask for rain, whenever it is needed.
The children were quite interested in what their mother had told them.
They knew that she earnestly desired rain, and that she often asked
God to send it, before vegetation perished for want of it. They
watched the sky with great anxiety, and when it became cloudy, and
continued so from day to day, they thought surely a storm was near.
After several days, there was a slight shower, but not enough to
refresh the plants. Mary was greatly disappointed "I thought," (she
said to her mother,) "it was going to rain in answer to your prayer."
"I thank God for that little rain," said Eddy, as he talked about it.
Mrs. Dudley told him that was right, but they ought to pray for more,
it was so much needed.
The next Sunday Mrs. Dudley was not well, and could not attend
church. When her children returned she asked Mary if they prayed for
rain. "No, mother!" she answered; "but I did."
The sky continued cloudy for some time, and then the rain gently fell
for a day and a night, and all nature was refreshed and cheered.
Soon afterwards I left Mrs. Dudley's family. When I had been absent
about a fortnight, I received a letter from Mary. She told me about
the bantams, and the flowers, and many other things in which I was
interested. She wrote that it had "rained on Sunday, and all day
Monday. I cannot help thinking," she continued, "how good God is to
send us rain when we most need it, and what cause we have for
thanksgiving."
I hope Mrs. Dudley's children will never forget that God is the giver
of every good gift, and that he likes to have people ask him for what
they need. Children should think of God as their best friend, and
should go to him in prayer, feeling as sure he can and does hear them,
as they are that their mother does. In a season of drought they should
ask him for rain, and when he sends it to make vegetation grow, they
should thank him for that evidence of his loving-kindness.
THE GRAPE-CLUSTERS.
Very beautiful were the grape-clusters as they hung on the graceful
vine, and very tempting to the hand that was near enough to pluck
them.
Two little boys came on an errand to the lady who lived in the house
which the grape-vine shaded. It was reviving to come out of the city's
heat and dust, and enter that pleasant parlour, screened from the
fiercer rays of the summer's sun by its green curtain of leaves. The
hot pavement and the glaring walls of the city seemed far distant, for
the charm of the country was spread over that retired room. All city
sights were shut out, and peace and quiet reigned within.
The lady was sitting at her desk, writing, when the boys entered. She
spoke to them kindly, for they were objects of her kind care, although
they did not live with her. They handed her a note which required an
answer. She gave them permission to play in the yard, while she should
write it. They were very happy, for it was an unusual pleasure for
them. They examined the flowers which grew in the narrow bed by the
high, close fence, and then they began to look wistfully at the
rich bunches of grapes, which were within their reach. The lady had
not told them that they might gather any, and they felt that they
ought not to do so. But the tempter was near, and they listened to his
suggestions.
[Illustration: The lady was sitting at her desk writing, when the boys
entered.]
Looking towards the house to see if they were observed, they
cautiously went up to the vine, and each gathered a bunch of grapes.
They ate them secretly, that they might avoid detection; but although
they knew it not, there was an eye in the house that saw them, and
there was another eye from which their act was not hid--the eye of the
all-seeing God.
When the note was written, the boys were recalled to the parlour, and
pleasantly dismissed. I think they must have felt somewhat ashamed,
that they had abused the confidence reposed in them, and had been
guilty of stealing from their kind friend.
After they left, the lady was informed what they had done. When she
visited "the home," where they lived, she mentioned the fact to their
teacher, although she did not allude to it to them.
The teacher took occasion to talk with her scholars about being honest
and trustworthy, and asked them what they should think of children
who, when sent on errands and permitted to go into the yard to enjoy
themselves, should stealthily take the fruit which grew there. They,
of course, condemned such conduct. She gave them the instruction they
needed, and endeavoured to impress its importance upon their minds.
Soon after the close of the school, the two boys who had taken the
grapes went to her and told her what they had done. She talked with
them kindly. They seemed truly penitent. She asked them if they would
like to go to the lady and acknowledge their fault. They said they
should, and immediately they put on their straw hats, and their clean
sacks, and went cheerfully to make all the reparation in their power
for the fault they had committed. Confession is always pleasant to the
truly penitent.
Again they stood in that shaded parlour. They were affectionately
welcomed as before. They confessed freely and fully, what they had
done on their previous visit, and asked forgiveness, which was readily
granted. Just as they were leaving, they turned and inquired, "Can you
ever trust us again?" The lady assured them that she could, and they
went away happy and strengthened in their good purposes.
From that time there has been a marked change in the children. Their
characters have much improved and they have been, in all respects,
more conscientious and trustworthy. One of the boys has, I think,
found a Christian home, and the other is waiting for one.
"IT ALMOST MAKES ME CRY."
"It almost makes me cry to think of the heathen," said Willie Dudley,
as he was standing by his mother's work-table, with his elbow leaning
upon it, and his head resting upon his hand. "I don't wonder
missionaries go to them." His face was thoughtful and sad, and the
tears stood in his eyes.
He had just been looking at two hideous idols, which had been brought
from Africa, and his mother had been telling him that the heathen
thought they were gods, and prayed to them.
Little Eddie wondered that any people could think these stone images
were God. His large, blue eyes looked larger and rounder than ever,
they were so filled with amazement at what he heard. He could only
say, "Oh, mother! oh, mother!" in tones which indicated surprise,
pity, and horror.
Mrs. Dudley told her children that the heathen had not been taught, as
we have, that God is a spirit, and that they had never learned the
commandment, "Thou shalt not make unto thee any graven image, or any
likeness of any thing that is in the heaven above, or that is in the
earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth; thou shalt
not bow down thyself to them, nor serve them; for I, the Lord thy
God, am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the
children unto the third and fourth generation of them that hate me;
and showing mercy unto thousands of them that love me, and keep my
commandments."
"I don't wonder that the missionaries go to them," was the sentiment
on the mind of Willie, as he thought of the ignorance and degradation
of the heathen. He loved, himself, to hear about God, and our blessed
Saviour, and he knew that God required a pure and spiritual worship.
He knew God was the Creator of the world, and that his power and glory
could not well be represented or conceived by man. He had often heard
of the heathen, and had read about their idols, but to see and handle
a stone head which had been actually an object of religious worship,
made it seem much more real to him than ever before, that there are
many people who have never learned to worship the true God.
Willie has always had a great reverence for his heavenly Father.
Several years ago, he was reading a description of one of the idols of
the Hindoos. The picture was disgustingly repulsive. He went to Mrs.
Dudley with his book, saying, "Mother, I don't like to call g-o-d God
here; I want to call it d-o-g, for I don't think it is right to call
such a thing by that great name."
Perhaps Willie will some day be a missionary, and preach the glad
tidings of salvation to those who are now sitting in darkness, and in
the shadow of death. But if he is not a missionary himself, I trust he
will never forget to do what he can for those who, far from their
homes and their friends, are fulfilling Christ's last command, to "go
into all the world, and preach the gospel to every creature."
All Christians cannot be missionaries, but they can all do something
to spread a knowledge of true religion throughout the world. They can
contribute of their property to this noble purpose. Our heavenly
Father accepts the smallest gift, offered in love. We, surely, who
live in comfortable homes, and are surrounded by so much that is
pleasant, should never forget those who, in foreign lands, are
preaching the "unsearchable riches of Christ."
If our Saviour were now upon the earth, I suppose dear children, you
think it would be a great pleasure to minister to his wants, and
provide him with food or clothing, or any thing he might need. It is
delightful to know that what we do for those who love him, he accepts
as done to himself. In his Holy Word he says, "Inasmuch as ye have
done it unto one of the least of these, my brethren, ye have done it
unto me."
THE BOY WHO STEALS.
Mrs. Dudley was sitting at her dining-table. The dessert was before
her. There were fine, red water-melons, rich and juicy, with glossy
black seeds peeping out from their hiding-places, and musk-melons,
fragrant and luscious, which grew in her own garden. They had been
gathered early in the morning, by George and Willie, and placed in the
cellar, that they might be cool and refreshing. The boys had assisted
in planting them in the spring, and with their little hoes they had
worked about them during the summer, and subdued the weeds. They had
watched their growth, and every day they examined the vines to find
those that were ripe. They carefully gathered them, and sometimes
there were so many that their wheelbarrow was quite full. Then they
had the pleasure of carrying some to their neighbours. Mrs. Dudley did
not consider good ripe fruit injurious, but much more healthy, in
summer, than meat, puddings, and pastries, so that melons formed quite
an important part of the family dinner. The children enjoyed them
particularly, because they had raised them, in part, by their own
industry.
George asked to be excused from the table. Not long after he left,
Mrs. Dudley heard a cry, as if some child was in trouble. She looked
around. Mary, and Willie, and Eddie were there. The sounds of distress
could not come from George, for he never cried in that way. Mr. and
Mrs. Dudley immediately arose and went out upon the lawn. The children
followed. They looked here and there, and soon saw a boy near the
house. He had a small bundle in his hand, and a little tin pail. I
should think he was ten or eleven years old. He was crying, and
calling to a boy who stood at the gate. Mr. Dudley inquired of him,
"What is the matter?"
"John won't let me go home."
"How does he prevent you? What does he do to you?" asked Mrs. Dudley.
"He won't let me alone."
"Does he try to make you fight?" she again inquired,--for she had
frequently seen that large boys often love to tease and torment
smaller ones, and she thought perhaps this little fellow was abused by
a tyrannical companion. She thought of going to speak to the boy at
the gate, but Mr. Dudley made further inquiries, and the child's
answers were not very satisfactory.
Mary Dudley now came near her mother, and, speaking in a low voice,
said to her, "That is the boy who steals."
While they were talking with him a larger boy came up, and said his
teacher had sent him and the boy at the gate to take Jimmy back to
school.
"Why, what has he done?" asked one of the group which surrounded him.
"He has been stealing the children's dinners. He stole yesterday, and
he has been stealing to-day."
This was a sad account to hear. Jimmy begged to be permitted to go
home, but Mr. Dudley told him he had better return to the school. He
then very reluctantly walked down to the gate with the largest boy,
and I suppose was led back to his teacher.
Mrs. Dudley had never heard of this child before, but Mr. Dudley said
he had known him as a very bad boy. She asked Mary how she happened to
know any thing about him. Mary told her that he attended
Sunday-school, and that, a few Sundays before, one of the children
could not find his cap. A thorough search was made for it, but it
could not be found. The superintendent thought some one must have
taken it. He suspected Jimmy, because his reputation was so bad, and
followed him on his way home. Jimmy had it on his head, and his own
cap was hidden under his sack!
The superintendent of the school talked with Jimmy, who said he would
never steal again; but, alas! he soon forgot his good resolution.
Although he carried a dinner for himself in his tin pail, he took
whatever he liked from the baskets of his companions.
Mrs. Dudley has seen this boy several times since she heard him crying
on the lawn. She says it always makes her feel sad to meet him, for
she cannot avoid thinking,--"that is the boy who steals." She has
learned that he has no father or mother, but lives with his
grandparents. I fear he "will bring down their gray hairs with sorrow
to the grave." He has allowed himself to steal small things, and as he
grows older he will probably take articles of more value. He may
become a housebreaker or a murderer.
It is dangerous to indulge in the least sin. It hardens the heart, and
stifles the whisper of that still, small voice, which so often tells
children, when they are tempted to do wrong, "That is not right; you
should not do that."
In some Catechism the question is asked, "What is my duty to my
neighbour?" and a part of the answer is, "To keep my hands from
picking and stealing." I suppose "picking" must mean, secretly taking
little pieces of cake, or sugar, or any thing of the kind, of small
value. I presume Jimmy was in the habit of "picking," at his
grandmother's before he ventured to steal at school.
I could tell you several very sad stories of people who have stolen
when they were children, and who have grown more and more wicked, as
they have advanced in years, till they became a curse to society and
themselves. "The way of transgressors is hard." These people have no
true enjoyment. There is always a fearful looking forward to the
future.
It is not pleasant to me to write about bad children, and I should not
do it if it were not to warn the dear children I so much love against
the formation of wrong and sinful habits.
How much better it would be for Jimmy if he had learned to "touch not,
taste not, handle not," that which does not belong to him!
[Illustration]
LOOK AT THE BIRDS!
October, with its golden and crimson hues, its "gentle wind," and its
"fair sunny noon," has passed away. November has come. The sun shines
brightly, and the sky is almost clear of clouds; but the chill wind
blows roughly, and the leaves are rudely torn from the trees where
they have gladdened us through the spring and the summer by their
refreshing shade, their modest beauty, and their sweet music, as they
sung to the gentle breeze which played amid the branches. They lie
now, most of them, beneath the trees, wrinkled and faded, or scattered
here and there, far from their fellows, wherever the cold blast has
wafted them.
The birds have been taught by their unfailing instinct that summer has
departed, and winter is near. They no more warble their rich melodies,
or flit in and out of the bowery recesses of the honeysuckles or peep
with knowing look under the eaves, or into the arbour. Other purposes
prompt to other acts, and they are taking their farewell of the
pleasant summer haunts, where they have built their nests and reared
their young.
This morning, soon after sunrise, Willie was standing on the lawn,
contemplating the beauties of nature, and thinking, I suppose, of the
changes of the seasons, when all at once I heard him shout, "Look at
the birds! Look at the birds!" We threw open the window, and there
were thousands and thousands of them almost over our heads. Their
wings made a noise like the rushing of a steam-engine as it cleaves
the air in its speed. They were calling to each other with a short,
quick sound. It seemed as if they were giving and receiving orders. We
watched them till they disappeared over the tree-tops.
"There are more! There are more!" shouted Mary. We again looked
towards the rising sun, and up over the eastern hills came another
immense flock, calling to each other as the first, and they too
disappeared behind the western hills.
"There is another flock!" and so indeed there was. Up from the meadows
and over the hills they came, swaying up and down in their flight, and
so near that we could see each bird distinctly. Almost simultaneously
they alighted on Clover Hill to rest for a moment. I can never forget
their motion so full of grace and beauty, waving and undulating like
the gentle swell of the ocean. Soon, another company followed in the
same direction, and when they were over Clover Hill, up flew the
others, and away they went with them beyond our sight. Flock after
flock appeared, each taking the same general direction, and some of
them so large that they stretched from the hills which bounded our
view on one side, as far as our eye could see on the other. They
looked, as Willie said, like bees swarming, only they were much
larger. Occasionally a few stragglers could be seen, hurrying on to
join their party, which was in advance of them. Perhaps they had
delayed to take a last farewell of their pleasant summer homes, or,
may be, they were dilatory in their habits, and did not make their
morning toilet in season. I hope they will be more prompt in future,
for it is a bad habit to be late, and occasions, often, much vexation
and inconvenience.
I never before saw so many birds together, although I have frequently
been startled by the peculiar sound made by large numbers flying in
company, and have looked at them with wonder and admiration.
The migration of birds is one of the most remarkable phenomena in
natural history. "The stork in the heaven knoweth her appointed times,
and the turtle, and the crane, and the swallow, observe the time of
their coming," and so do all birds of passage. Their Creator has
endowed them with a wonderful instinct, which, in some way, unknown to
us, teaches them to guard against the severity of the season by
seeking a warmer climate, and when "winter is past," and "the flowers
appear on the earth," and "the vines, with the tender grape, give a
good smell," then "the time of the singing of birds is come," and
their voice is heard in our land. Some of them return, not only to the
same country, but to the same place, where they have previously built
their nests, and, year after year, raise their broods in the same
friendly tree.
It is said that, to enable birds to fly with ease, and to continue
long on the wing, they must fly against the wind. I observed, this
morning, that there was a brisk wind from the west, while the birds
were flying a little south of west. Perhaps they had been waiting
several days for a favourable wind, and that may have been the reason
of the great number of flocks we saw.
"Behold the fowls of the air," said our Saviour, in his sermon on the
mount; "for they sow not, neither do they reap, nor gather into barns,
yet your heavenly Father feedeth them. Are ye not much better than
they?" At another time, when he was talking with his disciples about
the persecutions they should endure for his sake, he said to them,
"Are not two sparrows sold for a farthing? and one of them shall not
fall on the ground without your Father. But the very hairs of your
head are all numbered. Fear ye not, therefore; ye are of more value
than many sparrows."
Not one of that immense number of birds, which we saw flying to a
warmer country, can perish without God's knowledge. He sees every one
of them. During the summer, he has fed them on the meadows near the
sea-shore, and now that winter is approaching, he has taught them to
seek other localities, where their appropriate food can be found.
Whenever God's children are tempted to yield to despondency, and to
fear that they shall suffer from want, let them remember that they are
of more value than many sparrows, and that if they trust their
heavenly Father, their bread shall be given them, and their water
shall be sure. He who feeds the birds will feed them. May he
"Fill" our souls "with trust unshaken
In that Being who has taken
Care for every living thing,
In Summer, Winter, Fall and Spring."
[Illustration]
THE LOST CHILD.
It was a Sabbath morning in November, clear, bright and frosty. Mrs.
Dudley's family were preparing for church. They heard Carlo bark
violently, and knew a stranger must be near. Carlo is a faithful
watch-dog, but his habit of barking at visitors is so disagreeable,
that he is usually kept chained in the day-time. On Sunday, as no
company is expected, he is permitted to go at large. When Mr. Dudley
heard Carlo, he immediately threw open the window, and spoke to him.
He saw a gentleman, who was evidently much alarmed. None of the family
knew him. The stranger soon made known the occasion of his call, by
inquiring,
"Have you seen any thing of a stray child?"
"No, we have not; whose child is lost?"
"Mr. McPherson's."
"How old is the child?"
"About six years old. His mother sent him from home, yesterday, about
two o'clock, and she has heard nothing from him since. He had a small
tin pail with him to get some yeast."
It is sad to hear that a child is lost, and all the family sympathized
with the anxious parents. "How badly you would feel if I was lost!"
said Eddie, and he looked sober and grieved, as he thought of the
little boy about his own age, who had wandered from home, no one knew
where. There was much fear that he had fallen into the river, as he
had been seen on the dock.
At ten o'clock the family started for church. They met people who were
searching for the child, and who asked them, as the gentleman had done
at the house, "Have you seen any thing of a stray child?"
Notice was given in the churches that a boy was lost, and many a
mother's heart beat quicker as she thought of her own dear little
ones, and imagined one of them sleeping, perhaps, through that cold
November night on the ground, or (fearful thought!) buried deep in the
chill water.
After church, you could hear one and another inquiring anxiously, "Has
the child been found?" But no favourable answer was received. In the
afternoon, however, many hearts were gladdened by learning that he was
safe. He had gone to the village, and got his pennyworth of yeast, and
then, instead of returning immediately, he stopped to play with some
boys. He had gone with them to a part of the village with which he was
not acquainted and when he wished to go home, he did not know what
direction to take. He chose a road leading him from home, and wandered
at least five miles. Just before dark an old gentleman and his
grandson were walking on the road, and they observed this little boy
crying.
"What do you suppose he is crying about?" said the child to his
grandfather.
"I don't know. Perhaps he has been sent to the grocery, and does not
like to go."
They watched him and found he did not stop, but passed on with his tin
pail, crying grievously. They waited for him to come up to them, and
asked him,
"What are you crying about?"
"I want to go home!"
"Where is your home?"
The boy could not tell.
"What is your name?"
"William Hudson." He did not say, as he should have done, William
Hudson McPherson.
The old gentleman kindly took him by the hand, and led him to his own
home. William's tears were soon dried, and he became quite contented.
It was too late to attempt to find his parents that night, as he could
not tell where they lived, and the name of Hudson was not familiar to
the good people who had given him shelter.
When Sabbath morning came, William was questioned again and again,
till at length some clue was obtained of his father's place of
residence. The horse was harnessed, and William, with lame and
blistered feet, was placed in the wagon. About noon he safely reached
home, and was clasped once more to his mother's heart. The father had
not returned from his search, and he afterwards said, it had seemed to
him that he never could go home without his child, on account of the
terrible and almost frantic distress of the mother. As he approached
his house, borne down with grief, he saw a wagon at the door. His
heart leaped with joy, for he thought the lost one was found. He
opened the door hopefully, and there, indeed, was William gathered
once more with his brothers and sisters around the great
cooking-stove, tears of joy flowing down the grateful mother's cheeks.
All this great grief which William's father and mother endured--all
the anxiety felt throughout the town--and all the sufferings of the
boy himself, were occasioned by William's stopping to play, when he
ought to have gone directly home!
Children often think they are quite as capable of judging for
themselves, as their parents are for them. Sooner or later this
opinion will lead them into trouble. William thought it was safe to
stop and see the boys play marbles, but he found, to his sorrow, that
it would have been far better to have resisted temptation and denied
himself the short pleasure he enjoyed.
Every human heart is grieved when a child like William strays from
home. We do not wonder that his mother should be fearfully anxious in
regard to his fate. But, oh! how much more bitter tears a loving
mother sheds, when her dear ones stray from the path of virtue, and
become disobedient and wicked! I hope none of the children who read
about William will go astray from the right path, but will ever choose
that which is pure and lovely and of good report, and which, through
the grace of God in Christ Jesus, will safely lead them home to
heaven.
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THE UNPLEASANT NEIGHBOUR.
Eddie's father has a disagreeable neighbour. In one way or another he
is a constant source of annoyance. Sometimes his pigs will creep
through the fence, and root up the smooth green lawn. His part of the
fence he will not keep in repair, and the hungry cows, in search of
food, will break into the garden, and make sad havoc among the
cabbages and other vegetables. His fine bay horse, whom he knows will
jump over any ordinary fence, is permitted to run in a pasture, where
he can eke out his scanty meal by a hearty lunch among Mr. Dudley's
corn. All these aggressions, and many more, have been borne with the
greatest patience.
Mr. Dudley has often been advised to resort to the law as a means of
defence, yet he has been reluctant to do so. The children have
sometimes felt very indignant when they have been obliged to chase the
pigs or the cows out of the yard or field, but their parents have
endeavoured to teach them Christian forbearance.
At one time Eddie had been thinking about Mr. Morrison,--for by that
name I shall call the unpleasant neighbour,--and he said very
seriously to his mother,
"Mother, can Mr. Morrison go to heaven if he dies."
She hesitated a moment how to answer him, for, she had taught him that
it is wicked to lie and to swear, and that if a person loves God he
will not be in the habit of committing such sins; so she told him,
that unless Mr. Morrison repented he could not go to heaven.
At another time Eddie and his mother were talking about God's love for
the beings he has made. She told him that God loves every one.
"Does he love Mr. Morrison?" he inquired.
"Yes, God loves Mr. Morrison. He is grieved and offended by his
wickedness, but he loves him. You know I love you, when you have done
wrong, although I am sorry that you have been naughty. I do not cease
to love you. The Bible tells us that while we were sinners, God so
loved us as to send his Son to die for us. He loves all, and wishes
all to repent and believe in Christ, and be happy. He has provided a
way for all who believe to be saved, and it is only because people
love sin more than they love holiness, that they are lost."
Nothing can give us a higher idea of God's love, than the thought that
he loves every one--even his enemies. "God is love." What a blessed,
glorious thought! How it encourages us to trust him at all times!
God does not willingly afflict, nor grieve, nor punish any one. All
that he does, he does from the truest love.
The knowledge that God loves us should lead us to love him. We are
naturally disposed to love those who love us, and always do, unless
there is something repulsive about them. There can be nothing
repulsive about God, for he is love, and we who love him, love him
because he first loved us.
One night, after little Eddie had repeated the Lord's Prayer and his
usual evening petitions, he raised his head, and said to his mother,
"Shan't I pray for Mr. Morrison, now?"
"Yes, dear, if you wish to," she answered.
He bowed his head again, and uttered a simple prayer for the man who
was the occasion of so much trouble and perplexity to his father's
family. He prayed that God would forgive his sins for Jesus' sake, and
make him a good man. It was very pleasant to hear Eddie pray thus, and
to witness his kind and forgiving spirit.
Mr. and Mrs. Dudley have often regretted that the children should have
their early memories saddened by such a neighbour, but perhaps their
heavenly Father wishes to teach them a lesson of forbearance and love
for those who injure them, which they could not so well learn in any
other way.
Our Saviour, when dying on the cross, taught us practically the duty
of forgiveness. He prayed even for those who put him to death.
"Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do." Do you not
suppose he was pleased to hear Eddie ask his Father in heaven to
forgive Mr. Morrison and make him a good man?
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THE BOY WHO KEPT HIS PURPOSE.
"I would not be so mean," said George Ward to a boy who stood by,
while he put the candy he had just bought in his pocket.
[Illustration: "I wouldn't be so mean."]
"You have no right to call me mean," replied Reuben Porter, "because I
don't spend my money for candy."
"You never spend it for any thing," continued George, tauntingly.
It was true. Reuben did not spend his money. Do you suppose it was
because he loved it more than other boys do?
Reuben turned slowly away, meditating upon what had occurred.
"I will not care for what George thinks," he at length said to
himself; "I have four dollars now, and when I have sold my cabbages, I
shall have another dollar. _I shall soon have enough_," and his heart
bounded joyfully, his step recovered its elasticity and his pace
quickened, as the pleasant thought removed the sting which the
accusation of meanness had inflicted on his sensitive spirit.
Enough did not mean the same with Reuben as it means with grown
people. It had a limit. He hastened cheerfully home, or to the place
he called home. He had no father or mother there, but kind and loving
friends in their stead. His father had died two years before, leaving
a wife and four children without property to sustain them. Reuben was
the eldest, and as he was old enough to assist in the labours of a
farm, it was thought best he should leave his mother. Mr. Johnson, a
neighbour took him into his family, where he soon became a great
favourite.
There was one thing about the child, however, which good Mrs. Johnson
regarded as a great fault. It was what she called "a spirit of
hoarding." She said she never gave him an orange, or an apple, that he
did not carry it to his room, instead of eating it. Perhaps his
sisters at home, or dear little brother Benny, could tell what became
of them.
Mrs. Johnson had noticed, too, in his drawer, a box, which was quite
heavy with money. She did not believe he had bought so much as a
fish-hook, since he had been in their family. If he should go on in
this way he will grow up to be a miser. Mr. Johnson smiled at his
wife's earnestness, and remarked that with such an example of
generosity as Reuben had constantly before him, he could not believe
the child was in much danger from the fault she feared. "It must be
remembered," he said, "that Reuben has his own way to make in life.
He must early learn to save, or he will always be poor. There are his
mother and sisters, too, who need his aid."
In various ways Reuben added to his store. When the snow came, he made
nice broad paths about the house, which so attracted the notice of a
neighbour, that she asked if he might be allowed to make paths for
her. He rose early that he might have time for this extra work, and
was well paid for his efforts. The box grew heavier from week to week.
_Reuben had almost enough._
One day there was a barrel of flour left at Mrs. Porter's. She thought
there must be a mistake about it; but the man said he was directed at
the store to take it to that house. Mrs. Porter went immediately to
learn about it, and what was her surprise on finding her son had been
the purchaser. How could he pay for a whole barrel of flour? "The
money," said the merchant; "he brought in a box. It was in small bits,
which took me some time to count, but there was enough."
The mother called, with a full heart, at Mrs. Johnson's, and related
what had occurred. Reuben wondered why his mother should cry so. He
thought she would be happy. He was sure he was happy. He had been
thinking two years of that barrel of flour, and now he felt more like
laughing than crying.
Those tears, noble boy, are not tears of sorrow, but of the deepest,
fullest joy. You are more than repaid for your self-denial. You have
persevered in your determination. You have resisted every temptation
to deviate from the course which you marked out as right. You have
borne meekly the charge of meanness so galling to your generous
spirit, and now you receive your reward. You are happy, and so is your
mother, and so are your kind friends, Mr. and Mrs. Johnson.
That night, Mr. Johnson remarked to his wife, as they sat together
before the cheerful fire, that he had some idea of keeping the little
_miser_ and educating him. "A boy who could form such a purpose, and
keep it, will, in all probability, make a useful man." After-years
proved the correctness of this conclusion. Reuben is now a man of
intelligence and wealth. He is one whom the world delights to honour;
but among his pleasantest memories, I doubt not, is that of the barrel
of flour he bought for his beloved mother.
"Filial love will never go unrewarded."
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MARY'S STORY.
Mary and Eddie had retired to their little beds. Their mother had said
"good night," and had given them both a kiss. She was just leaving the
room, when Eddie said to his sister,
"Now you can tell me about Jesus."
This simple remark revealed to Mrs. Dudley the subject of their
conversation after she left them for the night. It gave her great
pleasure, for she desires nothing so much as that her children may
love the Saviour, and she knows the more they think about him, and the
more they learn of his life, the more they will find him worthy of
love. Mrs. Dudley offered up a silent prayer to her heavenly Father
that the Holy Spirit would teach them and guide them into all truth.
She did not remain with the children to hear them as they talked
together, but a few days afterwards she asked Eddie what Mary told him
about Jesus. He repeated the history of his birth, of the cruel
persecution of Herod, of his blameless life, and his death upon the
cross.
Eddie is too young to realize much about the great love of Christ,
and how much he has done for us that we may be happy, but he is not
too young to love him.
I hope he will never forget the sweet story Mary told him. Jesus loves
little children. He is their best friend, always ready to forgive them
when they are sorry for doing wrong, and to help them when they try to
do what is right.
Even now, as I am writing, I hear children singing
"There is a happy land
Far far away."
The sound grows fainter and fainter--eyelids are drooping--sleep is
near--the voices are hushed--the little ones are slumbering. May "holy
angels guard their bed."
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THE SUNNY FACE, AND THE SHADY FACE;
OR, JUNE AND NOVEMBER.
"How happy I am to-night! I love you so much I want to be with you all
the time," said Willie to his mother, as he followed her from the
dining-room to the nursery, one stormy evening.
What made Willie so happy? It was not because the day had been
pleasant, and he had been permitted to enjoy himself out of doors, for
a chilling snow had been falling, and Willie had been obliged to
remain in the house. It was not because he was well, for many hours of
the day he had been lying on the bed too ill to sit up all the time.
It was not because he had received a handsome present, for none had
been given him.
There had been nothing unusual to make him so happy, excepting a
thought hidden in the secret recesses of his heart. Shall I tell you
what that thought was, that made his face so bright and sunny, that
made his eyes sparkle, and wreathed his lips with smiles? I will tell
you in his own words, and I hope you will treasure it in your heart.
If you do, your face, too, will be cheerful and smiling, and your
friends will love to look upon you.
When Willie told his mother how happy he was, she put her arm around
him, and drew him lovingly to her side. "What makes you so happy?" she
inquired.
"I suppose it is because I have been trying to be good," he answered.
"That always makes people happy," his mother replied.
Willie is generally a good boy, but he sometimes does wrong, and
wrong-doing always makes him sad. It was a great pleasure to him that
he had tried to be good, and had been enabled to overcome temptation.
All children are sometimes tempted to do wrong, and it often requires
a severe struggle to decide to do right. But every child who overcomes
evil feels a conscious happiness and self-respect in so doing. I hope
you will "try to be good." If you do, and look to Christ for strength,
he will aid you, and through his grace you will be able to become
conqueror over the sins that "so easily beset you."
Henry Maxwell lives in the same town with Willie, and is of the same
age. These boys often play together. I regret to be obliged to say
that Henry is not so good a child as Willie. He does not so promptly
obey his mother, and of course he cannot be so happy. Sometimes he
pouts out his lips, when his mother wishes him to do something which
he does not exactly like.
I one day heard his mother talking to him about his teeth. She wished
him to brush them again, as he had not done it thoroughly the first
time. It was astonishing to see how that fair, round face was
disfigured by that ugly pout, and it was sad to hear his dissatisfied
"I don't want to." When his mother insisted on obedience, Henry
reluctantly complied with her wishes, closing the door behind him with
great violence.
His face was not sunny and bright like Willie's, when he had tried to
be good, but was dark and shady, like a clouded sky. It was not
pleasant to look upon, and it made the heart of his mother heavy and
sad to see it. I hope Henry will learn to be cheerful and prompt in
his obedience to his mother, for, if he should not, the expression of
his face will grow more and more disagreeable, till, when he is a man,
it will look more like a chilly day in November, than a sweet,
gladsome day in June.
I do not wish you should tell me, but I should like to have you ask
yourself, when you have read about these two boys, which of them you
are most like. Is your face sunny, or shady?
"IT ISN'T FAIR. I PEEPED."
Willie and Eddie were playing Hide the Button. After they had played
some time, and it was Willie's turn to find it, he came into the
nursery with his face flushed, and evidently much excited. "It isn't
fair," said he, and the tears gathered in his eyes, and his lips
quivered with emotion, "I peeped. Eddie must hide it again;" and he
went out of the room, for Eddie to put the button in another place.
Willie had been overcome by temptation. He had done a dishonourable
act, but his conscience was quick to reprove him, and he had listened
to its admonitions. There had been a short but severe struggle in his
mind, and truth and honour had conquered. He was brave enough to
confess his fault, and to do what he could to make amends for it.
Mrs. Dudley was not at home, but a friend who had charge of the
children told her the circumstance. It rejoiced her greatly that her
dear boy should have had the manliness to acknowledge his error; and
it encouraged her to hope that he would never be guilty of a similar
fault again. Willie is a conscientious boy. He sometimes does wrong,
as in this instance, but when he reflects, he is always sorry.
Mrs. Dudley did not say any thing to Willie about the occurrence; but
a few evenings afterwards as she was sitting at the tea-table alone,
the others having all left, he came to her and stood by her side,
leaning his elbow upon the table, and resting his head upon his hand.
She knew by his manner and his serious look that he had something in
particular to say to her. She put her arm around him and drew him
close to her.
"Mother," said he, "the other day, when you were gone, I peeped while
Eddie hid the button;" and then went on and told her all about it.
Mrs. Dudley talked with him a short time, and said he had done right
in confessing his fault, and in refusing to profit by his wrong act.
She knew he was much happier than he could have been if he had done
otherwise. "He that covereth his sins shall not prosper; but whoso
confesseth and forsaketh them shall have mercy." Willie found the
happiness of an approving conscience; and I doubt not that Jesus
looked down with love upon him, as he does upon all true penitents.
"There is joy in heaven over one sinner that repenteth."
If Willie had not confessed his fault, and been sorry for it, his
conscience would have been hardened and he would probably have
"peeped" another time, when the children played the same game. But
now, if he should be tempted in this way again, he would remember how
much he suffered in consequence of having once yielded to a similar
temptation, and would not allow himself to commit the wrong.
It is very important that children should early learn to confess their
faults, and not form the habit of endeavouring to hide them from
others. If they have injured any individual, they should apologize to
that individual. Sometimes it is only necessary to confess to God, but
we should not be satisfied with doing it in a general manner. Each
wrong act, so far as we remember it, should be mentioned.
If we really love our heavenly Father, we shall wish to tell him all
about ourselves. We shall have no desire to conceal any thing from
him, and it will be a pleasure to us to think that he knows every
thought and feeling of our hearts.
Willie had no wish to conceal from his mother the wrong he had done;
he preferred to tell her about it; and I have no doubt he had
previously told his Father in heaven.
"If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our
sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."
THE CHRYSALIS.
"O mother, look here! What is this?" exclaimed Eddie, as he was in the
garden with his mother and Mary and Willie. He was standing by a tall
pole, around which a Lima bean-vine had wound itself. He had been
gathering the great dry pods in a basket to preserve them for winter,
when his grandmother would come to Clover-Hill to see her dear
grandchildren. His attention had been attracted by something peculiar,
and he immediately called his mother to come and see it. Mary and
Willie ran to look. Mrs. Dudley found it was a beautiful green
chrysalis, suspended by its silken cords to the vine. The colour was
soft and delicate, and it was ornamented with a black line, and with
bright golden spots.
"Isn't it pretty, mother?" "How did it get here?" and many more
questions were rapidly asked, while the little folks carefully
examined it.
Mrs. Dudley told them what it was, and that if they preserved it, they
would in a few days see a butterfly escape from it. Eddie looked up
astonished. She also told them that it was once a worm, crawling
about upon the earth; that it had climbed up, and suspended itself
under the shelter of the leaves, to await its change into a new and
more attractive form of being.
Mrs. Dudley took the chrysalis from the vine and carried it to the
house, and put it on the mantle in her room. Every day the children
looked at it to ascertain if there was any change. Soon the colour
began to fade, and the delicate pea-green became an ashen white. Then
it opened slightly, where there had from the first seemed to be lines
of division, and they could peep in at the imprisoned insect. The
opening became wider and wider, and one day, when Eddie came into the
room and went as usual to look at the chrysalis, the shell was empty!
The butterfly had escaped. He uttered an exclamation of mingled
surprise and disappointment. As he turned his head, he saw, on the
little cotton muff of Mary's doll, the butterfly for which he had so
patiently watched.
"Here it is, mother!" he shouted in the most joyous tones, and his
eyes sparkled with delight.
Eddie and his mother observed it for some time. Its long, slender legs
rested on the muff, and ever and anon it would open and close its
brilliant wings, as if to try their power, or to dry the miniature
feathers which adorned them. Its colour was a rich orange, shaded from
the lighter tints to the deeper, and variegated with stripes of black.
The children examined it with a microscope, which made it appear even
more beautiful and wonderful than before.
It remained on the muff several hours, and then flew to the window,
and alighted on the curtain. At evening, it was found on the cushion
of a spool-stand, and there it passed the night. The next day it
disappeared, and the children saw it no more. It probably flew away
through the open window, to enjoy its brief life under the smiling
sun.
The children talked much about the transformations which had taken
place in the life of that caterpillar. Their mother told them that the
butterfly was sometimes considered a type of immortality. In this
world we are, like the worm, in an inferior state of existence. Our
bodies are laid in the grave, but _we_ are not dead, any more than the
unmoving chrysalis--which remained so long on the mantel just where it
was placed--was dead. The spirit still lives, and, after it has freed
itself from the imprisoning flesh, is more beautiful than before, and
is susceptible of more perfect enjoyment in the pure atmosphere of
heaven.
CHRISTMAS AT THE COTTAGE.
Mrs. Dudley's children look forward to Christmas with many
anticipations of pleasure, for several weeks before it comes. They are
quite busy in preparing for it. Their mother is the repository of
their secrets, and assists them by her advice in making their
arrangements. Many important deliberations take place about mats,
pin-cushions, and bookmarks.
As the day approached, the children often expressed the wish that it
was here. A few days was a long time for them to wait. But time did
not hasten. The hours were just sixty minutes, and the minutes just
sixty seconds. The clock ticked on as usual. It was unmoved by all the
excitement, and never, for an instant, quickened its pace.
When Saturday came, their mother proposed that the presents should be
distributed that evening. She did not like to have the children wish
the Sabbath past, and on Monday morning there would be but little time
to make their arrangements before the hour for school. She knew they
would be quiet and happy if they had some new books to read, and
would be perfectly willing to lay aside other gifts till Monday.
Mary wished to decorate the parlour with evergreens. Mrs. Dudley sent
a man to get some for her. She and Willie arranged them in bunches and
wreaths. Eddie helped all he could, and was as happy as any of them.
In the afternoon their mother assisted them. She put the bunches made
of the delicate, feathery hemlock, and the dark glossy laurel, over
the windows, and suspended the wreaths where the bay-windows projected
from the room. Small branches of cedar and spruce were tastefully
arranged in vases, relieved by the rich, green leaves of the ivy, and
the bright, lively twigs of box.
The children wished for a Christmas tree, but the evergreens they had
were all too small for that purpose Mrs. Dudley suggested that the
hat-stand might be substituted. They were delighted, and immediately
busied themselves in adorning it with garlands. It proved quite
ornamental, and the pegs served a very useful purpose. Mary arranged
on some strips of white paper the words, "A merry Christmas." The
letters were made of the small leaves of the box, and were fastened on
with gum-arabic. These were placed amid the wreaths on the transformed
hat-stand.
When all these arrangements were completed to their satisfaction,
they left the room. Mrs. Dudley remained some time longer. When she
left, the door was locked.
Mr. Dudley returned from the city, where he had been spending the day,
bringing some friends with him. Tea was speedily despatched, and then
all the family were summoned. The parlour door was unlocked. There
were various toys, baskets, and reticules suspended on the hat-stand.
There was a nice little felt hat for one of Mary's dolls, and a
looking-glass for the baby-house, and an embroidered cushion, which
Willie's industrious fingers had made for Minnie Dudley, as the doll
is called--a far better employment for him, I think, than throwing it
about and treating it roughly, as I have sometimes heard of boys
doing. There were humming-tops, which reminded me, by their music, of
the great spinning-wheel that whirred away in my mother's kitchen when
I was a child. There were graces, and battle-doors, and jack-straws
for the amusement of the children when it was too cold or stormy to
play out of doors.
On a table was an array of slippers, which Mary and her mother had
wrought for father and the boys. There was merry capering when they
were transferred to the feet of their owners. I shall not tell you
whether Mr. Dudley so far forgot his dignity as to partake of the
excitement, but I am quite sure he was much gratified by the present
Mary had made for him with her own hands, and that he kissed his
thanks with great fondness.
Most valuable of all to the little folks, and most gladly welcomed,
were the books. How eagerly they looked them over.
There was a present to Mrs. Dudley from her children, which I must not
forget to tell you about. It was a plain gold pin, in which, neatly
plaited, were six bunches of hair. One of them was dark, streaked with
gray--the others were auburn, flaxen, and brown. She knew whence the
treasures came to unite in that beautiful mosaic, and the tears were
ready to start from her eyes as she received that precious token of
family love.
When I was a child, I heard little about Christmas. It came and went
without my knowledge. But I enjoy the return of it very much now, and
sympathize with children in the interest with which they regard it. I
like to think they are treasuring up such cheerful memories to make
their early home attractive to their age.
The little Dudley's will always like to look back to this pleasant
evening, and wherever they are, their hearts will warm more fondly on
account of it to their father's cottage, nestled in the valley, and
they will be in less danger of forgetting the lessons of love and
kindness they have learned there.
I WILL CONQUER MYSELF.
In one of the oldest towns of New-England there lived, many years ago,
a little girl, whom I shall call Helen Earle. Her father had been
engaged in the East Indian trade, and had accumulated great wealth.
Her mother was a sweet, gentle woman, who most tenderly loved her
children, and endeavoured to correct their faults, and develop their
excellencies. In Helen's home there was every comfort and every luxury
that heart could desire, but she was not always happy. She had one
fault, which often made herself and her friends very unhappy. It was
the indulgence of a violent temper. She would allow herself to become
exceedingly angry, and her usually beautiful face was then disfigured
by passion. Her mother was greatly grieved and distressed by these
outbreaks of ill temper, and did all in her power to restrain them.
She talked with her daughter earnestly in regard to the sin of such a
temper. Helen would weep bitter tears, and express much regret for the
past, but she could not quite make up her mind to determine to
overcome temptation. The task seemed too difficult, and she shrunk
from the attempt.
Mrs. Earle shed many tears in secret over this sad failing in her
beloved child, and most fervently pleaded for help from Him who had
given her the care of this immortal spirit to educate for eternity.
She knew that God alone could change Helen's heart, and give her power
to overcome sin, even though assaulted by the fiercest temptation.
One day, when Helen was very angry at something which had occurred,
her mother led her up stairs to her own room and left her alone. For a
time she cried violently, then she grew calm and quiet, and her mother
could hear her walking back and forth across the room, talking to
herself. She listened. How her heart rejoiced when she heard her
repeating, again and again, "I WILL CONQUER MYSELF! I WILL CONQUER
MYSELF!"
And Helen did conquer herself. She had come to the determination, not
that she would try to conquer, but that she would conquer, and, by the
gracious help which is always given to those who ask,--she nobly
succeeded. From that hour she was able to overcome the temptation, and
was not overcome by it. She grew up to womanhood remarkable for the
evenness and gentleness of her temper. None, who had not known her in
childhood, would have suspected that she was not always thus mild and
lovely.
Helen did for herself what no earthly friend could do for her. By the
power of her will she controlled her impulses, and this triumph was
of far more value to her than all the wealth of her father. It made
her a blessing to her friends, strengthened all her good purposes, and
enabled her to perform the duties of life without the friction which a
bad temper always occasions. It gave her that true self-respect which
elevates the character, and which none can feel who are not conscious
of the power to rule their own spirits.
No child is blamed for having a quick temper, but he is blamed if he
allows himself to be overpowered by it. If he really determines, as
Helen did, to conquer himself, he will succeed. The old proverb,
"Where there is a will, there is a way," will never fail in such a
case as this. "God helps those who help themselves," and he is ever
ready to assist us in subduing what is wrong in our own spirits.
The Bible contains many passages which condemn anger: "He that is soon
angry, dealeth foolishly." "Be not hasty in thy spirit to be angry,
for anger resteth in the bosom of fools." "Make no friendship with an
angry man, and with a furious man thou shalt not go." "He that is slow
to wrath is of great understanding, but he that is hasty of spirit
exalteth folly." "Let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow
to wrath; for the wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God."
All habits grow stronger by indulgence. If you allow yourself to
become angry to-day, you will more easily become so to-morrow. If you
control your temper to-day, it will be less difficult to control it
to-morrow. Helen's victory was obtained by decision. To form the
determination to conquer herself required more effort of will and more
strength of character than any subsequent struggle with her besetting
sin could possibly require.