"Ravenna, April 3. 1821;
"Thanks for the translation. I have sent you some books, which I do
not know whether you have read or no--you need not return them, in
any case. I enclose you also a letter from Pisa. I have neither
spared trouble nor expense in the care of the child; and as she was
now four years old complete, and quite above the control of the
servants--and as a _man_ living without any woman at the head of
his house cannot much attend to a nursery--I had no resource but to
place her for a time (at a high pension too) in the convent of
Bagna-Cavalli (twelve miles off), where the air is good, and where
she will, at least, have her learning advanced, and her morals and
religion inculcated.[34] I had also another reason;--things were
and are in such a state here, that I had no reason to look upon my
own personal safety as particularly insurable; and I thought the
infant best out of harm's way, for the present.
"It is also fit that I should add that I by no means intended, nor
intend, to give a _natural_ child an _English_ education, because
with the disadvantages of her birth, her after settlement would be
doubly difficult. Abroad, with a fair foreign education and a
portion of five or six thousand pounds, she might and may marry
very respectably. In England such a dowry would be a pittance,
while elsewhere it is a fortune. It is, besides, my wish that she
should be a Roman Catholic, which I look upon as the best religion,
as it is assuredly the oldest of the various branches of
Christianity. I have now explained my notions as to the _place_
where she now is--it is the best I could find for the present; but
I have no prejudices in its favour.
"I do not speak of politics, because it seems a hopeless subject,
as long as those scoundrels are to be permitted to bully states
out of their independence. Believe me,
"Yours ever and truly.
"P.S. There is a report here of a change in France; but with what
truth is not yet known.
"P.S. My respects to Mrs. H. I _have_ the 'best opinion' of her
countrywomen; and at my time of life, (three and thirty, 22d
January, 1821,) that is to say, after the life I have led, a _good_
opinion is the only rational one which a man should entertain of
the whole sex--up to _thirty_, the worst possible opinion a man can
have of them in _general_, the better for himself. Afterwards, it
is a matter of no importance to them, nor to him either, what
opinion he entertains--his day is over, or, at least, should be.
"You see how sober I am become."
[Footnote 34: With such anxiety did he look to this essential part of
his daughter's education, that notwithstanding the many advantages she
was sure to derive from the kind and feminine superintendence of Mrs.
Shelley, his apprehensions, lest her feeling upon religious subjects
might be disturbed by the conversation of Shelley himself, prevented him
from allowing her to remain under his friend's roof.]
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