The following Ritual for a Lodge of Sorrow is recommended for use in the
Lodges. While necessarily of a funeral character, it differs essentially
from the burial service. In the latter case, we are in the actual
presence of the departed, and engaged in the last rites of affection and
respect for one who has been our companion in life, and whose mortal
remains we are about to consign to their last resting-place. The Lodge
of Sorrow, on the contrary, is intended to celebrate the memory of our
departed brethren; and while we thus recall to our recollection their
virtues, and temper anew our resolutions so to live, that, when we shall
have passed the silent portals, our memories may be cherished with
grateful remembrance, we learn to look upon death from a more elevated
point of view; to see in it the wise and necessary transition from the
trials and imperfections of this world, to the perfect life for which
our transient journey here has been the school and the preparation.
Vocal and instrumental music are indispensable to the proper effect of
the ceremony. The brethren should wear dark clothing, and white gloves
and aprons. There is no necessity for any attempt at secrecy in the
ceremonies of Sorrow Lodges. They may be held in churches or public
halls, or in the presence of friends at the Lodge room, with benefit to
all concerned.
Preparation of the Hall.
I. The Lodge room should be appropriately draped in black, and the
several stations covered with the same emblem of mourning.