ADVICE, BY A MAN OF THE WORLD.

[We quoted _Contarini Fleming_ in our last volume, but were silent on its

character. It is purely metaphysical, and metaphysics, at this season, may

be "like pork in the dog-days;" but there are certain portions which

strike out ideas so forcibly, and illustrate the _communia_ of life with

such vigour, as to tempt any lounging reader. Contarini is stated to be Mr.

D'Israeli, the younger--Vivian Grey and the Young Duke,--with much more of

the crust and wing of age and experience than was found in either of the

fashionable novels. The real charm of Contarini is in its abstractedness,

and consists in being pleased and puzzled at the same moment. The

embellishment which the playful genius of the writer has gracefully, not

tawdrily, thrown over his pages will attract, but the main purpose and

merit of the work lies in its undercurrents, or, rather it would consist

in this feature if the judgment of the writer were still more matured.

Perhaps Mr. D'Israeli, who began the world of letters as a writer of

fashionable novels, may leave us a work on metaphysics.

In the opening chapter of Contarini Fleming, Mr. D'Israeli explains his

object as follows:--]

I am desirous of writing a book which shall be all truth, a work of which

the passion, the thought, the action, and even the style, should spring

from my own experience of feeling, from the meditations of my own

intellect, from my own observation of incident, from my own study of the

genius of expression.

[We can only admit a passage which appears to us to contain much

world-knowledge and wholesome experience--what half the coroneted heads in

Europe lack most lamentably. It is the advice tendered to Contarini by his

father, previous to the youth of promise repairing to the University:]

I wish you to mix as much as is convenient with society. I apprehend that

you have, perhaps, hitherto indulged a little too much in lonely habits.

Young men are apt to get a little abstracted, and occasionally to think

that there is something singular in their nature, when the fact is, if

they were better acquainted with their fellow creatures, they would find

they were mistaken. This is a common error, indeed the commonest. I am not

at all surprised that you have fallen into it. All have. The most

practical business-like men that exist have many of them, when children,

conceived themselves totally disqualified to struggle in the world. You

may rest assured of this. I could mention many remarkable instances. All

persons, when young, are fond of solitude, and, when they are beginning to

think, are sometimes surprised at their own thoughts. There is nothing to

be deplored, scarcely to be feared, in this. It almost always wears off;

but sometimes it happens, that they have not judicious friends by them to

explain, that the habits which they think peculiar are universal, and, if

unreasonably indulged, can ultimately only turn them into indolent,

insignificant members of society, and occasion them lasting unhappiness.

But to enter society with pleasure, you must be qualified for it. I think

it quite time for you to make yourself master of some accomplishments.

Decidedly you should make yourself a good dancer. Without dancing, you can

never attain a perfectly graceful carriage, which is of the highest

importance in life, and should be every man's ambition. You are yet too

young fully to comprehend, how much in life depends upon manner. Whenever

you see a man, who is successful in society, try to discover what makes

him pleasing, and, if possible, adopt his system. You should learn to

fence. For languages, at present, French will be sufficient. You speak it

fairly: try to speak it elegantly. Read French authors. Read

Rouchefoucault. The French writers are the finest in the world, for they

clear our heads of ridiculous ideas. Study precision.

Do not talk too much at present, do not _try_ to talk. But whenever you

speak, speak with self-possession. Speak in a subdued tone, and always

look at the person whom you are addressing. Before one can engage in

general conversation with any effect, there is a certain acquaintance with

trifling, but amusing subjects, which must be first attained. You will

soon pick up sufficient by listening and observing. Never argue. In

society, nothing must be discussed: give only results. If any person

differ with you--bow and turn the conversation. In society, never

think--always be on the watch, or you will miss many opportunities, and

say many disagreeable things.

Talk to women, talk to women as much as you can. This is the best school.

This is the way to gain fluency--because you need not care what you say,

and had better not be sensible. They too will rally you on many points,

and, as they are women, you will not be offended. Nothing is of so much

importance, and of so much use, to a young man entering life, as to be

well criticised by women. It is impossible to get rid of those thousand

bad habits, which we pick up in boyhood, without this supervision.

Unfortunately, you have no sisters. But never be offended if a woman rally

you. Encourage her. Otherwise, you will never be free from your

awkwardness, or any little oddities, and certainly never learn to dress.

You ride pretty well, but you had better go through the manège. Every

gentleman should be a perfect cavalier.

As you are to be at home for so short a time, and for other reasons, I

think it better that you should not have a tutor in the house. Parcel out

your morning, then, for your separate masters. Rise early and regularly,

and read for three hours. Read the Memoirs of the Cardinal de Retz--the

Life of Richelieu--everything about Napoleon,--read works of that kind.

Read no history: nothing but biography, for that is life without theory.

Then fence. Talk an hour with your French master, but do not throw the

burden of the conversation upon him. Give him an account of something.

Describe to him the events of yesterday, or give him a detailed account of

the constitution. You will have then sufficiently rested yourself for your

dancing. And after that ride and amuse yourself as much as you can.

Amusement to an observing mind is study.

I pursued the system which my father had pointed out, with exactness, and

soon with pleasure. I sacredly observed my hours of reading, and devoted

myself to the study of the lives of what my father considered really great

men--that is to say, men of great energies, and violent volition, who look

upon their fellow creatures as mere tools, with which they can build up a

pedestal for their solitary statue, and who sacrifice every feeling which

should sway humanity, and every high work which genius should really

achieve, to the short-sighted gratification of an irrational and

outrageous selfism. As for my manners, I flattered myself that they

advanced in measure with my mind, although I already emulated Napoleon. I

soon overcame the fear which attended my first experiments in society, and

by scrupulously observing the paternal maxims, I soon became very

self-satisfied. I listened to men with a delightful mixture of defference

and self-confidence: were they old, and did I differ with them, I

contented myself by positively stating my opinion in a most subdued voice,

and then either turning the subject, or turning upon my heel. But as for

women, it is astonishing how well I got on. The nervous rapidity of my

first rattle soon subsided into a continuous flow of easy nonsense.

Impertinent and flippant, I was universally hailed an original and a wit.

But the most remarkable incident was, that the baroness and myself became

the greatest friends. I was her constant attendant, and rehearsed to her

flattered ear all my evening performance. She was the person with whom I

practised, and as she had a taste in dress, I encouraged her opinions.

Unconscious that she was at once my lay figure and my mirror, she loaded

me with presents, and announced to all her coterie, that I was the most

delightful young man of her acquaintance.

From all this it may easily be suspected, that at the age of fifteen I had

unexpectedly become one of the most affected, conceited, and intolerable

atoms that ever peopled the sunbeam of society.

* * * * *

[This gem is from a volume of Songs and other small Poems, by Barry

Cornwall. It is one of the prettiest poetical _bijoux_ of the season, and

shall receive more attention in our next.]

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