PRIVATE LIFE AND MANNERS

An interesting parallel is often drawn between Indian life to-day and

the life with which we are familiar in the Bible. The women grinding

at the mill, the men who take up their beds and walk, the groups that

gather at the well, the potter and his wheel, the marriage-feasts, the

waterpots standing ready to be filled, the maimed, the leper, and the

blind--all these are everyday sights in the streets and households of

modern India.

But we may also make an instructive comparison between India and

mediaeval, or even Renaissance, Europe. As soon as one gets away from

the railway and the telegraph--indeed even where they have already

penetrated--one still finds in India conditions prevailing which

continued in Europe beyond the Middle Ages. The customary tie between

master and servant, lasting from one generation to another, preserves

the community of interest which prevented the feudal bond from being

irksome. The modern severance of classes, the modern desire for

aloofness, has not yet come. The servants are an integral part of the

household, sharing in its ceremonies and festivities, crowding into

their master's presence without impairing his privacy, and following

him as escort whenever he stirs abroad. The child-marriage which we

condemn in modern India, was frequently practised in Europe in the

sixteenth century, when the uncertainty of life made men wish to

secure the future of their children so far as they could. The

foster-mothers with whom young Mughal princes found a home, whose sons

they loved as their own brothers, had their counter-part in these

islands as late as the days of the great Lord Cork. Walled cities with

crowded houses looking into one another across narrow winding alleys,

were an inevitable condition of life in sixteenth-century Europe

before strong central government had made it safe to live outside the

gates. Even the houses of the great were dark, airless, cramped, with

tiny windows and dim, opaque glass; such as one may still see at

Compton Castle in Devonshire or the Château des Comtes at Ghent.

Communications moved slowly along unmetalled roads or up and down

rivers. Carriages with two or four horses were occasionally used; but

the ordinary traveller rode on horseback, and needy students coming to

a university walked, clubbing together for a packhorse to carry their

modest baggage. These are features which may still be matched in many

parts of India.

The ravages of plague, the absence of sanitation, the recurrence of

famine and war, all combined in sixteenth-century Europe to produce an

uncertainty in the tenure of life, which modern India knows only too

well from all the causes except the last; but India does not follow

Europe in the resulting practice of frequent remarriage on both sides.

In Erasmus' day a marriage in which neither side had previously or

did subsequently contract a similar relation must have been quite

exceptional. A certain German lady, after one ordinary husband, became

the wife of three leading Reformers in succession, Oecolampadius,

Capito, and Bucer--almost an official position, it would seem. She

survived them all, and when Bucer died at Cambridge in 1551, was able

to return to Basle, to be buried beside Oecolampadius in the

Cathedral. Katherine Parr married four times. To her first husband,

who left her a widow at fifteen, she was a second wife; to her second,

a third wife; to her third, who was Henry VIII, a sixth; and only her

fourth was a bachelor.

The custom of the year's 'doole' after the death of husband or wife

was just at this period breaking down. In 1488 Edward IV declined a

new marriage for his sister, Margaret of York, the new-made widow of

Charles the Bold, on the ground that 'after the usage of our realms no

estate or person honourable communeth of marriage within the year of

their dool'. But Tudor practice was very different. For Mary, Queen of

France, who married her Duke of Suffolk as soon as her six weeks of

white mourning were out, there was some excuse of urgency; Henry, too,

in his rapid marriage with Jane Seymour had special reasons. But

Katherine Parr, when her turn to marry him came, was but a few months

a widow; and later, in being on with her old love, Thomas Seymour,

when her grim master was only just dead, she had no motive beyond the

wishes of lovers long delayed. The Princess Mary, however, considered

this latter action highly improper.

John Oporinus (Herbst), the Basle printer (1507-68), had a varied

experience; taking four widows to wife. At the age of 20 he

married--almost, it seems, out of a sense of duty--the widow of his

teacher, Xylotectus of Lucerne; an elderly lady who persecuted him

sorely, and once in a passion threw dirty water over him. After eight

years, two of which he had spent roving through Germany with

Paracelsus, she died, leaving her property to relations. Oporinus'

next widow had three children, girls, who grew up to share their

mother's expensive tastes. For nearly thirty years their extravagance

vexed him, though his wife had tact enough to keep from open quarrels.

Then one day he returned from the Frankfort fair to find her dead of

the plague. The same visitation, 1564, by carrying off first John

Herwagen the younger and then Ulrich Iselin, Professor of Law at

Basle, made two more widows, successively to bear Oporinus' name.

Herwagen's widow, Elizabeth Holzach, was a sweet woman, but died in

the fourth month of her new marriage, 17 July 1565. Iselin's was

Faustina, daughter of Boniface Amerbach, born in 1530. To her seven

children by Iselin, she added one for Oporinus, Emmanuel, born 25 Jan.

1568; but the father of 60 did not live six months to have pleasure in

his firstborn.

With such frequent changes the marriage-tie cannot have given the same

personal attachment that is possible at the present day: indeed such

unions can scarcely have seemed more lasting than the temporary

associations of friends. One need only recall the bargainings that

occur in the Paston Letters to realize that there was not much romance

about their marriages, at any rate beforehand. Thus wrote Sir John

Paston in 1473 of a suitor for his sister Anne: 'As for Yelverton, he

said but late that he would have her if she had her money; and else

not.'

Thomas More is rightly regarded as a man in whom the spirit burned

brighter and clearer than in most of his contemporaries; and yet his

matrimonial relations savour more of convenience or even of business

than of affection. For his first wife, we are told--and there is no

reason to doubt the story--, his fancy had lighted on an Essex girl,

the daughter of a country-gentleman; but on visiting her at home he

found that she had an elder sister not yet married. Feeling that to

have her younger sister married first would be a grief to the elder,

he 'inclined his affection' towards her and made her his wife in place

of his first choice. The interpretation that when he saw the elder

sister, he preferred her before the other, might be probable to-day:

to apply it to the story of More would be a case of that commonest of

'vulgar errors' in history,--judging the past by the ideas of the

present. For five or six years More lived with his girl-bride, whose

country training and unformed mind caused much trouble and difficulty

to them both. The unequal relation between them appears in a story

told by Erasmus; that More delighted her once by bringing home a

present of sham jewels, and apparently did not think it necessary to

undeceive her about them. Happiness came in time; but after bearing

him four children, she died. Within a month the widower came to his

father-confessor by night and obtained leave to be married next

morning. His new wife was a middle-aged lady of no charms--indeed she

seems to have been a regular shrew--who served him as a capable

housekeeper and looked after his children while they were young. But

she never engaged his affections; and it was his eldest daughter,

Margaret, who became the chosen partner of his joys and sorrows in

later years.

The habitual remarriage of widows proceeded in part from the desire,

or even need, for a husband's protection; and in consequence it was

not only the young who were open to men's addresses. Beatus Rhenanus,

writing to a servant-pupil who had recently left him to launch forth

into the world, counsels him to marry, if possible, a rich and elderly

widow; in order that in a few years by her death he may find himself

equipped with an ample capital for his real start in life. Such advice

from a man like Beatus can only have been in jest: but if there had

not been some reality of actual practice, the jest would have fallen

flat. Indeed Beatus goes on to indicate that this course had been

taken by Reuchlin; whose elderly consort was, however, disobliging

enough to live for many years. The ill-success attending Oporinus'

essay in this direction we have already seen.

But it was not so with all. Not infrequently Erasmus deplores the

imprudence of the young men who had left his service, in allowing

themselves to fall in love and marry without securing proper dowries

with their young brides. He was indeed, considering his natural

shrewdness, singularly ignorant of women; as his advice to youthful

husbands sometimes shows. To one, for example, who had written to

announce that before long he hoped to become a father, he replies with

congratulations, and then says: 'Now that your wife no longer needs

your care, you will be able to betake yourself to a university and

finish your studies'--advice which we may surely suppose was not

taken.

During the insecurity of the Middle Ages, the seclusion of women for

their own protection had been severely necessary. In the East the

'purdah-system' reached the length of excluding women of the better

classes from the society of all men but those of their own family. Of

such rigidity in Europe I cannot find any traces except under Oriental

influence;[28] but there is no doubt that women's life at the

beginning of the Renaissance in the North was circumscribed. Such

higher education as they received was given at home, by father or

brothers or husband, or by private tutors. But there are not a few

examples of educated women. In the well-known Frisian family, the

Canters of Groningen, parents and children and even the maidservant

are said to have spoken regularly in Latin. Antony Vrye of Soest, one

of the Adwert circle, wrote to his wife in Latin; and his daughter

helped him with the teaching of Latin in the various schools over

which he presided, at Campen and Amsterdam and Alcmar. Pirckheimer's

sisters and daughters, Peutinger's wife, are famous for their

learning. In England throughout the Renaissance period the position of

women and their education steadily improved. Alice, Duchess of

Suffolk, the foundress of Ewelme, had an interest in literature; and

the great Lady Margaret, besides the endowments which are her memorial

at the universities, constantly fostered the efforts of Wynkyn de

Worde, and herself translated part of the _Imitatio_ from the French.

The Princess Mary, as the result of the liberal training of Vives and

other masters, could translate from Aquinas, take part in acting a

play of Terence, and read the letters of Jerome; and before she was

30, made a translation of Erasmus' Paraphrase of St. John's Gospel,

which formed part of the English version of those Paraphrases ordered

by Injunctions of Edward VI to be placed beside the Bible in every

parish church throughout the realm.

[28] In 1729 the Abbé Fourmont found the seclusion of women

extensively practised in Athens for fear of the Turks; see

R.C. Christie, _Essays and Papers_, p. 69.

More, for his dear 'school', engaged the best teachers he could find.

John Clement, afterwards Wolsey's first Reader in Humanity at Oxford,

and William Gonell, Erasmus' friend at Cambridge, read Sallust and

Livy with them. Nicholas Kratzer, the Bavarian mathematician, also one

of Wolsey's Readers at Oxford, taught them astronomy: to know the

pole-star and the dog, and to contemplate the 'high wonders of that

mighty and eternal workman', whom More could feel revealed himself

also to some 'good old idolater watching and worshipping the man in

the moon every frosty night'.[29] Richard Hyrde, the friend of

Gardiner and translator of Vives' _Instruction of a Christian Woman_,

continued the work after the 'school' had been moved to Chelsea;[30]

and when Margaret, eldest and best-beloved scholar, was married. Not

that this interfered. The love of learning once implanted brought her

with her husband to keep her place among her sisters in that bright

Academy. Her fame is well known, how the Bishop of Exeter sent her a

gold coin of Portugal in reward for an elegant epistle; how familiarly

she corresponded with Erasmus; how she emended the text of Cyprian,

imitated the Declamations of Quintilian, and translated the

Ecclesiastical History of Eusebius.

[29] More, _English Works_, 1557, f. 154 E.

[30] See F. Watson, _Vives and the Renascence Education of

Women_, 1912.

It is evident that in England, for women as well as men, the seed of

the Renaissance had fallen on good ground. By the middle of the

century the gates of the kingdom of knowledge were open, and the

thoughtful were rejoicing in the infinite variety of their Paradise

regained. In 1547-8, Nicholas Udall, in a preface for Mary's

translation of Erasmus' Paraphrase, writes with enthusiasm: 'Neither

is it now any strange thing to hear gentlewomen, instead of most vain

communication about the moon shining in the water, to use grave and

substantial talk in Greek or Latin with their husbands in godly

matters. It is now no news in England to see young damsels in noble

houses and in the courts of princes, instead of cards and other

instruments of vain trifling, to have continually in their hands

either Psalms, "Omelies" and other devout meditations, or else Paul's

Epistles or some book of Holy Scripture matters, and as familiarly

both to read and reason thereof in Greek, Latin, French or Italian as

in English. It is now a common thing to see young virgins so "nouzled"

and trained in the study of letters that they willingly set all other

vain pastimes at nought for learning's sake.' It is melancholy to

reflect how soon the gates of the kingdom were to be closed again, and

its trees guarded by the flaming sword of theological certainty

mistaking itself for truth.

Besides marriage, almost the only vocation open to women in the

fifteenth century was the monastic life. It was not uncommon for

several daughters in a family to embrace religion: parents, apart from

higher considerations, regarding it as a sure method of providing for

girls who did not wish to marry, or for whom they could not find

husbands. As heads of religious houses women held positions of great

dignity and influence, and discharged their duties worthily. Within

convent walls, too, it was possible for some women to become learned;

though in later times the achievements of Diemudis were never

rivalled. She was a nun at Wessobrunn in Bavaria at the end of the

eleventh century, and during her cloistered life her active pen wrote

out 47 volumes, including two complete Bibles, one of which was given

in exchange for an estate.

We also hear of women of means, usually widows, dispensing hospitality

on a large scale to the needy and deserving. Wessel of Groningen, as

we saw, was adopted by a wealthy matron, who saw him shivering in the

street on a winter's day and fetched him into her house to warm.

Erasmus describes to us a Gouda lady, Berta de Heyen, whose kindness

he repeatedly enjoyed in his early years; and in addition to her

general charities mentions that she was wont to look out for promising

boys in the town school who were designing to enter the Church,

receive them into her family amongst her own children, and when their

courses were completed, bestir herself to procure them benefices--an

indication of the possession of influence outside her own home. He

goes on to say that when widowhood came to her, she refused to think

of a second marriage, and almost rejoiced to be released from the

bonds of matrimony, because she found herself free to practise her

liberality. But we must not lay too much stress on these latter

utterances. They come from a funeral oration composed after the good

lady's death, and addressed to her children, some of whom were nuns:

to whom therefore the conventional representation of the Church's

attitude towards marriage would be acceptable. Butzbach describes the

wife of a wealthy citizen of Deventer as entertaining daily six or

seven of the poorer clergy at her table, besides the alms that she

distributed continually before her own door. To him she frequently

gave food and clothes and money, with much sympathy.

It is noticeable how the charity is represented as proceeding from the

wife and not from the husband. A mediaeval moralist urges wives to

make good their husbands' deficiencies in this respect; and against

the remark Ulrich Ellenbog, the father, notes that he had always left

this burden to his wife. The inference is probable that though the

sphere of women was in many ways restricted, they were within their

own dominion, the household, supreme--more so perhaps than they are

to-day. Yet in spite of this domestic authority, I do not see how we

can escape the conclusion that the real power rested with the husband,

when we read such passages as this in the _Utopia_, where, speaking of

punishment, More says: 'Parents chastise their children, husbands

their wives.' Indeed, it was recognized as one of the primary duties

of a husband, to see that his wife behaved properly.

What we have been saying may be well illustrated by the letter just

alluded to from Antony Vrye 'to his dear wife, Berta of Groningen'. It

was written 'from Cologne in haste'; and as it appears in Vrye's

_Epistolarum Compendium_, it may be dated _c._ 1477. 'Your letter was

most welcome, and relieved me of anxiety about you all. I rejoice to

hear that the children are well and yourself; your mother too and the

whole household. You write that you are expecting me to return by 1

March, to relieve you of all your cares. I wish indeed that I could;

but besides our own private matters, there is some public business for

me to discharge, and this will take time. So be diligent to look after

our affairs, and pray to God to keep you in health and free from

fault: my prolonged absence will make my return all the more joyful.

It is great pain to me to be absent from you so long, who art all my

life and happiness. But as I must, it falls to you to guard our honour

and property, and to care for our family. This, Jerome says, is the

part of a prudent housewife, and to cherish her own chastity. Bide

then at home, most loving wife, and be not tempted by such amusements

as delight the vulgar; but patiently and modestly await my return. I

too will be a faithful husband to you in everything. Be a chaste and

honoured mother to our boy and little girls; and cherish your mother

in return for the singular kindness she has showed us.'

One feature of life at this time which materially affected the lives

of women, was the length of families and the accompanying infant

mortality. It was common enough in all classes down to the middle of

the last century; and it is still only too common among the poor. On

the walls of churches, more especially in towns, one frequently sees

tablets with long lists of children who seem to have been born only

to die: and yet the parents went on their way unthinking, and content

if from their annual harvest an occasional son or daughter grew up to

bless them. Examples of this may be collected on every side. Cole

(1467-1519), for instance, was the eldest of twenty-two sons and

daughters; and by 1499 he was the only child left to his parents. His

father, who was twice Lord Mayor of London, lived till 1510; the

mother of this great brood survived them all, and, so far as Erasmus

knew, was still living in 1521.

Another case which may be cited is that of Anthony Koberger, the

celebrated Nuremberg printer, 1440-1513: and it is the more

interesting, since owing to his care for genealogy, we have accurate

records of his two marriages and his twenty-five children. The first

marriage produced eight, born between 1470 and 1483; of these, three

daughters lived to grow up and marry, but of the remaining

five--including three sons, all named Anthony, a fact which tells its

own tale--none reached a greater age than twelve years. In September

1491 the first wife died; and in August 1492--without observing the

full year's 'doole'--Anthony married again, the second wife being

herself the sixteenth child of her parents. At first there was only

disappointment; in 3½ years four children were born and died, two of

these being twins. But better times followed: of the remaining

thirteen only three died as infants. Anthony the fifth and John the

third, and three sons named after the three kings, Caspar, Melchior

and Balthasar, were more fortunate. When 21 years had brought 17

children, the sequence ended abruptly with the death of Anthony the

father; leaving, out of the 25 he had received, only 13 children to

speak with his enemies in the gate.

A family Bible now in the Bodleian[31] enumerates 16 children born to

the same parents in 24 years, 1550-74. One girl was married before she

was 16; one son at 20 died of exposure on his way home from Holland;

two reached 10, one 8, one 6. None of the remainder ten lived for one

year.

[31] Biblia Latina, 1529, c. 2.

Of public morals in the special sense of the term this is not the

place to speak in detail. But it may suitably be stated that

sixteenth-century standards in these matters were not so high as those

of the present day. 'If gold ruste, what shal iren do?' The highest

ecclesiastical authorities were unable to check a nominally celibate

priesthood from maintaining women-housekeepers who bore them families

of children and were in many cases decent and respectable wives to

them in all but name; indeed in Friesland the laity for obvious

reasons insisted upon this violation of clerical vows. A letter from

Zwingli, the Reformer, written in 1518 when he was parish priest of

Glarus, gives an astonishing view of his own practice. Under such

circumstances we need not wonder that the standards of the laity were

low. The highest record that I have met with is that of a Flemish

nobleman, who in addition to a large family including a Bishop of

Cambray and an Abbot of St. Omer, is said to have been also the

father of 36 bastards. Thomas More as a young man was not blameless.

But it is surprising to find that Erasmus in writing an appreciation

of More in 1519, when he was already a judge of the King's Bench,

stated the fact in quite explicit, though graceful, language; and

further, that More took no exception to the statement, which was

repeated in edition after edition. We can hardly imagine such a

passage being inserted in a modern biography of a public character,

even if it were written after his death. Just about the same time More

published among his epigrams some light-hearted Latin poems--doubtless

written in his youth--such as no public man with any regard for his

character would care to put his name to to-day.

There is another matter to which some allusion must be made, the

grossness of the age, though here again detail is scarcely possible.

The conditions of life in the sixteenth century made it difficult to

draw a veil over the less pleasant side of human existence. The houses

were filthy; the streets so disgusting that on days when there was no

wind to disperse the mephitic vapours, prudent people kept their

windows shut. Dead bodies and lacerated limbs must have been frequent

sights. Under these circumstances we need not be surprised that men

spoke more plainly to one another and even to women than they do now.

Sir John Paston's conversations with the Duchess of Norfolk would make

less than duchesses blush now. The tales that Erasmus introduces into

his writings, the jests of his Colloquies, are often quite

unnecessarily coarse; but one which will illustrate our point may be

repeated. One winter's morning a stately matron entered St. Gudule's

at Brussels to attend mass. The heels of her shoes were caked with

snow, and on the smooth pavement of the church she slipped up. As she

fell, there escaped from her lips a single word, of mere obscenity.

The bystanders helped her to her feet, and amid their laughter she

slunk away, crimson with mortification, to hide herself in the crowd.

Nowadays great ladies have not such words at command.

Theological controversy has a proverbial name for ferocity; in the

sixteenth century other qualities were added to this. In 1519 a young

Englishman named Lee, who was afterwards Archbishop of York, ventured

to criticize Erasmus' New Testament, with a vehemence which under the

circumstances was perhaps unsuitable. Erasmus of course resented this;

and his friends, to cool their indignation, wrote and published a

series of letters addressed to the offender: 'the Letters of some

erudite men, from which it is plain how great is the virulence of

Lee.' Among the contributors was Sapidus, head master of the famous

school at Schlettstadt, which was one of the first Latin schools of

the age. His letter to Lee concludes with a disgusting piece of

imagery, which would shock one if it proceeded from the most

unpleasantly minded schoolboy. One cannot conceive a Head Master of

Rugby appearing in print in such a way now.

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