slandered in her grave. Her traducers at first whispered, and afterwards
openly stated, not only that she had committed incest with her brother,
but that she had employed her influence over him to make a reconciliation
with his wife impossible.
If that were so, it is simply inconceivable that Hobhouse should have
remained her lifelong friend. His character is well known. Not only his
public but much of his private life is an open book. As a gentleman and a
man of honour he was above suspicion. From his long and close intimacy
with Byron, there were but few secrets between them; and Hobhouse
undoubtedly knew the whole truth of the matter between Byron and his
sister. He was Byron's most trusted friend during life, and executor at
his death.
It has never been disputed that, at the time of the separation, Hobhouse
demanded from Lady Byron's representative a formal disavowal of that
monstrous charge; otherwise the whole matter would be taken into a court
of law. He would allow no equivocation. The charge must either be
withdrawn, then and there, or substantiated in open court. When Lady
Byron, through her representative, _unreservedly_ disavowed the
imputation, Byron was satisfied, and consented to sign the deed of
separation.
Six months after Byron left England, Hobhouse visited him in Switzerland;
and on September 9, 1816, he wrote as follows to Augusta Leigh:
'It would be a great injustice to suppose that [Byron] has dismissed
the subject from his thoughts, or indeed from his conversation, _upon
any other motive than that which the most bitter of his enemies would
commend_. The uniformly tranquil and guarded manner shows the effect
which it is meant to hide.... I trust the news from your Lowestoft
correspondent [Lady Byron] will not be so bad as it was when I last
saw you. Pardon me, dear Mrs. Leigh, if I venture to advise the
strictest confinement to very _common_ topics in all you say in that
quarter. _Repay kindness in any other way than by confidence._ I say
this, not in reference to the lady's character, but as a maxim to
serve for all cases.
'Ever most faithfully yours,
'J. C. HOBHOUSE.'
This letter shows, not only that the writer was firmly convinced of Mrs.
Leigh's innocence, but that he was afraid lest Lady Byron would worm the
real secret out of Byron's sister, by appealing, through acts of kindness,
to her sense of gratitude. He knew that Mrs. Leigh had a very difficult
part to perform. Her loyalty to Byron and Mary Chaworth had already borne
a severe test, and he wished her to realize how much depended on her
discretion.
The task of keeping in touch with Lady Byron, without dispelling her
illusions, was so trying to Augusta Leigh's naturally frank nature as
almost to drive her to despair. Lady Byron, knowing that Byron was in
constant correspondence with his sister, asked permission to read his
letters, and it was difficult, without plausible excuse, to withhold them.
Byron's correspondence was never characterized by reticence. He invariably
unburdened his mind, heedless of the effect which his words might have
upon those to whom his letters were shown. In these circumstances Mrs.
Leigh was kept in a fever of apprehension as to what Lady Byron might
glean, even from the winnowed portions which, from time to time, were
submitted for her perusal.
It has since transpired that, without Augusta's knowledge, Lady Byron kept
a copy of everything that was shown to her.
It appears from 'Astarte' that, in the early part of September, 1816,
Augusta Leigh underwent a rigorous cross-examination--not only from Lady
Byron, but from inquisitive acquaintances, who were determined to extract
from her replies proofs of her guilt.
Lord Lovelace, on Lady Byron's authority, states that between August 31
and September 14 (the precise date is not given) Augusta confessed to
Lady Byron that she had committed incest with her brother _previous to his
marriage_. This strange admission, which we are told had been long
expected, seems to have completely satisfied Lady Byron. _After having
promised to keep her secret inviolate_, she wrote to several of her
friends, and told them that Augusta had made 'a full confession of her
guilt.' There had been no witnesses at the meeting between these two
ladies, and the incriminating letters, which Lord Lovelace says Mrs. Leigh
wrote to Lady Byron, are not given in 'Astarte'! But in 1817 Lady Byron,
referring to these meetings, says: 'She acknowledged that the verses, "I
speak not, I trace not, I breathe not thy name,"' were addressed to her.'
Augusta was certainly in an awkward predicament. By adopting Medora she
had, at considerable personal risk, saved the reputation of Mary Chaworth.
If she had now told the whole truth--namely, that Medora was merely her
daughter by adoption--she would have been pressed to prove it by divulging
the identity of that child's mother. This was of course impossible. Not
only would she have mortally offended Byron, and have betrayed his trust
in her, but the fortune which by his will would devolve upon her children
must have passed into other hands. For those reasons it was indispensable
that the truth should be veiled. As to Mrs. Leigh's alleged statement that
the lines, 'I speak not, I trace not, I breathe not thy name,'--were
addressed to her, we say nothing. By that portion of her so-called
'confession' we may gauge the value of the rest. That Lady Byron should
have been thus deceived affords a strong proof of her gullibility. There
is nothing to show exactly what passed at these remarkable interviews. We
know that Augusta's statements, made orally, were subsequently written
down from memory; because Lady Byron told one of her friends that she had
sent the said 'confession' to the Lord Chancellor (Eldon), 'as a bar to
any future proceedings that might be taken by Lord Byron to obtain the
custody of Ada.'
It is clear that Mrs. Leigh's communication would never have been made
except under a promise of secrecy. She did not suspect the treachery which
Lady Byron contemplated, and thought that she might safely encourage her
delusions. Perhaps she divined that Lady Byron had already convinced
herself that Medora was Byron's child. At any rate, she knew enough of
Lady Byron to be certain that there would be no peace until that lady had
satisfied herself that her suspicions were well founded. Unhappily for
Mrs. Leigh, Hobhouse's warning arrived too late; her ruse failed, and her
reputation suffered during life. Although she was destined to bear the
stigma of a crime of which she was innocent, she never wavered, and died
with her secret unrevealed. Lady Byron, with all her ingenuity, never
divined the truth. Towards the close of her life she became uneasy in her
mind, and died under the impression that 'Augusta had made a fool of her.'
Immediately after Mrs. Leigh's interviews with Lady Byron she wrote to
Byron, and revealed the state of affairs. That, at the same time, she
reproached him for the troubles he had brought upon her is evident from
Byron's journal of September 29:
'I am past reproaches, and there is a time for all things. I am past
the wish of vengeance, and I know of none like what I have suffered;
but the hour will come when what I feel must be felt, and the [truth
will out?]--but enough.'
It was at this time, also, that Byron thought that the 'Epistle to
Augusta'--sent to Murray on August 28--had better not be published. It did
not, in fact, see the light until 1830. Lady Byron's conduct in this
business affected him profoundly, and his feelings towards her changed
completely. He was also angry with Augusta for a time, and told her that
it was
'on her account principally that he had given way at all and signed
the separation, for he thought they would endeavour to drag her into
it, although they had no business with anything previous to his
marriage with that infernal fiend, whose destruction he should yet
see.'[59]
In spite of Lady Byron's prejudice against Mrs. Leigh, as time went on she
gradually realized that her sister-in-law's so-called 'confession' was not
consistent either with her known disposition, her reputation in society,
or with her general conduct. In order to satisfy her conscience, Lady
Byron, in April, 1851, arranged a meeting with Mrs. Leigh at Reigate.
Clearly, it was Lady Byron's purpose to obtain a full confession from Mrs.
Leigh of the crime which she had long suspected. Lady Byron came to
Reigate accompanied by the Rev. Frederick Robertson of Brighton, who
happened then to be her spiritual adviser. This time Augusta Leigh's
'confession' was to be made before an unimpeachable witness, who would
keep a record of what passed. It deeply mortified Lady Byron to find that
Mrs. Leigh--far from making any 'confession'--appeared before her in 'all
the pride of innocence,' and, after saying that she had always been loyal
to Byron and his wife, and had never tried to keep them apart, told Lady
Byron that Hobhouse--who was still living--had expressed his opinion that
Lady Byron had every reason to be grateful to Mrs. Leigh; for she not only
risked the loss of property, but what was much dearer to her, Byron's
affection.[60]
Alas, the bubble had burst! The _confession_, upon which the peace of Lady
Byron's conscience depended, was transformed into an avowal of innocence,
which no threats could shake, no arguments could weaken, and no reproaches
divert.
CHAPTER II
It is because 'Astarte' is a pretentious and plausible record of fallacies
that the present writer feels bound to take note of its arguments.
In order to avoid circumlocution and tedious excursions over debatable
ground, we will assume that the reader is tolerably well acquainted with
literature relating to the separation of Lord and Lady Byron.
It would certainly have been better if the details of Byron's quarrel with
his wife had been ignored. Prior to the publication of Mrs. Beecher
Stowe's articles, in 1869, the greatest tenderness had been shown towards
Lady Byron by all writers upon Byron's career and poetry, and by all those
who alluded to his unhappy marriage. Everyone respected Lady Byron's
excellent qualities, and no one accused her of any breach of faith in her
conduct towards either her husband or his sister. Lady Byron was generally
regarded as a virtuous and high-minded woman, with a hard and cold
disposition, but nothing worse was said or thought of her, and the world
really sympathized with her sorrows.
But when her self-imposed silence was broken by Mrs. Beecher Stowe, and
Byron stood publicly accused on Lady Byron's authority of an odious crime
which she had never attempted to prove during the poet's lifetime, there
arose a revulsion of feeling against her memory. It was generally felt,
after the suffering and the patience of a lifetime, that Lady Byron might
well have evinced a deeper Christian spirit at its close.
As time went on, the memory of this untoward incident gradually faded
away, and the present generation thought little of the rights or wrongs of
a controversy which had moved their forefathers so deeply. The dead, so to
speak, had buried their dead, and all would soon have been forgotten.
Unfortunately, the late Lord Lovelace, a grandson of Lady Byron, goaded by
perusal of the attacks made upon Lady Byron's memory, after Mrs. Beecher
Stowe's revelations in 1869, was induced in 1905 to circulate among 'those
who, for special reasons, ought to have the means of acquainting
themselves with the true position of Lord and Lady Byron,' a work entitled
'Astarte,' which is mainly a compilation of letters and data, skilfully
selected for the purpose of defaming his grandfather.
After informing the reader that 'the public of this age would do well to
pay no attention to voluminous complications and caricatures of Lord
Byron,' Lord Lovelace gaily proceeds, on the flimsiest of evidence, to
blast, not only Byron's name, but also the reputation of the poet's
half-sister, Augusta Leigh.
After telling the world that Byron 'after his death was less honoured than
an outcast,' Lord Lovelace endeavours to justify the public neglect to
honour the remains of a great national poet by accusing Byron of incest.
Lord Lovelace's claim to have been the sole depositary of so damning a
secret is really comical, because, as a matter of fact, he never knew the
truth at all. He thought that he had only, like Pandora, to open his box
for all the evil to fly out, forgetting that Truth has an awkward habit
of lying at the bottom. He seems, however, to have had some inkling of
this, for he is careful to remind us that 'Truth comes in the last, and
very late, limping along on the arm of Time.'
In support of a theory which is supposed to be revealed by his papers,
Lord Lovelace declares that a solution of Byron's mystery may be found in
his poems, and he fixes on 'Manfred' for the key. The haunting remorse of
Manfred is once more trotted out to prove that Byron committed incest.
There is nothing new in this 'nightmare of folly,' for Byron himself was
well aware of the interpretation placed upon that poem by his
contemporaries.
Manfred is certainly the revelation of deep remorse, but the crime for
which he suffers had no connection with Augusta Leigh. Lord Lovelace says
that 'the germ of this nightmare in blank verse _was in the actual letters
of the living Astarte_.' The statement may be true; but he was certainly
not in a position to prove it, for he knew not, to the last hour of his
life, who the living Astarte was.
It is a sad story that should never have been told, and the present writer
regrets that circumstances should have compelled him to save the
reputation of one good woman by revealing matters affecting the
misfortunes of another. But the blame must lie with those inconsiderate,
ignorant, and prejudiced persons who, in an attempt to justify Lady
Byron's conduct, cruelly assailed the memory of one who
'When fortune changed--and love fled far,
And hatred's shafts flew thick and fast,'
was the solitary star which rose, and set not to the last.
On January 2, 1815, Lord and Lady Byron were married at Seaham. The little
that is known of their married life may be found in letters and memoranda
of people who were in actual correspondence with them, and the details
which we now give from various sources are necessary to a better
understanding of the causes which led to a separation between husband and
wife in January, 1816.
According to a statement made by Lady Byron to her friend Lady Anne
Barnard, shortly after a rumour of the separation spread in London, there
never was any real love on either side. The following passages are taken
from some private family memoirs written by Lady Anne herself:
'I heard of Lady Byron's distress, and entreated her to come and let
me see and hear her, if she conceived my sympathy or counsel could be
any comfort to her. She came, but what a tale was unfolded by this
interesting young creature, who had so fondly hoped to have made
[Byron] happy! They had not been an hour in the carriage ... when
Byron, breaking into a malignant sneer, said: "Oh, what a dupe you
have been to your imagination! How is it possible a woman of your
sense could form the wild hope of reforming _me_? Many are the tears
you will have to shed ere that plan is accomplished. It is enough for
me that you are my wife for me to hate you; if you were the wife of
any other man, I own you might have charms," etc.
'I listened in astonishment,' writes Lady Anne. '"How could you go on
after this, my dear!" said I. "Why did you not return to your
father's?"
'"Because I had not a conception he was in earnest; because I reckoned
it a bad jest, and told him so--that my opinion of him was very
different from his of himself, otherwise he would not find me by his
side. He laughed it over when he saw me appear hurt, and I forgot what
had passed till forced to remember it. I believe he was pleased with
me, too, for a little while. I suppose it had escaped his memory that
I was his wife."
'But,' says Lady Anne, 'she described the happiness they enjoyed to
have been unequal and perturbed. Her situation in a short time might
have entitled her to some tenderness, but she made no claim on him for
any. He sometimes reproached her for the motives that had induced her
to marry him--"all was vanity, the vanity of Miss Milbanke carrying
the point of reforming Lord Byron! He always knew _her_ inducements;
her pride shut her eyes to _his_; _he_ wished to build up his
character and his fortunes; both were somewhat deranged; she had a
high name, and would have a fortune worth his attention--let her look
to that for _his_ motives!"
'"Oh, Byron, Byron," she said, "how you desolate me!" He would then
accuse himself of being mad, and throw himself on the ground in a
frenzy, which Lady Byron believed was affected to conceal the coldness
and malignity of his heart--an affectation which at that time never
failed to meet with the tenderest commiseration.... Lady Byron saw the
precipice on which she stood, and kept his sister with her as much as
possible. He returned in the evenings from the haunts of vice, where
he made her understand he had been, with manners so profligate.
'"Oh, wretch!" said I. "And had he no moments of remorse?" "Sometimes
he appeared to have them," replied Lady Byron. "One night, coming home
from one of his lawless parties, he saw me so indignantly collected,
bearing all with such determined calmness, that a rush of remorse
seemed to come over him; he called himself a monster, though his
sister was present, and threw himself in agony at my feet. He said
that I could not--no, I could not forgive him such injuries. He was
sure that he had lost me for ever! Astonished at the return of virtue,
my tears, I believe, flowed over his face, and I said: 'Byron, all is
forgotten; never, never shall you hear of it more!' He started up,
and, folding his arms while he looked at me, burst into laughter.
'What do you mean?' said I. 'Only a philosophical experiment, that's
all,' said he. 'I wished to ascertain the value of your
resolutions.'"
'I need not say more of this prince of duplicity,' continues Lady Anne
Barnard, 'except that varied were his methods of rendering her
wretched, even to the last.'
There is enough evidence in the above statement to show that a separation
between Lord and Lady Byron was inevitable. Byron's temper, always
capricious, became ungovernable under the vexatious exigencies of his
financial affairs. Several executions had taken place in their house
during the year, and it is said that even the beds upon which they slept
were in the possession of the bailiffs.
It has been shown by those who knew Byron well that he was never suited to
the married state. His temperament was an obstacle to happiness in
marriage. He lacked the power of self-command, and the irritation produced
by the shattered state of his fortune drove him at times to explosions,
which were very like madness. We have an example of this in his conduct
one night in Ithaca, when his companions were afraid to enter his room.
Lady Byron could not meet these explosions in any effectual manner. The
more fiercely he vented his exasperation, the colder she became. Lady
Byron, like her husband, was a spoilt child who set her own self-will
against his. If she had possessed more tact and deeper affections, she
might possibly have managed him. We frankly admit that Byron's conduct
during this period was not calculated to win the love and respect of any
woman. During his mad moods he did his utmost to blacken his own
character, and it is not surprising that Lady Byron, who had heard much of
his conduct before marriage, implicitly believed him. His so-called
'mystifications' were all taken seriously. She was, moreover, of a
jealous nature, and Byron delighted to torment her by suggestions of
immorality which had no foundation in fact. In such a character as Lady
Byron's, a hint was enough to awaken the darkest suspicions, and when an
impression had been stamped on her mind it was impossible to remove it.
Byron, of course, fanned the flame, for he was bored to death in the bonds
of wedlock, and we are inclined to believe that he did many outrageous
things in order to drive his wife on the road to a separation. When the
moment came he was sorry, but he certainly brought matters designedly to a
crisis. His sister Augusta was much in favour of his marriage, and had
strong hopes that happiness was in store for them, as the following letter
will show:
'SIX MILE BOTTOM,
'_February 15, 1815_.
'MY DEAR MR. HODGSON,
'You could not have gratified me more than by giving me an opportunity
of writing on my favourite subject to one so truly worthy of it as you
are; indeed, I have repeatedly wished of late that I could communicate
with you. Most thankful do I feel that I have so much to say that will
delight you. I have every reason to think that my beloved B. is very
happy and comfortable. I hear constantly from him and _his Rib_. They
are now at Seaham, and not inclined to return to Halnaby, _because_
all the world were preparing to visit them there, and at Seaham they
are free from this torment, no trifling one in B.'s estimation, as you
know. From my own observations on their epistles, and knowledge of
B.'s disposition and ways, I really hope _most_ confidently that all
will turn out very happily. It appears to me that Lady Byron _sets
about_ making him happy quite in the right way. It is true I judge at
a distance, and we generally _hope_ as we _wish_; but I assure you I
don't conclude hastily on this subject, and will own to you, what I
would not scarcely to any other person, that I had _many fears_ and
much anxiety _founded upon many causes and circumstances_ of which I
cannot _write_. Thank God! that they do not appear likely to be
realized. In short, there seems to me to be but one drawback to _all
our_ felicity, and that, alas! is the disposal of dear Newstead, which
I am afraid is irrevocably decreed. I received the fatal communication
from Lady Byron ten days ago, and will own to you that it was not only
grief, but disappointment; for I flattered myself such a sacrifice
would not be made. From my representations she had said and urged all
she could in favour of keeping it. Mr. Hobhouse the same, and I
_believe_ that he was deputed to make inquiries and researches, and I
knew that he wrote to B. suggesting the propriety and expediency of at
least _delaying_ the sale. This most excellent advice created so much
disturbance in Byron's mind that Lady B. wrote me word, "He had such a
fit of vexation he could not appear at dinner, or leave his room...."
B.'s spirits had improved at the prospect of a release from the
embarrassments which interfered so much with his comfort, and I
suppose I _ought_ to be satisfied with this.... May the future bring
peace and comfort to my dearest B.! that is always one of my first
wishes; and I am convinced it is my duty to _endeavour_ to be resigned
to the loss of this dear Abbey from our family, as well as all other
griefs which are sent by Him who knows what is good for us.... I do
not know what are B.'s plans. Lady Byron says nothing can be decided
upon till their affairs are in some degree arranged. They have been
anxious to procure a temporary habitation in my neighbourhood, which
would be convenient to him and delightful to me, if his presence is
required in Town upon this sad Newstead business. But I am sorry to
say I cannot hear of any likely to suit them; and our house is so
_very_ small, I could scarcely contrive to take them in. Lady B. is
extremely kind to me, for which I am most grateful, and to my dearest
B., for I am well aware how much I am indebted to his partiality and
affection for her good opinion. I will not give up the hope of seeing
them on their way to Town, whenever they do go, as for a few nights
they would, perhaps, tolerate the innumerable inconveniences attending
the best arrangements I could make for them.... My babes are all quite
well; Medora more beautiful than ever.... Lady B. writes me word she
never saw her father and mother so happy: that she believes the latter
would go to the bottom of the sea herself to find fish for B.'s
dinner, and that Byron owns at last that he is very happy and
comfortable at Seaham, though he had _predetermined_ to be very
miserable. In some of her letters she mentions his health not being
very good, though he seldom complains, but says that his spirits have
been improved by some daily walks she had prevailed on him to take;
and attributes much of his languor in the morning and _feverish feels_
at night to his _long fasts_, succeeded by _too_ hearty meals for any
weak and empty stomach to bear at one time, waking by night and
sleeping by day. I flatter myself her influence will prevail over
these bad habits.'
On March 18, 1815, Augusta Leigh again writes to Byron's friend, the Rev.
Francis Hodgson, from Six Mile Bottom:
'B. and Lady Byron arrived here last Sunday on their way from the
North to London, where they have taken a very good house of the Duke
of Devonshire in Piccadilly. I hope they will stay some days longer
with me, and I shall regret their departure, whenever it takes place,
as much as I now delight in their society. Byron is looking remarkably
well, and of Lady B. I scarcely know how to write, for I have a sad
trick of being struck dumb when I am most happy and pleased. The
expectations I had formed could not be _exceeded_, but at least they
are fully answered.
'I think I never saw or heard or read of a more perfect being in
mortal mould than she appears to be, and scarcely dared flatter myself
such a one would fall to the lot of my dear B. He seems quite sensible
of her value, and as happy as the present alarming state of _public_
and the tormenting uncertainties of his own private affairs will admit
of. Colonel Leigh is in the North.'
On March 31, 1815, Mrs. Leigh again writes to Hodgson:
'Byron and Lady B. left me on Tuesday for London. B. will probably
write to you immediately. He talked of it while here after I received
your last letter, which was the cause of _my_ being silent.... I am
sorry to say his nerves and spirits are very far from what I wish
them, but don't speak of this to him on any account.
'I think the uncomfortable state of his affairs is the cause; at
least, I can discern no other. He has every outward blessing this
world can bestow. I trust that the Almighty will be graciously pleased
to grant him those _inward_ feelings of peace and calm which are now
unfortunately wanting. This is a subject which I cannot dwell upon,
but in which I feel and have felt all you express. I think Lady Byron
very judiciously abstains from pressing the consideration of it upon
him at the present moment. In short, the more I see of her the more I
love and esteem her, and feel how grateful I am, and ought to be, for
the blessing of such a wife for my dear, darling Byron.'
Augusta's next letter is written from 13, Piccadilly Terrace, on April 29,
1815, about three weeks after her arrival there on a visit to the Byrons.
It also is addressed to Hodgson, and conveys the following message from
Byron:
'I am desired to add: Lady B. is ----, and that Lord Wentworth has
left all to her mother, and then to Lady Byron and children; but Byron
is, _he says_, "a very miserable dog for all that."'
At the end of June, 1815, Augusta Leigh ended her visit, and returned to
Six Mile Bottom. There seems to have been some unpleasantness between
Augusta and Lady Byron during those ten weeks.
Two months later, on September 4, 1815, Augusta Leigh writes again to
Hodgson:
'Your letter reached me at a time of much hurry and confusion, which
has been succeeded by many events of an afflicting nature, and
compelled me often to neglect those to whom I feel most pleasure in
writing.... My brother has just left me, having been here since last
Wednesday, when he arrived very unexpectedly. I never saw him _so_
well, and he is in the best spirits, and desired me to add his
congratulations to mine upon your marriage.'
On November 15, 1815, Augusta Leigh arrived at 13, Piccadilly Terrace, on
a long visit.
It cannot have been a pleasant experience for Augusta Leigh, this wretched
period which culminated in a dire catastrophe for all concerned. Lord
Lovelace tells us that, when Mrs. Leigh came to stay with them in
November, Byron 'seemed much alienated from his sister, and was entirely
occupied with women at the theatre.' And yet
'_the impressions of Mrs. Leigh's guilt had been forced into Lady
Byron's mind chiefly by incidents and conversations which occurred
while they were all under one roof._'
What may have given rise to these suspicions is not recorded--probably
Byron's mystifications, which were all taken seriously. But there is no
attempt to deny the fact that, during this painful time, Lady Byron owed
deep gratitude to Mrs. Leigh, who had faithfully striven to protect her
when ill and in need of sympathy. It was during this period that Lady
Byron wrote the following cryptic note to Byron's sister:
'You will think me very foolish, but I have tried two or three times,
and cannot _talk_ to you of your departure with a decent visage; so
let me say one word in this way to spare my philosophy. With the
expectations which I have, I never will nor can ask you to stay one
moment longer than you are inclined to do. It would be the worst
return for all I ever received from you. But, in this at least, I _am_
"truth itself" when I say that, whatever the situation may be, there
is no one whose society is dearer to me, or can contribute more to my
happiness. These feelings will not change under any circumstances, and
I should be grieved it you did not understand them.
'Should you hereafter condemn me, I shall not love you less. I will
say no more. Judge for yourself about going or staying. I wish you to
consider _yourself_, if you could be wise enough to do that for the
first time in your life.'
On December 10, 1815, Lady Byron gave birth to a daughter. Lord Lovelace
says:
'About three weeks after Lady Byron's confinement, the aversion Byron
had already at times displayed towards her struck everyone in the
house as more formidable than ever. Augusta, George Byron, and Mrs.
Clermont, were then all staying in the house, and were very uneasy at
his unaccountable manner and talk. He assumed a more threatening
aspect towards Lady Byron. There were paroxysms of frenzy, but a still
stronger impression was created by the frequent hints he gave of some
suppressed and bitter determination. He often spoke of his conduct and
intentions about women of the theatre, particularly on January 3,
1816, when he came to Lady Byron's room and talked on that subject
with considerable violence. After that he did not go any more to see
her or the child, but three days later sent her the following note:
'"_January 6, 1816._
'"When you are disposed to leave London, it would be convenient that a
day should be fixed--and (if possible) not a very remote one for that
purpose. Of my opinion upon that subject you are sufficiently in
possession, and of the circumstances which have led to it, as also to
my plans--or, rather, intentions--for the future. When in the country
I will write to you more fully--as Lady Noel has asked you to Kirkby;
there you can be for the present, unless you prefer Seaham.
'"As the dismissal of the present establishment is of importance to
me, the sooner you can fix on the day the better--though, of course,
your convenience and inclination shall be first consulted.
'"The child will, of course, accompany you: there is a more easy and
safer carriage than the chariot (unless you prefer it) which I
mentioned before--on that you can do as you please."'
The next day Lady Byron replied in writing as follows: 'I shall obey your
wishes, and fix the earliest day that circumstances will admit for leaving
London.'
Consequently she quitted London on January 15, 1816. Soon after Lady
Byron's arrival at Kirkby, her mother drew from her some of the
circumstances of her misery. Lady Byron then told her mother that she
believed her life would be endangered by a return to her husband. She
expressed an opinion that Byron was out of his mind, although he seemed
competent to transact matters connected with his business affairs. Lady
Noel, naturally, took her daughter's part entirely, and went to London to
seek legal advice. During her stay in London, Lady Noel saw Augusta Leigh
and George Byron, who agreed with her that every endeavour should be made
to induce Byron to agree to a separation. She also consulted Sir Samuel
Romilly, Sergeant Heywood, Dr. Lushington, and Colonel Francis Doyle, an
old friend of the Milbanke family. They all agreed that a separation was
necessary. It was perhaps a very natural view to take of a marriage which
had run its short course so tempestuously, but there were no grounds other
than incompatibility of temperament upon which to base that conclusion.
'Nothing had been said at this time,' says Lord Lovelace, 'by Lady
Byron of her suspicions about Augusta, except, apparently, a few
incoherent words to Lady Noel, when telling her that Lord Byron had
threatened to take the child away from her and commit it to Augusta's
charge.'
Byron, says Lord Lovelace,[61] 'was very changeable at this time,
sometimes speaking kindly of his wife--though never appearing to wish her
to return--and the next hour he would say that the sooner Lady Byron's
friends arranged a separation, the better.'
This statement is a fair example of the manner in which Lord Lovelace
handles his facts and documents. Mr. Hobhouse, who was in a position to
know the truth, has recently shown that Byron was very anxious for his
wife's return, was indeed prepared to make great sacrifices to attain that
object, and resolutely opposed the wishes of those persons who tried to
arrange a legal separation. It was not until Lady Byron herself reminded
him of a promise which he had once made to her that, 'when convinced her
conduct had not been influenced by others, he should not oppose her
wishes,' that he consented to sign the deed of separation. He had done
enough to show that he was not afraid of any exposure which might have
affected his honour, and was willing, if necessary, to go into a court of
law, but he could not resist the petition of his wife.[62] It is also
extremely improbable that Byron should, 'towards the end of January, have
spoken of proposing a separation himself,' in view of the letters which he
wrote to his wife on February 5, and February 8 following.[63]
On February 2 Sir Ralph Noel, under legal advice, wrote a stiff letter
requiring a separation. Byron at that time positively refused to accept
these terms. The whole affair then became publicly known. Every kind of
report was spread about him, and especially the scandal about Augusta was
noised abroad by Lady Caroline Lamb and Mr. Brougham. There can be no
doubt whatever that Byron heard of this report, and paid very little
attention to it. He found out then, or soon afterwards, how the scandal
arose.
Lady Byron's relations were bent on arranging an amicable separation.
Should Byron persist in his refusal, it was intended to institute a suit
in the Ecclesiastical Court to obtain a divorce on the plea of adultery
and cruelty. There is reason to believe that a charge of adultery could
_not_ have been substantiated at that time.
Meanwhile, Lady Byron, who had lately acquired some documents, which were
unknown to her when she left her husband on January 15,[64] came to London
on February 22, and had a long private conversation with Dr. Lushington.
She then showed him two packets of letters which Mrs. Clermont had
abstracted from Byron's writing-desk. Lady Byron received those letters
some time between February 14 and 22, 1816. One packet contained missives
from a married lady, with whom Byron had been intimate previous to his
marriage. It appears that Lady Byron--whose notions of the ordinary code
of honour were peculiar--sent those letters to that lady's husband, who,
like a sensible man, threw them into the fire. Of the other packet we
cannot speak so positively. It probably comprised letters from Augusta
Leigh, referring to the child Medora.[65] Such expressions as 'our child'
or 'your child' would have fallen quite naturally from her pen under the
circumstances. It is easy to imagine the effect of some such words upon
the suspicious mind of Lady Byron. By Mrs. Clermont's masterful stroke of
treachery, strong presumptive evidence was thus brought against Augusta
Leigh. The letters undoubtedly convinced Dr. Lushington that incest had
taken place, and he warned Lady Byron against any personal intercourse
with Mrs. Leigh. He at the same time advised her to keep her lips closed
until Augusta had of her own free will confessed; and pointed out to Lady
Byron that, 'while proofs and impressions were such as left no doubt on
_her_ mind, _they were decidedly not such as could have been brought
forward to establish a charge of incest, in the event of Lady Byron being
challenged to bring forward the grounds of her imputation_.'[66]
From that moment all Lady Byron's wiles were employed to extract a
confession from Augusta Leigh, which would have gone far to justify Lady
Byron's conduct in leaving her husband. Soon after this momentous
interview with Dr. Lushington, an ugly rumour was spread about town
affecting Mrs. Leigh's character.
Lord Lovelace says:
'When Augusta's friends vehemently and indignantly resented such a
calumny, they were met with the argument that _Lady Byron's refusal to
assign a reason for her separation confirmed the report_, and that no
one but Augusta could deny it with any effect.'
This, by the nature of her agreement with Byron, was impossible, and Mrs.
Clermont's treachery held her in a vice.
During January and February, 1816, Lady Byron, who strongly suspected Mrs.
Leigh's conduct to have been disloyal to herself, wrote the most
affectionate letters to that lady.
'KIRKBY MALLORY.
'MY DEAREST A.,
'It is my great comfort that you are in Piccadilly.'
'KIRKBY MALLORY,
'_January 23, 1816_.
'DEAREST A.,
'I know you feel for me as I do for you, and perhaps I am better
understood than I think. You have been, ever since I knew you, my best
comforter, and will so remain, unless you grow tired of the office,
which may well be.'
'_January 25, 1816._
'MY DEAREST AUGUSTA,
'Shall I still be your sister? I must resign my rights to be so
considered; but I don't think that will make any difference in the
kindness I have so uniformly experienced from you.'
'KIRKBY MALLORY,
'_February 3, 1816_.
'MY DEAREST AUGUSTA,
'You are desired by your brother to ask if my father has acted with my
concurrence in proposing a separation. He has. It cannot be supposed
that, in my present distressing situation, I am capable of stating, in
a detailed manner, the reasons which will not only justify this
measure, but compel me to take it; and it never can be my wish to
remember unnecessarily those injuries for which, however deep, I feel
no resentment. I will now only recall to Lord Byron's mind his avowed
and insurmountable aversion to the married state, and the desire and
determination he has expressed ever since its commencement to free
himself from that bondage, as finding it quite insupportable, though
candidly acknowledging that no effort of duty or affection has been
wanting on my part. He has too painfully convinced me that all these
attempts to contribute towards his happiness were wholly useless, and
most unwelcome to him. I enclose this letter to my father, wishing it
to receive his sanction.
'Ever yours most affectionately,
'A. I. BYRON.'
'_February 4, 1816._
'I hope, my dear A., that you would on no account withhold from your
brother the letter which I sent yesterday, in answer to yours written
by his desire; particularly as one which I have received from himself
to-day renders it still more important that he should know the
contents of that addressed to you. I am, in haste and not very well,
'Yours most affectionately,
'A. I. BYRON.'
'KIRKBY MALLORY,
'_February 14, 1816_.
'The present sufferings of all may yet be repaid in blessings. Do not
despair absolutely, dearest; and leave me but enough of your interest
to afford you any consolation, by partaking of that sorrow which I am
most unhappy to cause thus unintentionally.
'_You will_ be of my opinion hereafter, and at present your bitterest
reproach would be forgiven; though Heaven knows you have considered me
more than a thousand would have done--more than anything but my
affection for B., one most dear to you, could deserve. I must not
remember these feelings. Farewell! God bless you, from the bottom of
my heart.
'A. I. B.'
It is only fair to remind the reader that, when these letters were
written, Lady Byron had not consulted Dr. Lushington. We are inclined to
think that the last letter was written on the day when she received Mrs.
Clermont's 'proofs.' Meanwhile, Augusta, unconscious that an avalanche of
scandal threatened to sweep her reputation into an abyss, was catching at
every straw that might avert a catastrophe. Her thoughts turned to
Hodgson, whose noble character, sound common-sense, and affection for
Byron, were undoubted. It was possible, she thought, that the ruin and
destruction which she dreaded for her brother might be averted through the
advice and assistance of an honourable man of the world. In that wild hope
the following letters were written:
'13, PICCADILLY TERRACE,
'_Wednesday, February 7, 1816_.
'DEAR MR. HODGSON,
'Can you by _any means_ contrive to come up to Town? Were it only for
_a day_, it might be of the most essential service to a friend I know
you love and value. There is too much fear of a separation between him
and his wife. No time is to be lost, but even if you are _too late_ to
prevent that happening _decidedly_, yet it would be the greatest
comfort and relief to me to confide other circumstances to you, and
consult you; and so if _possible_ oblige me, if only for _twenty-four_
hours. Say not _a word_ of my summons, but attribute your coming, if
you come, to business of your own or chance. Excuse brevity; I am so
perfectly wretched I can only say,
'Ever yours most truly,
'AUGUSTA LEIGH.
'It is probable I may be obliged to go home next week. If my scheme
appears wild, pray attribute it to the state of mind I am in. Alas! I
see only _ruin_ and _destruction_ in _every_ shape to one most dear to
me.'
Hodgson at once responded to this appeal by taking the first stage-coach
to London, where the next letter was addressed to him at his lodgings near
Piccadilly:
'How very good of you, dear Mr. Hodgson! I intend showing the letter
to B., as I _think_ he will jump at seeing you just now, but I _must_
see you first; and how? I am now going to Mr. Hanson's from B. I'm
afraid of your meeting people here who _do no good_, and would
counteract yours; but will you call about two, or after that, and ask
for _me_ first? I shall be home, I hope, and _must_ see you. If I'm
out ask for Capt. B.
'Yours sincerely,
'A. L.'
'_Friday evening, 9 o'clock._
'DEAR MR. HODGSON,
'I've been unable to write to you till this moment. Mr. H.[67] stayed
till a late hour, and is now here again. B. dined with me, and after I
left the room I sent your note in, thinking him in better spirits and
more free from irritations. He has only just mentioned it to me: "Oh,
by-the-by, I've had a note from H., Augusta, whom you must write to,
and say I'm so full of domestic calamities that I can't see anybody."
Still, I think he _will_ see you if he hears you are here, or that
even it would be better, if the worst came to the worst, to let the
servant announce you and walk in. Can you call here about eleven
to-morrow morning, when he will not be up, or scarcely awake, and
Capt. B., you, and I, can hold a council on what is best to be done?
The fact is, he is now _afraid_ of everybody who would tell him the
truth. It is a most dreadful situation, dear Mr. H.! The worst is,
that _if_ you said you have done so-and-so, etc., he would deny it;
and I see he is afraid of _your despair_, as he terms it, when you
hear of his situation, and, in short, of your telling him the truth.
He can only bear to see those who flatter him and encourage him to all
that is wrong. I've not mentioned having seen you, because I wish him
to suppose your opinions unprejudiced. You _must_ see him; and pray
see me and George B. to-morrow morning, when we will consult upon the
best means. You are the only comfort I've had this long time. I'm
quite of your opinion on all that is to be feared.
'Ever yours truly,
'A. L.'
'PICCADILLY TERRACE.
'DEAR MR. H.,
'About three you will be sure of finding me, if not sooner. I've sent
in your letter; he said in return I was to do what I pleased about it.
I _think_ and _hope_ he will find comfort in seeing you.
'Yours truly,
'A. L.'
'_Saturday._
'DEAR MR. H.,
'B. will see you. I saw him open your note, and said I had given his
message this morning, when I had seen you and talked generally on the
subject of his present situation, of which you had before heard. He
replied, "Oh, then, tell him I will see him, certainly; my reason for
_not_ was the fear of distressing him." You had better call towards
three, and wait if he is not yet out of his room. Mr. Hanson has sent
for me in consequence (probably) of your interview. I'm going to him
about three with Capt. B., but have said nothing to B. of this.
'Ever yours,
'A. L.'
Immediately after the interview, which took place on the day after the
last note was written, Hodgson, feeling that nothing could be lost and
that much might be gained by judicious remonstrance, resolved to hazard an
appeal to Lady Byron's feelings--with what success will be seen from her
ladyship's reply. It is impossible to over-estimate the combined tact and
zeal displayed by Hodgson in this most delicate and difficult matter.
'Whether I am outstepping the bounds of prudence in this address to
your ladyship I cannot feel assured; and yet there is so much at stake
in a quarter so loved and valuable that I cannot forbear running the
risk, and making one effort more to plead a cause which your
ladyship's own heart must plead with a power so superior to all other
voices. If, then, a word that is here said only adds to the pain of
this unhappy conflict between affection and views of duty, without
lending any weight of reason to the object it seeks, I would earnestly
implore that it may be forgiven; and, above all, the interference
itself, which nothing but its obvious motive and the present awful
circumstance could in any way justify.
'After a long and most confidential conversation with my friend (whom
I have known thoroughly, I believe, for many trying years), I am
convinced that the deep and rooted feeling in his heart is regret and
sorrow for the occurrences which have so deeply wounded you; and the
most unmixed admiration of your conduct in all its particulars, and
the warmest affection. But may I be allowed to state to Lady Byron
that Lord B., after his general acknowledgment of having frequently
been very wrong, and, from various causes, in a painful state of
irritation, yet declares himself ignorant of the specific things which
have given the principal offence, and that he wishes to hear of them;
that he may, if extenuation or atonement be possible, endeavour to
make some reply; or, at all events, may understand the fulness of
those reasons which have now, and as unexpectedly as afflictingly,
driven your ladyship to the step you have taken?
'It would be waste of words and idle presumption for me, however your
ladyship's goodness might be led to excuse it, to observe how very
extreme, how decidedly irreconcilable, such a case should be, before
the last measure is resorted to. But it may not be quite so improper
to urge, from my deep conviction of their truth and importance, the
following reflections. I entreat your ladyship's indulgence to them.
What can be the consequence, to a man so peculiarly constituted, of
such an event? If I may give vent to my fear, my thorough certainty,
nothing short of absolute and utter destruction. I turn from the idea;
but _no_ being except your ladyship can prevent this. _None_, I am
thoroughly convinced, ever could have done so, notwithstanding the
unhappy appearances to the contrary. Whatever, then, may be against
it, whatever restraining remembrances or anticipations, to a person
who was not already qualified by sad experience to teach this very
truth, I would say that there _is_ a claim paramount to all
others--that of attempting to save the human beings nearest and
dearest to us from the most comprehensive ruin that can be suffered by
them, at the expense of any suffering to ourselves.
'If I have not gone too far, I would add that so suddenly and at once
to shut every avenue to returning comfort must, when looked back upon,
appear a strong measure; and, if it proceeds (pray pardon the
suggestion) from the unfortunate notion of the very person to whom my
friend now looks for consolation being unable to administer it, that
notion I would combat with all the energy of conviction; and assert,
that whatever unguarded and unjustifiable words, and even actions, may
have inculcated this idea, it is the very rock on which the peace of
both would, as unnecessarily as wretchedly, be sacrificed. But God
Almighty forbid that there should be any sacrifice. Be all that is
right called out into action, all that is wrong suppressed (and by
your only instrumentality, Lady Byron, as by yours only it can be) in
my dear friend. May you both yet be what God intended you for: the
support, the watchful correction, and improvement, of each other! Of
yourself, Lord B. from his heart declares that he would wish nothing
altered--nothing but that sudden, surely sudden, determination which
must _for ever_ destroy one of you, and perhaps even both. God bless
both!
'I am, with deep regard,
'Your ladyship's faithful servant,
'FRANCIS HODGSON.'
Lady Byron's answer was as follows:
'KIRKBY,
'_February 15, 1816_.
'DEAR SIR,
'I feel most sensibly the kindness of a remonstrance which equally
proves your friendship for Lord Byron and consideration for me. I have
declined all discussion of this subject with others, but my knowledge
of your principles induces me to justify my own; and yet I would
forbear to accuse as much as possible.
'I married Lord B. determined to endure everything whilst there was
_any_ chance of my contributing to his welfare. I remained with him
under trials of the severest nature. In leaving him, which, however, I
can scarcely call a _voluntary_ measure, I probably saved him from the
bitterest remorse. I may give you a general idea of what I have
experienced by saying that he married me with the deepest
determination of Revenge, avowed on the day of my marriage, and
executed ever since with systematic and increasing cruelty, which no
affection could change.... My security depended on the total
abandonment of every moral and religious principle, against which
(though I trust they were never obtruded) his hatred and endeavours
were uniformly directed.... The circumstances, which are of too
convincing a nature, shall not be generally known whilst Lord B.
allows me to spare him. It is not unkindness that can always change
affection.
'With you I may consider this subject in a less worldly point of view.
Is the present injury to his reputation to be put in competition with
the danger of unchecked success to this wicked pride? and may not his
actual sufferings (in which, be assured, that affection for me has
very little share) expiate a future account? I know him too well to
dread the fatal event which he so often mysteriously threatens. I have
acquired my knowledge of him bitterly indeed, and it was long before I
learned to mistrust the apparent candour by which he deceives all but
himself. He _does_ know--too well--what he affects to inquire. You
reason with me as I have reasoned with myself, and I therefore derive
from your letter an additional and melancholy confidence in the
rectitude of this determination, which has been deliberated on the
grounds that you would approve. It was not suggested, and has not been
enforced, by others; though it is sanctioned by my parents.
'You will continue Lord Byron's friend, and the time may yet come when
he will receive from that friendship such benefits as he now rejects.
I will even indulge the consolatory thought that the remembrance of
me, when time has softened the irritation created by my presence, may
contribute to the same end. May I hope that you will still retain any
value for the regard with which I am,
'Your most obliged and faithful servant,
'A. I. BYRON.'
'I must add that Lord Byron had been fully, earnestly, and
affectionately warned of the unhappy consequences of his conduct.'
It is most unfortunate that the second letter which Hodgson wrote on this
most distressing occasion is lost, but some clue to its contents may be
gathered from Lady Byron's reply:
'_February 24, 1816._
'DEAR SIR,
'I have received your second letter. First let me thank you for the
charity with which you consider my motives; and now of the principal
subject.
'I eagerly adopted the belief on insanity as a consolation; and though
such malady has been found insufficient to prevent his responsibility
with man, I will still trust that it may latently exist, so as to
acquit him towards God. This no human being can judge. It certainly
does not destroy the powers of self-control, or impair the knowledge
of moral good and evil. Considering the case upon the supposition of
derangement, you may have heard, what every medical adviser would
confirm, that it is in the nature of such malady to reverse the
affections, and to make those who would naturally be dearest, the
greatest objects of aversion, the most exposed to acts of violence,
and the least capable of alleviating the malady. Upon such grounds my
absence from Lord B. was medically advised before I left Town. But the
advisers had not then seen him, and since Mr. Le Mann has had
opportunities of personal observation, it has been found that the
supposed physical causes do not exist so as to render him not an
accountable agent.
'I believe the nature of Lord B.'s mind to be most benevolent. But
there may have been circumstances (I would hope the _consequences_,
not the _causes_, of mental disorder) which would render an original
tenderness of conscience the motive of desperation--even of
guilt--when self-esteem had been forfeited _too far_. No _external_
motive can be so strong. Goodness of heart--when there are impetuous
passions and no principles--is a frail security.
'Every possible means have been employed to effect a private and
amicable arrangement; and I would sacrifice such advantages in terms
as, I believe, the law would insure to me, to avoid this dreadful
necessity. Yet I must have some _security_, and Lord B. refuses to
afford any. If you could persuade him to the agreement, you would save
me from what I most deprecate. I have now applied to Lord Holland for
that end.
'If you wish to answer--and I shall always be happy to hear from
you--I must request you to enclose your letter to my father, Sir Ralph
Noel, Mivart's Hotel, Lower Brook Street, London, as I am not sure
where I may be at that time. My considerations of duty are of a very
complicated nature; for my duty as a mother seems to point out the
same conduct as I pursue upon other principles that I have partly
explained.
'I must observe upon one passage of your letter that I _had_ (_sic_)
expectations of personal violence, though I was too miserable to have
_feelings_ of fear, and those expectations would now be still
stronger.
'In regard to any change which the future state of Lord B.'s mind
might justify in my intentions, an amicable arrangement would not
destroy the opening for reconciliation. Pray endeavour to promote the
dispositions to such an arrangement; there is every reason to desire
it.
'Yours very truly,
'A. I. BYRON.'
It is worthy of note that Lady Byron, _two days after her interview with
Lushington_, here states that, in the event of 'an amicable arrangement'
(an amicable separation) being arrived at, it would not destroy the
opening for reconciliation. This is an extraordinary statement, because,
as we have seen, Dr. Lushington absolutely declined to be a party to any
such step. On March 14 Lady Byron signed a declaration, giving her reasons
for the separation, as will be seen presently.
On March 16 Augusta Leigh returned to her apartments in St. James's
Palace, and on the following day Byron consented to a separation from his
wife. On April 8 Lady Jersey gave a party in honour of Byron, and to show
her sympathy for him in his matrimonial troubles. Both Byron and Augusta
were present, but it was a cold and spiritless affair, and nothing came of
this attempt to stem the tide of prejudice.
On April 14 Augusta parted for ever from her brother, and retired into the
country, her health broken down by the worry and anxiety of the past three
months. On April 21 and 22, 1816, the deed of separation was signed by
both Lord and Lady Byron. On April 23 Byron left London, and travelled to
Dover accompanied by his friends Hobhouse and Scrope-Davies. On the 25th
he embarked for Ostend, unable to face the consequences of his quarrel
with his wife.
'To his susceptible temperament and generous feelings,' says his
schoolfellow Harness, 'the reproach of having ill-used a woman must
have been poignant in the extreme. It was repulsive to his chivalrous
character as a gentleman; it belied all he had written of the devoted
fervour of his attachments; and rather than meet the frowns and sneers
which awaited him in the world, as many a less sensitive man might
have done, he turned his back on them and fled.'
CHAPTER III
The publication of 'Astarte' has had one good result; it has placed beyond
question the precise nature of Lady Byron's complaints against her
husband. On March 14, 1816, Lady Byron was induced by Dr. Lushington to
draw up and sign a statement which would be useful if her conduct should
at any future time be criticized.
We place the entire document before the reader, just as it appears in Lord
Lovelace's book:
'STATEMENT.--A. L.
'In case of my death to be given to Colonel Doyle.
A. I. BYRON,
Thursday, March 14, 1816.'
'During the year that Lady Byron lived under the same roof with Lord
B. certain circumstances occurred, and some intimations were made,
which excited a suspicion in Lady B.'s mind that an improper
connection had at one time, and might even still, subsist between Lord
B. and Mrs. L----.[68] The causes, however, of this suspicion did not
amount to proof, and Lady Byron did not consider herself justified in
acting upon these suspicions by immediately quitting Lord B.'s house,
for the following reasons:
'First and principally, because the causes of suspicion, though they
made a strong impression upon her mind, did not amount to positive
proof, and Lady B. considered, that whilst a possibility of innocence
existed, every principle of duty and humanity forbad her to act as if
Mrs. Leigh was actually guilty, more especially as any intimation of
so heinous a crime, even if not distinctly proved, must have seriously
affected Mrs. L.'s character and happiness.
'Secondly, Lady B. had it not in her power to pursue a middle course;
it was utterly impossible for her to remove Mrs. L. from the society
and roof of Lord B. except by a direct accusation.
'Thirdly, because Mrs. L. had from her first acquaintance with Lady B.
always manifested towards her the utmost kindness and attention,
endeavouring as far as laid in her power to mitigate the violence and
cruelty of Lord B.
'Fourthly, because Mrs. L. at times exhibited signs of a deep remorse;
at least so Lady B. interpreted them to be, though she does not mean
to aver that the feelings Mrs. L. then showed were signs of remorse
for the commission of the crime alluded to, or any other of so dark a
description.
'And, lastly, because Lady B. conceived it possible that the crime, if
committed, might not only be deeply repented of, but never have been
perpetrated since her marriage with Lord B.
'It was from these motives, and strongly inclining to a charitable
interpretation of all that passed, that Lady B. never during her
living with Lord B. intimated a suspicion of this nature. Since Lady
B.'s separation from Lord B. the report has become current in the
world of such a connection having subsisted. This report was not
spread nor sanctioned by Lady B. Mrs. L.'s character has, however,
been to some extent affected thereby. Lady B. cannot divest her mind
of the impressions before stated; but anxious to avoid all possibility
of doing injury to Mrs. L., and not by any conduct of her own to throw
any suspicion upon Mrs. L., and it being intimated that Mrs. L.'s
character can never be so effectually preserved as by a renewal of
intercourse with Lady B., she does for the motives and reasons before
mentioned consent to renew that intercourse.
'Now, this statement is made in order to justify Lady B. in the line
of conduct she has now determined to adopt, and in order to prevent
all misconstruction of her motives in case Mrs. L. should be proved
hereafter to be guilty; and, if any circumstances should compel or
render it necessary for Lady B. to prefer the charge, in order that
Lady B. may be at full liberty so to do without being prejudiced by
her present conduct.
'It is to be observed that this paper does not contain nor pretends to
contain any of the grounds which gave rise to the suspicion which has
existed and still continues to exist in Lady B.'s mind.
'We whose names are hereunto subscribed are of opinion, that under all
the circumstances above stated, and also from our knowledge of what
has passed respecting the conduct of all parties mentioned, that the
line now adopted by Lady B. is strictly right and honourable, as well
as just towards Mrs. L., and Lady B. ought not, whatever may hereafter
occur, to be prejudiced thereby.
'ROBT. JOHN WILMOT.
F. H. DOYLE.
STEPHEN LUSHINGTON.
(_Signed by each._)
'LONDON,
_March 14, 1816_.'
One month later, on April 14, Byron writes a letter to his wife, who was
staying at an hotel in London, in which he says that he has just parted
from Augusta:
'Almost the last being you had left me to part with, and the only
unshattered tie of my existence.... If any accident occurs to me--be
kind to _her_,--if she is then nothing--to her children. Some time ago
I informed you that, with the knowledge that any child of ours was
already provided for by other and better means, I had made my will in
favour of her and her children--as prior to my marriage; this was not
done in prejudice to you, for we had not then differed--and even this
is useless during your life by the settlements. I say, therefore, be
kind to her and hers, for never has she acted or spoken otherwise
towards you. She has ever been your friend; this may seem valueless
to one who has now so many. Be kind to her, however, and recollect
that, though it may be an advantage to you to have lost your husband,
it is sorrow to her to have the waters now, or the earth hereafter,
between her and her brother. She is gone. I need hardly add that of
this request she knows nothing.'
There are two points in this letter which deserve notice. In the first
place Byron intimates that he has made a will in favour of Augusta and
_her children, as prior to his marriage_. This would insure that Medora
would be amply provided for. In addition to this, Byron had already given
his sister £3,000 in May, 1814, within one month of Medora's birth. In
reply to her scruples, Byron writes: 'Consider the children, and my
Georgina in particular--in short, I need say no more.'
In the second place, we appeal to any unprejudiced person whether it is
likely that Byron would have made to his wife an especial appeal on behalf
of Augusta, if he had not had a clear conscience as to his relations with
her? That he had a clear conscience cannot be doubted, and Augusta never
hesitated in private intercourse with Lady Byron to speak on that painful
subject. To quote Lord Lovelace:
'On all these occasions, one subject, uppermost in the thoughts of
both, had been virtually ignored, except that Augusta had had the
audacity to name the reports about herself "with the pride of
innocence," as it is called.'
Augusta tried to make Lady Byron speak out, and say that she did not
believe the reports against her, but in vain. Lady Byron, having once
conceived a notion of Augusta's guilt, would not change her opinion, and
was far too honest to dissemble. She found refuge in flight, not daring
to show to Augusta the letters which had been abstracted from Byron's desk
by Mrs. Clermont. In vain Mrs. Villiers and Wilmot urged Lady Byron to
avow to Augusta the information of which they were in possession. Lady
Byron would not produce her so-called 'proofs,' and said that 'she would
experience pain in throwing off a person she had loved, and from whom she
had received kindness.'
But Lady Byron, conscious of her false position, had recourse to her pen,
and wrote a letter to Augusta telling her all that she knew. We are told
that Augusta did not attempt to deny the accusation, and admitted
everything in her letters of June, July, and August, 1816.
Lord Lovelace coolly says:
'It is unnecessary to produce these letters here, as their contents
are confirmed and made sufficiently clear by the correspondence of
1819, given in another chapter.'
We are further told in a footnote (p. 155) that the late Sir Leslie
Stephen said it made him quite uncomfortable to read Mrs. Leigh's letters
of humiliation dated 1816. One would have supposed, after such a flourish
of trumpets, that Lord Lovelace would have produced those letters! He does
nothing of the kind, and expects posterity to accept his _ex-parte_
statements without reserve. Lord Lovelace bids us to believe that it was
'from the best and kindest motives, and long habit of silence, that Dr.
Lushington's influence was exerted in 1869, to prevent, or at least
postpone, revelation.' The fact is, of course, he kept silence because he
well knew that there was nothing in those letters (1813 and 1814) to fix
guilt upon Mrs. Leigh. Lady Byron herself has told us that 'the causes of
her suspicion _did not amount to proof_, and Lady Byron did not consider
herself justified in acting upon these suspicions.' She further states
that '_the possibility of innocence existed_,' but that
'Mrs. Leigh, at times, exhibited signs of deep remorse; _at least so
Lady Byron interpreted them to be_, though she does not mean to aver
that the feelings Mrs. Leigh then showed were signs of remorse for the
commission of the crime alluded to, or any other of so dark a
description.'
But Lady Byron, under Lushington's skilful hand, protects herself against
the possibility of legal proceedings for defamation of character by these
words:
'This paper does not contain, nor pretend to contain, any of the
grounds which give rise _to the suspicion_ which has existed, and
still continues to exist, in Lady Byron's mind. Her statement is made
in order to justify Lady Byron ... _in case Mrs. Leigh should be
proved hereafter to be guilty_.'
As this statement was made after Lady Byron's interview with Dr.
Lushington (when he decided to take no part in any attempt at
reconciliation), it is perfectly clear that the alleged incriminating
letters were not considered as conclusive evidence against Mrs. Leigh.
Although they were sufficient to detach Lushington from the party of
reconciliation, it was not considered wise to produce them as evidence in
1869, at a time when a strong revulsion of feeling had set in against Lady
Byron.
The clear legal brain of Sir Alexander Cockburn, trained to appraise
evidence, saw through the flimsy pretext which had deceived an equally
great lawyer. Time instructs us, and much has come to light in this
so-called 'Byron mystery,' since Lady Byron beguiled Lushington. Among
other things, we now know, on Lord Lovelace's authority, that Lady Byron
was afraid that her child would be taken from her by Byron, and placed
under the care of Mrs. Leigh. We also know, on the authority of
Hobhouse,[69] that Lady Byron's representatives distinctly disavowed, on
Lady Byron's behalf, having spread any rumours injurious to Lord Byron's
character in that respect, and also stated that a charge of incest would
not have been made part of her allegations if she had come into court.
This disavowal was signed by Lady Byron herself, and was witnessed by Mr.
Wilmot. It is certain that Lord Byron would have gone into a court of law
to meet that charge, and that he refused to agree to a separation until
that assurance had been given. This grave charge was still in abeyance in
1816; it was not safe to speak of it until after Byron's death, and then
only under the seal of secrecy.
'Upon one contingency only,' wrote Sir Francis Doyle in 1830--'namely,
the taking from Lady Byron of her child, and placing her under the
care of Mrs. Leigh--would the disclosure have been made of Lady
Byron's grounds for _suspecting_ Mrs. Leigh's guilt.'
It was evident that Lady Byron was clutching at straws to save her child
from Mrs. Leigh, and to prevent this it was essential to prove Mrs.
Leigh's unworthiness. In her maternal anxiety she stuck at nothing, and
for a time she triumphed. Her private correspondence was drenched with the
theme that had impressed Lushington so strongly.
A fortnight after signing her 'statement,' Lady Byron writes to Mrs.
George Lamb, in reference to Mrs. Leigh:
'I am glad that you think of _her_ with the feelings of pity which
prevail in my mind, and surely if in _mine_ there must be some cause
for them. I never was, nor ever can be, so _mercilessly_ virtuous as
to admit _no_ excuse for even the worst of errors.'
Such letters go perilously near that charge which Lady Byron's
representatives had repudiated in the presence of Hobhouse. But Lady Byron
was desperate, and her whole case depended on a general belief in that
foul accusation. What could not be done openly could be done secretly, and
she poisoned the air to save her child.
Colonel Doyle, who seems to have been one of the few on Lady Byron's side
who kept his head, wrote to her on July 9, 1816:
'I see the possibility of a contingency under which the fullest
explanation of the motives and grounds of your conduct may be
necessary; I therefore implore of you to suffer no delicacy to
interfere with your endeavouring to obtain the fullest _admission_ of
the fact. If you obtain an acknowledgment of the facts and that your
motives be, as you seem to think, properly appreciated, I think on the
whole we shall have reason to rejoice that you have acted as you have
done, but I shall be very anxious to have a more detailed knowledge of
what has passed, and particularly of the state in which you leave it.
The step you have taken was attended with great risk, and I could not,
contemplating the danger to which it might have exposed you, have
originally advised it.
'If, however, your correspondence has produced an acknowledgment of
the fact even previous to your marriage, I shall be most happy that it
has taken place.'
Colonel Doyle, by no means easy in his own mind, again writes to Lady
Byron on July 18, 1816:
'I must recommend you to act as if a time might possibly arise when it
would be necessary for you to justify yourself, though nothing short
of an absolute necessity so imperative as to be irresistible could
ever authorize your advertence to your present communications. Still,
I cannot dismiss from my mind the experience we have had, nor so far
forget the very serious embarrassment we were under from the effects
of your too confiding disposition, as not to implore you to bear in
mind the importance of securing yourself from eventual danger.
'This is my first object, and if that be attained, I shall approve and
applaud all the kindness you can show [to Mrs. Leigh].'
Here, then, we have a picture of the state of affairs limned by a man who
was an accomplice of Lady Byron's, and who was fully awake to the danger
of their position in the event of Byron turning round upon them. The
husband might insist upon Lady Byron explaining the grounds of her
conduct. In order to make their position secure, it would be, above all
things, necessary to obtain a full confession from Mrs. Leigh of her
criminal intercourse with Byron. With this end in view, Lady Byron opened
a correspondence with Augusta Leigh, and tried to inveigle her into making
an admission of her guilt. It was not an easy matter to open the subject,
but Lady Byron was not abashed, and, under cover of sundry acts of
kindness, tried hard to gain her point. In this game of foils Augusta
showed remarkable skill, and seems to have eventually fooled Lady Byron to
the top of her bent. No wonder, then, that Mrs. Leigh, accused of an
abominable crime by her sister-in-law, should have written to a friend:
'None can know _how much_ I have suffered from this unhappy
business--and, indeed, I have never known a moment's peace, and begin
to despair for the future.'
Lady Byron and her friends plied Mrs. Leigh with questions, hoping to gain
a confession which would justify their conduct. Lady Noel strongly and
repeatedly warned Lady Byron against Mrs. Leigh, who, like a wounded
animal, was dangerous. 'Take care of Augusta,' she wrote September 7,
1816. 'If I know anything of human nature, she _does_ and must _hate
you_.'
As a matter of fact, Augusta, while pretending contrition for imaginary
sins, revenged herself upon Lady Byron by heightening her jealousy, and
encouraging her in the belief that Byron had not only been her lover, but
was still appealing to her from abroad. She even went so far as to pretend
that she was going to join him, which nearly frightened Mrs. Villiers out
of her wits. They lied to Augusta profusely, these immaculate people, and
had the meanness to tell her that Byron had betrayed her in writing to two
or three women. They probably wished to cause a breach between brother and
sister, but Augusta, who pretended to be alarmed by this intelligence,
laughed in her sleeve. She knew the truth, and saw through these
manoeuvres; it was part of her plan to keep Lady Byron on a false scent.
'I cannot believe my brother to have been so dishonourable,' was her meek
rejoinder, meaning, of course, that it would have been dishonourable for
Byron to have defamed one who, having taken his child under her
protection, had saved the honour of the woman whom he loved. But Lady
Byron regarded Mrs. Leigh's answer as an admission of guilt, and trumpeted
the news to all her friends. Lord Lovelace tells us that Augusta, on
August 5, 1816, wrote to Lady Byron a letter, in which she asserted most
solemnly that Byron had not been her friend, and that, though there were
difficulties in writing to him, she was determined never to see him again
in the way she had done. It is remarkable that the letter to which Lord
Lovelace refers is not given in 'Astarte,' where one would naturally
expect to find it. In order to gauge the impression made upon Augusta's
mind, the reader will do well to consult the letters which she wrote a
little later to the Rev. Francis Hodgson, in which she speaks of Byron
with the greatest affection.
'And now for our old subject, dear B. I wonder whether you have heard
from him? The last to me was from Geneva, sending me a short but most
interesting journal of an excursion to the Bernese Alps. He speaks of
his health as _very_ good, but, alas! his spirits appear wofully the
contrary. I believe, however, that he does not write in that strain to
others. Sometimes I venture to indulge a hope that what I wish most
earnestly for him may be working its way in his mind. Heaven grant
it!'
In another letter to Hodgson she speaks of Ada, and says:
'The bulletins of the poor child's health, by Byron's desire, pass
through me, and I'm very sorry for it, and that I ever had any concern
in this most wretched business. I can't, however, explain all my
reasons at this distance, and must console myself by the consciousness
of having done my duty, and, to the best of my judgment, all I could
for the happiness of _both_.'
At a time when Byron was accused of having 'betrayed his sister in writing
to two or three women,' he was writing that well-known stanza in 'Childe
Harold':
'But there was one soft breast, as hath been said,
Which unto his was bound by stronger ties
Than the Church links withal; and though unwed,
Yet it was pure--and, far above disguise,
Had stood the test of mortal enmities
Still undivided, and cemented more
By peril, dreaded most in female eyes;
But this was firm, and from a foreign shore
Well to that heart might his these absent greetings pour.'
And it was in July, 1816, that Augusta's loyalty to him and to Mary
Chaworth moved Byron to write his celebrated 'Stanzas to Augusta':
'_Though thy soul with my grief was acquainted_,
It shrunk not to share it with me,
And the Love which my spirit hath painted
It never hath found but in _Thee_.'
'Though human, thou didst not _betray_ me;
Though tempted, thou never couldst shake.'
Lord Lovelace claims to have found the key of the Byron mystery in
'Manfred,' and employs it as a damning proof against Augusta, with what
justice we have seen.
At the time when 'Manfred' was begun Mary Chaworth was temporarily insane.
The anxiety which she had undergone at the time of Byron's matrimonial
quarrels, when she feared that a public inquiry might disclose her own
secret, affected her health. She bore up bravely until after Byron's
departure from England; then, the strain relieved, her mind gave way, and
she lived for some time in London, under the care of a doctor. Her illness
was kept as secret as possible, but Augusta, who was constantly at her
side, informed Byron of her condition.
CHAPTER IV
There has of late years been a disposition on the part of Byron's
biographers unduly to disparage Moore's 'Life of Byron.' Tastes have
changed, and Moore's patronizing style of reference to 'his noble friend
the noble poet' does not appeal to the democratic sentiment now
prevailing. But, after allowance has been made for Moore's manner, it
cannot be denied that, in consequence of his personal intimacy with Byron,
his work must always have a peculiar value and authority. There are, for
instance, portions of Moore's 'Life' which are indispensable to those who
seek to fathom the depths of Byron's mind. Moore says that Byron was born
with strong affections and ardent passions, and that his life was
'one continued struggle between that instinct of genius, which was for
ever drawing him back into the lonely laboratory of self, and those
impulses of passion, ambition, and vanity, which again hurried him off
into the crowd, and entangled him in its interests.'
Moore assures us that most of Byron's so-called love-affairs were as
transitory as the imaginings that gave them birth.
'It may be questioned,' says Moore, 'whether his heart had ever much
share in such passions. Actual objects there were, in but too great
number, who, as long as the illusion continued, kindled up his
thoughts and were the themes of his song. But they were little more
than mere dreams of the hour. _There was but one love that lived
unquenched through all_'--Byron's love for Mary Chaworth.
Every other attachment faded away, but that endured to the end of his
stormy life.
In speaking of Byron's affection for his sister, Moore, who knew all that
had been said against Augusta Leigh and Byron, and had read the 'Memoirs,'
remarked:
'In a mind sensitive and versatile as [Byron's], long habits of family
intercourse might have estranged, or at least dulled, his natural
affection for his sister; but their separation during youth left this
feeling fresh and untired. That he was himself fully aware of this
appears from a passage in one of his letters: "My sister is in Town,
which is a great comfort; for, never having been much together, we are
naturally more attached to each other." His very inexperience in such
ties made the smile of a sister no less a novelty than a charm to him;
and before the first gloss of this newly awakened sentiment had time
to wear off, they were again separated, and for ever.'
When the parting came it was bitter indeed, for she was, says Moore,
'almost the only person from whom he then parted with regret. Those
beautiful and tender verses, "Though the day of my destiny's over,"
were now his parting tribute to her who, through all this bitter
trial, had been his sole consolation.'
Enough has been said to show what kind of woman Augusta was, and it is
difficult to understand by what process of reasoning Lord Lovelace
persuaded himself that she could have been guilty of the atrocious crime
which he lays to her charge. We entirely concur with Mrs. Villiers, when
she wrote to Augusta Leigh (in September, 1816): 'I consider you the
victim to the most infernal plot that has ever entered the heart of man to
conceive.'
We must at the same time frankly admit that Augusta, in order to screen
Mary Chaworth, did all she could do to keep Lady Byron under a false
impression. She seems to have felt so secure in the knowledge of her own
innocence that she might afford to allow Lady Byron to think as ill of her
as she pleased.
Unfortunately, Augusta, having once entered upon a course of duplicity,
was obliged to keep it up by equivocations of all kinds. She went so far
as even to show portions of letters addressed to her care, and pretended
that they had been written to herself. She seems to have felt no
compunction for the sufferings of Lady Byron. She may even have exulted in
the pain she inflicted upon that credulous lady, having herself suffered
intensely through the false suspicions, and the studied insults heaped
upon her by many of Lady Byron's adherents.
Byron, who was informed of what had been said against his sister by Lady
Byron and others, told the world in 'Marino Faliero' that he 'had only one
fount of quiet left, and _that_ they poisoned.' But he was powerless to
interfere.
Writing to Moore (September 19, 1818) he said:
'I could have forgiven the dagger or the bowl--anything but the
deliberate desolation piled upon me, when I stood alone upon my
hearth, with my household gods shivered around me. Do you suppose I
have forgotten it? It has, comparatively, swallowed up in me every
other feeling, and I am only a spectator upon earth till a tenfold
opportunity offers.'
It may be that Augusta avenged her brother tenfold without his knowledge.
But she suffered in the process. Lord Lovelace lays great stress upon what
he calls 'the correspondence of 1819,' in order to show us that Augusta
had confessed to the crime of incest. That correspondence is very
interesting, not as showing the guilt of Augusta Leigh, but as an example
of feminine duplicity in which she was an adept. Augusta was hard pressed
indeed for some weapon of offence when she pretended, on June 25, 1819,
that she had received the following letter from her brother. She must have
been some time in making up her mind to send it, as the letter in question
had been in her hands three weeks, having arrived in London on June 4. It
may be as well to state that all letters written by Byron to Mary Chaworth
passed through Mrs. Leigh's hands, and were delivered with circumspection.
'VENICE,
'_May 17, 1819_.[70]
'MY DEAREST LOVE,
'I have been negligent in not writing, but what can I say? Three
years' absence--and the total change of scene and habit make such a
difference that we have never nothing in common but our affections and
our relationship. But I have never ceased nor can cease to feel for a
moment that perfect and boundless attachment which bound and binds me
to you--which renders me utterly incapable of _real_ love for any
other human being--for what could they be to me after _you_? My own
...[71] we may have been very wrong--but I repent of nothing except
that cursed marriage--and your refusing to continue to love me as you
had loved me. I can neither forget nor _quite forgive_ you for that
precious piece of reformation, but I can never be other than I have
been--and whenever I love anything it is because it reminds me in
some way or other of yourself. For instance, I not long ago attached
myself to a Venetian for no earthly reason (although a pretty woman)
but because she was called ...[72] and she often remarked (without
knowing the reason) how fond I was of the name.[73] It is
heart-breaking to think of our long separation--and I am sure more
than punishment enough for all our sins. Dante is more humane in his
"Hell," for he places his unfortunate lovers (Francesca of Rimini and
Paolo--whose case fell a good deal short of _ours_, though
sufficiently naughty) in company; and though they suffer, it is at
least together. If ever I return to England it will be to see you; and
recollect that in all time, and place, and feelings, I have never
ceased to be the same to you in heart. Circumstances may have ruffled
my manner and hardened my spirit; you may have seen me harsh and
exasperated with all things around me; grieved and tortured with _your
new resolution_, and the soon after persecution of that infamous
fiend[74] who drove me from my country, and conspired against my
life--by endeavouring to deprive me of all that could render it
precious[75]--but remember that even then _you_ were the sole object
that cost me a tear; and _what tears_! Do you remember our parting? I
have not spirits now to write to you upon other subjects. I am well in
health, and have no cause of grief but the reflection that we are not
together. When you write to me speak to me of yourself, and say that
you love me; never mind common-place people and topics which can be in
no degree interesting to me who see nothing in England but the country
which holds _you_, or around it but the sea which divides us. They say
absence destroys weak passions, and confirms strong ones. Alas! _mine_
for you is the union of all passions and of all affections--has
strengthened itself, but will destroy me; I do not speak of physical
destruction, for I have endured, and can endure, much; but the
annihilation of all thoughts, feelings, or hopes, which have not more
or less a reference, to you and to _our recollections_.
'Ever, dearest,'
[Signature erased].
The terms of this letter, which Lord Lovelace produces as conclusive
evidence against Augusta Leigh, deserve attention. At first sight they
seem to confirm Lady Byron's belief that a criminal intercourse had
existed between her husband and his sister. But close examination shows
that the letter was not written to Mrs. Leigh at all, but to Mary
Chaworth.
On the day it was written Byron was at Venice, where he had recently made
the acquaintance of the Countess Guiccioli, whom, as 'Lady of the land,'
he followed to Ravenna a fortnight later. It will be noticed that the date
synchronizes with the period when the 'Stanzas to the Po' were written.
Both letter and poem dwell upon the memory of an unsatisfied passion. The
letter bears neither superscription nor signature, both having been erased
by Mrs. Leigh before the document reached Lady Byron's hands. The writer
excuses himself for not having written to his correspondent (_a_) because
three years' absence, (_b_) total change of scene, and (_c_) _because
there is nothing in common between them_, except mutual affections and
their relationship. Byron could not have excused himself in that manner to
a sister, who had much in common with him, and to whom he had written, on
an average, twice in every month since he left England. His letters to
Augusta entered minutely into all his feelings and actions, and the common
bond between them was Ada, whose disposition, appearance, and health,
occupied a considerable space in their correspondence.
Nor would Byron have written in that amatory strain to his dear 'Goose.'
In the letter which preceded the one we have quoted, Byron begins,
'Dearest Augusta,' and ends, 'I am in health, and yours, B.' In that which
followed it there is nothing in the least effusive. It begins, 'Dearest
Augusta,' and ends, 'Yours ever, and very truly, B.' There are not many of
Byron's letters to Augusta extant. All those which mentioned Medora were
either mutilated or suppressed.
For Byron to have given 'three years' absence, and a total change of
scene,' as reasons for not having written to his sister for a month or so
would have been absurd. But when he said that he had nothing in common
with Mary Chaworth, except 'our affections and our relationship,' his
meaning was--their mutual affections, their kinship, and their common
relationship to Medora.
We invite any unprejudiced person to say whether Byron would have been
likely to write to a sister, who knew his mind thoroughly, 'I have never
ceased--nor can cease to feel for a moment that perfect and boundless
attachment which bound and binds me to you.' Did not Augusta know very
well that he loved and admired her, and that Byron was under the strongest
obligations to her for her loyalty at a trying time?
Then, there was the erasure of 'a short name of three or four letters,'
which might have opened Lady Byron's eyes to the trick that was being
played upon her. Those four letters spelt the name of Mary, and the
'pretty woman' to whom Byron had 'not long ago' attached himself was the
Venetian Marianna (Anglice: Mary Anne) Segati, with whom he formed a
liaison from November, 1816, to February 1818. Augusta would certainly
not have understood the allusion.
In this illuminating letter Byron reproaches Mary Chaworth for breaking
off her fatal intimacy with him, and for having persuaded him to
marry--'that infamous fiend who drove me from my country, and conspired
against my life--by _endeavouring to deprive me of all that could render
it precious_.' As the person here referred to was, obviously, Augusta
herself, this remark could not have been made to her. In speaking of their
long separation as a punishment for their sins, he tells Mary Chaworth
that, if he ever returns to England, it will be to see _her_, and that his
feelings have undergone no change. It will be observed that Byron begs his
correspondent _to speak to him only of herself and to say that she loves
him_! It is scarcely necessary to remind the reader that Augusta was the
intermediary between Byron and his wife--his confidential agent in purely
private affairs. It was to her that he wrote on all matters relating to
business transactions with his wife, and from whom he received
intelligence of the health and happiness of his daughter. Under those
circumstances how could Byron ask Augusta to speak to him of nothing but
her love for him?
To show the absurdity of Lord Lovelace's contention, we insert the letter
which Byron wrote to his sister seven months later. Many letters had
passed between them during the interval, but we have not been allowed to
see them:
'BOLOGNA,
'_December 23, 1819_.
'DEAREST AUGUSTA,
'The health of my daughter Allegra, the cold season, and the length of
the journey, induce me to postpone for some time a purpose (never
very willing on my part) to revisit Great Britain.
'You can address to me at Venice as usual. Wherever I may be in Italy,
the letter will be forwarded. I enclose to you all that long hair on
account of which you would not go to see my picture. You will see that
it was not so very long. I curtailed it yesterday, my head and hair
being weakly after my tertian.
'I wrote to you not very long ago, and, as I do not know that I could
add anything satisfactory to that letter, I may as well finish this.
In a letter to Murray I requested him to apprise you that my journey
was postponed; but here, there, and everywhere, know me
'Yours ever and very truly,
'B.'
It is ridiculous to suppose that these two letters were addressed to the
same person. In the one we find the expression of an imperishable
attachment, in the other merely commonplace statements. In the first
letter Byron says, if ever he returns to England, it will be to see the
person to whom he is writing, and that absence has the more deeply
confirmed his passion. In the second he tells the lady that he has had his
hair cut, and that he was never very willing to revisit Great Britain! And
yet, in spite of these inconsistencies, Lady Byron walked into the snare
which Augusta had so artfully prepared. In forwarding the amatory epistle
to Lady Byron, Augusta tells her to burn it, and says that her brother
'must surely be considered a maniac' for having written it, adding, with
adroit mystification:
'_I_ do not believe any feelings expressed are by any means
permanent--only occasioned by the passing and present reflection and
occupation of writing _to the unfortunate Being to whom they are
addressed_.'
Augusta did not tell Lady Byron that 'the unfortunate Being' was Mary
Chaworth, now reconciled to her husband, and that she had withheld Byron's
letter from her, lest her mind should be unsettled by its perusal.
Mrs. Leigh had two excellent reasons for this betrayal of trust. In the
first place, she wished Lady Byron to believe that her brother was still
making love to her, and that she was keeping her promise in not
encouraging his advances. In the second place, she knew that the terms of
Byron's letter would deeply wound Lady Byron's pride--and revenge is
sometimes sweet!
Lady Byron, who was no match for her sister-in-law, had failed to realize
the wisdom of her mother's warning: 'Beware of Augusta, for she _must_
hate you.' She received this proof of Augusta's return to virtue with
gratitude, thanked her sincerely, and acknowledged that the terms of
Byron's letter 'afforded ample testimony that she had not encouraged his
tenderness.' Poor Lady Byron! She deserves the pity of posterity. But she
was possessed of common sense, and knew how to play her own hand fairly
well. She wrote to Augusta in the following terms:
'This letter is a proof of the prior "reformation," which was
sufficiently evidenced to _me_ by your own assertion, and the
agreement of circumstances with it. _But, in case of a more
unequivocal disclosure on his part than has yet been made_, this
letter would confute those false accusations to which you would
undoubtedly be subjected from others.'
In suggesting a more open disclosure on Byron's part, Lady Byron angled
for further confidences, so that her evidence against her husband might be
overwhelming. She hoped that his repentant sister might be able to show
incriminating letters, which would support the clue found in those
missives which Mrs. Clermont had 'conveyed.' How little did she understand
Augusta Leigh! Never would she have assisted Lady Byron to prejudice the
world against her brother, nor would she have furnished Lady Byron with a
weapon which might at any moment have been turned against herself.
With the object of proving Augusta's guilt, the whole correspondence
between her and Lady Byron from June 27, 1819, to the end of the following
January has been printed in 'Astarte.'
We have carefully examined it without finding anything that could convict
Augusta and Byron. It seems clear that Mrs. Leigh began this
correspondence with an ulterior object in view. She wished to win back
Lady Byron's confidence, and to induce her to make some arrangement by
which the Leigh children would benefit at Lady Byron's death, in the event
of Byron altering the will he had already made in their favour. She began
by asking Lady Byron's advice as to how she was to answer the 'Dearest
Love' letter. Lady Byron gave her two alternatives. Either she must tell
her brother that, so long as his idea of her was associated with the most
guilty feelings, it was her duty to break off all communication; or, if
Augusta did not approve of that plan, then it was her duty to treat
Byron's letter with the silence of contempt. To this excellent advice
Augusta humbly replied that, if she were to reprove her brother for the
warmth of his letter, he might be mortally offended, in which case her
children, otherwise unprovided for, would fare badly. But Mrs. Leigh was
too diplomatic to convey that meaning in plain language. Writing June 28,
1819, she says:
'I will tell you what _now_ passes in my mind. As to the _gentler_
expedient you propose, I certainly lean to it, as the least offensive;
but, supposing he suspects the motive, and is piqued to answer: "I
wrote you such a letter of such a date: did you receive it?" What then
is to be done? I could not reply falsely--and might not that line of
conduct, acknowledged, irritate? This consideration would lead me,
perhaps preferably, to adopt the other, as most open and honest
(certainly to any other character but his), but query whether it might
not be most judicious as to its effects; _and_ at the same time
acknowledging that his victim was wholly in his power, as to temporal
good,[76] and leaving it to his generosity whether to use that power
or not. There seem so many reasons why he should for his own sake
abstain _for the present_ from _gratifying_ his revenge, that one can
scarcely think he would do so--unless _insane_. It would surely be
ruin to all his prospects, and those of a pecuniary nature are not
indifferent if others are become so.
'If really and truly he feels, or fancies he feels, that passion he
professes, I have constantly imagined he might suppose, from his
experience of the _weakness_ of disposition of the unfortunate object,
that, driven from every other hope or earthly prospect, she might fly
to _him_! and that as long as he was impressed with that idea he would
persevere in his projects. But, if he considered _that_ hopeless, he
might desist, for otherwise he must lose everything _but his revenge_,
and what good would _that_ do him?
'After all, my dearest A., if you cannot calculate the probable
consequences, how should I presume to do so! To be sure, the gentler
expedient might be the safest, with so violent and irritable a
disposition, and at least _for a time_ act as a _palliative_--and who
knows what changes a little time might produce or how Providence might
graciously interpose! With so many reasons to wish to avoid
extremities (I mean for the sake of others), one leans to what
appears the _safest_, and one is a coward.
'But the other at the same time has something gratifying to one's
feelings--and I think might be said and done--so that, if he showed
the letters, it would be no evidence against _the_ person; and worded
with that kindness, and appearance of real affectionate concern for
_him_ as well as the other person concerned, that it _might_ possibly
touch him. Pray think of what I have _thought_, and write me a line,
not to decide, for that I cannot expect, but to tell me if I deceived
myself in the ideas I have expressed to you. I shall not, _cannot_
answer till the _latest_ post-day this week.
'I know you will forgive me for this infliction, and may God bless you
for that, and every other kindness.'
We do not remember ever to have read a letter more frankly disingenuous
than this. The duplicity lurking in every line shows why the cause of the
separation between Lord and Lady Byron has been for so long a mystery.
Lady Byron herself was mystified by Augusta Leigh. It certainly was not
easy for Lady Byron to gauge the deep deception practised upon her by both
her husband and Mrs. Leigh; and yet it is surprising that Lady Byron
should not have suspected, in Augusta's self-depreciation, an element of
fraud. Was it likely that Augusta, who had good reason to hate Lady Byron,
would have provided her with such damning proofs against her brother and
herself, if she had not possessed a clear conscience in the matter? She
relied implicitly upon Byron's letter being destroyed, and so worded her
own that it would be extremely difficult for anyone but Lady Byron to
understand what she was writing about. It will be noticed that no names
are mentioned in any of her missives. People are referred to either as
'maniacs,' 'victims,' 'unfortunate objects,' or as 'that most detestable
woman, your relation by marriage,' which, in a confidential communication
to a sister-in-law, would be superfluous caution were she really sincere.
But, after the separation period, Mrs. Leigh was never sincere in her
intercourse with Lady Byron. Through that lady's unflattering suspicions,
Augusta had suffered 'too much to be forgiven.' Lady Byron, on the other
hand, with very imperfect understanding of her sister-in-law's character,
was entirely at her mercy. To employ a colloquialism, the whole thing was
a 'blind,' devised to support Augusta's rôle as a repentant Magdalen; to
attract compassion, perhaps even pecuniary assistance; and, above all, to
shield the mother of Medora. The _ruse_ was successful. Lady Byron saw a
chance of eventually procuring, in the handwriting of her husband,
conclusive evidence of his crime. In her letter of June 27, 1819, to Mrs.
Leigh, she conveyed a hint that Byron might be lured to make 'a more
unequivocal disclosure than has yet been made.'
Lady Byron, it must be remembered, craved incessantly for documentary
proofs, which might be produced, if necessary, to justify her conduct. It
is significant that at the time of writing she possessed no evidence,
except the letters which Mrs. Clermont had purloined from Byron's
writing-desk, and these were pronounced by Lushington to be far from
conclusive.
Mrs. Leigh seems to have enjoyed the wrigglings of her victim on the hook.
'Decision was never my forte,' she writes to Lady Byron: 'one ought to act
_right_, and leave the issue to Providence.'
The whole episode would be intensely comical were it not so pathetic. As
might have been expected, Lady Byron eventually suffered far more than the
woman she had so cruelly wounded. Augusta seems coolly to suggest that
her brother might 'out of revenge' (because his sister acted virtuously?)
publish to the world his incestuous intercourse with her! Could anyone in
his senses believe such nonsense? Augusta hints that then Lady Byron would
be able to procure a divorce; and, as Lady Noel was still alive, Byron
would not be able to participate in that lady's fortune at her death.
The words, 'There seem so many reasons why he should for his own sake
abstain _for the present_ from gratifying his revenge ... it would surely
be ruin to all his prospects,' are plain enough. Even if there had been
anything to disclose, Byron would never have wounded that sister who stood
at his side at the darkest hour of his life, who had sacrificed herself in
order to screen his love for Mary Chaworth, and who was his sole rock of
refuge in this stormy world. But it was necessary to show Lady Byron that
she was standing on the brink 'of a precipice.'
'On the subject of the mortgage,' writes Augusta, 'I mean to decline
that wholly; and pray do me the justice to believe that one thought of
the interests of my children, as far as _that_ channel is concerned,
never crosses my mind. I have entreated--I believe more than
once--that the will might be altered. [Oh, Augusta!] But if it is
not--as far as I understand the matter--there is not the slightest
probability of their ever deriving any benefit. Whatever my feelings,
dear A., I assure you, never in my life have I looked to advantage of
_that_ sort. I do not mean that I have any merit in not doing it--but
that I have no inclination, therefore nothing to struggle with. I
trust my babes to Providence, and, provided they are _good_, I think,
perhaps, _too little_ of the rest.'
It is plain that Augusta was getting nervous about her brother's
attachment to the Guiccioli, a liaison which might end in trouble; and if
that lady was avaricious (which she was not) Byron might be induced to
alter his will (made in 1815), by which he left all _his_ share in the
property to Augusta's children. With a mother's keen eye to their ultimate
advantage, she tried hard to make their position secure, so that, in the
event of Byron changing his mind, Lady Byron might make suitable provision
for them. It was a prize worth playing for, and she played the game for
all it was worth. 'Leaving her babes to Providence' was just the kind of
sentiment most likely to appeal to Lady Byron who did, in a measure,
respond to Augusta's hints. In a letter (December 23, 1819) Lady Byron
writes:
'With regard to your pecuniary interests ... I am aware that the
interests of your children may _rightly_ influence your conduct when
guilt is not incurred by consulting them. However, your children
cannot, I trust, under any circumstances, be left destitute, for
reasons which I will hereafter communicate.'
There was at this time a strong probability of Byron's return to England.
Lady Byron tried to extract from Augusta a promise that she would not see
him. Augusta fenced with the question, until, when driven into a corner,
she was compelled to admit that it would be unnatural to close the door
against her brother. Lady Byron was furious:
'I do not consider you bound to me in any way,' she writes. 'I told
you what I knew, because I thought that measure would enable me to
befriend you--and chiefly by representing the objections to a renewal
of personal communication between you and him.... We must, _according
to your present intentions_, act independently of each other. On my
part it will still be with every possible consideration for you and
your children, and should I, by your reception of him, be obliged to
relinquish my intercourse with you, I will do so in such manner as
shall be least prejudicial to your interests. I shall most earnestly
wish that the results of your conduct may tend to establish your
peace, instead of aggravating your remorse. But, entertaining these
views of your duty and my own, could I in honesty, or in friendship,
suppress them?'
It might have been supposed that Lady Byron, in 1816, after Augusta's
so-called 'confession,' would have kept her secret inviolate. That had
been a condition precedent; without it Augusta would not have ventured to
deceive even Lady Byron. It appears from the following note, written by
Lady Byron to Mrs. Villiers, that Augusta's secret had been confided to
the tender mercies of that lady. On January 26, 1820, Lady Byron writes:
'I am reluctant to give you _my_ impression of what has passed between
Augusta and me, respecting her conduct in case of his return; but I
should like to know whether your unbiassed opinion, _formed from the
statement of facts_, coincided with it.'
Verily, Augusta had been playing with fire!
CHAPTER V
On December 31, 1819, Byron wrote a letter to his wife. The following is
an extract:
'Augusta can tell you all about me and mine, if you think either worth
the inquiry. The object of my writing is to come. It is this: I saw
Moore three months ago, and gave to his care a long Memoir, written up
to the summer of 1816, of my life, which I had been writing since I
left England. It will not be published till after my death; and, in
fact, it is a Memoir, and not "Confessions." I have omitted the most
important and decisive events and passions of my existence, not to
compromise others. But it is not so with the part you occupy, which is
long and minute; and I could wish you to see, read, and mark any part
or parts that do not appear to coincide with the truth. The truth I
have always stated--but there are two ways of looking at it, and your
way may be not mine. I have never revised the papers since they were
written. You may read them and mark what you please. I wish you to
know what I think and say of you and yours. You will find nothing to
flatter you; nothing to lead you to the most remote supposition that
we could ever have been--or be happy together. But I do not choose to
give to another generation statements which we cannot arise from the
dust to prove or disprove, without letting you see fairly and fully
what I look upon you to have been, and what I depict you as being. If,
seeing this, you can detect what is false, or answer what is charged,
do so; _your mark_ shall not be erased. You will perhaps say, _Why_
write my life? Alas! I say so too. But they who have traduced it, and
blasted it, and branded me, should know that it is they, and not I,
are the cause. It is no great pleasure to have lived, and less to live
over again the details of existence; but the last becomes sometimes a
necessity, and even a duty. If you choose to see this, you may; if you
do not, you have at least had the option.'
The receipt of this letter gave Lady Byron the deepest concern, and, in
the impulse of a moment, she drafted a reply full of bitterness and
defiance. But Dr. Lushington persuaded her--not without a deal of
trouble--to send an answer the terms of which, after considerable delay,
were arranged between them. The letter in question has already appeared in
Mr. Prothero's 'Letters and Journals of Lord Byron,'[77] together with
Byron's spirited rejoinder of April 3, 1820.
Lord Lovelace throws much light upon the inner workings of Lady Byron's
mind at this period. That she should have objected to the publication of
Byron's memoirs was natural; but, instead of saying this in a few
dignified sentences, Lady Byron parades her wrongs, and utters dark hints
as to the possible complicity of Augusta Leigh in Byron's mysterious
scheme of revenge. Dr. Lushington at first thought that it would be wiser
and more diplomatic to beg Byron's sister to dissuade him from publishing
his memoirs, but Lady Byron scented danger in that course.
'I foresee,' she wrote to Colonel Doyle, 'from the transmission of
such a letter ... this consequence: that an unreserved disclosure from
Mrs. Leigh to him being necessitated, they would combine together
against me, he being actuated by revenge, she by fear; whereas, from
her never having dared to inform him that she has already admitted his
guilt to me with her own, they have hitherto been prevented from
acting in concert.'
Byron was, of course, well acquainted with what had passed between his
wife and Augusta Leigh. It could not have been kept from him, even if
there had been any reason for secrecy. He knew that his sister had been
driven to admit that Medora was his child, thus _implying_ the crime of
which she had been suspected. There was nothing, therefore, for Augusta to
fear from _him_. She dreaded a public scandal, not so much on her own
account as 'for the sake of others.' For that reason she tried to dissuade
her brother from inviting a public discussion on family matters. There was
no reason why Augusta should 'combine' with Byron against his hapless
wife!