Now you ladies and dames of these times, that stand upon tearmes of

spirit and greatnesse of heart (some will have it courage and

magnanimity of minde), that are affrighted at the character of a foole,

and silly poore soule; I speake not of strumpets, or of such as are

willing to brand themselves with the impurity of uncleannesse, and dare

out of impudency or cunning tell their husbands to their faces they will

go where they list, and do what they please, but of such that under that

impregnable target of honestie are yet so impatient at every

distemperature, that they dare answer taunt for taunt: yea, like

viragoes indeed, offer the first blow, though a horrible confusion

follow, what would you have answered this lord? or with what fire-works

would you have made your approches unto him? I will not tarry for your

answere, lest I pull the old house in peeces, and so, though I scape the

timber, I may be crushed with the rubbish; but I will now anticipate (or

prevent) all objections by telling you what faire Grisel said; and if

there bee hope of reformation, insert it as a caution to divert you from

your naturall fiercenes.

When shee had heard him out, though to the griefe of her soule, she

conceived the murther of her childe, and that the apprehension renewed

the sorrow of her daughters losse; yet would she give no way to such

distemperature, that either hee should have cause to suspect her

patience, or shee herselfe the temptation of disquiet, and therefore

thus replied:—My lord, I have many times told you, that my soule

rejoiceth in nothing but in your reposednes, for you are the lord of me

and this infant; and though I could bee contented to shew myselfe a

mother in his education, and bring him now and then unto you as the

pledge of our loves, yet are you the commander of my vowes, and I will

rectifie all disordered appetites by the rule of your pleasure. Take him

then, a Gods name, and if hee be marked for death, it is but the common

brand of all creatures; nay, if the mother may be a sacrifice of

propitiation to appease your disquiet, never was lamb so meek, nor

holocaust so willing to bee offred. For, what may bee comprehended under

the titles of father, kinred, children, friends, life, pleasure,

honours, and contentment, are all comprised under your love, and the

society of a husband. Do with mee, then, what you please: the body shall

serve your turne while it lives, and the soule attend you after death.

Here was an answer to pacifie the tyrants of Sicilie, and put a man

quite out of his tract of proving such a wife! Yet the Marquesse onely

made use of it to rejoice in the assurance of her goodness, and went the

rather forward in his dangerous course of temptation.

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CHAP. VII.

The Marquesse, resolute to prove his wife further, sendeth for his son,

and disposeth of him as he had done of his daughter.

As this patient and wonderfull lady was one day sporting with her

infant, like an untimely tempest (spoiling the beauty of some new rooted

plants) did this messenger of death interpose himselfe betweene her

recreation, making the hollow demand of her sonne worse than the noise

of a schrich-owle over a sick mans bed: yet (as if there were a

conscience in disquieting her greatnes, or if you will, her goodnes) he

came forward with preambles and apologies, insinuating, with craving

pardon, the authority of a lord, the duty of a servant, the terrour of

death, the circumstance of obedience, and all other enforcements which

might either excuse a messenger, or make the message of it selfe without

blame. What should I enlarge a discourse of terrour? it is a curtesie to

conclude a mischiefe with quicknes. Hee was not so sudden in his demand,

as shee was ready in her dispatch, for she presently blest the child,

kissed it, crossed it, adorned it, and delivered it to the executioner:

onely with the same enforcement shee pleaded, as shee had spoken of in

the behalfe of her daughter, not to see it perish for lack of a buriall,

or devoured for want of a grave.

In this manner, and with this report, hee returned to his lord, who had

still more cause of amazement, and lesse reason to trouble such a

creature, had not his wilfulnes put him forward to make an end of his

businesse, and taught him still variety of trying this gold in the fire.

But for the time hee sent likewise this childe to his sister, the

Duchesse of Bologna (yet some will have her but Countesse of Paniche),

who, understanding her brothers minde, brought up both these children in

such a fashion, that though no man knew whose children they were, yet

they imagined whose they might bee; that is, the son and daughter of

some prince, or other potentate, willing to have his children brought up

to the best purpose, and befitting their birth and honour.

The ordering of this businesse in this sort made the Marquesse once

againe settle himselfe in Saluss, where he kept open house to all

comers, and was proud of nothing so much as the honour of his wife, and

the love of his people: for although he had thus tried her patience and

constancy, giving her more than sufficient cause of anguish and

perturbation, yet coulde he not finde fault, or had the least

demonstration of offence, but still she loved him more and more, and was

so observingly dutifull and cautelous of displeasure, that many times he

grew enamored of that he might command, and seemed passionate in the

distractions of over-joy. Nor could the length of time make this love

wearisome, for all they had lived thus a dozen years together; onely

shee got the hand of him in the opinion of the people, who by this

beganne to whisper against his unkindnes, that had married so vertuous a

woman, and bereaved her of two children; so that if they were slaine, it

was a murther, if otherwise, it was unkindnesse. For though shee were

poore Janicolas daughter by birth, yet she might come from heaven for

her vertue, and was sure to go thither for her piety. Notwithstanding

these breakings out, which came often to the eares of his honour, such

was her moderation and his government, that they only whisperd the same

on her behalfe, and contented themselves with the expectation of future

good, as they had the fruition of present happinesse, not meddling with

the same further, than in the commiseration of her, and still

acknowledging their duty to him; so that although hee knew shee might

this way understand his former reasons of taking away her children, that

it was but a devise, and that there were some other motives, which

procured this unkindnes, yet was he still obstinate to exercise her

patience, and conceit beat out another plot of offence on the anvill of

a loving, yet most hardned heart.

CHAP. IX.

The Marquesse, to try his lady further, made her beleeve hee would marry

another wife.

Some dozen years were passed since the Marquesse of Saluss had sent his

daughter to Bologna, to his sister (as you have heard), who was by this

time growne to that beautie, comelinesse, and perfection, that her fame

busied all Europe; and the lady Grisel, her mother, was made acquainted

with her excellency, whereupon, he very strangely sent to Rome, by a

messenger of trust, for counterfeit letters to marrie [t]his paragon,

and to bee dispensed from his first wife. Which was so effectually

dispatched, that the messenger soone returned with the approbation of

his request, and hee himselfe had many allegations in readinesse to

excuse the matter, intimating the good of the countrie, and the

continual desire of his people for the alteration; which, although it

was far from probability, because they pitied their ladies distresse,

and rather repined against their lords inconstancy, yet it served his

turne for the time, and he thereupon erected the frame of this second

marriage. By this time is the faire Grisel acquainted with the

businesse, and troubled at the misfortune; but having many times plaied

the wanton with affliction, she resettled herself to endure whatsoever

should be imposed; so that when she came to the proofe, indeed, nothing

affronted her constancy nor humbled her lower then her own vertue had

taught her the way.

In the mean while, the Marquesse had under hand sent to the Count of

Paniche and his sister, to bring him his children with all the pompe and

glory they could prepare, with caution not to discover their names, and

to be at a day appointed at Saluss: so that it passed for current all

over the country that a lady, a yong, brave, and gallant lady, of great

lineage, and greater worth, of high renown and mighty affinity, was

comming into Saluss to be espoused to the Marquesse, and that they were

already come out of Bologna de Grace, a whole dayes journey forward,

with such a troope and company that it was a shew of magnificence, and a

spectacle of delight. For amongst the rest there was a young lord, not

fully eight yeere old, whose bravery and gallantnesse drewe all mens

eyes with admiration toward him, had not the lady divided the gazing,

and shared with their opinion. For, besides her riches and outward

ornaments, her youth (as not fully thirteene) and upright comelinesse,

her bewty and gracious behauiour, she was of extraordinary stature, and

majestike presence.

These things thus disposed and handsomely carried, the Marquesse tooke

an opportunity thus to speak to the disconsolate Grisel before all his

people. In times past, I confesse, you deserved my love, and

notwithstanding the disparity betweene us, I thought it well bestowed

upon you; nay, I cannot now impute any ill desert unto you:

notwithstanding, for some reasons to myselfe best knowne, of which I

have made the holy father acquainted, I am resolved to take another

wife; who, as you heare, is on the way hitherward already: wherefore I

would advise you to retire to your fathers cotage, till you heare

further from me.

Alas! my lord, replied the sweet soule, I ever disputed the matter with

reason, that there was no equality betweene so great magnificence and my

humiliation, and in the greatest assurance of my prosperity, reputed my

selfe a vassaile and handmaid, proud of nothing but my owne readinesse

to be at your command, and your willingnes to employ mee in your

affaires; so that, I take God to my witnes, I scarce trusted my selfe

with the name of a wife, when I was in the best assurance. Therefore, I

must acknowledge what you have heretofore vouchsafed as a part of great

bounty, and the very fruits of your generousnes. As for returning to my

poore fathers house, I am most willing; and there, as you please, like a

forlorne widow will spend the rest of my dayes; yet remember I was your

wife, espoused orderly, and you have had children by mee, so that if I

there dye, I must yet dye the widow of such a lord, and for honors sake

be so reputed. As for your new spouse, God grant her many daies of

comfort, and you many yeeres of joy, that you may live in reciprocall

delight one with another, and intertaine no worse contentment than poore

Grisel accustomed. As for my dowry I brought, I brought only my selfe,

and will have no more back againe, which was faith, love, reverence,

poverty and virginity; for, as I came naked from my fathers house, I am

contented to return so againe. Your jewels are in the wardrobe, and even

the ring you married me withal, in the chamber: of this I weare, I shall

quickly be disrobed, and if there be any further misery appointed, my

patience can endure it, if your pleasure impose it; onely in recompence

of my virginitie, I request a poore smocke to hide that wombe from

public overlooking that was once so private to so great a prince; and

because it was the bed of your infants, let it not bee the scorne of

your people, but give mee leave thus to goe out of the palace, that

hereafter times may wonder how quietly a woman yeelded to so great a

change. Nay, let no man shed a teare, I must bee more naked than so; for

though the wife of a Marquesse while I lived, and the widow when I died,

yet am I not too good for a grave, but in despight of pride must return

to dust and ashes.

Did I say before, they began to weep? I can assure you, when she had

done, they roared out-right; yea, the Marquesse himselfe shed so many

teares that he was faine to retire, and commanded the smock she had

begged to be sent unto her, that shee might prosecute the enterprise,

and he determine his businesse, as he had constantly projected.

CHAP. VIII.

How the patient Grisel was disrobed of her apparell, and restored all

she had (except one poore smocke) to the Marquesse.

Before I proceed any further in this wonderfull discovery, I am sure two

things will bee objected against mee: first, the impossibility of the

story; secondly, the absurdity of the example. For the story I answer,

that therefore it was thus published and connected together, for the

rarity of the businesse, and the sweetnes of the successe, nor is it any

way stranger than many Roman passages, and Grecian discourses. For the

application, it is both necessary and befitting; for whereas in the

condition of women, amongst many other, there bee two especiall errours

against the modesty of their sex, and quietnes of their husbands,

videlicet, superiority and desire of liberty (I name not irregular

behaviour, household inconveniences, and domesticks strife), this one

example (as Hercules did the serpents) strangles them both in the

cradle, and though it cannot prevent, yet will it exprobrate the fault.

First concerning superiority. I hope the instances of scripture are not

made canonicall to no purpose, and out of reason and naturall

inforcement: what a filthinesse is it to a generous spirit, to have a

woman so presumptuous as to take an account of her husband’s actions and

businesse? Wherein many times they are so peremptory, that I have seene

them enter the rooms of privacy, where secret businesses of strangers

have been imparted, and were to be discussed, nor hath this been done

with a lovely insinuation, or cunning excuse of longing, or willingness

to be instructed, or other pretty inducements to permission, but with a

high commanding voice, and impudent assurances of their owne worth: yea,

I have knowne them breake open letters before they came to their

husbands’ overlooking, and have wondred even at souldiers themselves,

that would give way to such indecency. Againe, to be counter-checked in

this wilfulnes, what clamours have beene raised! what tumults and

discomforts occasioned! that instead of awful obedience and delightsome

affability, they have burst out into outragiousnes, commanded teares of

mischeife, and threatned suspicious revenges. But let them soile

themselves in the filthinesse of this humour never so much. I say

plainely, that though their husbands were fooles by nature, yet is it

not befitting for a wife to discover the same, or over-rule in forren

affaires, I meane matters which concerne them not: for there is no great

man so weake but hath councell and supportation of inferior officers,

nor mean man so sottish but hath friends or servants in the dispatch of

his businesse. Secondly, concerning the desire of liberty: oh, hellish

device of the divell, and fearefull custome both of France and England!

I hope he that knowes the fashions of the East, of Muscovy, Spain,

Italy, and the Mores, understands that no married wife goes abroad but

to honorable purposes; and it is an introduction to death to salute any

stranger, or be seene in private conference. For, in true understanding,

what businesse should any man have with my wife three houres together in

private? or why, without my leave, and that upon good grounds, should

shee wander in publike? I speake not to overthrow noble societies,

generous entertainment, familiar invitations, curteous behaviour,

charitable welcomes, honest recreations, or peradventure, the imparting

of private businesse; but meerly against foppish wantonesse, idle talke,

suspicious meetings, damnable play-hunting, disorderly gaming,

unbefitting exercises, and in a word, all such things as tend to

obscenity and wickednes; in which (say what women can), if there be not

a moderation by nature, there must be an inforcement by judgement; and

that woman that will not be ruled by good councell must be over-ruled by

better example,—of which, this now in hand (of Lady Grisel) is a mirror,

and transparent chrystall to manifest true vertue, and wifely duty

indeed; and so I come to the wonder of her obedience.

After the Marquesse was resolved to the last act of her tryall, and had

sent her the smocke shee demanded, amongst all the lords, knights,

ladies, and other company, she presently disrobed her selfe, and went,

so accompanied, from the palace to her father’s cottage, who, as you

have heard (for divers reasons), was only kept from want, but never

advanced out of the same.

The company could not choose but weepe and deplore the alteration of

fortune; she could not choose but smile, that her vertue was predominant

over passion: they exclaimed against the cruelty of her lord, she

disclaimed the least invective against him: they wondred at so great

vertue and patience, she resolved them they were exercises befitting a

modest woman: they followed her with true love and desire to doe her

good, she thanked them with a true heart, and request to desist from any

further deploring of her estate.

By this time they approached the house, and the poore old man, Janicola,

acquainted with the hurli-burly, came out to see what the matter was.

And finding it was his daughter in her smocke, and in so honourable a

company, bemoaning her distresse, he quickly left them all unspoke unto,

and ran in for those poore robes, which were formerly left in the house;

with which hee quickly arayed her, and told her before them all, that

now shee was in her right element, and, kissing her, bad her welcom. The

company was as much astonished at his moderation as at her constancie,

wondring how nature could bee so restrained from passion, and that any

woman had such grace to be so gracious; in which amaze, not without some

reprehension of fortune, and their lord’s cruelty, they left her to the

poverty of the cell, and returned themselves to the glory of the palace,

where they recounted to the Marquesse the strangenesse of the businesse,

and the manner of the accidents, and shee continued in her first

moderation and indefatigable patience, the poore father onely laughing

to scorne the miseries and sodaine mutabilitie of humane condition, and

comforting his daughter in her well-begun courses of modesty and

reposednesse.

Not long after approched the Countesse of Paniche, or, if you will,

Duchesse of Bologna, with her glorious company and beautifull lady,

sending word before hand that she would be at Saluss such a day:

whereupon the Marquesse sent a troope to welcome her, and prepared the

court for her intertainment; the bruit of which yet had not so equall a

passage, but divers contrarious opinions thus bandied themselves; some

absolutely condemnied the inconstancie of the lord, others deplored the

misfortune of the lady, some repined to see a man so cruell against so

great worthinesse, others exemplified her praises to all eternitie; some

were transported with the gallant youth and comelinesse of this new

bewtifull virgine, others presumed to parallell the faire Grisel, but

that shee had stepped a little before her in yeeres; some harped upon

her great nobilitie and high lineage, others compared the former wife’s

vertue and true wisdome; some excused their lord, by the love to his

countrey, others excused the lady by the nature of the adversitie,

untill the approach of the faire virgine and the young noble man in her

company extinguished all former conceits, and set them to a new worke,

concerning this spectacle, wherein the young lady and her brave brother

had such pre-eminence. Nor knewe the Earle of Paniche himselfe, or any

of the company on either side, that they were his owne children by

Grisel, but meerly strangers, and designed for this new mariage. So the

great Marquesse made good semblance, and with his accustomed

courtlinesse welcomed them all to the palace.

The very next morning (or, if you will, the day before), he sent a

messenger for Grisel to come unto him in the very same manner as shee

was; who protracted no time, but presently attended her lord: at her

approach he was somewhat appalled, but yet setting (as wee say) the best

foot forward, hee thus proceeded:

The lady, Grisel, with whom I must marrie, will bee here to-morrow by

this time, and the feast is prepared accordingly: now, because there is

none so well acquainted with the secrets of my palace, and disposition

of my selfe as you, I would have you, for all this base attire, addresse

your wisdome to the ordering of the businesse, appointing such officers

as is befitting, and disposing the roomes according to the degrees and

estate of the persons. Let the lady have the priviledge of the mariage

chamber, and the young lord the pleasure of the gallery: let the rest be

lodged in the courts, and the better sort upon the sides of the garden:

let the viands be plentifull, and the ceremonies maintained: let the

showes bee sumptuous, and the pastimes as it becommeth; in a word, let

nothing be wanting, which may set forth my honour, and delight the

people.

My lord, saith shee, I ever told you I took pleasure in nothing but your

contentment, and whatsoever might consort to your delight, therein

consisted my joy and happinesse: therefore, make no question of my

diligence and duty in this, or any other thing which it shal please you

to impose upon me. And so like a poore servant shee presently addressed

herselfe to the businesse of the house, performing all things with such

a quicknes and grace that each one wondred at her goodnesse and faire

demeanour, and many murmured to see her put to such a triall. But the

day of entertainement is now comme, and when the faire lady approached,

her very presence had almost extinguished the impression of Grisels

worthinesse; for some inconstant humourists gave way to the alteration,

not blaming the Marquesse for such a change. But when the strangers were

made acquainted with the fortune of Grisel, and saw her faire demeanour,

they could not but esteeme her a woman of great vertue and honour, being

more amased at her patience then at the mutability of mans conditions;

till at last shee approached the lady, and taking her by the hand, used

this speech.

Lady, if it were not his pleasure, that may command to bid you welcome,

yet me thinks there is a kinde of over-ruling grace from nature in you,

that must exact a respect unto you. And as for you, yong lord, I can say

no more, but if I might have my desires satisfied in this world, they

should be imploied to wish you well, and to endeavour all things for

your entertainement indeed. To the rest I afford what is befitting,

desiring them, that if any deficiency abate their expectation, they

would impute it either to my ignorance, or negligence; for it is the

pleasure of him, in whose will is all my pleasure, that in all

sufficiency you should have regard and suppliment. And so shee conducted

them to their severall chambers, where they reposed themselves awhile,

till the time of dinner invited them to repast. When all things were

prepared, and the solemnity of placing the guests finished, the

Marquesse sent for Grisel, and rising on his feet, took her by the hand

before them all, erecting his body, and elating his voice in this

manner: You see the lady is heere I meane to marry, and the company

gloriously prepared to witnes the same; are you therefore contented that

I shall thus dispose of my selfe, and do quietly yeeld to the

alteration?

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