As we study the phenomena indicated by these memoirs, we begin to wonder

whether friendship is or is not extinct. Men are gregarious, and flocks

of them meet together at all hours of the day and night. They exchange

conventional words of greeting, they wear happy smiles, they are

apparently cordial and charming' one with another; and yet a rigidly

accurate observer may look mournfully for signs of real friendship. How

can it exist? The men and women who pass through the whirl of a London

season cannot help regarding their fellow-creatures rather as lay

figures than as human beings. They go to crowded balls and seething

"receptions," not to hold any wise human converse, but only to be able

to say that they were in such and such a room on a certain night. The

glittering crowds fleet by like shadows, and no man has much chance of

knowing his neighbour's heart.

How fast the flitting figures come--

The mild, the fierce, the stony face;

Some bright with thoughtless smiles, and some

Where secret tears have left their trace!

Ah, it is only the faces that the tired pleasure-seeker sees and knows;

the real comrade, the human soul, is hidden away behind the mask!

Genuine heroic friendship cannot flourish in an artificial society; and

that perhaps accounts for the fact that the curled darlings of our

modern community spend much of their leisure in reading papers devoted

to tattle and scandal. It seems as though the search after pleasure

poisoned the very sources of nobleness in the nature of men. In our

monstrous city a man may live without a quarrel for forty years; he may

be popular, he may be received with genial greetings wherever he

goes--and yet he has no friend. He lingers through his little day; and,

when he passes away, the change is less heeded than would be the removal

of a chair from a club smoking-room. When I see the callous indifference

with which illness, misfortune, and death are regarded by the dainty

classes, I can scarcely wonder when irate philosophers denounce polite

society as a pestilent and demoralizing nuisance. Among the people

airily and impudently called "the lower orders" noble friendships are by

no means uncommon. "I can't bear that look on your face, Bill. I'm

coming to save you or go with you!" said a rough sailor as he sprang

into a raging sea to help his shipmate. "I'm coming, old fellow!"

shouted the mate of a merchant-vessel; and he dived overboard among the

mountainous seas that were rolling south of Cape Horn one January. For

an hour this hero fought with the blinding water, and he saved his

comrade at last. Strange to say, the lounging impassive dandies who

regard the universe with a yawn, and who sneer at the very notion of

friendship, develop the kindly and manly virtues when they are removed

from the enervating atmosphere of Society and forced to lead a hard

life. A man to whom emotion, passion, self-sacrifice, are things to be

mentioned with a curl of the lip, departs on a campaign, and amid

squalor, peril, and grim horrors he becomes totally unselfish. Men who

have watched our splendid military officers in the field are apt to

think that a society which converts such generous souls into

self-seeking fribbles must be merely poisonous. The more we study the

subject the more clearly we can see that where luxury flourishes

friendship withers. In the vast suffering Russian nation friendships are

at this very moment cherished to the heroic pitch. A mighty people are

awakening, as it were, from sleep; the wicked and corrupt still sit in

high places, but among the weltering masses of the populace purity and

nobleness are spreading, and such friendships are fostered as never have

been shadowed forth in story or song. Sophie Peroffsky mounts the

scaffold with four other doomed mortals; she never thinks of her own

approaching agony--she only longs to comfort her friends and she kisses

them and greets them with cheering words until the last dread moment

arrives. Poor little Marie Soubotine--sweetest of perverted children,

noblest of rebels--refuses to purchase her own safety by uttering a word

to betray her sworn friend. For three years she lingers on in an

underground dungeon, and then she is sent on the wild road to Siberia;

she dies amid gloom and deep suffering, but no torture can unseal her

lips; she gladly gives her life to save another's. Antonoff endures the

torture, but no agony can make him prove false to his friends. When his

captors give him a respite from the thumbscrews and the red-hot wires

that are thrust under his nails, he forgets his own torment, and

scratches on his plate his cipher signals to his comrades. Those men and

women in that awful country are lawless and dangerous, but they are

heroic, and they are true friends one to another.

How far we proud islanders must have forsaken for a time the road to

nobleness when we are able to exalt the saying "A full purse is the only

true friend" into a representative English proverb! We do not rage and

foam as Timon did--that would be ill-bred and ludicrous; we simply smile

and utter delicate mockeries. In the plays that best please our golden

youth nothing is so certain to win applause and laughter as a sentence

about the treachery or greed of friends. Do those grinning,

superlatively insolent cynics really represent the mighty Mother of

Nations? Ah, no! If even the worst of them were thrust away into some

region where life was hard for him, he would show something like

nobility and manliness; it is the mephitic airs of ease and luxury that

breed selfishness and scorn in his soul. At any rate, those effeminate

people are not typical specimens of our steadfast friendly race. When

the folk in the colliery village hear that deadly thud and feel the

shudder of the earth which tell of disaster, Jack the hewer rushes to

the pit's mouth and joins the search-party. He knows that the gas may

grip him by the throat, and that the heavy current of dissolution may

creep through his veins; but his mate is down there in the workings,

and he must needs save him or die in the attempt. Greater love hath no

man than this. Ah, yes--the poor collier is indeed ready to lay down his

life for his friend! The fiery soldier, William Beresford, sees a

comrade in peril; a horde of infuriated savages are rushing up, and

there is only one pony to carry the two Englishmen. Beresford calls,

"Jump up behind me!" but the friend answers, "No; save yourself! I can

die, and I won't risk your life." Then the undignified but decidedly

gallant Beresford observes, "If you don't come, I'll punch your head!"

The pony canters heavily off; one stumble would mean death, but the

dauntless fighting man brings in his friend safely, though only by the

skin of his teeth. It is absolutely necessary for the saving of our

moral health that we should turn away from the dreary flippancy of an

effete society to such scenes as those. If we regarded only the pampered

classes, then we might well think that true human fellowship had

perished, and a starless darkness--worse almost than Atheism--would fall

on the soul. But we are not all corrupt, and the strong brave heart of

our people still beats true. Young men cherish manly affection for

friends, and are not ashamed to show it; sweet girls form friendships

that hold until the maidens become matrons and till the shining locks

have turned to silver white. Wherever men are massed together the

struggle for existence grows keen, and selfishness and cynicism thrust

up their rank growths. "Pleasure" blunts the moral sense and converts

the natural man into a noxious being; but happily our people are sound

at the core, and it will be long ere cynicism and corruption are

universal. The great healthy middle-class is made up of folk who would

regard a writer of spiteful memoirs as a mere bravo; they have not

perhaps the sweetness and light which Mr. Arnold wished to bestow on

them, but at any rate they have a certain rough generosity, and they

have also a share of that self-forgetfulness which alone forms the basis

of friendship. Having that, they can do without Carlyle's learning and

Wilberforce's polish, and they can certainly do without the sour malice

of the historian and the prelate.

_July, 1887._

_DISASTERS AT SEA_.

During last year the register of slaughter on the ocean was worse than

any ever before seen since the _Royal Charter_ took her crew to

destruction; and it seems as though matters were growing worse and

worse. One dismal old story is being repeated week in, week out. In

thick weather or clear weather--it does not seem to matter which--two

vessels approach each other, and the presiding officers on board of each

are quite satisfied and calm; then, on a sudden, one vessel shifts her

course, there are a few hurried and maddened ejaculations, and then

comes a crash. After that, the ugly tale may be continued in the same

terms over and over again; the boats cannot be cleared away, the vessels

drift apart, and both founder, or one is left crippled. I shall have

something to say about the actual effects of a collision presently, but

I may first go on to name some other kinds of disaster. A heavy sea is

rolling, and occasionally breaking, and a vessel is lumbering along from

crest to hollow of the rushing seas; a big wall of water looms over her

for a second, and then comes crashing down; the deck gives way--there

are no water-tight compartments--and the ship becomes suddenly as

unmanageable as a mere cask in a seaway. Again, a plate is wrenched, and

some villainously-made rivets jump out of their places like buttons from

an over-tight bodice; in ten minutes the vessel is wallowing, ready for

her last plunge; and very likely the crew have not even the forlorn

chance of taking to the boats. Once more--on a clear night in the

tropics an emigrant ship is stealing softly through the water; the merry

crowd on deck has broken up, the women, poor creatures, are all locked

up in their quarters, and only a few men remain to lounge and gossip.

The great stars hang like lamps from the solemn dome of the sky, and the

ripples are painted with exquisite serpentine streaks; the wind hums

softly from the courses of the sails, and some of the men like to let

the cool breeze blow over them. Everything seems so delightfully placid

and clear that the thought of danger vanishes; no one would imagine that

even a sea-bird could come up unobserved over that starlit expanse of

water. But the ocean is treacherous in light and shade. The loungers

tell their little stories and laugh merrily; the officer of the watch

carelessly stumps forward from abreast of the wheel, looks knowingly

aloft, twirls round like a teetotum, and stumps back again; and the

sweet night passes in splendour, until all save one or two home-sick

lingerers are happy. It never occurs to any of these passengers to

glance forward and see whether a streak of green fire seems to strike

out from the starboard--the right-hand side of the vessel--or whether a

shaft of red shoots from the other side. As a matter of fact, the vessel

is going on like a dark cloud over the flying furrows of the sea; but

there is very little of the cloud about her great hull, for she would

knock a house down if she hit it when travelling at her present rate.

The captain is a thrifty man, and the owners are thrifty persons; they

consider the cost of oil; and thus, as it is a nice clear night, the

side-lights are not lit, and the judgment of the tramping look-out man

on the forecastle-head is trusted. Parenthetically I may say that,

without being in any way disposed to harbour exaggerated sentiment, I

feel almost inclined to advocate death for any sailor who runs in

mid-ocean without carrying his proper lights out. I once saw a big iron

barque go grinding right from the bulge of the bow to the stern of an

ocean steamer--and that wretched barque had no lights. Half a yard's

difference, and both vessels would have sunk. Three hundred and fifty

people were sleeping peacefully on board the steamer, and the majority

of them must have gone down, while those who were saved would have had a

hard time in the boats. Strange to say, that very same steamer was

crossed by another vessel which carried no lights: but this time the

result was bad, for the steamer went clean through the other ship and

sank her instantly.

To return to the emigrant vessel. The officer continues his tramp like

one of the caged animals of a menagerie; the spare man of the watch

leans against the rail and hums--

We'll go no more by the light of the moon;

The song is done, and we've lost the tune,

So I'll go no more a-roving with you, fair maid--

A-roving, A-roving, &c.

--the pipes glow in the clear air, and the flying water bubbles and

moans. Oh, yes, all is well--beautifully well--and we need no lights

whatever! Then the look-out man whistles "Hist!"--which is quite an

unusual mode of signalling; the officer ceases his monotonous tramp and

runs forward. "Luff a little!" "He's still bearing up. Why doesn't he

keep away?" "Luff a little more! Stand by your lee-braces. Oh, he'll go

clear!" So the low clear talk goes, till at last with a savage yell of

rage a voice comes from the other vessel--"Where you coming to?" "Hard

down with it!" "He's into us!" "Clear away your boats!" Then there is a

sound like "smack." Then comes a long scraunch, and a thunderous rattle

of blocks; a sail goes with a report like a gun; the vessels bump a few

times, and then one draws away, leaving the other with bows staved in. A

wild clamour surges up from below, but there is no time to heed that;

the men toil like Titans, and the hideous music of prayers and curses

disturbs the night. Then the vessel that was hit amidships rolls a

little, and there is a gurgle like that of an enormous, weir: a mast

goes with a sharp report; a man's figure appears on the taffrail and

bounds far into the sea--it is an experienced hand who wants to escape

the down-draught; the hull shudders, grows steady, and then with one

lurch the ship swashes down and the bellowing vortex throws up huge

spirts of boiling spray. A few stray swimmers are picked up, but the

rest of the company will be seen nevermore. Fancy those women in that

darkened steerage! Think of it, and then say what should be done to an

owner who stints his officers in the matter of lamp-oil; or to a captain

who does not use what the owner provides! The huddled victims wake from

confused slumbers; some scream--some become insane on the instant; the

children add their shrill clamour to the mad rout; and the water roars

in. Then the darkness grows thick, and the agonized crowd tear and

throttle each other in fierce terror; and then approaches the

slowly-coming end. Oh, how often--how wearily often--have such scenes

been enacted on the face of this fair world! And all to save a little

lamp-oil!

Yet again--a great vessel plunges away to sea bearing a precious freight

of some one thousand souls. Perhaps the owners reckon the cargo in the

hold as being worth more than the human burden; but of course opinions

differ. The wild rush from one border of the ocean to the other goes on

for a few days and nights, and the tremendous structure of steel cleaves

the hugest waves as though they were but clouds. Down below the

luxurious passengers live in their fine hotel, and the luckier ones are

quite happy and ineffably comfortable. If a sunny day breaks, then the

pallid battalions in the steerage come up to the air, and the ship's

deck is like a long animated street. A thousand souls, we said? True!

Now let some quiet observant man of the sailorly sort go round at night

and count the boats. Twelve, and the gig aft makes thirteen! Allowing a

tremendously large average, this set of boats might actually carry six

hundred persons; but the six hundred would need to sit very carefully

even in smooth water, and a rush might capsize any one boat.

The vast floating hotel spins on at twenty miles an hour--a speed that

might possibly shame some of the railways that run from London

suburbs--and the officers want to save every yard. No care is omitted;

three men are on the bridge at night, there is a starboard look-out, a

port look-out, and the quartermaster patrols amidships and sees that the

masthead light is all right The officer and the look-out men pass the

word every half-hour, and nothing escapes notice. If some unlucky

steerage passenger happens to strike a light forward, he stands a very

good chance of being put in irons; and, if there is a patient in the

deck-house, the windows must be darkened with thick cloths. Each

officer, on hazy nights, improvises a sort of hood for himself; and he

peers forward as if life depended on his eyesight--as indeed it does.

But there comes a bright evening, and the monster liner's journey is all

but over; three hours more of steaming and she will be safe. A little

schooner comes skimming up on the port side--and the schooner is to the

liner as a chip is to a tree-trunk. The schooner holds on her course,

for she is not bound to give way at all; but the officer on the bridge

of the steamer thinks, "I shall lose a quarter of an hour if I edge away

to starboard and let him fall astern of us. I shall keep right on and

shave his bows." The liner is going at nineteen knots, the schooner is

romping along at eight--yet the liner cannot clear the little vessel.

There comes a fresh gust of wind; the sailing vessel lies over to it,

and just touches the floating hotel amidships--but the touch is enough

to open a breach big enough for a coach and four to go through. The

steamer's head is laid for the land and every ounce of steam is put on,

but she settles and settles more and more. And now what about the

thirteen boats for a thousand people? There is a wild scuffling, wild

outcry. Women bite their lips and-try, with divine patience, to crush

down all appearance of fear, and to keep their limbs from trembling;

some unruly fellows are kept in check only by terror of the revolver;

and the officers remember that their fair name and their hope of earthly

redemption are at stake. In one case of this sort it took three mortal

hours to ferry the passengers and crew over smooth water to the

rescuing vessel; and those rescued folk may think themselves the most

fortunate of all created souls, for, if the liner had been hit with an

impetus of a few more tons, very few on board of her would have lived to

tell the tale. Unless passengers, at the risk of being snubbed and

threatened, criticise the boat accommodation of great steamers, there

will be such a disaster one day as will make the world shudder.

The pitiful thing is to know how easily all this might be prevented.

Until one has been on board a small vessel which has every spar, bolt,

iron, and plank sound, one can have no idea how perfectly safe a

perfectly-built ship is in any sort of weather. A schooner of one

hundred and fifty tons was caught in a hurricane which was so powerful

that the men had to hang on where they could, even before the flattened

foaming sea rose from its level rush and began to come on board. All

round were vessels in distress; the scare caused many of the seamen to

forget their lights, and the ships lumbered on, first to collision, and

then to that crashing plunge which takes all hands down. The little

schooner was actually obliged to offer assistance to a big

mail-steamer--and yet she might have been rather easily carried by that

same steamer. But the little vessel's lights were watched with sedulous

care; the blasts might tear at her scanty canvas, but there was not a

rag or a rope that would give way; and, although the awful rush of the

gale carried her within eight miles of a rocky lee-shore, her captain

had sufficient confidence in the goodness of his gear to begin sailing

his ship instead of keeping her hove to. One rope faulty, one light

wrong, one hand out of his place at the critical time, and the bones of

a pleasant ship's company would have been strewn on a bleak shore: but

everything was right, and the tiny craft drew away like a seagull when

she was made to sail. Of course the sea ran clean over her, but she

forged quietly on until she was thirty miles clear of those foaming

breakers that roared on the cliffs. During that night more good seamen

were drowned than one would like to number; ships worth a king's ransom

were utterly lost. And why? Simply because they had not the perfect gear

which saved the little schooner. Even had the little craft been sent

over until she refused to rise again to the sea, the boats were ready,

and everybody on board had a good chance. Care first of all is needed,

and then fear may be banished. The smart agent reads his report glibly

to the directors of a steamboat company--and yet I have seen such smart

agents superintending the departure of vessels whereof the appearance

was enough to make a good judge quake for the safety of crew and cargo.

What do I advise? Well, in the first place, I must remind shoregoing

folk that a sound well-found vessel will live through anything. Let

passengers beware of lines which pay a large dividend and show nothing

on their balance-sheets to allow for depreciation. In the next place, if

any passenger on a long voyage should see that the proper lights are not

shown, he ought to wake up his fellow passengers at any hour of the

night, and go with his friends to threaten the captain. Never mind

bluster or oaths--merely say, "If your lights are not shown, you may

regard your certificate as gone." If that does not bring the gentleman

to his senses, nothing will. Again, take care in any case that no raw

foreign seamen are allowed to go on the look-out in any vessel, for a

misunderstood shout at a critical moment may bring sudden doom on

hundreds of unsuspecting fellow-creatures. Above all, see that the

water-casks in every boat are kept full. In this way the sea tragedies

may be a little lessened in their hateful number.

_March, 1889._

_A RHAPSODY OF SUMMER_.

There came into my life a time of strenuous effort, and I drank all the

joys of labour to the lees. When the rich dark midnights of summer

drooped over the earth, I could hardly bear to think of the hours of

oblivion which must pass ere I felt the delight of work once more. And

the world seemed very beautiful; and, when I looked up to the solemn

sky, so sweetly sown with stars, I could see stirring words like "Fame"

and "Gladness" and "Triumph" written dimly across the vault; so that my

heart was full of rejoicing, and all the world promised fair. In those

immortal midnights the sea spoke wonderful things to me, and the long

rollers glittering under the high moon bore health and bright promise as

they hastened to the shore. And, when the ships stole--oh, so

silently!--out of the shadows and moved over the diamond track of the

moon's light, I sent my heart out to the lonely seamen and prayed that

they might be joyous like me. Then the ringing of the song of

multitudinous birds sounded in the hours of dawn, and the tawny-throated

king of songsters made my pulses tremble with his wild ecstasy; and the

blackbird poured forth mellow defiance, and the thrush shrilled in his

lovely fashion concerning the joy of existence.

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