A WEDDING IN THE FAMILY.
"Deal gently with her; thou art dear
Beyond what vestal lips have told,
And, like a lamb from fountains clear,
She turns confiding to thy fold.
She, round thy sweet domestic bower,
The wreath of changeless love shall twine,
Watch for thy step at vesper hour,
And blend her holiest prayer with thine.
"Deal gently thou, when far away
'Mid stranger scenes her foot shall rove,
Nor let thy tender care decay--
The soul of woman lives in love.
And shouldst thou, wondering, mark a tear
Unconscious from her eyelids break,
Be pitiful, and soothe the fear
That man's strong heart may ne'er partake."--Mrs. Sigourney.
The members of the Darling family began to perceive that they had a
sister of whom they might justly be proud. She had endeared herself to
them all by many tender ministrations of love; and whenever they
thought of home, they thought of Grace also. And when they were away
from home, pursuing their different avocations on the mainland, it
occurred to them that it would give Grace pleasure, and show their
appreciation of her kindness, if they sent her an occasional present.
Nor was there any need to hold a consultation as to what form the gift
should take.
"Nothing will please Grace so much as a book," one and all would have
said, had their opinion been asked.
Grace's fondness for reading was indeed well known, as also her
preference for poetry. But hitherto she had been obliged to content
herself with the ballads of Bamborough and the surrounding
neighbourhood. Now, however, her brothers sent her such books as she
could revel in--namely, the poetic works of Goldsmith, Cowper, Milton,
and Shakespeare. She especially enjoyed her favourite author,
Goldsmith, and passed many a pleasant hour in the lonely
lighthouse-tower, reading the "Traveller" and the "Deserted Village."
But in the midst of her reading-delights, there occurred the first
wedding in the family.
"Grace, will you be my bridesmaid!" was the request which Mary Ann sent
to her sister, and of course it was one that could not be resisted.
Was there ever a girl who did not feel delighted to attend a wedding?
And the bridesmaids sometimes have the best of it; for it is not to
them so solemn an occasion as it is to the bride. They are not
entering upon a new and untried sphere, nor seeking to fulfil a
position which may be, and is very delightful, but which carries with
it a large amount of responsibility. The duties of a bridesmaid are
altogether easy and pleasant, and Grace had no difficulty in consenting
to take them upon herself.
But Mary Ann was not easily satisfied. "I want Grace for a week," she
said. "She can help me to do many things toward getting my new home in
order, and helping me with the necessary preparations with my own
dress; and I am sure that a week is none too long for so much."
"Would you like to go for a week, Grace!" asked her mother.
"I never like being away from home," replied Grace, "but, upon such an
occasion as this, I think Mary Ann ought to have her own way."
Everybody thought the same, and Grace accordingly arranged to go. But
so endeared was the lighthouse-home to Grace Darling, and so dear was
she to the hearts of the dwellers there, that although her absence was
to be only a short one, yet, when she received the parting kiss of her
mother, and the blessing of her father, the affectionate girl shed
tears of regret at having to leave them.
Grace, however, never forgot the week that followed, nor the happy time
that she spent with her sister. She listened with hearty interest and
sympathy to all the hopes of the bride--to the plans that she had
formed, and the resolutions she had made. She heartily entered into
all that concerned Mary Ann, and was not sorry to have so good an
opportunity of becoming better acquainted with her brother-in-law, whom
she soon learned to love and respect. A man must need be worthy, if a
loving girl is willing to give her dear sister into his keeping, and in
this case Grace was not afraid. He took his new sister into his
confidence, and showed her the neat and comfortable home which he had
prepared for his bride, and which altogether pleased her.
"And you must come to see us as often as you can, Grace. Remember
there will always be a welcome for you, come when you may."
"Thank you," said Grace. "I cannot get away from home very often, but
I will come when I can. At all events I am most glad to be here now;
and I know mother will be delighted to hear all that I shall have to
tell. She will want to know full particulars about every table and
chair in Mary's Ann's new home."
"Then you must describe everything to her; and tell her we shall not be
satisfied until she and Mr. Darling have both been to see for
themselves."
The looked-for day came at last; and Grace's eyes sought the face of
the young man to whom her sister had given her love, and spoke to him
most eloquently. "Be kind to her--she is giving up everything for your
sake," said those speaking eyes. Indeed, this is what should be so
whispered as to sink into the heart of every bridegroom. A woman's
happiness is so entirely in the care of her husband that, if he should
betray the trust, there is nothing but sorrow for her. It is well when
the man realises this, and prayerfully resolves that, God helping him,
he will make, and not mar the joy of the heart that loves him.
This is what the young man meant to do who married the sister of Grace
Darling; and there was every probability that they would be happy.
"If you love each other and love God, you need not fear for the
future," said a wise old man once to a married couple. "If troubles
come, bear them together as cheerfully as you can. If pleasures come,
share them with each other, and so double them. In all things
acknowledge God, and keep Him before you, and all will be well."
And she whom Grace left tearfully, and with many prayers for her
happiness, doubtless found the truth of this in her own experience.
Mr. and Mrs. Darling were very glad to welcome their daughter home
again, and she was quite as glad to return. She found, as she
expected, that the mother had many questions to ask.
"Tell me some more about Mary Ann, Grace," said she many times; and as
the days were dull and wet, and there was nothing else to do, these two
had leisure to talk together, and Mrs. Darling was satisfied.
She felt as all mothers do, when their daughters have left the parental
roof and chosen for themselves one who shall take the place of the dear
old home friends, that little remained for her to do now but to pray.
Happily for us all, however, there is a power in prayer that makes it
worth more to the beloved ones than any gift. And those who pray bring
down blessings upon the household, though far away from it in body.
One is always near; and the Father of the human family is a
prayer-answering God.