THE WOMAN’S MAN

Although, as we have seen everywhere, the women novelists did so much

in lifting the veil and, so to speak, giving themselves away; they also

held up the mirror to man’s complacency, and, in a measure, enabled the

other sex to see himself as they saw him. In the process they created

a type, beloved of schoolgirls, which can only be described as the

“Woman’s Man,” and must be admitted a partial travesty on human nature.

It does not, however, reveal any less insight than much of man’s

feminine portraiture.

Curiously enough, the earliest “Woman’s Man” in fiction was of male

origin. We all know how Richardson, having given us Clarissa, was

invited to exert his genius upon the “perfect gentleman.” But the

little printer had ever an eye on the ladies, and, whether or no of

malice prepense, drew the immaculate Sir Charles Grandison--frankly,

in every particular--not as he must have known him in real life, but

rather according to the pretty fancy of the dear creatures whose

entreaties had called into being the gallant hero.

And, as elsewhere, Fanny Burney took up the type, refined it, and lent

an attractive subtlety to that somewhat monumental erection of the

infallible. The actual imaginings of woman are proved less wooden than

Richardson supposed them, and infinitely more like human nature. In

many things Lord Orville resembles Sir Charles. He is scarcely less

perfect, but his empire is more restricted. The chorus of admiration

granted to Grandison, and his astounding complacency, are replaced by

the unconscious revelations of innocent girlhood naturally expressing

her simple enthusiasm to the kindest of foster-parents. The peerless

Orville, indeed, is not exactly a “popular” hero. It needs a superior

mind to appreciate his superiority; and we suspect there were circles

in which he was voted a “prodigious dull fellow.” His life was not

passed in an atmosphere of worship. It is only in the heart of Evelina

that he is king. Nor can we fancy Miss Burney submitting her heroine

to the ignominy, as modern readers must judge it, of patiently and

contentedly waiting, like Harriet Byron, until such time as his

majesty should determine between the well-balanced claims of herself

and her rival to the honour of his hand. Personally, we have never been

able to satisfy ourselves whether Grandison loved Clementina more or

less than Harriet; if he was properly “in love” with either.

It was, indeed, rather becoming so fine a gentleman to be wooed than

to woo; and the visit to Italy was, in all likelihood, actually

brought in as an afterthought, mainly designed to illustrate the power

of conscience over a good man. Anyone less perfect than Sir Charles

would be universally charged with having compromised Clementina; and

the real motive of his English “selection in wives” was to escape

the consequences of an entanglement involving difficulties about

religion and constant association with the Italian temperament. Having

thoroughly investigated the circumstances and judicially examined his

own heart, the cool-headed young man decides that he is not in honour

bound; gently but firmly severs the somewhat embarrassing connection;

and, in dignified language, communicates his decision to “the other

lady.” Humbly and gratefully she accepts his self-justification and his

love. It is obvious that no one could ever have either refused him or

questioned the dictates of his conscience. But as Jane Austen remarks,

in a very different connection, “It is a new circumstance in romance,

I acknowledge, and dreadfully derogatory of a heroine’s dignity.” No

woman writer would permit it.

Nevertheless, in the essential qualities of heart and mind, no less

than in the heroine’s mental attitude towards their perfections, Lord

Orville and Sir Charles Grandison belong to the same order of men: made

by women for women. So far as I am aware, Miss Burney originated the

semi-paternal relationship (reappearing, with variations, in Knightley

and Henry Tilney) which certainly helped to deceive Evelina as to the

state of her heart, and has in itself a peculiar charm. There is real

delicacy, quite beyond Richardson or his Sir Charles, in Orville’s

repeated attempts to preserve Evelina from her own ignorance; to give

her (as none of her natural guardians ever attempted) some slight

knowledge of the world; protect her from insult; and advise her in

difficulty. He never intrudes or presumes; and, because, after all,

women’s first and last mission as novel-writers was the refinement of

fiction, it cannot be too often emphasised that Miss Burney was most

extraordinarily refined for her age. The very coarseness in certain

externals which she admits without protest, should serve only to

establish her own innate superiority.

But it remains true that the essential attribute of Orville, as

of Grandison, was perfectibility. He is a very Bayard, the _preux

chevalier_, and the Sir Galahad of eighteenth-century drawing-rooms.

Neither the author, nor her heroine, would have ever imagined it

possible to criticise this prince of gentlemen. It really pained them

when persons of inferior breeding or less exalted morality occasionally

ventured to oppose his will or question his judgment. His praise, and

his love, were alike a mighty condescension; his mere notice an honour

almost greater than they could bear.

This is the modern, civilised notion of knighthood; the personification

(in terms of everyday life) of that pure dream which has haunted, and

will ever haunt, the musings of maidenhood; the pretty fancy that one

day He, prince of fairyland, will ride into her very ordinary little

existence, acclaim her queen, and carry her away somewhere to be happy

ever after. Miss Burney translated the vision for her generation,

making it, verily, not greatly dissimilar from actual human experience.

We shall see later how certain women of the Victorian era visualised

the same ideal.

In the numberless remarkable signs of feminine advance between the

authoress of _Evelina_ and Jane Austen we find that this particular

attitude and ideal has almost completely vanished. The hero is no

longer quite perfect; condescension is not now his most conspicuous

virtue. The heroine, indeed, has become the one woman who ventures to

criticise him. Darcy learns quite as much from Elizabeth as she from

him. As already hinted, “Mr. Knightley” is the nearest approach in

Jane Austen to the old type. He is the only person in Highbury who

“ventured to criticise Emma”--without being sufficiently snubbed for

his pains. He is, admittedly, the personification of superiority;

though he is not very “sure of the lady.” Again the character is gently

satirised in Henry Tilney, the situation of Northanger Abbey, as we

have said above, being a more subtle parody of Evelina than of Udolpho.

The young clergyman is nearly faultless. Catherine swears by him in

everything--from theology to “sprigged muslin.” He, too, teaches her

all she ever knew about the “great world”; and guides her, without a

rival in authority, among the bewildering intricacies of men and books.

But, in her own domain and as to her most original creations, Miss

Austen has been criticised for her occasional lack of insight towards

men. It may be true, indeed, that neither Darcy nor Knightley always

speaks, or behaves, quite like a gentlemen; which means that, like all

women, she had not an absolutely unerring instinct for the things which

are “not done.” In all probability, as men will never quite understand

women’s emotional purity, women will never fully appreciate men’s alert

sense of honour. Generally speaking, of course, the feminine standard

in all things is far higher than the masculine; and the women novelists

have done much in pulling us up to their level. But there are a few

points, which concern deeper issues than social polish, of which few

women, if any, can attain to the absolute ideal of chivalry.

There are, of course, many more superficial aspects by which the

men in Jane Austen may be easily recognised as woman-made. We hear

comparatively little of their point of view in affairs of the

heart, with which the novels are mainly concerned, save in that most

thoughtful passage closing _Persuasion_; and we know even less of their

attitude towards ethics, citizenship, business, or social problems.

Only clergymen or sailors are shown to be even superficially concerned

with any profession in life; and this is merely because the authoress

was personally intimate with both. It is, in fact, an infallible

instinct for her own limitations which saved her from more obvious

failure as a portrait-painter of men. Man at the tea-table is her

chosen theme; and this too is a work which could not have been safely

entrusted to any male pen.

The Brontës, on the other hand, exhibit a startlingly original

and unexpected revival of the early type, in the central feature

of its conception. Here once more the hero is most emphatically

“the master”--of body and soul. Jane Eyre, we remember, loved--and

served--her “employer”; Lucy Snowe and Shirley their “teachers.” There

are, probably, no more arrogant males in fiction than these gentlemen;

no more enslaved female worshippers. Yet the combination is totally

unlike the Richardson-Burney brand. To begin with, the dominant,

and domineering, hero is represented in each case as almost, if not

quite, unique; not as the man normal. Nor are we called upon to admire

without qualification. There is nothing ideal about Rochester, Monsieur

Heger, Paul Emmanuel, or Louis Moore. The Brontë heroines did not at

all admire perfection in man, and they abominated good looks. Nor were

they, on the other hand, in the least humble by nature, generally

yielding and clinging, or ever grateful for guidance and information.

They had no patience and very little respect for the genus Homo.

There is, indeed, a touch of melodrama in the sharp contrast exhibited

between their proud prickliness towards mankind and their idolatry

of The Man. Few women have written more bitterly of our idle vanity,

our heartless neglect and supreme selfishness, our blind folly, and

our indifference to moral standards. None has spoken with more biting

emphasis of woman’s natural superiority, or of the grinding tyranny

which, for so many generations, she is herein shown to have stupidly

endured. Yet Charlotte Brontë has declared, without qualification and

more frankly than any of her sisters, that no woman can really love a

man incapable of mastery; that she is ever longing for the whip.

To assert herself, to demand liberty or even equality, is uncongenial;

and the aggressive attitude is only adopted as a duty, undertaken

for the weaker sister from a passionate instinct for justice and an

intolerance of sham. There were two things Charlotte Brontë hated:

a handsome man and a deceitful woman. But hate left her very weary.

It was the strain of playing prophetess that inspired her taste for

“doormats.”

Obviously, the conception of a Hero thus evolved is essentially

feminine. The most complacently conservative among us, however

intolerant of the fine shades, could never have either conceived or

admired a Rochester. We should certainly not suppose him attractive

to any woman of character. To us he appears mere tinsel, the obvious

counterfeit and exaggeration of a type we have come to despise a little

at its best. Naturally, such men fancy that they can “do what they like

with the women”; but _we_ knew better, until the novelist confirmed the

truth of their boast. Miss Brontë, moreover, is very much farther from

our idea of a gentleman than Miss Austen. It may be doubted if men

ever like or applaud rudeness, which she apparently considers essential

to honest manliness.

Yet, however unique in its external manifestations, and however

exaggerated in expression, the Brontë hero-recipe involves, like Miss

Burney’s, an assumption that happy marriages are achieved by meeting

mastery with submission. However diverse their conceptions of the

proper everyday balance between the sexes, both find their _ideal_ in

the absolute monarchy of Man.

It must be always more difficult and more hazardous to determine an

author’s private point of view as her art becomes more professional and

self-conscious. George Eliot’s characters are all deliberate studies,

neither the instinctive expression of an ideal nor the unconscious

reflection of experience; and such manufactured products naturally

tend to be extensively varied, seeking to avoid repetition or even

similarity. We may, perhaps, say that George Eliot, out of her wider

experience and more scholarly training, understood men better than her

predecessors. She certainly avoided, as did Jane Austen, the specific

“Woman’s Man”; and, on the other hand, she penetrated, without losing

her way, more deeply into the masculine mystery than the creator of

Messrs. Elton and Collins.

Tom Tulliver’s whole relationship with his sister is an admirable

study in the conventional notion of a stupid man’s “superiority” to a

clever woman; but it cannot be criticised, or in any way regarded, as

a feminine conception. That provokingly worthy and obstinate young man

is perfectly true to life. There is neither mistake nor exaggeration

here. We must all feel that “this lady” knows. In marriage, Tom would

certainly have played the master to any woman “worthy of him,” but

would not thereby have become less normal or natural. If men question

or puzzle over anything in _The Mill on the Floss_, it is not Maggie’s

toleration of Tom, but her temporary infatuation for Stephen. He indeed

is something of a lady’s man, not a woman’s; but probably we may not

disown the type. To some extent, again, Adam Bede is “masterly” to

his mother, and would probably--barring accidents on which the plot

hinges--have been accepted by Hetty in the same spirit; but he is

certainly _not_ perfect, and seldom, if ever, outruns probability.

But although George Eliot, having a wide outlook, recognises and

illustrates the tendency in man to play the master, she does not

associate it with any idea of perfection, nor does she idealise

submission in women. Yet we know that personally, though less intensely

than Charlotte Brontë, she too disliked sex-assertion, and found

comfort in what the other only desired, a large measure of intellectual

rest, by letting a man think and act for her. At all times her religion

and her philosophy were largely borrowed or reflective--for all

their assumption of independence--and every page of her life reveals

the carefully protective influence of George Henry Lewes. Only less

than any of the other chief women novelists did George Eliot permit

self-expression in her work, and the particular portraiture of man we

are here discussing was not the result of study but the exposure of

conviction.

Finally, it was reserved for later writers, not of supreme genius, to

develop the type to its extremity. Charlotte Yonge, with her usual

superabundance of dramatis personæ, has _two_ “women’s men” in _The

Heir of Redclyffe_, and the contrast between them is most instructive.

The aggressive “perfection” of Philip, indeed, is crude enough. Miss

Yonge deliberately exaggerates his manifold virtues in order to

darken the evil within. The reader and his own conscience alone ever

realise the full force of his jealous suspicions and obstinacy in

self-justification. Guy’s faults, on the other hand, are all on the

surface; but his exalted saintliness is even more superhuman than the

other’s unerring morality. Both exemplify a feminine ideal; though

Philip has only one worshipper, her faith is unfaltering. His, indeed,

is the type that lives to hold forth, to inform, and to dogmatise. Woe

to the woman who ventures to think for herself. The power or charm of

Guy is unconscious. They love his passionate outbursts, his generous

impetuosity, his childish remorse and “sensibility.” In him, however,

there are _some_ qualities which men esteem: he was a sportsman,

adventurous, and transparently sincere. Only his final “conversion” and

the death-bed scene spoil the picture. He becomes, in the end (what

Philip had always been), the sport of feminine imagination with its

craving for perfectibility. He loses the human touch, vanishing among

the gods.

We have the “last word” in this matter from _John Halifax, Gentleman_.

With school-girl naïveté Phineas tells us on every page that “there was

never any man like him.” His smile, his tenderness, his courage, his

independence, his tact and tyranny in the home, his quiet influence

on Capital and Labour, are certainly unique, and no less certainly

monotonous. He _understands_ everybody, and “deals with them” easily.

It costs him nothing to lead men and dominate women. Quietly and

without effort, he pursues his way--to an admiring chorus, always “the

master,” the perfect gentleman. He was dignified, attractive, and very

“particular over his daintiest of cambric and finest of lawn.” The

little waif of the opening chapters indignantly repudiated the name of

“beggar-boy”: “You mistake; I never begged in my life: I am a person of

independent property, which consists of my head and my two hands, out

of which I hope to realise a large capital some day.” And he kept his

word.

Prompt and acute in business, of unflinching integrity, and guided

by generous understanding as to the serious labour problems of his

generation, John was one of those fine English tradesmen who effected

so much, not only towards the foundation of our commercial empire, but

towards removing the barriers between their own class and a Society

largely composed of “fox-hunting, drinking, dicing fools.” The girl who

loved him was “shocked” to hear of his being “in business,” although

her feelings quickly developed to proud worship.

It is here, indeed, that Mrs. Craik reveals most power. Towards the

“world”--his equals, his “men,” or his “superiors”--John Halifax is

the true gentleman, and a splendid specimen of manhood. He has rare

dignity, shrewd insight, and ready command of language. The scene of

his “drawing-room” fracas with Richard Brithwood is extremely dramatic,

and gives us almost a higher opinion of the hero than any other.

Entirely free from the narrow-mindedness of the ordinary self-made man,

he almost subdues our dislike of the gentle despotism which he assumes

towards wife and family. The complacent masculinity is exaggerated by

the author’s persistence in keeping him to the centre of the picture;

and we are disposed to believe that it might have been less open to

criticism if expressed, as well as conceived, by a woman. Phineas

Fletcher, the fictional Ego, has some charm; but he is absolutely

feminine, if not womanish, and the Jonathan-David attitude of every

page becomes wearisome by repetition. There is no doubt that this

perpetual enthusiasm of one man for another offends our taste, and

has a tendency to make both a little ridiculous. John has a positive

weakness for perfection, and we should observe the fact with more

pleasure if it were less frequently “explained.”

Here the man creates his surroundings or sets the tone, presumably

exemplifying the author’s ideal. He is singularly pure-minded,

preposterously domestic, and very confident about the natural supremacy

of man. It is the immense amount of tender detail, the infinite number

of soft touches which convict the author of femininity. Her hero,

however, is no knight of romance, no Bayard of the drawing-room, no

love-lorn youth of dreams, no “fine gentleman,” the mate of a girl’s

sensibility. He is not all soul and heart. He is of tougher fibre in

groundwork (despite his “halo”), and primarily practical. Concerned

externally with such tough problems as trade depression, the “bread

riots,” and the introduction of machinery, he is more often placed

before us as lover, husband, father, and friend. Frank and decisive,

he has remarkable self-control, and remains ideally simple. He has

no doubts about sin and goodness, indifference or faith. We should

be tempted to say that he spent his life in the nursery, though

sometimes, indeed, the view of the nursery is not unworthy of our

attention:

“I delighted to see dancing. Dancing, such as it was then, when young

people moved breezily and lightly, as if they loved it; skimming

like swallows down the long line of the Triumph--gracefully winding

in and out through the graceful country-dance--lively always, but

always decorous. In those days people did not think it necessary to

the pleasures of dancing that any stranger should have the liberty to

snatch a shy, innocent girl round the waist, and whirl her about in

mad waltz or awkward polka, till she stops, giddy and breathless, with

burning cheek and tossed hair, looking--as I would not have liked to

see our pretty Maud look.”

Most of us, I fancy, would think better of John without Phineas at his

elbow, if he were less supremely self-conscious, less given to that

analysis of his own acts and emotions which is essentially feminine.

But Mrs. Craik will not let her hero alone. She thrusts him upon us

without mercy, till we are driven to cry “halt.” We are convinced that

no human being could comfortably carry about with him so heavy a burden

of perfectibility. He is (as women have often fancied us) not what we

are but what she would have us be; and here, as elsewhere, even the

Ideal does not please man.

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