EMPLOYMENT.

Employment a Duty--Powers Developed by Labor--All Females are not

Women--Dependence usually Ignoble--Adversity gives Strength--Girls

should have Trades--Self-reliance necessary to Women--Do Something

and Be Something--Riches no Excuse for Idleness--Employment gives

Activity and Strength--Labor considered Vulgar--Life is given for

Employment--Woman was Made for Usefulness.

I take it that men and women were made for business, for activity, for

employment. Activity is the life of us all. To do and to bear is the

duty of life. We know that Employment makes the man in a very great

measure. A man with no Employment, nothing to do, is scarcely a man. The

secret of making men is to put them to work, and keep them at it. It is

not study, not instruction, not careful moral training, not good

parents, nor good society that makes men. These are means; but back of

these lies the grand molding influence of men's life. It is Employment.

A man's business does more to make him than every thing else. It hardens

his muscles, strengthens his body, quickens his blood, sharpens his

mind, corrects his judgment, wakes up his inventive genius, puts his

wits to work, starts him on the race of life, arouses his ambition,

makes him feel that he is a man and must fill a man's shoes, do a man's

work, bear a man's part in life, and show himself a man in that part. No

man feels himself a man who is not doing a man's business. A man without

Employment is not a man. He does not prove by his works that he is a

man. He can not act a man's part. A hundred and fifty pounds of bone and

muscle is not a man. A good cranium full of brains is not a man. The

bone and muscle and brain must know how to act a man's part, do a man's

work, think a man's thoughts, mark out a man's path, and bear a man's

weight of character and duty before they constitute a man. A man is a

body and soul in action. A statue if well dressed may _appear_ to be a

man; so may a human being. But to _be_ a man and _appear_ to be are two

very different things. Human beings _grow_; men are _made_. The being

that grows to the stature of a man is not a man till he is made one. The

grand instrumentality of man-making is Employment. The world has long

since learned that men can not be made without Employment. Hence it sets

its boys to work--gives them trades, callings, professions--puts the

instruments of man-making into their hands and tells them to work out

their manhood. And the most of them do it somehow; not always very well.

The men who fail to make themselves a respectable manhood are the boys

who are put to no business, the young men who have nothing to do, the

male beings that have no Employment. We have them about us--walking

nuisances--pestilential gas-bags--fetid air-bubbles, who burst and are

gone. Our men of wealth and character, of worth and power, have been

early bound to some useful Employment. Many of them were unfortunate

orphan boys, whom want compelled to work for bread--the children of

penury and lowly birth. In their early boyhood they buckled on the armor

of labor, took upon their little shoulders heavy burdens, assumed

responsibilities, met fierce circumstances, contended with sharp

opposition, chose the ruggedest paths of Employment because they yielded

the best remuneration, and braved the storms of toil till they won great

victories for themselves and stood before the world in the beauty and

majesty of noble manhood. This is the way men are made. There is no

other way. Their powers are developed in the field of Employment.

Men are not born; they are made. Genius, worth, power of mind are more

made than born. Genius born may grovel in the dust; genius made will

mount to the skies. Our great and good men that stand along the paths of

history bright and shining lights are witnesses of these truths. They

stand there as everlasting pleaders for Employment. Now what is true of

men in this respect is equally true of women. If Employment is the

instrumentality in making men, it is equally so in making women. A human

female is not a woman till she makes herself so. There is something

noble, glorious, in a woman. She is the impersonation of spiritual

beauty. But all females are not women. There are scores of them who are

only female humanities; and scores more who are only _ladies_. A lady

and a woman are two very different things. One is made at the hands of

fashion; the other is the handiwork of God through the instrumentality

of useful Employment. A lady is a parlor ornament, a walking

show-gallery, a mistress of tongue-tied etiquette. A woman is a

consecrated intelligence--a love baptized--a hand employed in the work

of good. To be a woman requires exertion and prudence. Women are not

born; neither do they grow up of themselves; they are made. Their

virtues blossom in the garden of industry. Their fruits ripen on the

boughs of toil. Their treasures grow on the tree of labor. A woman with

nothing to do can not develop a truthful womanhood. A woman with no

Employment for her hands or mind can be only the shadow of a woman. What

is noble in her will doff its nobility. What is strong will become weak,

and she will soon be an imbecile dependent on some one else.

A dependent life is an ignoble one, unless compelled by misfortune; just

as ignoble in woman as in man. No woman of health and sound mind should

allow herself to be or feel dependent on any body for her living. The

sick are always dependent, though they have wealth at their command. But

the well should never be dependent. To eat and wear the fruits of

another's labor, tends to degradation. To feel that one is shining in

borrowed plumes and eating the bread of dependence, is degrading to a

noble mind. A noble mind will not willingly do it. The want of

Employment, and the dependence of many women, have ruined their

characters and made them little else than nuisances to their fellow-men.

Thousands of women have no Employment, and live through life in a state

of abject dependence. What are they, what can they be, under such

circumstances? It requires Employment to develop men, why should not it

to develop women? Dependent men are ninnies, why should not dependent

women be? Where is the difference between the male and female mind, that

one should be expected to be noble and magnanimous under circumstances

which would be ruinous to the other? We know that a young man thrown

upon his own resources is more likely to be a great, good man than when

cradled upon the lap of luxury or fortune. Why is it? Simply because he

seeks Employment and depends upon himself for what he is to be and do.

He leans not on another, and hence grows strong by standing alone. Plant

an acorn in the crevice of a barren rock, and it will strike down its

roots and send them out in search of fastening places till it will

surround the rock with a net of clinging fibers; and as the winds grow

fiercer and the storms howl wilder, the oak will strike deeper and wider

its anchoring roots. It will brace itself to meet the emergencies of its

life. It will nerve its energies to stand its ground. It will gather

vigor from every storm, resolution from every wind, strength from every

defiant bolt from heaven.

So it is with man. Place him on his feet in a hard place, where the suns

of life strike hotly upon him, and the storms blow fiercely, where he

must stand by his own strength or fall, and he will grow into strength

by the very pressure of adverse circumstances. Every blow of his own

will give it strength; every effort of his mind will give it vigor;

every trial of his character will knit firmer its binding fibers. This

is equally true of woman. Her character is formed and her power

developed in a similar way. A woman can no more be a true woman than a

man can be a true man without Employment and self-reliance. I would have

every boy and girl in the whole country taught to make their own living

at some useful Employment; to mark out for themselves a sphere of action

and then fill that sphere; to be useful in some honorable pursuit. I

would not put the boys to trades and professions to make them great and

good, and fold up the girls' hands and lay them away in the drawer or

shut them up in the parlor. I would not make the boys self-reliant and

vigorous by generous Employment, and the girls weak, puny, and dependent

by idleness or folly. I would not give the boys opportunities to develop

their powers and become noble men, and deprive the girls of all these

glorious privileges. I would not open a thousand avenues to distinction,

wealth, and worth to the boys and comparatively none to the girls. I

would not send the boys out into the field of life bravely to earn their

own living, and grow strong in doing it, and the girls out to beg their

living of the boys, and grow weak and worthless in their dependent

beggary. I like the girls too well to have them thus mistreated. I would

give them just as good a chance as the boys have. They should not be

degraded with half-pay, and only two or three ways to get a living, just

because they were made to be women. They should not be shut out from a

thousand avenues of distinction and usefulness, for they are richly

endowed, just because they are made to be women. They should not be made

to feel that it is degrading to be a woman, to feel, as a man expressed

it to me the other day, that "women are such good-for-nothing

creatures." I love noble, "strong-minded," and strong-hearted women. I

wish we had more of them. I know of no way to make them but to give our

girls more active Employment. Every girl should have a trade, a

business, a profession, or some honorable and useful way of gaining a

livelihood--some Employment in which her powers of body and mind may be

amply developed. If she has not, she will be dependent upon somebody,

and her dependence will degrade her; and her want of Employment will

keep her a half-developed specimen of humanity.

If I had half-a-dozen boys, and should let them grow up in play around

my house and on the streets, in visiting, gossiping, dressing, riding,

dancing, asking nothing of them only to bring me my slippers, or some

occasional act of kindness now and then, my neighbors would all cry out

against me, declaring that I was spoiling my boys. They would denounce

my course as absolute unkindness to the boys; would declare that they

never would be any thing with such a miserable training. And yet my

neighbors treat their girls in just this way. Now if it will spoil the

boys, why will it not spoil the girls? If it is unkindness to the boys,

why is it not unkindness to the girls? If boys can not be any thing with

such a training, how can the girls be?

If the present generation of boys should be reared just as we are

rearing our girls, what a puny race of men we should have with which to

commence the next century! Men complain that women are such weak,

good-for-nothing creatures that they are only fit to be wives and

mothers. Now it seems to me that no woman is fit to be a wife and mother

until she is a strong, self-reliant woman, both bodily and mentally. I

take it that the more vigorous a woman's body and mind are, the better

she is qualified to fulfill the duties of wife and mother.

I take it that the more self-reliant and independent a woman is, the

better she is qualified to be a helpmate for her husband, and a wise and

judicious counselor for her children. I take it that dignity of

character, power of action, resolute will, commanding judgment, steady

temper of mind, strong inward resources, are as essential in a good wife

and mother as in a good husband and father. In a word, I take it that

all that is noble, dignified, useful, and beautiful in character and

life, is as essential in women as in men. If so, then why not give woman

opportunities such as are necessary to develop her powers and form her

character? Those opportunities can not be given without Employment. We

can not make men without Employment; how can we expect to make women?

How can a woman who has no aim in life, who lives to no purpose, who has

nothing to accomplish, whose hands are idle, whose mind has nothing on

which to fix its energies--who, in a word, spends a listless, trifling

life--how can such a woman possess weight of character, force of mind,

or mental worth? When God calls for her stewardship, how can she answer

with any honor to herself? When she comes to see her soul disrobed of

mortality, how naked and undeveloped it will look!

It appears to me that every young woman should aim to be something and

do something. Her powers of mind and body should be applied to a good

end. Her hands should be set to some useful employment and made skillful

in it. It matters not so much what it is, as how she perseveres in it.

Great men are made in all trades and professions. So may great women be.

Woman may rightfully employ her powers wherever she may do it most

successfully to herself and her fellows. If our young women feel that

they can sell tape and pins, set type or make shoes, keep books or

manage a telegraph office; if they can keep a bakery or a dry-goods

store, direct a Daguerreian gallery, or do any thing else that is right

and proper to be done, let them not hesitate to do it. Let them

accomplish themselves in the art or business that to them seems most

agreeable, and set up for themselves. They will be a thousand times more

happy and useful than in leading listless and thriftless lives. The kind

of Employment is not a matter of so much importance as the fact of being

employed. Our boys choose their occupations; so should our girls. But

they should always choose to do something that is useful. Our homes are

full of necessary and useful employments. Our girls should engage in

them with zeal.

No matter if they are rich. They need Employment just as much. A rich

young man is not excused from business--from acting nobly his part in

life, and doing something worthy of a man. And if he excuses himself he

will only be despised by the community in which he lives. We all

understand that a young man has got a part to act in useful life,

whether he is rich or poor. Why should it not be so with a young woman?

Why should we excuse her on account of her riches? Why should she excuse

herself? Idleness is the ruin of her body and mind; Employment will give

both activity and strength. She will be wiser, better, happier by being

employed in something that will benefit herself and the world. We have a

strange theory about our young women that are well to do in the world.

We think that they must be great babies, and be fed, and clothed, and

housed, and posted about in carriages, waited upon and petted as though

they were made for nothing else. It is horridly vulgar for such young

women to work. It would be a violation of propriety for them to be

useful. They would lose caste if they should engage in any useful

employment. So they must be useless appendages, hung about the body of

humanity to torment themselves and as many others as they can. What a

torment it must be to them to lead such aimless lives, studying all the

while for some new way to kill time! How many women there are over whose

heads time drags heavily! They have nothing to do. The dull round of

society is irksome. They have stood at the toilet till every thing there

is fatiguing. They have talked over and over their little round of

fashionable nonsense. They are weary of their monotonous, inactive,

inglorious life. Thousands are the women in easy circumstances who feel

thus. They would be glad to lift up their hands and do something, but

the chains of custom and fashion are upon them. A false social position

has made them timid and fearful. I know that many noble women are weary

of such a life. They are tired of being dolls. They would be glad to be

women and fill the places of useful, energetic, resolute women.

The position of dependence in which society places its wealthy and easy

circumstanced women is directly calculated to destroy their

self-reliance and force of character. They are attended by servants

wherever they go, who do what they ought to do, and often think what

they ought to think. The woman who always asks her servant to do what

she may do herself, soon becomes dependent upon and loses a good portion

of herself in her servant. If my servant eats my dinner for me, he gets

the benefit and I lose it. If my servant takes my morning bath from me,

he gets the benefit and I lose it. If he takes my morning walk for me,

he receives what I lose. So if he takes my Employment, does what I may

and ought to do myself for my own good, he receives the benefit while I

lose it. Thus it is that this system of servitude in all its forms tends

to degrade the party to whom the service is done. To have done for us

what it is best we should do ourselves always injures us. If we have

duties to perform, and hire or command another to perform them, we rob

ourselves of one of the richest blessings that can come to a mortal

being--the consciousness of having performed a duty and the improvement

gained by its performance. Thousands of women in our country are greatly

injured by the presence of their servants. Servants do for them what

they ought to do for themselves. They acquire the habit of dependence,

and it soon degenerates them into petty tyrants. If I had but two

lessons to impress upon the young women of my generation, the first

should be that a useful Employment is the primary means of developing a

true womanhood.

I know there is an antipathy to labor among a large class of women; I

know that women as well as men seek to avoid care and responsibility; I

know that useful Employments are looked upon as hard necessities, to be

avoided if possible. But still I know that Employment--daily, constant,

responsible Employment--is the stepping-stone to mental and moral worth,

to usefulness and happiness. I do not contend for degrading toil, but

for honorable, mind-developing, soul-redeeming, heart-adorning

Employment. Both men and women are made better by useful Employment.

Life is given for Employment; our powers are made for activity. If God

had intended that any of us should be idle, he would have built houses,

made clothes, cooked victuals, formed characters, accumulated knowledge,

and had every thing that we need both for mind and body ready made at

our hands. But not so. He has made all that is grand in life, that is

glorious in thought, depend upon our own exertions. This is as true of

women as of men. Then the idler is a leech on himself--his own

despoiler. An idle woman is as base a thing as an idle man. She was made

for usefulness. A drone in any hive is a base bee--a nuisance, a leech,

a moth.

I know young women have refined ideas of delicacy; sometimes imagine it

is vulgar to be useful; that delicate hands are evidences of ladyship.

They ought to know that a delicate hand is an evidence of a shallow

brain; that a soft hand is an evidence of a soft head. Ladyship and

womanhood are two things. A soft hand and a faint heart may make one,

but not the other. Womanhood is put on by industry in the pursuit of

good. It is made in the field of noble Employment.

I seek to elevate woman. I look to her elevation as the elevation of the

race. I see in her powers capable of great actions and a sublime life;

but I see no way in which those powers can be developed and that life

lived but in active and useful Employment. Woman ought to stand by man's

side in all that is great and good in thought and action. The history of

every country should have as much to record of woman as of man; but this

can never be until woman's field of Employment is extended. She must go

out and work. She must do her own business, execute her own intentions,

act nobly her part in life wherever she can be the best rewarded for her

industry and judgment. I would not make woman unwomanly, but would crown

her with all the grace and dignity of true female worth. I look to

useful Employment as the best and only means of securing this end.

Idleness will not make any woman womanly. Ignorance of business and the

world will not. In the pursuit of their own elevation let them learn how

to be true to themselves and their duties, and we shall soon have a

generation of women such as the world has never seen--of strong, brave,

accomplished, and useful women whom history will record as the

benefactors of their race.

Lecture Nine.