The Three Agencies in Child Training (1909)

Every normal child is born with certain tendencies and propensities in

which either the good or the evil of past generations preponderates. If it

is the good, there must be some agency to call forth, develop, and

strengthen it; if, on the other hand, it is the evil, there is all the

more need why some influence should be brought to bear to check the evil

and inculcate the good. Upon three great institutions devolves this

momentous responsibility. They are the home, the school, and the Church.

Each must help the other two, and no one is complete without the

co-operation of the others. Of the three, the home will perhaps come

nearest to completeness within itself. The sooner these three agencies,

which in the final analysis have a common purpose, come to understand each

other and co-operate with each other, the better it will be for the child.

For the responsibility of no one of the three ends with this life. The

Church is not the only one that builds for eternity, nor should the other

two be the only two that build for time, but all may well unite in

building for both time and eternity, and the aim of each should be the

perfection of personality.

Three forces of equal power, pulling each in a different direction, must

either offset the influence of each other and result in stationary

failure, or force each other to aimless wandering. Besides all this, the

strain is uncomfortably intense for the object upon which the pull is

exerted. The child who has had these influences pulling him about in

different or totally opposite directions all his life is an object

deserving of pity, and if in his case life becomes a failure, the wonder

will only be why the failure was not more complete. But when these forces

unite in a common purpose, and their purpose should be a common one, the

child can only blame himself if he does not attain some very definite

goal. And when that common purpose is a good one, that goal can not choose

but be a worthy one.

A great many parents are wondering these days why their children did not

grow up to be good. If their children are spiritually delinquent, they

blame the Church, regardless of what the home example or precept has been.

If the children use bad grammar or do not exercise good judgment, the

blame falls upon the school, regardless of the standards of those with

whom those children have spent the days of their mental unfolding.

Sometimes it is more than the Church can do to merely offset the evil done

at home, without ever reaching the aggressive side of development.

Sometimes it is more than lies within the ability of the school to rescue

the child from the misconceptions and errors of everyday life and speech,

without arriving at the constructive point at all. God has committed to

the home the arduous but sacred task of guiding the first faltering steps

of the little ones into the ways of righteousness and truth. The first is

out of the reach of the Church’s ability; the second is a part in

education that the school can never play. Neither the school nor the

Church is an orphans’ home for the purpose of taking the responsibility

of raising people’s children from the shoulders of those to whom it

belongs. They can only do their work upon the chief cornerstone of home

instruction, guidance, and discipline. Better children’s meetings can be

held at mother’s knee than anywhere else in the world, and it is wrong to

deny to maturity the golden memories of such a childhood. The business of

the Church is spiritual ministration, and it ought not to need to be

anything more. Spiritual ministration, however, is a broad term, and it

ought never to be allowed to center in earthly things. The home, then,

ought to be the first school, and it must lay proper foundation for the

work of the Church, for never will teachings be better learned nor longer

remembered than those received in its quiet precincts.

In this day, the school has been narrowed down in the scope of its work to

mere mental discipline. And yet the schools from whose halls the world’s

greatest minds have come, have not been mere knowledge machines. Our

schools claim to teach literature, and yet their curricula ignore the

greatest piece of literature ever written. In some States the law goes so

far as to forbid the reading of the Bible in the public schools on the

ground that it might engender sectarianism. The Bible is not a sectarian

book, nor does the teaching of it need to be sectarian. There is scarcely

a truly great life that is not a standing witness to the fact that

education is not complete without a knowledge of the Bible, at least as

literature and history. And yet pedagogical fads and public customs deny

public school students the benefit of the study of it. Public school

students are taught the pagan religions. They are taught the mythology of

Greece and Rome, but the living and vital religion, to which even the

school owes its being, is ignored for the petty fear of sectarianism. A

man’s education can not be measured by what he has committed to memory,

but by what he has learned by heart. Education is no more what one knows

than what he is. The school needs to train the mind, but it can not afford

to ignore the necessity of a right culture of the heart.

But it is scarcely a greater mistake for the school to hold itself

strictly to mental training to the exclusion of everything pertaining to

religion, than it is for the Church to hold itself strictly to religious

work to the exclusion of educative effort. In physical science, radiant

light and heat are exactly the same thing manifested to different avenues

of sense perception. Who knows but that in the spiritual realm, the light

of truer wisdom and the warmth of Christian experience are one and the

same thing, except that, in the one case, it is perceived through the mind

and, in the other, through the heart? Upon the Church devolves the

responsibility of lifting the thought of the community to whose needs it

ministers to the highest, purest, and best possible plane. In this

measure, it needs to be an educative influence. It will be able to reach

some minds through the heart, and it will be able to reach some hearts

through the mind, and in both cases it will be lifting men to God, who is

both love and light. What does it matter if the preacher does lecture once

in a while? The Old Book will always supply food for the profoundest

thought. We not only need our hearts comforted, however important that may

be, but if we expect to understand God’s message and plan, we will have to

think, also. Jesus was a Scholar and will baffle the scholarship of this

world for many years yet to come. Let the Church not ignore the

educational side of Christianity.

And so these three agencies can not encroach on each others’ territory,

for they have a common work to do if they are true to their trust. Let the

home give the first lessons, and all through the changing years let it be

both an educative and religious influence. Let the school be solicitous of

both the unfolding mind and the craving heart. Let the Church minister to

spiritual needs and not forget that the true education of the heart does

not despise the education of the mind. Then shall the child have it said

of him, as it was said of that Child of the long ago, “And He advanced in

wisdom, and in stature, and in favor with God and man.”

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