CHAPTER II.

DECEPTION.

Probably nearly all who read this book have heard the story of George

Washington and his hatchet.

George, when a little boy, had received from his father a hatchet, and

he, much pleased with his present, walked around the house trying its

keen edge upon every thing which came within his reach. At last he

came to a favorite pear-tree of his father's, and began, with great

dexterity, to try his skill in felling trees. After hacking upon the

bark until he had completely ruined the tree, he became tired, and

went into the house. Before long, his father, passing by, beheld his

beautiful tree entirely ruined; and, entering the house, he earnestly

asked who had been guilty of the destruction. For a moment George

trembled and hesitated. He was strongly tempted to deny that he knew

any thing about it. But summoning all his courage, he replied,

"Father, I cannot tell a lie. I cut it with my hatchet." His father

clasped him to his arms, and said, "My dear boy, I would rather lose

a thousand trees than have my son a liar."

This little anecdote shows that George Washington, when a boy, was

too brave and noble to tell a lie. He had rather be punished than be

so mean and degraded as to utter a falsehood. He did wrong to cut the

pear-tree, though, perhaps, he did not know the extent of the injury

he was doing. But had he denied that he did it, he would have been a

cowardly and disgraceful liar. His father would have been ashamed of

him, and would never have known when to believe him. If little George

Washington had told a lie then, it is by no means improbable that he

would have gone on from falsehood to falsehood, till every body

would have despised him. And he would thus have become a disgrace to

his parents and friends, instead of a blessing to his country and the

world. No boy, who has one particle of that noble spirit which George

Washington had, will tell a lie. It is one of the most degrading of

sins. There is no one who does not regard a liar with contempt.

Almost always, when a lie is told, two sins are committed. The first

is, the child has done something which he knows to be wrong. And the

second is, that he has not courage enough to admit it, and tells a

lie to hide his fault. And therefore, when a child tells a lie, you

may always know that that child is a coward. George Washington was a

brave man. When duty called him, he feared not to meet danger and

death. He would march to the mouth of the cannon in the hour of

battle; he would ride through the field when bullets were flying in

every direction, and strewing the ground with the dead, and not a

nerve would tremble. Now, we see that George Washington was brave

when a boy, as well as when a man. He scorned to tell a lie, and,

like a noble-hearted boy, as he was, he honestly avowed the truth.

Every body admires courage, and every body despises cowardice. The

liar, whether he be a boy or a man, is looked upon with disgust.

Cases will occur in which you will be strongly tempted to say that

which is false. But if you yield to the temptation, how can you help

despising yourself? A little girl once came into the house and told

her mother something which was very improbable. Those who were

sitting in the room with her mother did not believe her, for they did

not know the character of the little girl. But the mother replied at

once, "I have no doubt that it is true, for I never knew my daughter

to tell a lie." Is there not something noble in having such a

character as this? Must not that little girl have felt happy in the

consciousness of thus possessing her mother's entire confidence? Oh,

how different must have been her feelings from those of the child

whose word cannot be believed, and who is regarded by every one with

suspicion! Shame, shame on the child who has not magnanimity enough

to tell the truth.

God will not allow such sins to go unpunished. Even in this world the

consequences are generally felt. God has given every person a

conscience, which approves that which is right, and condemns that

which is wrong. When we do any thing wrong, our consciences punish

us for it, and we are unhappy. When we do any thing that is right,

the approval of conscience is a reward. Every day you feel the power

of this conscience approving or condemning what you do. Sometimes a

person thinks that if he does wrong, and it is not found out, he

will escape punishment. But it is not so. He will be punished whether

it is found out or not. Conscience will punish him if no one else

does.

There was once a boy whose father sent him to ride a few miles upon

an errand, and told him particularly not to stop by the way. It was

a beautiful and sunny morning in the spring; and as he rode along by

the green fields, and heard the singing of the birds as they flew

from tree to tree, he felt as light-hearted and as happy as they.

After doing his errand, however, as he was returning by the house

where two of his friends and playmates lived, he thought he could not

resist the temptation just to call a moment to see them. He thought

there would be no great harm if he merely stopped a minute or two,

and his parents would never know it. Here commenced his sin. He

stopped, and was led to remain longer and longer, till he found he

had passed two hours in play. Then, with a troubled conscience, he

mounted his horse, and set his face towards home. The fields looked

as green, and the skies as bright and cloudless, as when he rode

along in the morning; but, oh, how different were his feelings! Then

he was innocent and happy; now he was guilty and wretched. He tried

to feel easy, but he could not; conscience reproached him with his

sin. He rode sadly along, thinking what excuse he should make

to his parents for his long absence, when he saw his father, at a

distance, coming to meet him. His father, fearing that some accident

had happened, left home in search of his son. The boy trembled and

turned pale as he saw him approaching, and hesitated whether he had

better confess the truth at once, and ask forgiveness, or endeavor to

hide the crime with a lie. Oh, how much better it would have been for

him if he had acknowledged the truth! How much sooner would he have

been restored to peace! But one sin almost always leads to another.

When this kind father met his son with a smile, the boy said, "Father,

I lost the road, and it took me some time to get back again, and that

is the reason why I have been gone so long."

His father had never known him to be guilty of falsehood before, and

was so happy to find his son safe, that he did not doubt what he said

was true. But, oh, how guilty, and ashamed, and wretched, did that boy

feel, as he rode along! His peace of mind was destroyed. A heavy

weight of conscious guilt pressed upon his heart. The boy went home

and repeated the lie to his mother. It is always thus when we turn

from the path of duty; we know not how widely we shall wander. Having

committed one fault, he told a lie to conceal it, and then added sin

to sin, by repeating and persisting in his falsehood. What a change

had one short half day produced in the character and the happiness of

this child! His parent had not yet detected him in his sin, but he

was not, on that account, free from punishment. Conscience was at

work, telling him that he was degraded and guilty, His look of

innocence and his lightness of heart had left him. He was ashamed to

look his father or mother in the face. He tried to appear easy and

happy, but he was uneasy and miserable. A heavy load of conscious

guilt rested upon him, which destroyed all his peace.

When he retired to bed that night, he feared the dark. It was long

before he could quiet his troubled spirit with sleep. And when he

awoke in the morning, the consciousness of his guilt had not

forsaken him. There it remained fixed deep in his heart, and would

allow him no peace. He was guilty, and of course wretched. The first

thought which occurred to him, on waking, was the lie of the

preceding day. He could not forget it. He was afraid to go into the

room where his parents were, lest they should discover, by his

appearance, that he had been doing something wrong. And though, as

weeks passed away, the acuteness of his feelings in some degree

abated, he was all the time disquieted and unhappy. He was

continually fearing that something would occur which should lead to

his detection.

Thus things went on for several weeks, till, one day, the gentleman at

whose house he stopped called at his father's on business. So soon

as this boy saw him come into the house, his heart beat violently,

and he turned pale with the fear that something would be said that

would bring the whole truth to light. The gentleman, after conversing

a few moments with his father, turned to the little boy, and said,

"Well, how did you get home the other day? My boys had a very

pleasant visit from you." Can you imagine how the boy felt? You could

almost have heard his heart beat. The blood rushed into his face, and

he could not speak; and he dared not raise his eyes from the floor.

The gentleman then turned to his parents, and said, "You must let

your son come up again and see my boys. They were quite disappointed

when he was there a few weeks ago, for he only staid about two hours,

and they hoped he had come to spend the whole day with them." There,

the whole truth was out. And how do you suppose that boy felt? He had

disobeyed his parents; told a lie to conceal it; had for weeks

suffered the pangs of a guilty conscience; and now the whole truth

was discovered. He stood before his parents overwhelmed with shame,

convicted of disobedience, and mean, degraded falsehood.

This boy was all the time suffering the consequences of his sin. For

many days he was enduring the reproaches of conscience, when the

knowledge of his crime was confined to his own bosom. How bitterly

did he suffer for the few moments of forbidden pleasure he had

enjoyed! The way of the transgressor is always hard. Every child who

does wrong must, to a greater or less degree, feel the same sorrows.

This guilty child, overwhelmed with confusion and disgrace, burst

into tears, and implored his parents' forgiveness. But he was told by

his parents that he had sinned, not only against them, but against

God. The humble child went to God in penitence and in prayer. He made

a full confession of all to his parents, and obtained their

forgiveness; and it was not till then that peace of mind was restored.

Will not the child who reads this account take warning from it? If

you have done wrong, you had better confess it at once. Falsehood will

but increase your sin, and aggravate your sorrow. Whenever you are

tempted to say that which is untrue, look forward to the consequences.

Think how much sorrow, and shame, and sin, you will bring upon

yourself. Think of the reproaches of conscience; for you may depend

upon it, that those reproaches are not easily borne.

And is it pleasant to have the reputation of a liar? When persons are

detected in one falsehood, they cannot be believed when they speak the

truth. No person can place any more confidence in them till a long

time of penitence has elapsed, in which they have had an opportunity

to manifest their amendment. The little boy, whose case we have above

alluded to, was sincerely penitent for his sin. He resolved that he

never would tell another lie. But since he had deceived his parents

once, their confidence in him was necessarily for a time destroyed.

They could judge of the reality of his penitence only by his future

conduct. One day he was sent to a store to purchase some small

articles for his mother. In his haste, he forgot to stop for the few

cents of change which he ought to have received. Upon his return

home, his mother inquired for the change. He had not thought a word

about it before, and very frankly told her, that he had forgotten it

entirely. How did his mother know that he was telling the truth? She

had just detected him in one lie, and feared that he was now telling

her another. "I hope, my dear son," she said, "you are not again

deceiving me." The boy was perfectly honest this time, and his

parents had never before distrusted his word. It almost broke his

heart to be thus suspected, but he felt that it was just, and went to

his chamber and wept bitterly. These are the necessary consequences

of falsehood. A liar can never be believed. It matters not whether he

tells truth or falsehood, no one can trust his word. If you are ever

tempted to tell a lie, first ask yourself whether you are willing to

have it said that nobody can trust your word. The liar is always

known to be such. A person may possibly tell a lie which shall not be

detected, but, almost always something happens which brings it to

light. The boy who stopped to play when on an errand two miles from

his father's house, thought that his falsehood would never be

discovered. But he was detected, and overwhelmed with shame.

It is impossible for a person who is in the habit of uttering

untruths to escape detection. Your character for truth or falsehood

will be known. And what can be more humiliating and degrading than to

have the name of a liar? It is so considered in all nations and with

all people. It is considered one of the meanest and most cowardly

vices of which one can be guilty. The liar is always a coward. He

tells lies, because he is afraid to tell the truth.

And how do you suppose the liar must feel when he comes to die? It

is a solemn hour. Perhaps many of the children who read this book

have never seen a person die. I have seen many. I have seen children

of all ages dressed in the shroud and placed in the coffin. I might

write pages in describing to you such scenes. One day, I went to see

a little girl about ten years of age, who was very sick. When I went

into the room, she was lying upon the little cot-bed, her lips

parched with fever, and her face pale and emaciated with suffering.

Her mother was standing by her bed-side, weeping as though her heart

would break. Other friends were standing around, looking in vain for

something to do to relieve the little sufferer. I went and took her

by the hand, and found that she was dying. She raised her languid

eyes to me, but could not speak. Her breathing grew fainter and

fainter. Her arms and limbs grew cold. We could only look mournfully

on and see the advances of death, without being able to do any thing

to stop its progress. At last she ceased to breathe. Her spirit

ascended to God to be judged, and her body remained upon the bed, a

cold and lifeless corpse. All children are exposed to death; and when

you least expect it, you may be called to lie upon a bed of sickness,

and go down to the grave. There is nothing to give one joy in such an

hour, but a belief that our sins are forgiven, and that we are going

to the heavenly home. But how must a child feel in such an hour, when

reflecting upon falsehoods which are recorded in God's book of

remembrance! Death is terrible to the impenitent sinner; but it is a

messenger of love and of mercy to those who are prepared to die. If

you have been guilty of a falsehood, you cannot, die in peace till

you have repented and obtained forgiveness.

There was a little girl eleven years of age, who died a few months

ago. She loved the Savior, and when told that she could not live, was

very happy. She said she was happy to die, and go home and be with

her Savior and the angels in heaven. But there was one thing, which,

for a time, weighed heavily upon her mind. A year or two before she

felt interested in religion she had told a lie to her aunt; and she

could not die in peace, till she had seen that aunt, confessed her

sin, and asked forgiveness. Her aunt was sent for, though she was

many miles distant. When her aunt came, the sick little girl, with

sorrow for her fault, made confession, and asked forgiveness, "Aunt,"

said she, "I have prayed to God, and hope that he has forgiven me;

and I cannot die in peace till I have obtained your forgiveness." If

any child who reads this book is tempted to deceive his parents or

his friends, I hope he will remember that he must soon die, and think

how he will feel in that solemn hour.

But perhaps you think that the falsehood of which this girl was guilty

was one of peculiar aggravation. It was simply this: She was one day

playing in the room with several little children, and was making them

laugh very loud. Her aunt said, "My dear, you must not make them

laugh so loud."

And she replied, "It is not I, aunt, who makes them laugh."

This was the falsehood she uttered. And though her aunt did not know

that it was false, the little girl did, and God in heaven did. And

when she came to die, though it was a year or two after, her soul was

troubled, and the consciousness of her sin destroyed her peace. A lie

is, in the sight of God, a dreadful sin, be it ever so trifling in our

estimation. When we are just ready to leave the world, and to appear

before God in judgment, the convictions of a guilty conscience will

press upon the heart like lead.

There are many ways of being guilty of falsehood without uttering

the lie direct in words. Whenever you try to deceive your parents, in

doing that which you know they disapprove, you do, in reality, tell

a lie. Conscience reproves you for falsehood. Once, when I was in

company, as the plate of cake was passed round, a little boy, who sat

by the side of his mother, took a much larger piece than he knew she

would allow him to have. She happened, for the moment, to be looking

away, and he broke a small piece off and covered the rest in his lap

with his handkerchief. When his mother looked, she saw the small

piece, and supposed he had taken no more. He intended to deceive her.

His mother has never found out what he did. But God saw him, and

frowned upon him, as he committed this sin. And do you not think that

the boy has already suffered for it? Must he not feel mean and

contemptible whenever he thinks that, merely to get a little bit of

cake, he would deceive his kind mother? If that little boy had one

particle of honorable or generous feeling remaining in his bosom, he

would feel reproached and unhappy whenever he thought of his

meanness. If he was already dead to shame, it would show that he had

by previous deceit acquired this character. And can any one love or

esteem a child who has become so degraded? And can a child, who is

neither beloved nor respected, be happy? No! You may depend upon it,

that when you see a person guilty of such deceit, he does in some way

or other, even in this world, suffer a severe penalty. A frank and

open-hearted child is the only happy child. Deception, however

skilfully it may be practised, is disgraceful, and ensures sorrow and

contempt. If you would have the approbation of your own conscience,

and the approval of friends, never do that which you shall desire to

have concealed. Always be open as the day. Be above deceit, and then

you will have nothing to fear. There is something delightful in the

magnanimity of a perfectly sincere and honest child. No person can

look upon such a one without affection. You are sure of friends, and

your prospects of earthly usefulness and happiness are bright.

But we must not forget that there is a day of most solemn judgment

near at hand. When you die, your body will be wrapped in the shroud,

and placed in the coffin, and buried in the grave; and there it will

remain and moulder to the dust, while the snows of unnumbered

winters, and the tempests of unnumbered summers, shall rest upon the

cold earth which covers you. But your spirit will not be there. Far

away, beyond the cloudless skies, and blazing suns, and twinkling

stars, it will have gone to judgment. How awful must be the scene

which will open before you, as you enter the eternal world! You will

see the throne of God: how bright, how glorious, will it burst upon

your sight! You will see God the Savior seated upon that majestic

throne. Angels, in numbers more than can be counted, will fill the

universe with their glittering wings, and their rapturous songs. Oh,

what a scene to behold! And then you will stand in the presence of

this countless throng to answer for every thing you have done while

you lived. Every action and every thought of your life will then be

fresh in your mind. You know it is written in the Bible, "God will

bring every work into judgment, with every secret thing, whether it

be good or whether it be evil." How must the child then feel who has

been guilty of falsehood and deception, and has it then all brought

to light! No liar can enter the kingdom of heaven. Oh, how dreadful

must be the confusion and shame with which the deceitful child will

then be overwhelmed! The angels will all see your sin and your

disgrace. And do you think they will wish to have a liar enter

heaven, to be associated with them? No! They must turn from you with

disgust. The Savior will look upon you in his displeasure. Conscience

will rend your soul. And you must hear the awful sentence, "Depart

from me, into everlasting fire, prepared for the devil and his

angels." Oh, it is a dreadful thing to practice deceit. It will shut

you from heaven. It will confine you in eternal wo. Though you should

escape detection as long as you live; though you should die, and your

falsehood not be discovered, the time will soon come when it will

all be brought to light, and when the whole universe of men and of

angels will be witnesses of your shame. If any child who reads this

feels condemned for past deception, oh, beware, and do not postpone

repentance till the day of judgment shall arrive. Go at once to those

whom you have deceived, and make confession, and implore forgiveness.

Then go to your Savior, fall upon your knees before him; pray that he

will pardon you, and promise to sin no more. If your prayer is

offered in sincerity, and your resolution remains unbroken, the

Savior will forgive you; and when the trump of the archangel shall

summon you to judgment, he will give you a home in heaven. The tear

of sincere penitence our kind Saviour is ever ready to accept.

If you are ever tempted to deceive, O, remember, that your deception

must soon be known. It is utterly impossible that it should long

remain undetected. The moment the day of judgment arrives, your heart

will be open to the view of the universe, and every thought will be

publicly known. How much safer then is it to be sincere and honest!

Strive to preserve your heart free from guile. Then you will have

peace of conscience. You will fear no detection. You can lie down at

night in peace. You can awake in the morning with joy. Trusting in

the Saviour for acceptance, you can die happy. And when the morning

of the resurrection dawns upon you, your heart will be filled with a

joy which earth's sunniest mornings and brightest skies never could

afford. The Saviour will smile upon you. Angels will welcome you to

heaven. You will rove, in inexpressible delight, through the green

pastures of that blissful abode. You will lie down by the still

waters where there is sweet repose for ever. Oh, what an hour of

bliss must that be, when the child, saved from sin and sorrow,

"Has reached the shore

Where tempests never beat nor billows roar!"

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