CHAPTER XLV

SUBSCRIPTION DANCES

=Subscription= dances are now an established fact, but whether they will

ever really become a rival to the dance proper remains to be seen; yet

as they supply a want felt, and are recognised by society, the

arrangements necessary for carrying them out should be duly noted.

During the winter months they are a feature in certain sets:

Subscription dances, private Subscription dances and public Subscription

dances, the latter got up for charitable purposes.

The moderate expenses incurred by giving private Subscription dances

commend them to many, and there are other reasons to account for their

popularity. They are without pretension to being considered smart or

exclusive, and are essentially small and early dances. Fashionable

ball-goers are not expected to attend them. They commence at 9 o'clock

and terminate at 12, light refreshments in lieu of supper are provided,

as at an afternoon "at home." (See p. 153.) A piano band is considered

sufficient for the purpose, and floral decorations are scarcely ever

attempted. The invitations are issued on "at home" cards, with the words

"Subscription Dance" printed in one corner.

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=Subscription dances= are sometimes invitation dances and sometimes not.

Tickets for these dances are charged for singly or by the series as the

case may be. A certain number of ladies form a committee and agree to

give a certain number of dances, and the expenses are either borne by

the ladies themselves or covered by the sale of the tickets. If

invitation dances, a certain number of invitations are allotted to each

lady. When otherwise, the ladies dispose of the tickets among their

friends. These dances are usually held in a mansion hired for the

purpose, and there are several available in different parts of the West

End, where spacious rooms can be hired on very moderate terms; in some

instances a piano, seats, and other accessories are also included.

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=Public Subscription= dances are held in public rooms or Town Halls, and

vouchers are given by ladies on the committee previous to tickets being

granted.

The same etiquette holds good at Subscription dances as at other public

dances. The early hour at which these dances take place recommends them

to some and altogether renders them impossible to others, notably to

those who dine late, and who are not inclined to dance at nine o'clock

or even at ten o'clock, and who rather resent the frugal style of

refreshments offered, and consider that a champagne supper is an

indispensable adjunct to a dance.

It should be remembered that Subscription dances were first originated

for the amusement of very young people, and it was never expected that

they would compete with the fashionable small dances of the day; their

popularity was a surprise, and if ball-goers are disposed to hold them

in contempt there are others less fashionable and less wealthy who find

them very much to their taste.

The great difficulty, however, that ladies have to contend with is the

fact that very few men can be induced to attend them, and that those who

do accept invitations or purchase tickets are very young men, who have

their way to make in the world, and are as yet on the lower rungs of

the ladder, and as young ladies are very much in the majority at these

Subscription dances, to dance with partners younger than themselves is

an almost inevitable result for those who are no longer in their teens.

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