GARDEN-PARTIES
Garden-parties are entertainments that are annually given. If the
weather is fine, the more enjoyable it is for the guests; if wet, a
garden-party resolves itself into a large "at home." In almost every
county a series of garden-parties is held by the principal ladies of
their respective neighbourhoods during August and September, nothing but
absence from home, illness, or some equally good reason being considered
sufficient excuse for the non-fulfilment of this social duty.
The county at large expects to be invited at least once a year to roam
about in the beautiful park of the lord of the manor, to row on the
lake, to play lawn-tennis on the lawn, to wander through the winding
paths of the shady, leafy shrubberies, to admire the brilliant hues of
the geraniums bedded out on parterre and terrace, or the variegated
asters, or the late Gloire-de-Dijon roses, which at the end of August
are in their fullest beauty. Then there are the conservatories through
which to saunter, and from which to beat a retreat, if the sun is too
powerful, into the mansion itself, the reception-rooms being generally
thrown open on the occasion of a garden-party.
A garden-party is an occasion for offering hospitality to a wide range
of guests--people whom it would not be convenient to entertain save at
this description of gathering. Invitations are on these occasions freely
accorded to ladies, from the energetic lady of eighty to the little lady
of eight.
One great advantage offered by a garden-party is that it is immaterial
to what extent ladies are in the majority, and it is a reproach to a
county rather than to a hostess if the muster of guests is eighty ladies
against twenty gentlemen.
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=Invitations to a Garden-party= should be issued in the name of the
hostess, and within three weeks to a week of the date fixed. "At home"
cards should be used for this purpose, and the words "and party" should
be invariably added after the names of the invited guests.
"Croquet" or "Tennis" should be printed in one corner of the card, the
hour, 3 to 7 o'clock, above, the day and the date beneath the name of
hostess. "Weather permitting" is seldom written upon the card, and the
guests are expected to arrive even though the afternoon should be
showery and overcast, and only a thoroughly wet afternoon, with no break
between the showers, should prevent their appearing. In the country,
ladies think little of a drive of ten miles to attend a garden-party.
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=Arrangements for Garden-Parties.=--Garden-parties or croquet-parties
are given on different scales of expenditure, and the preparations are
regulated accordingly.
When a garden-party is given on a small scale, and the preparations are
comparatively few, refreshments should be served in the house. (For the
usual refreshments provided, and for the general arrangements, see work
entitled "Waiting at Table," p. 82.)
A good supply of garden-chairs and seats should be placed on the lawn
and about the grounds, rugs spread on the grass for those who sit out,
and several sets of croquet provided for players.
At large garden-parties a band is considered a necessary adjunct, and
the band of the regiment quartered in the vicinity is usually available
for these occasions.
A band gives _eclat_ to an out-door gathering and confers local
importance upon it. Apart from this, the strains of a band enliven an
entertainment of this description in no little degree. The place where
the band is stationed is a rallying-point for the company, and the
expense and trouble consequent upon engaging a band are repaid by the
amusement it affords.
The matter of engaging a military band is generally undertaken by the
master of the house, rather than by the mistress, as, in the first
place, the consent of the colonel of the regiment has to be obtained as
a matter of form and courtesy before the arrangements are completed with
the bandmaster.
Conveyance for the band has also to be provided and discussed with the
bandmaster, and also refreshments for the bandsmen; and these details
are more effectually carried out by a host than by a hostess.
Occasionally a large marquee is erected in which to serve refreshments,
but more frequently the refreshments for the general company are served
in the house, and only cool drinks dispensed in a tent to the cricketers
or lawn-tennis players.
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=Cricket-matches= are often the _raison d'etre_ of a garden-party,
rendering it popular with both ladies and gentlemen. The cricket-match
in this case generally takes place in a field near to the grounds of the
mansion, the match commencing about twelve o'clock, and the general
company arriving about half-past three, or punctually at four, to
witness the finish.
Golf now ranks first amongst fashionable outdoor amusements with both
sexes. Private links are comparatively few, but club links exist in
almost every neighbourhood--ladies' clubs, men's clubs, and clubs for
both ladies and gentlemen.
Croquet or tennis tournaments are frequently the occasion of giving
garden-parties, and some very exciting play takes place.
When a tournament is held it takes the form of a garden-party; it
usually lasts two days. The arrangements made for holding it depend upon
circumstances, and it takes place, as do archery-matches, in either
private or public grounds.
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=Amusements.=--When a number of children are expected at a garden-party,
performances of marionettes, or Punch-and-Judy, or conjuring are given
for their amusement.
In districts remote from town, these shows are difficult to obtain;
therefore amateur showmen come bravely to the rescue, and their kindly
efforts to divert the juveniles meet with due appreciation on all sides.
Not seldom a little amateur music is given at a garden-party--not a
pre-arranged programme of music, but impromptu performances. These
good-natured efforts to enliven the company occupy about an hour, and
such performances take place in either the drawing-room or music-room
of the mansion.
Garden-parties seldom terminate with a dance, though occasionally
dancing closes the afternoon's amusements.
The time occupied by croquet or tennis precludes all desire on the part
of the players for further exertion in the shape of dancing, and young
people apparently prefer playing croquet from 3 to 7 on the lawn to
dancing in a marquee or in the drawing-room at that hour.
A host and hostess receive their guests at a garden-party on the lawn;
strangers should be introduced to the hostess by those who have
undertaken to bring them to her house, and she should shake hands with
all comers. It is also usual for guests to shake hands with the hostess
on departure, if opportunity offers for so doing.
Garden-parties commence from 3.30 to 4 o'clock, and terminate at 7
o'clock.
In making preparations for a garden-party, stabling for the
carriage-horses and motor-cars of the numerous guests should be taken
into consideration, and refreshments provided for the men-servants and
chauffeurs.
Public afternoon concerts, bazaars, and flower-shows are essentially
functions frequented by ladies _en masse_, and it is the exception,
rather than the rule, for gentlemen to accompany them; again, at private
afternoon gatherings, ladies usually appear unaccompanied by gentlemen.
When a garden-party is a very large function, it is not unusual to put
the words "garden-party" on the invitation cards in place of the words
"at home"; thus: "The Countess of A---- requests the pleasure of Mr. and
Mrs. B----'s company at a garden-party on----," etc.