OWATONNA, Minn., August 1, 189-.
Some Don'ts and Do's for Letter-Writers.
Don't write an anonymous letter; it is a cowardly stab in the dark.
Don't pay any attention to an anonymous letter; it is not worth your
regard.
Don't conduct private correspondence on a postal card. Many persons
consider this an insult. A purely business message may be thus sent,
but even then the slight saving in postage is small recompense for the
delay so often attending the delivery of postal cards.
Don't use a postscript; it is unnecessary, old-fashioned,
school-girlish, and in a particular, punctilious letter the omission
of any important matter necessitates the rewriting of the entire
letter rather than the use of a postscript. In very friendly letters
one may be permitted to add the forgotten paragraph in the form of a
postscript, omitting, however, the obsolete abbreviation, "P.S."
Don't write on a half-sheet of paper unless the nature of the
correspondence permits the use of the ordinary business letter-head.
If the note is short, write only on one side of the paper, but don't
tear a sheet in half for economy's sake. The rough, torn edges, denote
haste, ill-breeding, or carelessness on the part of the writer.
Don't use tablet paper for ceremonious letters.
Don't write on both sides of the paper to any but very intimate
friends or relatives, they being disposed to tolerate slight
departures from formality on our part.
Don't meddle with foreign nouns or verbs unless conversant with the
language itself; incorrect and ungrammatical usage is too apt to be
the unhappy result. Even foreign names and titles should not be used
without the exactest care as to their orthography and application.
This rule should be especially remembered with reference to all
matters destined to pass through hands editorial.
Don't erase misspelled words in letters of any moment. Recopy the
entire missive.
Don't quote too constantly.
Don't underscore your words, unless they express something very
important.
Don't send enclosures in a letter written by some one else; only the
greatest intimacy can excuse this practice. Write your own letters and
send in a separate envelope.
Don't write a letter in a towering passion; you would not care to have
it confront you in some cooler moment.
Don't cross the writing in your letters. Life is too short and the
time and eyesight of your correspondent too precious for this.
Don't fill up every available blank space and margin of your letter
with forgotten messages. If these are very valuable, add an extra
sheet to your letter, thus saving its appearance and the patience of
its recipient.
Don't divide a syllable at the end of a line. The printer may do this,
not the letter-writer.
Don't fall into the habit of using long words in a letter, they show a
straining after effect. One should "say," rather than "observe,"
"talk," rather than "converse," if one's missives are to be easy,
well-bred and readable.
Don't refold a letter, the marks always remain to show your
carelessness. Fold it correctly the first time.
Do remember to answer all important questions in a letter clearly and
decisively.
Do burn the great majority of your letters after answering. Those that
are to be kept should be filed away in packages adding date and
writer's name on corner of envelope and by a word or two suggesting
the topics with which they deal. This will save time in referring to
them.
Do answer your friendly letters with reasonable promptness. To do
otherwise is a breach of etiquette. An unanswered letter is an insult,
a cut direct. Business letters, of course, must be replied to at once.
Do send a postage stamp when you write a letter of inquiry, the answer
to which is of interest only to yourself. A stamped and addressed
envelope would be a still better enclosure.
Do, if you are an absent son or daughter, write home promptly and
regularly; the comfort this will be to the parents at home, and the
pain they suffer at any negligence on your part, cannot be
overestimated. Husbands and wives, when separated for a time, would do
well to follow this same advice.
Do date your letters carefully. Events and proofs of the greatest
importance have hung upon the date of a single letter.
Do put sufficient stamps upon a letter to make sure of no extra
postage falling to the lot of your correspondent.
Do put your address plainly in all letters. This ensures a prompt
answer and, in case of miscarriage, a speedy return from the
Dead-Letter Office.
Do, if a business man or woman, have your address on the outside of
your envelope. This will make sure of your uncalled-for letters
returning to you immediately. It is well to do this in any case where
a little uncertain as to the exact address of your correspondent.
Do read your letters over carefully before sending, that no errors may
be overlooked.
Do give every subject a separate paragraph instead of running the
whole letter, social items and sentiment, all into one indistinguishable
whole.
Do begin the first line of each paragraph, at least, one inch from the
margin, of the page.
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Artistic Home Decorations.
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The greatest art work the individual has to do is the building of a
home. "A small and inexpensive house may be the House Beautiful," says
Edmund Russell. A famous architect once wrote that he could furnish a
plan for a house of a given size and cost without knowing whether the
owner was a millionaire or a day laborer. But if he wanted a _home_
the case was different. "I desire then to know his antecedents, how he
made his money, the size of his family, the number of his servants,
and how his daughters spend their time: whether they are domestic,
musical, literary or stylish. I want to know the number and quality of
his guests, whether he drinks wine with his dinner, and his views on
sanitary questions; for this home-building is not mere spending, it is
the shaping of human destiny."
In a home things must be beautiful and true and good, and as a
celebrated art critic says, "related to us, belonging to us,
expressing us at our best; our taste and culture, our personal
likings, our comforts and needs, and not merely the high-tide mark of
our purses."
Fireplaces and Windows.
We are all of us by nature fire worshipers and the altar of every home
is, or should be, the glowing, open fire. Next to this are the great,
clear windows meant to admit the glorious glances of the fire
worshiper's sun.
As to the first, "if you can have but one, the house or the fireplace,
give up the house and keep the fire. If you wish to test the soundness
of this advice, build a house, furnish it extravagantly and supply
furnace heat to all but one room, and in that room build upon an ample
hearth a glowing fire of hickory logs, and in the presence of that
genial blaze, upon the bare floor of that unfurnished room, will
gather the united household." The broader this family hearth the
better. The old English baronial halls with their mighty fireplaces
and their great stone hearths had more of light and beauty than all
our modern improvements.
[Illustration: ARTISTIC FIREPLACE.]
Next come the broad, open windows. Better one window five feet wide
than two of two and a half feet. Better for light, warmth or interior
furnishing, and better for the illuminating effect, upon the whole
apartment.
Stairways.
Stairs are a necessity, and their comfort and sightliness depend on
several features. Steps must be broad and deep, landings wide and
windowed, if may be. If they must be crowded into a narrow hallway it
is better that they be made deep and sloping as space permits, and
then inclosed with an archway and curtain at foot instead of a door.
This also saves heat. But where the great square reception hall can be
devoted to them they may be made a thing of beauty.
[Illustration: THE LOVER'S TALE.]
Woodwork.
Says one writer, "There is a widespread illusion gone out through the
world that to have everything in a dwelling 'finished in hard wood
throughout,' as the advertisements say, is the only orthodox thing.
Paint smells of turpentine and heresy." In this respect it is useless
to deny that there is solid comfort in the permanency and genuineness
of oak, walnut, or ash, that paint is powerless to give.
But the natural color of woods in many cases may fail to harmonize
with the scheme of color to be carried out in the furnishings of the
apartment.
In such case, the woodwork should be subjected to delicate,
harmonious, painted tints, or polish or gilding, as the case may be.
[Illustration: WINDOW DECORATION.]
There is a great variety of woods from which we may choose, but to
obtain from them the finer shadings and combinations of color is
difficult, not to say impossible.
There is no necessity for making the woodwork that is to be painted
unnecessarily substantial or elaborate. Woods such as white maple,
holly, poplar, for the light effects; black birch, cherry, mahogany,
for darker.
"One fallacy among people," says an architect, "is an immovable faith
that the first duty of a human apartment is to look as high as
possible. A cathedral, or the rotunda of the Capitol, must have height
to produce an overpowering effect. But in an ordinary room of ordinary
size, comfort, convenience and prettiness are more to be sought after
than height."
[Illustration]
Ordinary woodwork must be painted in such shades as will debar it from
occupying the prominent position to which positive beauty is alone
entitled. Give it a similarity to the ground of the paper, but a
little darker, and the rounded surface of any fancy moldings, a shade
or two darker. Paint the doors the same, except the panels, which may
be decorated, in which case they must be painted the tint of the
furniture as a background for the design. This may be very simple, a
band of color, a vine in outline or flat color. Trace the outline of
wild vines, or ferns, anything graceful. Originality is not demanded.
There are good reasons why window casings should start from floor or
base, since in this way a visible means of support is given to the
entire window, which otherwise has a suspended, insecure look. The
panel underneath may be of wood or plaster.
Doors.
Doors are the greatest problem in a room. They monopolize the space on
the floor and wall that should be free for pictures and large articles
of furniture, and otherwise completely demoralize the apartment. To do
away with this inconvenience substitute heavy curtains whenever an
impassable barrier is unnecessary; closet doors, for instance, and
those between parlors. Again, doors that are much open may be made to
slide into the walls. Then, for ornament and as a screen, the doorway
may be furnished with hangings, costly or not, as the purse may
dictate.
The outer doors are intended as a defense from intrusion from without.
It is not really good taste to have these doors of plate glass as that
militates against the primal idea of strength and protection.
A Door Divan.
Chairs and sofas we have without end in variety and beauty. Every
alcove and nook in every possible sort of room has been thought of and
provided for except the one place that exists in almost every house
and is the one place where people are always wanting to sit--that is
the doorway itself. Folding doors between communicating rooms are
seldom closed. An ordinary chair within a few feet of the space never
looks well. It shows its back to one room or the other and is in the
way.
A divan is an addition to any decorative arrangement of either room.
It does not interfere with any graceful drapery that may be arranged
at the door. It is decidedly useful, convenient and gives a certain
touch of the unusual to the room.
An Improvised Bookcase.
A superfluous doorway or window too often mars the effect of a room,
and the present day architecture, as found in cheap apartments and
houses, frequently abounds in this sort of generosity.
To surmount the difficulty a very useful inclosure can be constructed
by placing two uprights and a few shelves within the door jamb, or
against it, as the case may be. Staining or painting them to match the
rest of the woodwork is a small matter, while arranging brass rods and
pretty curtains is not much more.
Screens.
Screens are a necessary object of household adornment. It is not
requisite that they should be expensive, but the uses to which they
can be put are legion. A plain frame of hard wood, or pine stained,
rectangular, three or four inches wide and one inch thick, furnished
with feet, and with or without castors, is all that is necessary.
Covering may be done with a great variety of materials, cheap or dear.
Ornamentation may be applied, embroidered, sketched, outlined, or
painted. If the screen is made in two or three parts to fold like
clothes bars, feet will not be necessary.
A rustic fire-screen is a unique affair, handsome and useful where
there are open fires, as a shield from heat in cold weather, and as a
screen for the emptiness of grate or fireplace during the summer. It
is formed from natural branches, two straight and two crotched ones,
from which all the smaller branches and twigs have been cut away so as
to have but little more than protruding knots. When these are well
seasoned, rub, brush and rebrush, both with a soft brush and a stiff
one, to remove from every crevice in the bark every loose particle of
moss and dust. Then, with liquid gold, gild the bark all over, or, if
preferred, gild only the bare wood where it is exposed at the ends and
where the limbs are cut off, and give a touch of gold to every crack
or protuberance, or, if a smoother finish is desired, remove all of
the bark and smoothly gild or enamel the whole surface.
The screen, suspended from the upper crosspiece, is a fringed silk rug
woven on a hand loom, as old-fashioned carpets were woven. It falls
freely from the top, its own weight keeping it in place, but it might
be tied to the standards--half way down and at the upper corners--with
bows of braid, soft ribbon or with heavy tassel-tipped cords, or a
smaller rug without fringe might be suspended by gilt rings and
finished at the bottom with a row of tassels in mingled shades.
In a small apartment, where the radiator is an objection, hang on the
wall over it a large picture, placing before the unsightly heater a
screen of not too high dimensions. If a space is too large for your
picture, hang on either side a bracket, on which place a quaint jug or
jar.
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For a sewing-room, or, in fact, any apartment where the weekly mending
is done, a darning screen is wonderfully commodious. Its conveniences
consist of two capacious pockets, to hold stockings or any garment
fresh from the laundry and needing attention; a handy shelf whereon to
place one's sewing, a tidy little cushion with scissors and loosely
swung by ribbons to one side.
[Illustration: ORNAMENTAL SCREEN.]
It is a delightful bit of property to serve one, while seated at an
open window in summer time or upon an upper veranda with one's work,
looking out over the sea with the perfume of flowers in the air.
Trim the skeleton screen to harmonize with the fittings of the room.
A carpenter constructed the framework for the two panels, with the bar
across the top, and the little shelf for twenty-five cents. The pine
used was an old packing box. The panels must be three and one-half
feet high and eighteen inches wide, made of strips three inches broad.
The shelf should be eight inches wide and twelve inches long.
Four yards and one-half of chintz in cream-tinted ground, sprinkled
with Dresden nosegays gaily dashed with pink and delicate green color,
eight cents a yard. Four grades of delicate pink silesia and two and
one-half yards of unbleached muslin for interlining, made an item of
fifty cents. Hinges and corners and nail-heads of brass, satin ribbon
and tacks, by considerable calculation, can be pressed into the amount
of seventy-five cents.
A Saturday morning industriously spent in the upholstery of the little
screen presented it in completeness.
Screens can be used to protect from drafts of air, by day or night, to
keep the sun from an exposed spot on the carpet, to shade the light
from weary eyes, to temporarily close archways that have no doors, and
to conceal a door that is not often used. They will divide a large
room into two small ones when a sudden influx of company arrives, or
even close in a corner for the same hospitable emergency. They make
delightful nooks in sitting-rooms for the little folks' playhouse, or
they may screen off, from the morning caller, a temporary sewing-room
in the back parlor, and in sleeping-rooms, occupied by more than one
person, a cosy dressing-room may be made by their use.
Draperies.
The new swinging portieres that have appeared have a handsome swinging
crane fastened to the wall near the ceiling, upon which a portiere or
curtain is suspended. This can then be swung back against the wall or
swung out to make a cozy corner or to shut off one portion of a room
from another. These swinging portieres can in many cases be made to
take the place of screens and often fit with great advantage where a
fixed portiere of the old sort could not be used.
The handsome cranes are of course more or less expensive, but a
home-made substitute will answer the purpose very well. It is not
exactly home-made, however, for the services of a blacksmith may have
to be called in to bend the three-eighths inch iron rod into shape for
use. The ends are bent to fit into screw eyes or other sockets
fastened to the wall, upon which this improvised crane can be swung.
The portiere is suspended from the iron rod by rings.
Denim is one of the best of all fabrics for a portiere in rooms
constantly used. It may be washed out and will look quite as well as
new. If you want a variety put one entire width in right side out, and
split another and join to the first section, putting the side pieces
wrong side out. Sew the seams, then fell them and featherstitch the
outside of the seams in colored linen. Then with a teacup or saucer
draw some circles, intersecting or lapping at one edge. Work these
with linen in short stitches and make eccentric lines or spider-web
lines from the central design. The edges may be hemmed or
featherstitched or done in buttonhole and cut out in scallops. It is
better to have the edge of the facing instead of making a turned-in
hem.
Then denim, as a floor covering, wears far better than low-cost
matting and never becomes disagreeably faded; for, being made for hard
usage, it but takes a quieter tone when other blues would surely fade
into unpleasant, soiled-looking hues.
Some Useful Bits of Furniture.
A settee table of oak has an adjustable top, which can be turned over
by the removal of two pegs, making a high back to the bench, whose
deep seat is utilized as a household linen closet. These tables are in
great demand where the saving of space is an object and come in
various sizes. They can be purchased without the top and used as a
window seat. One in a pretty studio of a woman artist in New York was
most artistically treated. It was painted a dull green. The back and
the lid of the seat were upholstered in an effective gold colored
tapestry drawn over a padding of hair and held down by gimp and gilt
nails, making a most artistic seat or table, as its use for either
was required. Another one was stained green, and on the back and lid
of the seat was used natural toned burlap, with stenciled griffins in
dark brown as a decoration.
[Illustration: A PAINTING FOR HOME DECORATION.]
These tables may be treated in various ways to suit their
surroundings. It is suggested in _The Decorator and Furnisher_ that
one stained the natural oak and upholstered in green rep, turcoman,
corduroy, burlap or denim would be most attractive, or for green,
substitute brown in the same materials and put on with dull brass
nails, making an effective seat for a hall.
Another, painted white and enameled, would be charming in a blue and
white dining-room. Upholster in dark blue denim with white nails, and
fill with a number of pretty pillows in various designs of blue and
white, and one of vivid scarlet to give a warm touch, which is needed
in these coldly decorated rooms.
The lovely liberty chintzes in dark blue and white, and sometimes
yellow, red and white on blue, are good to use on these settees, which
are first painted black.
A Hanging Desk.
The economy of space necessary in apartment living has brought about
the evolution of some remarkable pieces of furniture that may be
useful in small houses anywhere.
The writing desk may be included in the list of household wonders
directly attributable to the necessity of fitting that most useful
household article in a six by ten apartment. When closed, it really
occupies the very smallest amount of room imaginable, and for the
young students' use, or in flat bedrooms, where space is at a premium,
it is unique and valuable.
The material may be oak or such wood as one fancies. Pine enameled in
white or black is as good, so long as it matches the woodwork or
furniture of the room. Two strips of the wood, each two inches by
three feet, are attached to the wall by long screws. Across the top of
these are placed three shelves about five inches wide, supported by
brackets of brass. Between the two upper ones partitions are glued in
to form pigeonholes.
From four to six inches from the lower end of each of the strips of
wood is firmly placed a strip about two inches wide, to which is
hinged the shelf that forms the desk. This is upheld when open by
brass chains, and is thus made firm. When it is desired to close it,
it is merely shut to the wall, the chains falling into place. The
ledge upon which the lid is hinged forms a firm place for the inkstand
and other necessary fitments of a desk.
Against the wall, between the supporting strips, may be fixed a
Japanese panel or some tapestry or silk, as taste may dictate. A
picture can be so fastened to the panel as to form a good letter or
cardholder.
The whole affair is simple and easily managed. Any good carpenter will
make the necessary woodwork for a very small sum.
A Window Desk.
One of the most convenient and altogether satisfactory contrivances
quite in the power of a woman to manipulate is a window desk.
Take a board about fifteen inches wide and saw it the length of the
window sill. Put small iron hinges on it and screw it to the sill, so
that it can hang down against the under wall when desirable.
Tack a narrow strip of wood under the board, near the front edge.
Resting on the floor and wedged under this cleat there is a prop of
planed wood, slender and neat looking. You can put a beading around
the board, with small brads and stain it cherry or some other color.
The sill holds pens, pencils and inkstands, and a large blotter laid
on the board, is a most desirable writing pad. This idea comes from an
art student in Paris, who dotes on her window desk.
It will be found useful in the nursery as a place for pasting
pictures, drawings, etc., and when done can be swung down and out of
the way.
A Hall Chest.
A pretty hall chest is one of the things that may be successfully
produced at home. In a seaport town, the chest of some ancient
mariner is easily procured; otherwise, one of similar style and make
must be fashioned for you by a carpenter. As it need only be made of
soft wood the cost is not great. After it has left the carpenter's
hands it may be decorated with the applied ornamentation in scroll
design, which is now obtainable ready to put on, and afterward treated
to a coat of stain.
Old oak is the most satisfactory, or it may be ebonized, if preferred.
Polished brass corners and hinges may be added, and a row of brass
nails set around the edge with good effect. The convenience of these
chests for hall use has been accepted. They beautifully conceal
rubbers, mackintoshes, a storm shawl and various unsightly but useful
impedimenta of the hall rack, and if, in addition, a seat is desired,
a strip of dark leather with a light pad beneath it may be set on with
brass nails across the middle of the lid.
Cozy Corners.
They are so easy to arrange. Have your carpenter make a double
right-angle bench, with a high, straight back. The seat must be two
and a half feet wide, and the top of the back five feet from the
floor. This now looks like an ungainly three-sided square, or rather
oblong, for it is better to have one side somewhat longer than the
others. The wood should be stained cherry or oak, to match the other
furniture in the room, and oiled and polished so as to be smooth and
of rich appearance; or, use hard wood, black walnut, ebony, mahogany.
The seat and inside back may be thickly and prettily upholstered, and
then piled high with pillows, or, the wood having been nicely
finished, the upholstery may cover the seat only. Be sure and have the
seat made low, otherwise the Cozy Corner will be uncomfortable, its
name will be belied, and no one will hie to what might have been the
favorite seat in the room.
Now, where shall we place the corner? Put it in the space next to the
grate fire, and since you have had this place in view, the side to fit
in there should be made the requisite number of feet and inches so as
to actually fit.
Placed in this part of the room, two sides of the corner are against
the wall, but the third side presents a bare and uninviting
appearance. This may be avoided by suspending a silk or gauze hanging
close to its side, in the same way that the back of an upright piano
is often screened. The seats should be piled with sofa pillows, and in
the inclosure a few hassocks would not be found amiss.
The word cozy suggests warmth and pleasantry, as well as comfort.
Therefore, this corner is always by the fire, and those occupying it
are presumably cheery and happy.
It is just the place to rest in, just the place to read in, just the
place for you and your dearest friend to chat in, just the place to
play a game in, as bags, balls, etc., could easily be tossed from one
seat to the other; just the place to lay plans in, for you are in no
hurry to move, and so your plans, not being hurriedly completed, would
be more apt to prove satisfactory; just the place to nap in, just the
place to frolic in. Indeed, just the place to add to our already
comfortable homes if we would have them one remove nearer the ideal
home than they now are.
Plenty of Pillows.
All cosy corners and all couches are incomplete without numberless
pillows of all sorts, shapes and sizes.
A serviceable pillow, and one that can be laundered, is of blue denim,
with a band of Irish point embroidery running around the four sides of
the square with the edge toward the center. A ruffle of denim with a
narrow embroidered insertion to match the edge, completes this
sensible head-rest.
An Indian silk pillow is always pretty, and is pleasant next to the
face when one is lying down.
An open-work scrim with rows of ribbon placed upon the plain stripes,
made over a contrasting color of silk, with ruffle of sheer lace over
the color of the pillow, is effective and bright looking.
Any one who is fond of an Oriental effect can have it in the pillow by
sewing silks and satins hit and miss, as in making an old-time rag
carpet, then having it woven with black linen chain.
One who is expert with crochet needle can have a creation worthy of
handing down for ages to come. Crochet a number of artistic wheels or
medalions of knitting silk in a golden yellow shade; join together,
making a square the size of the pillow desired. Place this lace cover
over a contrasting shade of yellow, finishing the edges with yellow
silk pompons placed close together.
Yellow cheese cloth perfectly plain on both sides, with two ruffles of
the same and a fullness of lace between, makes a dainty and
inexpensive pillow; the under ruffle being six inches, lace ruffle
five inches, and the top ruffle of cheese cloth three inches in width.
For the woman whose tastes run to the elegant, a pillow of silk-faced
velvet and satin ribbon is grateful. A novel pillow is the clover
pillow, but to carry out the idea as originally designed one must
await the coming of the season when clover is at its fullest and
sweetest blossom. Then gather the large red clover heads. Take as many
as would fill a large washtub, sprinkle a pound of fine salt over
them, and stir them well, about once a day, until they are thoroughly
dried, without falling to pieces. This is the filling for a pillow
made of white linen duck, embroidered with a straggling design of
clover.
The convenient and ornamental floor pillow is especially adapted for
the summer home, the piazza, the lawn or the lounging-room. The frame,
which is made of good springs enclosed in a strong linen covering, is
on casters, and can be readily moved from place to place. Covered with
Bagdad stripes, tapestry, or any artistic material, it makes a
Christmas present that would please the most fastidious taste.
A Corner Closet.
Lack of closet room in a house is a fruitful theme for complaint in
these days of contracted space. Architects there are who are willing
to sacrifice every consideration, not excepting internal utility, for
picturesque outside effects.
In such cases recourse must be had to wardrobes, but as these are
expensive, the busy fingers of the housewife must be depended upon to
improvise substitutes. If there is a corner in the room with
sufficient space (sometimes the architect denies us this small boon)
it may be utilized in the manner herewith described.
Two strips of wood as long as you desire and four inches wide by one
inch thick are screwed in the angle of the wall about six feet from
the floor; boards are cut off to fit in the corner and resting on
these strips; this will form the roof. A brass or wooden rod is then
run across the front of this board from wall to wall and from which
the curtain is suspended by rings. Cretonne, chintz or printed cotton,
will make a good list to choose from, and are inexpensive. One may
screw upon the underside of the roof and on the cleats as many hooks
as are required, and, if desired, a shelf may be introduced about
fifteen inches below the roof, and on that attach the hooks. Such an
emergency closet will often be found a great convenience, and the cost
will be trifling. It will be well to stretch a piece of muslin or
paper across the upper side of the roof to keep out the dust.
[Illustration: REPLICA OF A GRECIAN VASE.]
A home-made Japanese cabinet may be readily made of the common
materials found about the house, such as boxes of hard or soft wood.
The smoother the boxes, the better; but they can be planed, if they
are not.
The shelves are so arranged as to accommodate the different sizes of
Japanese bric-a-brac. The small cabinet in the upper left-hand corner
is simply a smooth bit of the board, finished with two ornamental
hinges, either brass or bronze. The escutcheon is of the same. The
circular panel can be either of Lincrusta, bronzed, or to make it a
little more unique, a circular hole can be cut in the door, and a
pretty blue Japanese plate inserted, held in place at the back, and
the door lined. The supports are easily obtained by a visit to a
factory where they have a turning lathe. The ornamental finish at the
bottom is of lightly carved wood, if one can do these things, or a
strip can be purchased at a carpenter shop or wall paper store. Still
another way out of the difficulty is to get just the length of
Lincrusta and tack it on neatly.
Before the hinges and escutcheon are put on, the staining should be
done, and the simplest way out of the difficulty is to purchase
Pik-Ron, stain whatever color or wood you require, then afterward give
it a coat of varnish, coach varnish giving a durable finish that is
heavy and beautiful, or the whole cabinet may be covered with the
stamped Japanese cotton goods in gilt and colors, each shelf being
covered before being put in place, and the uprights gilded or stained.
Still again, if the work is of pine, it may be stained a rich bronze,
and left with dead finish, which is a very fair imitation of Japanese
woodwork.
Piano Decoration.
An upright piano should be placed with its back to the room. This
position is not only good from a decorative standpoint, but a
performer likes to be shielded by the instrument. Here are enumerated
various graceful ways to cover the polished bareness of this musical
instrument.
To hang a square of tapestry over the back from a brass rod is
exceedingly striking. If possible, let the painted subject relate to
music or sentiment, and have it sufficiently large to cover the
surface of the piano.
If the tapestry is very fine work its surface should be unspoiled by
additions. Across the top of the piano lay a scarf of Liberty silk, or
another painted panel. The only bric-a-brac that combines with this
drapery is a pair of candelabra, the quainter in style the better.
Algerian stripes, Bagdad tapestry or Persian prints make good
backgrounds. Their cost is $1.25 a yard, and width fifty inches. With
this as a foundation many schemes may be carried out. Bas-relief heads
in plaster can be swung on it without injuring the wood of the piano.
Medallions of Beethoven, Mozart or Wagner can be purchased for $1
each. A long panel of cherubs goes well, or a line of Delft or
Japanese plates.
A low settle has a comfortable resting place underneath this. Either a
box seat upholstered in dark, contrasting stuff, or one of the $4.50
green wooden settles, sold to artists, would serve. A number of
cushions placed on the seat against the piano add to the coziness and
grace of the decoration.
Lighting.
Rooms should be lighted from the sides, if possible. The great central
chandeliers, casting their downward shadows, age every face in the
room by emphasizing every line, and bringing out every defect sharply.
Decorating.
In decorating a room a harmony of the shades of one color should be
used. Beware of spotty effects. It should really, according to Edmond
Russell, "be conceived, as a piece of music is, in a certain key.
There should be sympathy and harmony. Even the pictures should be
chosen with as much regard to their surroundings as to their
individual merits."
Another important item in the decoration of the home is considering
the choice of ground tones with reference to the complexion of its
hostess. Guests appear there but casually. She is always there, and no
one should elect to occupy a room, whose color tones either totally
efface what little color one may possess, or else, by an exaggeration
of natural ruddiness, be made a rival of the setting sun.
The effect of color upon the appearance is so important that every
change of color, changes not only the color of the skin, but that of
the hair and eyes as well.
Edmond Russell once studied a room with reference to complexions,
mixing his paints to a relative hue with the general tone of
complexions, making it duller and grayer, so that standing near it the
skin looked clear and fresh beside it.
"I made the tone," he said, "a little greener and colder than flesh,
so that one looked lighter and warmer and was enriched by the
contrast. Any who stood in front of that wall looked five or ten years
younger than they were."
In using a flower, or other design, for a frieze or dado, they should
be conventionalized. This term is used to signify the modification of
a real object with its surroundings. The more formal they are the
better; no attempt at shading or perspective is necessary, and the
square and compass should be used as much as possible in their
designing.
In decorating a room, a dark floor is the beginning, and the walls
grow lighter as the ceiling is approached. The richest effects should
be congregated at the mantel, with the fire as its central object.
"The ability to combine is a rare one." Ruskin writes truly that, "one
rarely meets even an educated person who can select a good carpet, a
wall paper, and a ceiling, and have them in harmony." There is too
much of a temptation to adopt beautiful things simply because they are
beautiful, without pausing to consider the weightier matter of their
eternal fitness, or remembering that a thing intrinsically beautiful
in itself may become hideous by inharmonious proximity or combination
with another beautiful object.
Home of the Soul.
A mystic German writer calls a house, properly ordered, the "home of
the soul," carrying out the idea that the house in which an orderly
soul lives, is only an expansion of the body built and adorned out of
her passing experiences. "All sorts of delicate affinities establish
themselves between her and the lights and shadows of her abode; the
particular picture on the wall; the scent of flowers at a particular
window until she seems incorporated into it."
In other words, one's environments, as one's dress, must be in
harmony with their individual type, or a permanent discord will
result; for instance, Emma Moffett Tyng speaks of a "pond-lily type of
woman, soft color, gray blue eyes, pale brown eyes," appealing to her
as to the "effect" of the gorgeous, redecorated interior of her home,
with flames of color in hangings and rugs, and "her Egyptian gown with
its glow and glint of purple and gold. All these things were artistic
and beautiful, and perfect in their relations to each other," but in
their relation to her nothing could have been worse. The woman,
herself, was eclipsed, obliterated. "A Cleopatra, dark and flashing,
would make the picture complete. But such a colorless woman needs
repose in her surroundings; the low tones of blue and gray, the palest
flush of the sunset heavens."
Some Lovely Rooms.
Edmond Russell has treated two rooms exquisitely. A gold and ivory
parlor, tinted, walls and ceiling in a grayish white with a greenish
tinge, and this is mottled with gold flecked lightly over the surface.
The broad frieze is adorned in free, simple style with leaves and
blossoms of magnolia. Everything in this room should be light and
delicate in color. The soft gold and ivory would be nullified by heavy
walnut window casings; red and green carpet, red or blue plush
furnishings, or vivid hangings would ruin the effect. Pictures in such
a room should be preferably water-colors with pale gray mats, and gold
or white frames. Oil paintings are only permissible when dreamy and
vaporous in tint. Light, delicate colors in upholstery, creamy madras
for curtains. The carpet may be a little darker, verging on some of
the delicate, woody browns. Any bric-a-brac should be in pale shades
of yellow or rose.
The tender lights of this room seem to clear and soften the complexion
of the occupants.
Another is a dining-room of copper, bronze and terra cotta shades. A
pale tint of copper to the background overlaid with dashes of bronze
and strong copper color. The frieze is a succession of pine boughs,
lightly fringed with their needles. Above the sideboard is a panel
representing magnolia blossoms, and their heavy polished leaves, with
brown in stem and shadows. The effect of this color scheme is to give
a suggestion of warmth and cheer. The gold and copper used in flecking
the wall are merely the two shades of the common bronze powder.
[Illustration: RICH PIECES OF FURNITURE.]
Still another nest of a sleeping-room comes to mind, a creation of
Moscheles. Floor covered with white bearskin rugs, furnished with a
delicate tint of robin's-egg blue. Toilet table strewn with every
imaginable luxury in old ivory and silver. Panels in the wardrobe and
doors filled with paintings by Burne-Jones, classic figures given the
preference.
These rooms are given as examples of harmony of coloring. Great
expense is not always necessary to secure this artistic harmony. Money
goes a long way, but good taste and ingenuity will go just as far,
with a minimum of expenditure.
There is a little room, a symphony in green and gold, created by one
girl's taste, a pale seafoam green that is delightful to the eye. The
woodwork, banded with a narrow strip of gilt, is of this color, and
the enterprising young woman painted it all with her own hands. The
curtains at the three windows are of the freshest and purest white
muslin, prettily ruffled. They are the kind that always look as if
they had just been laundered and they are tied back with pale green
ribbons that make them look the more exquisitely neat. The floor is
covered with plain matting, which particularly recommended itself, by
the way, because it was inexpensive.
As to Furniture.
Every article of furniture in the room is of the prevailing green and
there are no off shades, for they were all painted from the same can
of paint. The bedstead was nothing but common pine, made to order at
the factory, and it is of a quaint design that originated in the same
fertile brain that is responsible for all the rest of the perfect
appointments. The headboard is in the shape of a shield and there is
painted thereon a spray of wild roses to bring to the sleeper over
whom they bend sweet dreams of perpetual summer time. And the white
counterpane and snowy pillows in the setting of green and gold make it
a most inviting place of repose.
The chairs were resurrected from the debris in the family attic. There
are two heavy old-fashioned ones of curly maple, and they are
cushioned with a brocaded green and gold material that exactly match
the green of the furniture. Then there is a comfortable little rocking
chair cushioned with the same material and painted in green with many
stripes of gold.
But it is the dressing table that is the most charming of all the
unique devices that make the room attractive. It was a battered old
washstand at first, but now it is a work of art. It is painted, of
course, in green and gilt, and there is a spray of wild roses on the
front. Above it is a green and gilt framed mirror with a spray of the
favorite wild roses again overhanging the top part. Over mirror and
washstand and all is draped a canopy of white muslin. Among the other
articles that find place on the table is a little fairy lamp with a
shade of green tissue paper that gives the softest light imaginable.
A comfortable green window seat in the corner is well supplied with
pillows covered in green and gold brocade, and up and around the
window there clambers an old English ivy.
There is an oddly fashioned bookcase in another corner. You would
never guess it, of course, but it was constructed out of two dry goods
boxes. It is painted green inside and out and fitted up with four
shelves. A green silk curtain hangs from a brass rod, and about the
edge of the bookcase is a gilt cornice. The top is covered with
bric-a-brac.
For pictures there is an etching or two on the wall in green and gold
frames, and you have a room the very sight of which is cool and
refreshing, and which cost its owner some time and some planning, but
very little money.
Pictures.
Be careful of the pictures and their relations to the walls. Rooms
should rather be a setting for a beautiful moving picture of the
shifting groups of people in it.
Too much gilding, too many gaudy oil paintings attract the eye and
distract the mind.
There is a simple picture in my room, red curtains, a white-robed
child kneeling, that is all, but everything in it harmonizes, and it
harmonizes with the furnishings of the room, and my eye is often drawn
toward it.
One authority objects to portraits as a decoration. "Their presence,
if at all impressive, is too stimulating."
Picture frames should never be so gorgeous as to distract the mind
from the picture. "Frames are to protect the picture and relate it to
the walls."
Group etchings together and put engravings in the portfolio. Over low
bookcases pictures should be large, and in this form they give a style
to the room. Water colors look admirable if treated in this manner,
and if two bookcases are put together so as to form one, divide the
pictures by a bracket, on which place a jar of some unique pattern.
[Illustration: SELECTING PAINTINGS FOR HOME DECORATION.]
Small rooms require medium-size pictures, which can be hung one above
the other, and three may even be placed on line with good effect. For
an ideal head in oil the frame should be of broad gilt. Hang it in a
good light, and on one side group two small water-color pieces in the
fashionable white band frame. For an oblong picture a small sketch
under it looks well equipped.
A very large and beautiful picture sometimes sets the keynote of color
for the apartment. Otherwise, subordinate them as decorations to the
colorings of the room, as in the ivory and gold room.
In a room where there are to be many pictures, give rather a neutral
color to the walls, merely as a picture background. Where there are
finely decorated walls pictures are rather out of place, since one
decoration spoils the effect of the other.
Mottoes.
The motto, whose revival is noted in the above title, is the
expression in architecture of some sentiment suitable to the place to
which it is applied. It is more frequently and more noticeably in
domestic architecture than elsewhere that the motto is found. Scarcely
a country house of sufficient size to boast a hall and fireplace but
announces in script or text a welcome to all guests or some
appreciation of the comforts of its four walls. The favorite place for
this motto is over the fireplace, either above or below the mantel
shelf, and of all the old ones, "East or west, home is best," with its
variety of expressions, is the favorite. "A man's house is his
castle."
"Home is the resort
Of love, of joy, of peace."
"A man's best things are nearest him;" "Our house is ever at your
service;" "You are very welcome;" "Take the goods the gods provide
thee"--any one of these will as appropriately welcome the stranger as
the friend.
Over the mantel of one's private room the restful motto, "Duty done is
the soul's fireside," may find appropriate place.
How to be Beautiful.
[Illustration]
To begin at the beginning: to insure a good complexion strict
attention must be paid to the diet. Wholesome, well-cooked food must
be eaten; regular exercise in the open air is another point, and the
body must be bathed three hundred and sixty-five times a year. It may
be considered almost supererogatory to remark that not any amount of
cerates, washes or powders will cover or obliterate blotches, pimples
and blackheads caused by unwholesome food or uncleanly habits. We may
not be able to afford elegantly-appointed bath-rooms, but we all can
indulge in a daily bath.
A quick and simple method for the busy housekeeper, which need only
occupy a few moments, is as follows: buy a yard of coarse Turkish
toweling, and make of it two mittens. Have a bowl of warm water, in
which dissolve some borax. This is soothing to tired nerves, besides
rendering the skin soft and white. When ready, slip on one of the
mittens, wet it thoroughly, rub well with soap, and quickly wash the
body all over. All the impurities of the body are now on this mitten.
Lay it to one side. Put on the other mitten, and wash the body again.
The mittens may be washed and hung to dry, ready for the next bath.
Rub the skin briskly with a rough towel until it glows.
If this treatment is followed daily, with a tub-bath weekly, you will
not complain of those tired, nervous headaches, your face will lose
its sallowness, and your walk will gain in sprightliness. Here let us
say, for the benefit of those who are obliged to live in rented
houses, or who have no facilities for a bath-room, that a folding
bathtub is now offered. It folds up somewhat after the manner of a
folding bed. When closed it looks like a cabinet, and is nicely
finished in oak. In connection with it is a tank and heating
apparatus. The water may be heated with gas, kerosene or gasoline.
Lemon juice, diluted, is a famous whitener for the skin, as are all
vegetable acids, such as tomato, cucumber and watermelon. Oftentimes
something is needed to heal as well as whiten. For this, take two
tablespoonfuls of oatmeal and cook it with enough water to form a thin
gruel, strain, and when cool add to two tablespoonfuls of the gruel
one tablespoonful of lemon juice. Wash the face with this at night,
allowing it to dry on the skin. This is excellent for a shiny face.
Another very soothing preparation to use at night is made of one ounce
of glycerine, half an ounce of rosemary (fluid), and twenty drops of
carbolic acid. This is excellent for any irritation of the skin, and
also for prickly heat. The face must always be well washed with water
and pure soap before applying any of these preparations. If the skin
is oily, bathe with diluted camphor (a teaspoonful to a pint of
water), but it is injurious to a naturally dry skin.
Treatment for a Rough Skin.
A wash for a rough face is two ounces of water, one ounce of
glycerine, one ounce of alcohol, and half an ounce of gum of benzoin,
to be dissolved in the alcohol first. Apply at night. For wrinkles--do
we see some of you looking interested?--take some clippings of sheep's
wool and steep in hot alcohol. It is said that the grease thus
obtained is identical with an element found in the human bile. I know
that if rubbed on the skin it not only removes but prevents wrinkles,
making the skin soft and pliable. These remedies all have the merit of
being harmless, which cannot be said of all cosmetics.
Let us give one more recipe, and that is for brightening the eyes.
When you are tired and warm, and your eyes are dull, take a cloth and
wring it out of very hot water, as hot as you can bear it. Lie down
for ten minutes with this cloth spread over your burning face and
tired eyes. You will be surprised to see how the tired lines will fade
out and how the eyes will shine, and when your "dearest" comes home he
will pay you a compliment which will more than reward you.
Reducing Flesh.
The real mode of life and diet should be changed if the fat would be
reduced. If necessary, procure a pair of scales and weigh the
different foods that are taken into the system. Reduce the diet then
to about four ounces of starch or sugar material per day, one and a
half ounces of fat, taken chiefly in the form of butter, and about six
or seven ounces of albuminous food, such as lean meat or fish. This is
the minimum that should be resorted to, and the patient can take more
of each at first and reduce the diet gradually to this point. The
proportion of the different food compounds, however, with the
exception of figs, dates, grapes and nuts, should also be eaten daily,
and one-third of a pound of some of the following vegetables:
asparagus, turnips, cucumbers, parsley, watercress, celery, kale or
cabbage. Fluids have a fattening tendency, and they must be taken in
small quantities.
The drinking should be confined to tea, coffee or water, and never
should be taken at mealtime, nor within one hour of a meal. This is
peremptory, for food will produce fat much quicker and surer when
watered by some good beverage.
Refreshing Sleep.
What is the correct method to pursue in preparing for a trip into
dreamland, for there is a right as well as a wrong way? The business
of disrobing should be so systematized that attending to all the
little niceties included in the process will become, after a while,
second nature. There is something more to be done, let us assure you,
in addition to putting your hair up in curl-papers and dabbing a bit
of cold cream on your face, if you would wake up in the morning
looking as fresh as a rose. In the first place, do not put off these
important preparations until you are so heavy-lidded that you are
ready to give everything belonging to the toilet the go by. And now
for the first step. Early in the evening your sleeping apartments
should be thoroughly aired by dropping the window from the top and
raising it at the bottom.
The current of fresh air is especially important when the room has
been, as so many sleeping apartments are, in constant use all day. Ten
minutes will be quite sufficient for toning up the atmosphere. Now
close the window and allow the room to become thoroughly warmed, that
you may not experience a chill while taking a rub down. Prepare a big
bowl of tepid water, into which you sprinkle a small quantity of
ammonia or borax. Take a Turkish towel, which is much better than a
sponge, wring it out as dry as possible, and, grasping a corner in
each hand, give the spine a vigorous rubbing. Have at hand another
Turkish towel, and as you bathe the body in sections, dry as quickly
as possible.
From the points of your rosy toes to the curve of your soft throat you
are a blushing model of the charming effects of the bath. When
finished, slip over your head a soft little shirt, high neck and short
sleeves (a white silk or lisle thread is the best), the rosy skin
beneath giving it the appearance of being lined with pink silk. Then
comes the nightrobe, and next the pajama or lounging robe, which may
be of anything, from flannel to eider down.
Tuck your feet into a pair of bedroom slippers, and you are ready to
attend to minor details. Never think of retiring in any article of
clothing which you have worn during the day. Such a barbarous custom
has nothing whatever in common with health and refinement. Neither is
it well to discard everything but your nightgown, for it is
exceedingly dangerous to chill the system by night draughts.
How to Take Care of the Eyes.
Avoid sudden changes from darkness to brilliant light.
Avoid the use of stimulants and drugs which affect the nervous
system.
Avoid reading when lying down or when mentally and physically
exhausted.
When the eyes feel tired rest them by looking at objects at a long
distance.
Pay special attention to the hygiene of the body, for that which tends
to promote the general health acts beneficially upon the eye.
Do not depend on your own judgment in selecting spectacles.
Old persons should avoid reading much by artificial light, be guarded
as to diet and avoid sitting up late at night.
After fifty, bathe the eyes morning and evening with water so hot that
you wonder how you stand it; follow this with cold water that will
make them glow with warmth.
Do not give up in despair when you are informed that a cataract is
developing; remember that in these days of advanced surgery it can be
removed with little or no danger to vision.
Never read in bed or when lying upon the sofa. Sit with your back to
the light as much as possible. Attend to your digestion. Do not work
longer than two hours without closing your eyes and resting them for
five minutes. If your eyes are weak, bathe them in water to which a
little salt and a little brandy have been added.
The Hair and How to Take Care of It.
If the hair has that soft, glossy look that tells of regular care, and
if it is well kept, with every pin in its place, you may rely upon it
that its owner possesses the instinct of ladyhood.
Each hair has tiny prongs or tentacles, something like those on the
cockle bur, which catch the dust; hence the especial need of brushing.
At a lady's school in England, some twenty years ago, the girls were
required to brush their hair for fifteen minutes daily in the long
dressing-room, and they were timed at this exactly as if it were any
other exercise.
Occasionally the hair and the scalp need washing, as the face, though
less often if the brushing be carefully attended to. When, however, it
begins to seem dirty, give it a good shampooing. Wash both hair and
scalp thoroughly in a washbowl of warm water in which has been
dissolved a tablespoonful of powdered borax; then rinse it well in
clear warm water; you will be surprised sometimes at the complexion of
the water.
Many women dread the shampooing because of their liability to take
cold in the process. Let such a person choose a room where the air is
warm and dry. After wiping the hair thoroughly dry with towels, and
pinning a fresh one around the neck and shoulders, let her get some
one to come and make a breeze with a large palm-leaf fan upon her hair
while she is engaged in carefully disentangling it with a brush and
comb, occasionally giving the scalp a little vigorous rubbing if it
begins to feel chilly. The fanning greatly hastens the drying process.
Another plan is to lie down with the hair spread out on cushions in
the sunshine. Be sure to get it thoroughly dry before putting it up.
An Excellent Head Covering.
A very pleasant step, though not a necessary one, next to take is to
have a little thin silk mob-cap (of some pretty shade of silk, so that
it is becoming rather than disfiguring, if needful, to wear about the
home), lined, and thickly wadded with cotton-batting, well powdered
with heliotrope or some other delicate sachet powder (these come in
ten or fifteen-cent packages), and wear this from one to three hours.
Here, again, those thousands of minute tentacles come into play; they
catch and retain (one would almost think they close over them) the
atoms of the perfume when they are thus freed from dust, and when the
hair is soft and light in its new cleanness--and it is astonishing for
how long a time the hair will retain that faint, delicate aroma which
is so truly lovely in a woman's hair; and all to be obtained in so
simple and innocent a way as with this little mob-cap, put on at the
right time.
A good rule for ensuring the regular brushing of the hair, which may
be taught to children (and perhaps good for busy women also), is to
brush the hair with fifty long strokes both at morning and at night.
Much also depends upon the brush. Let it not be stiff enough to hurt
the scalp. Choose a brush of medium stiffness, with bristles long and
close together, and nowhere will it pay better, "in the long run," to
give a good price for a good article than in a woman's hairbrush which
she proposes to use as described above.
Do not use a fine-tooth comb. Frequent washing will remove the
dandruff in all cases, and without the injury caused to the scalp by
the fine comb.
It is also well to clip the ends of the hair regularly once a month,
keeping it smooth and even, besides, as is thought by some stimulating
the growth and keeping it in a more healthy condition.
Perseverance in this treatment will give the hair a fine natural
gloss, and a healthy tone. It will tend to prevent its falling out,
and will also help to preserve its natural color much longer than if
it were neglected.
"Show me a woman," said a wise matron the other day, "though she be in
the busiest farmer's kitchen in America, who may always be found with
her hair neatly and carefully arranged and with a fresh linen collar,
and I will show you a lady in mind and manners. Those two points
always settle the rest in my opinion!"
Recipe for the Complexion.
A mixture for preserving the complexion, easily made at home, is as
follows: take a wineglassful of the best French orange flower water.
Add a tiny pinch of carbonate of soda and two teaspoonfuls of
glycerine. Melt a piece of camphor the size of a pea and three
teaspoonfuls of cologne water and add to the orange flower water.
Shake the whole for five minutes. Apply to the face every night.
Care of the Lips.
The Cupid's bow in dainty curves has always been symbolical of a
perfect mouth, and lips most kissable have never been represented as
other than pink and perfect.
No other portion of the face, however, so quickly responds to
symptoms of ill-health in the body as do the lips. Fever blisters are
the disfiguring reminders of a cold; dry, broken or bloodless lips
show that one is out of sorts, even more certainly than heavy eye or
dejected mien, and it is a woman's duty to endeavor to restore them to
their soft, rich redness, which is the outward and visible sign of
good health.
To do this the general system must be toned up, diet regulated, and a
regular house-cleaning gone into; but there are certain defects of the
lips that can be overcome without all this trouble, because they arise
from a woman's own fault. Many of us, from nervousness, or habit, have
a way of biting our lips which will surely result in swelling, bruise
or dryness that is both uncomfortable and unpleasant to look at.
Therefore, the first step is to break off so pernicious a practice by
watching one's self very carefully. Next, anoint the poor, bruised
members with some healing salve of a pure make.
Do not, however, think to cure chapped lips by anointing them after
being out in the air. The time for treatment is before the mischief is
done, putting on a little cold cream every time you start out for a
walk, which you will find highly beneficial and will keep your lips in
winter just as sweet and rosy as when the milder zephyrs of summer
rule the air.
Remedies for the Lips.
A writer whose knowledge of such subjects is beyond question says that
glycerine and rose water should never be used to soften the lips, as
this remedy has one great drawback, namely, that it induces the growth
of superfluous hair, a warning which all women will gladly heed, for
no one desires to pose as a bearded lady. When cold sores appear rub
them with cold cream, being careful not to break them, and they will
soon disappear.
The reason that they usually cling so long is, that they are tampered
with by rubbing or biting, and therefore cannot have a chance to heal
properly, as they would if left alone. The same writer who warns us
against glycerine and rose water is a strong advocate of hot water,
and affirms that there is scarcely any ailment that will not succumb
to its healing virtues. Therefore, with cold cream and hot water one
should be able to present to the world a pair of rosy lips free from
any unsightly blemishes.
Smoothing Out the Wrinkles.
Wrinkles are, of course, the special detestation of every woman, and
when they begin to make their appearance, one of the most perplexing
questions is as to how they can be removed, or at least the evil hour
of their coming be put off for a time. There has recently been a good
deal of nonsense printed in various channels as to this subject, and
one of the most cherished fads is that the steaming of the face will
remove them. This is one of those half-truths which are simply deceit
and disappointment.
Wrinkles appear because the fine muscles of the face lose their tone,
the tissue shrinks, and the skin fits itself to the depressions which
are thus left. It is a mistake to suppose that wrinkles can be wholly
eradicated, especially those which are due to advancing years. Let us
"grow old gracefully" and accept the inevitable with the best grace
possible. A cheerful disposition will do wonders toward lighting up
the face and making one's friends forget or overlook entirely the
signs of advancing years. But wrinkles frequently come on prematurely,
and prove extremely vexatious. It is unquestionably true that a
proper, thorough and careful course of face massage will do a good
deal to help things, where the skin has become dull and lifeless, as
will especially happen in cases of general decline or ill health.
From two to four times during each twenty-four hours the face should
be gently but systematically rubbed, the best method being to employ a
fine towel or a bit of red flannel. The finger ends answer very well,
but it is quite difficult to use them without weariness. It will be
noticed after a few days that the skin is gaining in tone and vigor,
when the degree of vigor employed may properly be increased.
Bad air is one of the most potent causes of wrinkles and the remedy,
of course, is the getting of good air. Excellence of the highest
degree may not be attainable; if not, let us get the best we can. With
good air should come good living and plenty of nutritious food,
especially that which has fat-producing qualities.
Massage of the face is well recommended, using a light, gentle,
circular motion of the fingers, while much may be done by cultivating
flexibility and voluntary motions of the muscles of the face,
especially those affecting the wrinkled portions. And it may not be
amiss, though it be a delicate matter, to suggest that an overworked,
thankless, hopeless life will inevitably wrinkle the fairest face with
furrows that no agency this side of the grave can remove, till the
cause shall have been lifted.
The Feminine Waist.
We have already had occasion to discuss the question of small waists
and the abuse of proportions that tight-lacing frequently entails. We
have only to consider now the caprices of fashion with regard to
length. Sometimes this fickle goddess sends our waists up under our
arms, and then a reaction sets in, and they lengthen gradually till
the points and basques of our bodices reach very nearly to our knees.
Of the two extremes, the more sanitary, as well as the more artistic,
is the former, but these considerations have little effect on the
arrangements of fashion.
The weight of clothing should hang as little as possible from the
waist. Many women believe that it is better that it should come from
the hips than from the shoulders, but the testimony of all medical men
is clear and indisputable on this subject. Nor is it upon hygienic
grounds alone that this is objectionable. This weight from the hips
destroys all freedom of movement, just as the tight corset deprives
the body of all the suppleness and flexibility given it by nature.
The belt is, on a perfect figure, an interruption to harmonious lines
that could well be dispensed with. On an imperfect figure it is
excusable, when associated with a form of bodice that seems to require
to be confined, such as the loosely plaited or gathered bodice
sometimes worn. Over a tight bodice the belt has no reason for being,
and is absurdly out of place. For this and also sanitary reasons we
feel inclined to condemn it.
Beautiful Arms.
Beautiful arms are a powerful weapon in the armory of beauty; but
though most women appreciate to the full the charm of this possession,
the fact remains that in America undeveloped arms are the rule, and
rounded, dimpled symmetry the exception. Lately, however, the
gymnasium is producing charming arms.
Exercise is essential to the development of the arms: exercise, that
is, of the arms themselves. Gymnastic exercises that bring the muscles
of these into play should be, as far as possible, encouraged in girls,
as tending not only to their improvement in this particular, but as
being beneficial to the general health.
Arms disproportionately large as compared to the rest of the frame
are, on the other hand, at least equally disagreeable with those we
have been discussing. Very large arms carry with them a suggestion of
coarseness that is unpleasant as associated with a woman. It is, as we
have said before, impossible to give the exact proportions which one
portion of the human frame should bear to the rest. The ideal arm,
however, should gradually decrease in size from the shoulder to the
wrist, the outlines being marked by those inward curves which are also
noticeable in well-formed shoulders. The wrist should be slender
without being thin, the bone at the outer side being well covered and
indicated rather by dimples than otherwise.
There is an old rule for measurement that approaches accuracy in some
degree. We give it for what it may be worth, advising our readers not
to pin their faith to it too implicitly. Twice round the thumb, once
round the wrist; twice round the wrist, once round the neck; twice
round the neck, once round the waist.
The roundest arms in the world fail to be beautiful if they are red.
There are beautiful white arms, brown arms, copper-colored arms, and
even black arms, but beautiful red arms are not. This fault is seldom
to be found with the arms of ladies, which are so constantly kept
covered as to be protected from the influences of weather. It is
characteristic of a cook, a dairymaid, a housemaid, a field-hand, to
have red arms, and it is probably from this association that they have
fallen into such extreme disrepute.
The use of violet-powder may be condoned when it modifies the contrast
between red arms and white evening dresses. The application being only
temporary, it can only very slightly affect the well-being of the
pores, but it should be very carefully used, or it will come off on
the coat sleeves of the partners of the red-armed one.
When the arms are very thin the sleeves should not be too tight,
though, as a rule, thin arms do not look at all badly in tight
sleeves. When the arms are too long, their apparent length may be
diminished by crossway trimmings on the sleeve. When, on the contrary,
the arms are disproportionately short, a lengthwise trimming will
remedy the defect. The sleeve of to-day is a blessing in disguise for
ladies with thin arms.
The leg-of-mutton (_gigot_) sleeve was invented to conceal defects in
the arm, and to make the waist appear small by contrast with the size
of the sleeves. Puffs at the shoulder give grace and delicacy to the
neck and head. The pagoda sleeves, copied from the Chinese, being wide
and open, cause the hands to appear smaller by contrast with the
aperture from which they emerge; but when the sleeve is exaggeratedly
large and wide, the effect of the contrast is lost, the sleeve losing
itself in, and mingling with, the rest of the draperies. The epaulette
worn some years ago is useful as giving width to narrow shoulders. The
Louis XV., or _sabot_ sleeve, tight to the elbow, and ending in a
frill of lace, is perhaps the most becoming of all sleeves to a really
pretty arm, while the sleeve open to the shoulder is the most trying
to a defective outline.
Treatment for the Hands.
The hands of growing girls are often red and clumsy, and girls who are
beginning to take thought of their appearance are sometimes in
despair about them, not being aware that they will grow whiter and
whiter with every year. The ideal hand is white, certainly, but not
dead white. It should have a dash of healthy flesh-tints. The tips of
the fingers and the portions that surround the palm should be tinged
with pink. The fingers should taper towards the nails, the most
approved shape for which is the "filbert," so called from its
resemblance to the oval form of the nut of that name, and the
similarity of the direction of the lines of the nail to those on the
wood of the nut.
Scissors and Nail-brush.
The appearance of white spots on the nails is caused by knocks or
blows. To obviate the appearance of such spots the hands must be taken
care of and the nails disturbed as little as possible. When the nails
become stained or discolored, a little lemon juice is the best agent
to employ as a corrective. It is equally valuable in discoloration of
the skin.
The care of the nails, should be strictly limited to the use of the
knife or scissors to their free border, and of the ivory presser to
their base, to prevent the adhesion of the free margin of the
scarf-skin to the surface of the nail and its forward growth upon it.
The edge of scarf-skin should never be pared, nor surface of the nail
ever scraped, nor should the nails be cleaned with any instrument
whatever except the nail-brush.
There is no rule for the management of the nail of greater importance
than that which prescribes the pressing back of the edge of the
scarf-skin which forms the boundary of the base of the nail. This
margin is naturally adherent to the surface of the nail, and has a
tendency to grow forward with it and become ragged and attenuated.
When allowed to do so, the ragged edge is apt to split up into shreds,
and these projecting from the surface, are pulled and torn, and often
occasion a laceration of the skin and a painful wound. The occurrence
of these little shreds, denominated _agnails_, may be effectually
prevented by the regular use of the presser once or twice a week. It
must be used with gentleness.
The following is said to be an excellent preparation for making the
hands white; and as it cannot possibly injure them, we give it a place
here. Take as much scraped horseradish as will fill a tablespoon; pour
on it half-a-pint of hot milk. Use it before washing, allowing it to
dry on the hands before applying the water. Redness and chapping are
sometimes caused by the hands being imperfectly dried. The greatest
care should be taken in drying them, more especially in cold weather,
and when the hands are exposed to cold winds.
If the hands become rough from any cause, the following may be applied
with good effect: Half fill a basin with fine sand and soap-suds, as
hot as can be borne. Brush and rub the hands thoroughly with hot sand.
The best is flint sand, or the powered quartz sold for filters. It may
be used repeatedly by pouring the water away and adding fresh. Rinse
the hands in a warm lather of fine soap, then clean cold water. While
they are still wet, put into the palm of each hand a very small piece
of almond cream and rub it all over them. This, again, forms a strong
lather. After drying the hands, rub them in dry bran or powdered
starch till every atom of moisture is absorbed, and finish by dusting
off the bran or starch. This will make the hands very soft and smooth.
To Cure Burning of the Skin.
Occasionally the hands and face become red and flushed while the feet
are cold. This very uncomfortable state of things may be effectually
remedied by bathing the feet in hot water with a tablespoonful of
Kretol in it. This will frequently be found an immediate cure for
headache, but must not be attempted just before going out in cold or
damp weather. A simple remedy is to wash the face and hands in very
warm water, as hot as can be borne. This will frequently dispel the
burning sensation and induce a cooler condition of the skin.
A slice of raw potato rubbed well into them will remove stains from
the fingers and hands. Lemon juice is also effective in this way, and,
if not used immoderately, may be applied without fear of evil
consequences. For chapped hands and lips the following will be found
efficacious: Equal quantities of white wax (wax candle) and sweet oil;
dissolve in these a small piece of camphor; put it in a jam crock, and
place it upon the hob till melted. It must be kept closely covered. It
should be applied to the hands after washing, and previous to drying
them.
A few drops of glycerine poured into the palms of the hands after
washing, and rubbed all over them before drying with a towel, is
perhaps the best and simplest remedy for chapping; but if good soap is
always used, and the hands well dried and protected by warm gloves
against the cold, the chapping will be prevented, which is preferable
to the very best cures.
Remedy for Chilblains.
Chilblains may be cured very speedily by rubbing into them morning and
evening as much spirits of turpentine as they will absorb. This must
not be applied to broken chilblains, but if taken in time it will
prevent their breaking. The water in which potatoes have been boiled
is an excellent remedy for chilblains on feet or hands. These members
should be put into the water while it is as hot as can be borne. The
same specific applies equally to what are called "whitlows," or
"felons" a gathering in the region of the finger-nail that is
extremely painful, and to which some are constitutionally liable.
When the feet are large, the owners should never be tempted into
wearing any but the very plainest boots and shoes. Ornamentation of
any kind makes the foot look larger. Even a pretty foot looks its best
in a perfectly plain satin slipper, with only a small rosette with
buckle on the toe. This rosette must not, however, be permitted to the
large foot. It may, certainly, be worn on the place intended for the
instep, when that ornamental rise in the outline of the foot is
totally absent. Lines of white stitching on the boot make it look
larger than it really is. The best boot for a large foot is one in
which the toe-cap comes well up on the foot. Its lines are thus broken
up, and the apparent length diminished. A pretty foot, on the
contrary, looks better in a boot that has no toe-cap, the "upper" of
which is made all in one. This displays to advantage the beautiful
outline of the foot, and the gentle but decided curve of the instep.
The possessors of large feet should be particularly careful to have
their boots perfectly cleaned and very glossy. The feet look much
smaller when this is the case than when the boot has a rim of mud
around the sole and a shadow of dust upon the uppers. Where the instep
is defective or totally absent, a pretence at one may be made by
blacking that portion of the sole of the foot that is immediately
adjacent to the heel. This causes a kind of optical illusion which is
favorable to the flat-footed.
Patent leather is a most objectionable material for wearing upon the
feet. Through it ventilation is absolutely impossible. So much for the
sanitary part of the subject; and as to convenience, this is as much
in the shade as sanitation, for patent leather "draws" the feet much
more than any other kind. Of late, ladies and children have begun to
borrow this material from gentlemen, but as much smaller shoes can be
worn with comfort in any other kind of leather, it is not likely to
become universally popular. Large feet should never be clad in satin.
Foot-Wear.
The fit of the stocking is almost as essential to the perfection of
the foot as that of the boot or the shoe itself. It should be large
enough to allow freedom to the toes, and not so large as to wrinkle on
the foot. In a well-fitting stocking the foot can be more accurately
measured than otherwise, and the comfort of the foot is sadly impeded
by an ill-fitting one.
The feet should be bathed every morning, and for those who walk much,
a daily change of stockings is advisable. This daily change is more
than advisable, it is necessary, for persons who suffer from
perspiring feet. Regular washing of the feet preserves their strength
and elasticity, and helps to keep them in shape. At least once a week
they should be washed in hot water, with plenty of soap, rubbing them
with a ball of sandstone, which will be found a very useful article
for toilet purposes, also a tablespoonful of Kretol in the water. The
nails should then be carefully pared, and, in drying the feet, much
friction should be used in order to stimulate the skin to healthy
action.
When corns appear, they may be accepted with resignation as lifelong
acquaintances. Seldom, indeed, do they quit the victim, who has
invited them by ill-advised pinchings and squeezings. All that one can
do is to keep them under control by constant care. The treatment
recommended is the same as that used for warts--viz., to pare the hard
and dry skin from the tops, and then touch them with the smallest drop
of acetic acid, taking care that the acid does not run off the wart
upon the neighboring skin, which would occasion inflammation and much
pain. This should be done once or twice a day with regularity.
We should, no doubt, easily get rid of all our corns if we could make
up our minds to do without shoes, or even to wear them of such a large
size as would prevent all pressure upon the corn. This disagreeable
effect results quite as often from badly made boots as from
injudiciously tight ones.
There is a particular knack to be observed in paring a corn. It should
be cut in such a manner as to excavate the center, while the hardened
sides are left to protect the more sensitive portion against the
pressure of the boot. When the corn is small and yet young, the best
application is a piece of soft buff-leather spread with adhesive
plaster and pierced in the center with a hole of exactly the size of
the summit of the corn. There are two varieties of corn, the hard and
the soft. The latter occurs between the toes, and is quite as painful
as, and less easily guarded against, than the hard variety.