THE ETIQUETTE OF BOATING.

There are certain customs and usages in connection with this

interesting pastime that deserve to be noted and observed.

Gentlemen unaccustomed to the management of a boat should never

venture out with ladies. To do so is foolhardy, if not criminal. Great

care should be taken not to overload a boat. The frequent boating

accidents that happen are in most instances due either to overloading,

or to the inexperience of the man at the oars. Men who cannot swim

should never take ladies upon the water.

Assisting Ladies to Their Seats.

When the gentlemen are going out with the ladies, one of them steps

into the boat and helps the ladies in and seats them, the other

handing them down from the bank or pier. When the ladies have

comfortably disposed themselves, and not before, the boat may be

shoved off. Great care must be taken not to splash the ladies, either

in first dipping the oars or subsequently. Neither should anything be

done to cause them fright.

[Illustration: A BOATING PARTY.]

Who Should Row.

If a friend is with you, he must be given the preference of seats. You

must ask him to row "stroke," as that is the place of honor.

If you cannot row, do not pretend you can. Say right out that you

can't, and thus settle it, consoling yourself with the pleasant

reflection that your confession entitles you to a seat by the side of

the ladies and relieves you from the possibility of drowning the whole

party.

A Popular Exercise.

Rowing has become a great fad among the ladies in recent years, and it

is to be commended as a wholesome and vigorous exercise. But it should

be indulged only on quiet rivers or on private lakes. If ladies

venture into more frequented waters, they must at least have the

protection of a gentleman. And in all cases they must wear costumes

proper for the exercise, which requires freedom of movement in every

part. Corsets should be left at home, and a good pair of stout boots

should complete an equipment in which a skirt barely touching the

ground, a flannel shirt and a sailor hat are the leading features.

Rowing gloves should protect the hands.

The ordinary rowing costume for gentlemen is white flannel trousers,

white rowing jersey and a straw hat. Peajackets are worn when their

owners are not absolutely employed in pulling the oar.

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