THE MORNING-ROOM.
Even in a small house I very strongly advise the third room to be set
aside emphatically for the mistress’s own room--sacred to her own
pursuits, and far too sacred to be smoked in on any occasion whatever.
And this room can hardly be made too pretty in my eyes, for undoubtedly
here will be struck the key-note of the house, for the chamber set aside
for the mistress of the house is unconsciously a great revealer of
secrets. Is she dreamy, lazy, and untidy?--her room tells of her. Is she
careful, neat, energetic?--her room brightens up and bears witness to
her own character. Does she write?--these are her pens, and her dirty
little inkstand, looking like business; or work, or paint? Well, ask the
room sacred to her use; it will tell you of her much better than I can,
and if she be only an honest English girl, anxious to rule her house
well, and to really make it ‘home,’ her room will disclose all this, and
will be always ready for her, and for any one else who will come to her
there for the help, pleasure, or counsel she in her turn will be so
happy to give once she has bought her own little experience.
Or should it happen that Angelina has no pronounced tastes, and does not
intend to plunge head-first among the bread-winners with pen or pencil,
she will have all the easier task in arranging her tiny room. On the
walls we may hang a pretty sage-green paper, taking great care there is
no arsenic in it. In the recesses of the walls beside the fireplace I
should put shelves, painted sage-green, the colour of the paint, and
edged with narrow frills of cretonne similar to that used on the
mantel-board; these are sewn on tapes, and the tapes nailed to the
shelves, and hidden by a moulding similar to the one on the board. And
should Angelina desire a cheap, useful species of cupboard, one of these
shelf-fitted recesses can be draped by a cretonne curtain, which would
look pretty, the while it hid any baskets or boxes or odds and ends
wished out of sight yet close at hand at the same time. These shelves
are put in to the height of the mantelpiece, and, the tops being wide,
hold a nice quantity of decorative china, and, being backed by fans or
large blue and white plates, bought very cheaply at almost any glass and
china warehouse, add immensely to the artistic appearance of the room,
the walls of which will, I hope, be hung with pretty photographs or
engravings, or sketches of home friends, or places, done by friends or
even by our bride herself.
If she can paint, or has any girl friend who can do so, she should now
embellish her door panels with graceful pale pink flowers, remembering
never to fall into that fatal and ugly mistake of drawing or
representing flowers in the colours that nature herself never uses for
them. There is my favourite pink flower, the flowering rush, to be
remembered, and this pictured among its own surroundings, marguerite
daisies and long grasses, would be admirable on the sage-green paint,
and doing this will occupy Angelina nicely during those long hours that
are hers when the honeymoon is over, and Edwin has once more to put his
neck into the collar and set to work to keep the little house going.
I should also like Angelina to keep round her in this her own room as
many reminiscences as she can procure of her old home. If she have a
prudent, loving mother, I think many a little imprudence may be avoided,
if a photograph of the dear face is always looking down upon her; and if
she have an honoured father, his precepts will be recalled in a similar
manner, and insensibly she will be helped on her way, as she was in her
girlhood, by the loving counsel she can never be too old to require,
live as long as ever she may.
Then there should always be something here in the shape of a desk, for
Angelina will have to write letters, if only to answer invitations,
though I trust sincerely she may have something better to do with her
time than that. And if she can copy Edwin’s writing table, she will find
it a great comfort to her, for the deep drawers will hold paper,
envelopes, and the thousand and one things she should never be without;
such as string, untied, _not cut_ off parcels, and neatly rolled up in
lengths, half-sheets of letters to be used for notes to _familiar_
friends or for tradesmen’s orders, paid bills--no _un_paid ones,
please--and brown papers also saved from parcels, elastic bands, and
answered and unanswered letters; which, if important or private, should
never be left on a desk in a letter-rack, for ‘maidens’ are but mortals,
and an open epistle is too tempting a thing for most servants to leave
untouched and unread. Be sure and have a wastepaper basket, and
somewhere in a cupboard the sack I mentioned before, in which to put the
contents of the basket _at once_, as soon as it is full; and do not keep
any letters about in your possession once they are replied to,
especially if they are chatty letters about people and their sayings and
doings, but destroy them at once. They are safe in the wastepaper bag;
but a letter is like a ghost, and turns up when least expected, often
working irreparable mischief; in fact, in these days of penny postage, a
letter is only written for the moment, and should be put beyond the
power of doing harm by any honourable person the moment it has answered
its purpose. Remember how often one’s opinion changes. One makes friends
or quarrels with an acquaintance, and writes to one’s intimates about
these tiny circumstances, and no harm is done if the letter be
immediately destroyed, besides which there is always the chance that
death may pounce upon one, and leave one’s hoards defenceless, and our
friend’s confidences at the mercy of our successors. Who re-reads old
letters? Life is too rapid now for this. Once answered, tear up these
amusing, compromising epistles, and beg your correspondents to do the
same, and then not very much harm will be done by them after all.
In Angelina’s room there should always be some sort of a sofa. Maple has
beautiful deep sofas, I think for 8_l._ 8_s._; these can be covered with
serge, or else velveteen or corduroy velvet, in a good sage-green colour
or peacock blue, and finished at either end with a square pillow or
cushion covered with the same; the velveteen is 2_s._ 6_d._ a yard, and
wears beautifully; it is preserved too, when not in use, by throwing
over it a large cover made of either guipure and muslin, costing
30_s._--rather a large item--or by two or three of the striped curtains,
joined. These cost 1_s._ 6_d._ each at Liberty’s, but I personally
prefer the guipure, or else a large square of Madras muslin, edged with
a goffered frill, or else a cheap lace. This should be folded back,
should you require to lie down much on the sofa, as otherwise it soon
crushes and becomes dirty and untidy. Remember, young people, I am no
advocate for lying about on sofas, and I abhor idleness, but a proper
amount of rest and care often saves a long illness, and there will be
times in all your lives when a sofa is not a luxury but a positive
necessity. A book can always be read, or work be done, for, properly
pushed down at the back, the cushions support the shoulders, the while
the legs are supported too, and so proper rest is obtained; and if the
sofa be in Angelina’s own room, she will use it when she would think
twice before going solemnly into the drawing-room, where she may be
disturbed by visitors, or be, perhaps, fireless, to take the repose she
may possibly have been ordered.
There should be two firm little tables, or even three, according to
space. The floor should be stained about two feet all the way round, and
the square of carpet should be as pretty as possible. Flowers and
pot-ferns should be as much used us the money will permit, as nothing
makes a room look so nice. The curtains should be cretonne and muslin
underneath, arranged as I shall describe in the chapter set apart for
curtains. There should be a work-table, a stand for newspapers with a
paper-knife attached--tied on, in fact, and re-tied when not in use, for
no possession takes quicker to its heel than does a paper-knife--and
plenty of books and magazines, obtainable from a library; or by
judicious exchanges among friends or acquaintances made by advertising;
for it is astonishing how many papers can be seen by a clever person,
who can manage to exchange the one or two she takes in for one or two
more, that in their turn go on again in exchange for others; and this is
neither extravagance nor waste of time, for every one should be as well
read in the events of the day, as most people are in the events of
bygone years; for one’s own times are, I think, quite as amusing and far
more instructive than even the events of those days when there were no
newspapers and nothing very much happened.
Let me beg of you all to remember two things: one is, that on _no_
account is this little room to have gas, or to be smoked in under any
pretext whatever, and that here all must be to hand that Angelina is
likely to want; she must have her own duster, her sticking-plaster, her
little remedies for tiny hurts, her cotton, needles, thimble, her
string, her stamps, her pins, her gum, her glue, and be able to put her
hand on brandy, the one spirit that I would allow inside the house, and
which is a most invaluable necessary medicine; and if she be wise and
her servants are tired, she will be able to give a sister or very
intimate friend her cup of afternoon tea without ringing, should they
come in on a busy day and require refreshment, when it would be unkind
to take Jane off her work to provide it. No lady was ever the worse for
making her own tea, or even washing her own teacups, and a little
thought for Jane will insure Jane thinking of and for you, in a time
when you may be _very_ dependent on her for this care and thought.
[Illustration: FIG. 14.]
The tea-things can be kept ‘handy’ behind one of the curtained recesses,
and a small brass kettle can also be concealed there; but there are some
rooms, alas! so evilly constructed as to be positively without recesses
for the shelves, and in this case the books that Angelina will require
in her own room must have a bookcase made especially for them, and the
recess for the teacups must be made as in the drawing of the bookcase on
this page. The best bookcases are undoubtedly the revolving American
bookcases, first introduced by Messrs. Trübner, the well-known
publishers, of Ludgate Hill. These hold a great many volumes, take up
small room, and on the top of them china can also be placed; but they
are expensive, a good-sized one costing 5_l._ 5_s._, and so, if this be
out of the question, I recommend a long plain oak bookcase that I have
had made for me from the design of a relative, for they hold a vast
quantity of literature, and only cost the comparatively small sum of
1_l._ 18_s._ 6_d._ This bookcase is about eight or nine feet long, and
consists of two rows of shelves, each wide enough to hold books the size
of a bound volume of ‘Good Words.’ The top of the last shelf has a
narrow battlement of oak just cut out in scallops to relieve the
plainness and to serve as a rail to support the china that stands on the
top of the bookcase; and the shelves are all edged with a two-inch frill
of velveteen or cretonne to harmonise with the rest of the room. The
shelves are divided into three parts, and the centre part looks very
well with a velveteen curtain over it, nailed to the top shelf, and
hanging in a straight line from top to bottom. Behind this curtain can
be placed all sorts and conditions of things, from paper-backed shilling
books, that are not in the least bit decorative, to string or gum, or
the cups and saucers spoken of above, if we have no other place to use
as a cupboard in the room. The shelves are hung on the wall, just
resting on the dado rail, and are supported with nails driven into the
wall and by the dado rail itself. On the top the big blue jugs and
coarse rod pottery Rebecca jars sold by Mr. Elliot, in the Queen’s Road,
Bayswater, should be placed, as then the bookcase is not only useful but
remarkably ornamental.
To supplement the ordinary lack of cupboard room, it is occasionally
better to have one or two low square black cupboards about. Against the
wall, where a table may be put sometimes, they look very nice, and are
of incalculable use. They cost very little, and if the panels are filled
in, either with Japanese paper or imitation tapestry, and the top
covered with a cloth and used for books, plants, or pieces of china,
scarcely any one would see they were cupboards, and so you have a useful
piece of furniture doing double duty, as cupboard and table, for the
expense of one. I have in one corner of my especial room a most
beautiful cabinet which holds all my odds and ends comfortably, and is
such a success that I cannot help describing it here, although Angelina
may not of course care to go to the expense, but it is so pretty and
withal so inexpensive, as compared to the usual run of cabinets, that I
think I may venture to recommend it to her. It fits into one corner, and
is of deal, painted sparrow’s-egg-blue to match the room. It stands
about five feet eight. The under part is a cupboard. Then come three
deep drawers, flanked by two little shelves--two each side of the
drawers. The top shelf is hidden by a small curtain of old-gold
coloured velveteen, and in the under shelf stands a blue pot that cost
sixpence. There is a flat shelf forming the top of the cabinet with
china on, and at the back, which goes into an angle to fit the corner,
is another shelf about three inches wide on which more china stands. The
drawers and cupboard have brass handles and locks, and the whole thing
complete, made to order and measure by Mr. Smee, cost me 8_l._ 8_s._,
and I often look at it and wonder how I existed, or where I put all my
papers and things generally, before I saved up money enough to buy it
for myself. The chairs here can be all the deep, low, basket-work
chairs, and these need not cost much, but these chairs must be bought
with great care and circumspection, they are all such different shapes,
and should never be purchased in a hurry--that fatal hurry that is at
the bottom of so much waste and extravagance in the world; for, remember
this, a thing obtained quickly and hastily seldom is the thing one
really requires, and then a double outlay is necessary, or else
perpetual discomfort is our portion, just because we were not judicious
enough in our behaviour to take enough time over our purchases; and
nowhere is hurry more fatal than in choosing one’s chairs. You young
people are apt to think only for the day, and do not care to remember
that a time will come when legs and backs will ache; but I know this,
and this is why I want you to be quite sure that you do not get the
basket-chairs that go back too far, or are too low, or too high, but
that the medium chairs are chosen, in which you can rest thoroughly when
they are cushioned; and furthermore supplied with an extra cushion to
fill up the gap in the back, and that are not high enough to require a
footstool, but yet are not low enough to send one’s feet to sleep,
because of the manner in which they leave no room for the length of limb
possessed by the unfortunate person who sinks into their
comfortable-looking depths to rest, and cannot understand why he is so
very uncomfortable when he has been there so short a time. Cretonne
makes pretty covers for the cushions, which should be stuffed with wool
and a little flock--all wool would make these cushions too expensive;
but cretonne is not heavy enough for a man’s wear, and either tapestry
or woollen brocade or serge should be used for cushions for Edwin’s
accommodation. If a sofa be afforded, three of these chairs, or four at
the outside, will amply furnish the little room; and they can have over
their backs, as a finishing touch, an embroidered Oriental antimacassar,
arranged to show both embroidered ends one above the other, and not tied
in bows--a most inartistic and ugly arrangement in my eyes, and one
quite useless and untidy too; for there is no doubt that a properly
arranged antimacassar saves the chair cushion a great deal of the wear
and tear and the rub of dusty shoulders, and need not be any trouble if
a little thought is given to their arrangement, both in sitting down and
rising from the chair.
If other chairs are required, higher and squarer, although I cannot
think they are necessary myself in this small room, those painted blue,
red, or black, and with cane seats, costing about 12_s._, are the best.
The cane seat should be provided with a square cushion, covered in any
odd pieces of damask or cretonne, and trimmed with a frill, and tied to
the chair by four pairs of stout black tape strings, so that the cushion
cannot slip about, as it otherwise would. These chairs would also do for
the extra chairs in the drawing-room, if even the rush-seated
Beaconsfield chairs at 3_s._ 6_d._ each are not pronounced quite good
enough.
A very good, useful table, called the Queen Anne table, can be obtained
from Oetzmann or Maple for about 25_s._ It is square, with square legs,
and has two useful shelves, and the whole is covered in art-coloured
velveteens. I have had one in very hard wear for seven or eight years,
and it is now as good as the day when I bought it. I had some charming
square stools made on the same plan for 7_s._ 6_d._ each, to hold large
blue and yellow pots purchased at Whiteley’s for 2_s._ 11_d._ each, and
filled with palms, and these standing about in odd corners or in the
centre of a bow-window add very much to the appearance of any room, for
nothing gives so Oriental or artistic an appearance as plenty of plants,
ferns, and palms; and these need not be out of the reach of any one who
cares for pretty things, because with care they last and flourish for
years; while cut flowers and flowering plants are out of the reach of
any of those for whom I am especially writing these papers--that is to
say, unless they keep their eyes very wide open, and utilise every
morsel they can beg, or pick from the hedges and fields; that even in
the suburbs are not swept quite clear of daisies, grasses, and even
occasionally primroses and anemones.
Footstools must be a _sine quâ non_ in each room, and more than one or
two should, if possible, be provided. The square Oriental-looking ones,
at 4_s._ 6_d._, purchasable at Shoolbred’s, are very nice, but big,
square, old-fashioned ones, made by the carpenter, or, better still, by
Edwin, are the best of all; they do not run away from you when you put
your feet on them, and their wear is everlasting. They are square frames
of wood, rather heavy, and stuffed a little with flock on the top, and
covered with a good stout woollen tapestry; they are quite half a yard
across each way, and serve for two people if necessary. Then there are
the ordinary round hassocks for 1_s._ 6_d._, covered in odds and ends of
old carpets. These are soon made artistic by covering them over the
carpet with artistic serges embroidered in crewels; white narcissus, or
oranges and the blossoms looking very nice indeed on a terra-cotta
serge; and yellow daisies or pomegranates on a peacock-blue serge being
also quite charming to behold. Brackets are very useful for corners, and
I especially recommend the bamboo brackets to be bought at the Baker
Street Bazaar and at Liberty’s. They are so cheap and light-looking, and
hold odds and ends of china so nicely, and if many pictures or
photographs do not adorn Angelina’s walls, quite a grand effect can be
obtained by making a bracket the centre of a scheme of decoration;
elaborated from Japanese fans, that can surround the bracket like a
halo, sending out branches or beams of colour from such a centre in all
directions, in a manner invaluable to those who have no other means of
decorating their walls.
Were I Angelina I should sit here in this tiny room, and do my work here
all the morning, having every meal in the dining-room, and resolutely
spending my evenings in the drawing-room. There is, of course, rather
more firing required, but not more than is necessary to warm the house
thoroughly, and this will save in health and spirits far more than the
house coal costs. Quite a different current to one’s thoughts is given
by a change of room, and a really dull feeling often disappears when
one’s surroundings are changed, and one goes into a fresh pure
atmosphere; for whatever the weather is, I do hope Angelina has her
windows open top and bottom, and, in fact, sleeps with them open too;
but this I shall say more about when I reach the bedrooms, and talk
about health, which will be later on; though before I describe the
papering &c. of this little room I must beg Angelina not to fall into
the habit of so many young wives, of having nothing between breakfast
and dinner save perhaps cake or a cup of tea, but to have a properly
cooked chop or morsel of meat at the orthodox hour for luncheon. For
while I know how difficult it is to do this because eating by oneself is
so dull, and it does not appear worth while to have cooking done for
oneself alone, I cannot too much impress upon my bride that she must
remember health is the first consideration, and that very bad effects
are often caused by the manner in which proper food is forgotten or gone
without in the middle of the day, a matter far too many girls never
think about at all.
It is almost impossible to lay down any hard-and-fast rules for the
decoration of a morning-room without seeing the room itself, but I am
sure no colour is so entirely satisfactory as the blue which is the
exact shade of a sparrow’s egg or an old turquoise. Mr. Smee, at my
express desire, keeps this blue paper, at 4_s._ a piece, always in
stock, and a perfect room can be made by using this paper, Aspinall’s
enamel paint, the exact shade of the ground of the paper, and a frieze
of dead gold Japanese paper at 3_s._ 6_d._ the piece of nine yards; a
frieze or picture rail painted blue unites the frieze to the ‘filling,’
and the panels of the doors, shutters, &c., should be panelled with
_red_ and gold Japanese leather paper. The painter must not be allowed
to pick out or embellish the paint at all (I cannot repeat this too
often), and the cornice must be one uniform cream colour. The ceiling of
this room should be papered yellow and white, and curtains could be
made from the yellow printed linen sold by Mr. Pither, 38 Mortimer
Street, Regent Street, at 1_s._ a yard, and edged by ball fringe sold by
Mr. Smee at 6½_d._ a yard.
Another arrangement for a room which had much sun could be from a
sage-green paper, with a broad frieze of one of the many beautiful
floral papers to be purchased nowadays, with a good deal of pink in; or
better still would it be to go to Mrs. McClelland, of 33 Warwick Road,
Maida Hill, W., and get her to paint a frieze of pale pink and dark red
roses on American cloth; this is put up with drawing pins and taken down
like a picture, and would make a most admirable wedding present; it
would certainly be a joy to any bride for all her life long, and should
therefore be considered by those who are about to make a marriage gift.
In this case all the paint must be sage-green, and we must get as much
pink--really pink--and _peacock_ blue with it as we can muster.
Therefore, on the mantelpiece we can have a cretonne with pale pink
flowers; our over-mantel and board being painted sage-green, with, if
possible, sprays of pale pink chrysanthemums or roses on. And then place
on the mantelshelf first a candlestick, choosing the pretty small
embossed brass ones that Maple used to have at 2_s._ 6_d._ each; then a
spill-case in blue and white china, always remembering to keep them full
of spills--they save a great deal of waste in winter both of matches and
temper; then a photograph frame, holding a _home_ photograph of mother,
father, or sisters in an oak frame (the plush and leather ones soon soil
and look tawdry); then a vase for flowers--a low shape; then one of the
tall sixpenny Baker Street vases, that look beautiful with a single rose
or two; marguerites or fuchsias in summer; and with grasses and ferns in
winter; and then the clock, continuing the same arrangement the other
side; and, despite the sneers levelled at them, use Japanese fans as a
background as often as you can; the colour is so invaluable a help, and,
being excellently managed, goes with anything.
The doors should be painted to match the frieze, and the over-mantel
should also be decorated in a similar manner, and the ceiling should be
papered with a good terra-cotta and white paper. Some terra-cotta or
pink should be introduced into the chair coverings, &c., but the exact
shades must be carefully chosen by some one whose eye for colour can be
trusted emphatically.
This room should be under the care of the housemaid, who should dust and
sweep it before breakfast, and should also see to the hall. The cook
will have quite enough to do with the dining-room and her own kitchen,
while the drawing-room can be left to be looked after, when the bedrooms
are done and the breakfast things washed up; though the ornaments and
flowers must be entirely looked after by the mistress, should she only
be able to begin life with two servants.