General William Preston to S. J. Tilden

"LEXINGTON, KY., _30 March, 1878_.

"MY DEAR GOVERNOR,--The kindness and interest you have

shown towards my son in New York are very deeply felt by me,

apart from the great aid you gave him in commencing his life in

an untried field. Through your influence he has commenced his

career under excellent auspices, but I can readily discern from our

correspondence that the social and fashionable attractions of the

city can have left him but little time for reading and work. This

he tells me very frankly in his letters, but I have indulged in no

long admonitions or remonstrances, because you must give a young

horse head sometimes to keep him to the course. As I know you have

equestrian tastes, you must pardon my illustration. But whilst I

observe this plan, I do not wish my son to run with a loose rein nor

swerve from the course. I know he has honor, truth, and courage,

and I hope he will be a true gentleman and useful citizen in after

life. Although wealth and distinction in the intellectual world

are desirable, they are not, to my mind, paramount objects. I was

brought up with old-fashioned ideas that honest military renown

and oratorical distinction were first, and rather inclined to the

thought '_Ratio ab oratio sunt arma hominis acutiora ferro_,' but it

seems that taste is not hereditary; or, at least, I fear it is not.

The course he is pursuing is rather in obedience to my own advice

than his inclinations.

"But I sat down to write only a few lines of thanks to you, and I

am trespassing on your time. Wickliffe writes me that he will be

with you, or at your house, on Monday, and if you can write me a few

lines so that I may know how he is getting along in New York, you

would confer upon me a great personal favor.

"I pray you to present my kind remembrances to your sister Mrs.

Pelton and to the ladies, and to believe me.

"Very truly and sincerely,

"Your friend,

"W. PRESTON."

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