In Cumberland, and some other parts of the north of England, they have a
custom called a “bridewain,” or the public celebration of a wedding. A
short time after a match is entered into, the parties give notice of it;
in consequence of which the whole neighbourhood, for several miles
round, assemble at the bridegroom’s house, and join in various pastimes
of the county. This meeting resembles the wakes or revels celebrated in
other places; and a plate or bowl is fixed in a convenient place, where
each of the company contributes in proportion to his inclination and
ability, and according to the degree of respect the parties are held in;
by which laudable custom a worthy couple have frequently been benefited
with a supply of money, from fifty to a hundred pounds. The following
advertisements are from Cumberland newspapers:--