MANAGEMENT OF CHILDREN.

It is during infancy that the foundation of a good constitution is

generally laid, and it is, therefore, important that parents be taught

the best method of managing their offspring, in order to preserve their

health. Great ignorance is manifested on this subject; it is owing to

this that so many children sicken and die; and, furthermore, it is in

consequence of this ignorance in our forefathers that the present

generation have become so weak, sickly, and effeminate; and most of

these evils may be imputed to errors in diet, regimen, _mineral_ and

_depletive_ agents, &c. We have departed from the simplicity of nature,

and we must, of course, suffer the penalty.

_1st. On Diet._—If the mother or nurse has enough of milk, the child

will need little or no food for the third or fourth month. It will then

be proper to give it a little of some food that is easy of digestion

once or twice a day; this will ease the mother, will accustom the child

by degrees to take food, and will render the weaning both less difficult

and less dangerous. All great and sudden transitions are to be avoided

in nursing; for this purpose the food of children ought not only to be

simple, but to resemble as nearly as possible the properties of milk:

indeed, milk itself should make a principal part of their food, not only

before they are weaned, but for some time after.

Next to milk we would recommend good bread, which may be given to a

child as soon as it shows an inclination to chew; and it may at all

times be allowed as much as it will eat. The very chewing of bread will

promote the cutting of the teeth and the discharge of saliva, while, by

mixing with the nurse’s milk in the stomach, it will afford an excellent

nourishment.

Many are in the habit of pouring down various liquids and mixtures made

of rich substances, and so much sweetened that the tender organs of

digestion are impaired, and acidity and bowel diseases follow; articles

of this nature should be avoided: no food, except the milk of the

mother, should be given, unless absolutely necessary; nature has

designated this liquid exclusively for the nourishment of the infant,

and, indeed, we may say, for children.

There is another precaution to be observed, which is, “never to put an

infant to a wet-nurse if it can possibly be avoided;” such persons are

generally strangers, and they often communicate the most loathsome and

fatal diseases; besides, their milk is often rendered unwholesome by age

or other causes: this is a very unnatural practice.

The milk of the mother, then, should constitute the only food of the

infant, except in cases of disease, when it becomes necessary to obtain

a wet-nurse, or bring up the children on the bottle, which can be done

very easily.

We attended a lady who was almost covered with a _herpetic complaint_,

or the _salt rheum_, and that, too, when her child was born. She was

treated and cured her of the complaint. The infant was fed on milk, by

introducing a silver tube into a bottle containing it.

We never knew a child so quiet and free from pain; as much so as any

offspring of the brute creation, which are free from it merely by

following nature or instinct, which never errs. The milk should be of

the best quality, and, if possible, of the same cow.

Now, it appears to us, that if females imitated these animals, were to

live on vegetable instead of animal food, and drink nothing but water,

they would not only bring forth as easy as the Indians or these animals,

but their offspring would be free from pain, and perhaps be as exempt

from sickness. Would not this course produce a revolution in our habits,

health, and in the practice of medicine? In the present diseased state

of society it might require a long time to bring about a change in the

system; but an immediate benefit would follow by adopting these

physiological principles. Do not these facts open a new field of

investigation and improvement?

Is it not notorious that some infants are crying a great portion of

their time in consequence of pain? and is it natural, or can there be

any other cause, except the poison communicated to it, through the

medium of the blood, before and after it is born; or the disease may

proceed from the impurity of the mother’s milk, occasioned by errors in

diet? It is self-evident that it is so, from the fact that animals are

free from these symptoms.

Can there be any other cause why so many children are in distress from

birth, and generally die young, or continue weak and sickly all their

lives? There must be a reformation in the habits, taste, and education

of modern females. Many mothers are as ignorant, when they have brought

a child into the world, of what is to be done for it as the infant

itself.

Says Combe: “The leading error in the rearing of the young, I must again

repeat, is _over-feeding_, an error serious in itself, but which may

easily be avoided by the parent yielding only to the indications of

appetite, and administering food slowly and in small quantities at a

time. By no other means can the colics, and bowel-complaints, and

irritability of the nervous system, so common in infancy, be effectually

prevented, and strength and healthy nutrition be secured. Nature never

meant the infant stomach to be converted into a receptacle for

laxatives, carminatives, antacids, spicy stimulants and astringents; and

when these become necessary, we may rest assured that there is something

faulty in our management, however perfect it may seem to ourselves. The

only exception is where the child is defectively constituted, and then,

of course, it may fail to thrive under the best measures which can be

advised for its relief.

“Another cause of infantile indigestion, and which is too much

overlooked through ignorance of its importance, is _vitiation of the

quality of the milk_, caused by imprudence, neglect, or anxiety on the

part of the mother. The extent to which this cause operates in inducing

irritation and suffering in the child, is not generally understood; and,

accordingly, it is not unusual for mothers to display as much

indifference to health, regimen, and tranquillity of mind during

nursing, as if the milky secretion, and all other bodily functions, were

independent of every external and corporeal influence. Healthy,

nourishing, and digestible milk can proceed only from a healthy and

well-constituted parent; and it is against nature to expect that, if the

mother impairs her health and digestion by improper diet, neglect of

exercise, impure air, or unruly passions, she can, nevertheless, provide

a wholesome and uncontaminated fluid, as if she were exemplary in her

observance of all the laws of health.

“It is no new or uncertain doctrine, that the quality of the mother’s

milk is affected by her own health and conduct, and that in its turn it

directly affects the health of the nursling. Even medicines given to the

parent act upon the child through the medium of the milk; and a sudden

fit of anger, or other violent mental emotion, has not unfrequently been

observed to change the quality of the fluid so much as to produce

purging and gripes in the child. Care and anxiety, in like manner, exert

a most pernicious influence, and not only diminish the quantity, but

vitiate the quality of the milk.

“It is a common mistake to suppose that, because a woman is nursing, she

ought, therefore, to live very fully, and to add an allowance of wine,

porter, or other fermented liquor, to her usual diet. The only result of

this plan is to cause an unnatural degree of fullness in the system,

which places the nurse on the brink of disease, and which of itself

frequently puts a stop to, instead of increasing, the secretion of the

milk. The health and usefulness of country nurses are often utterly

ruined by their transplantation into the families of rich and luxurious

employers. Accustomed at home to constant bodily exertion, exposure to

the air, and a moderate supply of the plainest food, they live in the

enjoyment of the best health, and constitute excellent nurses. But the

moment they are transplanted from their proper sphere, their habits and

mode of life undergo an unfavourable change. Having no longer any

laborious duties to perform or any daily exposure to encounter, they

become plethoric and indolent; and as they are at the same time too well

fed, the digestive functions become impaired, the system speedily

participates in the disorder, and the milk, which was at first bland,

nourishing, and plentiful, now becomes heating and insufficient, and

sometimes even stops altogether.”

_Cocoa shells_, made precisely like coffee, make a very pleasant and

nutritious drink for nursing females.

_Weaning._—“Diet for infants after weaning may be pure milk, two parts,

water, one part; slightly sweetened. This,” says Combe, “makes the

nearest approach to the nature of the mother’s milk, and, therefore, is

more suitable than any preparation of milk and flour, or any other that

can be given.” A child, as a general rule, one year old, ought to be

gradually weaned, and the appearance of the teeth shows the propriety of

giving food a little more substantial than milk. Bread a day old, mixed

with milk and sweetened, may be given in connexion with nursing. Gruel,

arrowroot, plain bread, Indian and rice puddings as they grow older, and

subsequently bread and butter, thickened milk, hasty pudding or Indian,

potatoes, and vegetables. Not a particle of flesh should ever be given.

By the use of meat the system becomes excited, and diseases of

irritation are apt to be produced, which impede nutrition, and lead

ultimately to the production of scrofula and other organic changes in

the glands and bowels, and not unfrequently also in the brain and lungs.

In these instances the child generally eats heartily, but, nevertheless,

continues thin, and is subject to frequent flushing and irregularity of

the bowels, headache, and restlessness. His mind partakes of the general

irritability of the system, and peevish impatience takes the place of

the placid good humour natural to healthy childhood. In this state the

ordinary diseases of infancy—measles, scarlet fever, and

hooping-cough—are often attended with an unusual and dangerous degree of

constitutional disturbance; and when inflammation takes place it is

borne with difficulty, and the system does not easily rally; or the

digestive organs become irritated, and the various secretions

immediately connected with digestion are diminished, especially the

biliary secretion. Constipation of the bowels soon follows; congestion

of the hepatic and abdominal veins succeeds, and is followed by the

train of consequences which have already been detailed. In reality the

wonder comes to be, not that so many children die, but that so many

survive their early mismanagement. A morbid condition of the system

arises, extremely favourable to the production of scrofulous,

consumptive, dyspeptic, and other diseases, under which, perhaps, the

infant sinks; and yet, strange to state, parents will stuff their

children with flesh and grease two or three times a day.

Says Combe, “One of the most pernicious habits in which children can be

indulged is that of almost incessant eating. Many mothers encourage it

from the facility with which, for a time, the offer of ‘something nice’

procures peace. Even from infancy the child ought to be gradually

accustomed to eat only when hungry, and when food is really required.

After two years of age an interval of four hours between meals, will

rarely be more than enough; and to give biscuit, fruit, or bread, in the

meantime, is just subtracting from the digestive power of the stomach.

Like almost every organ of the body, the stomach requires a period of

repose after the labour of digestion; and accordingly, in the healthy

state, the sensation of appetite never returns till it has been for some

time empty. To give food sooner, therefore, is analogous to making a

weary traveller walk on without the refreshment of a halt.”

“When we reflect that the object of digestion is, to furnish materials

for the growth of the body, and to supply the waste which the system is

constantly undergoing, it must appear self-evident that, if the

digestive powers be impaired by disease, by improper quantity or quality

of food, or by any other cause, the result must necessarily be the

formation of an imperfect chyle, and, consequently, of imperfect blood.

The elements of the blood are derived from the chyle, and, if _it_ be

vitiated, the blood also must suffer: if the blood be diseased, so must

necessarily be all the organs which it supplies; and if the body be thus

debilitated, can any wonder be felt that it should no longer be able to

resist the action of offending causes which full health alone can

withstand?”

_Clothing._—Infants and children are often injured by improper clothing.

It is customary for some nurses to wrap them in such a quantity as to

injure their health; moderation in this respect should be observed, due

regard being paid to that which is sufficient to render them

comfortable. Infants, when first born, have clothing enough almost to

smother them.

_Medicine._—Another very reprehensible custom is, to pour down some

nauseous drug, such as paregoric, Godfrey’s cordial, or some other

articles, every time the child begins to cry or is fretful, by which it

becomes habituated to the use of opium, and makes it necessary to

increase the dose in order to produce the same effect.

Another injurious practice is to give frequently worm lozenges (the

basis of which is calomel or mercury) upon any attack of illness, under

the impression that the disorder is occasioned by worms. By this

imprudent course both the health and life of the child are endangered.

Therefore those who wish to bring up their children in a healthy

condition must avoid these evils, and be content to follow the simple

path of nature and common sense.

Few things tend more to the destruction of children than drenching them

with drugs. Medicine may be _sometimes_ necessary for children; but that

it injures them ten times for once it does them good, I will venture to

assert. A nurse or mother, the moment her child seems to ail anything,

runs immediately to the doctor or the apothecary, who throws in his

powders, pills and potions, till the poor infant is poisoned; when the

child might have been restored to perfect health by a change of diet,

air, exercise, clothing, or some very easy and simple means.

Care must be taken to keep the bowels regular, which may be effected in

most cases by the milk of the mother alone. Most of the complaints in

children arise from flatulence or wind; to remove which give common

catnip or fennel seed tea, let them drink it freely, and let the mother

regulate her diet.

When children complain of pain in the stomach and bowels, it may be

necessary sometimes to give a moderate dose of vegetable physic; _senna_

and _manna_ is very good; after the operation of physic let the diet be

attended to. Green fruit must be avoided, and whatever is hard of

digestion. The feet should be often bathed in warm water, the bowels

must be fomented with bitter herbs, and it is also necessary to give the

child sufficient exercise in the open air.

_Bathing_ should never be neglected, as it contributes much to health.

Many complaints of the skin and the system are caused by the neglect of

this practice. Filth collects on the surface, obstructs perspiration,

which retains morbid humors, and which are thrown upon some of the

internal organs and create irritation. Is it not owing to this that

infants fret and cry so much? Daily bathe with tepid water; this is also

good for galling, chafing, excoriations, &c.

_Pure Air and Exercise._—This is very necessary; impure and confined air

with the want of exercise, causes disease; and hence children in cities

are more pale, feeble, and sickly than those who live in the country and

breathe pure air and play in the dirt. Confining children at home, in

low, confined, dirty houses, cellars, and in school-rooms, is

pernicious; also crowding too many in sleeping-rooms. When children are

confined in small apartments, the air not only becomes unwholesome, but

the heat relaxes their solids, renders them delicate, and disposes them

to colds and many other disorders. Nor is the custom of wrapping them

too close in cradles less pernicious. One would think that nurses were

afraid lest children should suffer by breathing free air, as many of

them actually cover the child’s face while asleep, and others wrap a

covering over the whole cradle, by which means the child is forced to

breathe the same air over and over all the time it sleeps. Children,

therefore, must have as much _exercise_ and _air_ as possible, and

should be employed in something useful and interesting.

Again; “The premature exertion of intellect to which the mind is

stimulated at our schools, by the constant emulation and vanity, far

from strengthening, tends to impair the health and tone of the brain,

and of all the organs depending on it; and hence we rarely perceive the

genius of the school manifesting in future years any of the superiority

which attracted attention in early life.”

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