BY R. H. WILDE, _Of Georgia_.
Thou hast thy faults VIRGINIA!--yet I own
I love thee still, although no son of thine;
For I have climb'd thy mountains, not alone--
And made the wonders of thy vallies mine,
Finding from morning's dawn 'till day's decline
Some marvel yet unmarked--some peak whose throne
Was loftier; girt with mist, and crown'd with pine,
Some deep and rugged glen with copse o'ergrown,
The birth of some sweet valley, or the line
Traced by some silver stream that murmured lone;
Or the dark cave where hidden crystals shine,
Or the wild arch across the blue sky thrown;[1]
Or else those traits of nature, more divine
That in some favored child of thine had shone.
[Footnote 1: The Natural Bridge.]
[The following letter, written by a distinguished President of the
oldest College in Virginia, has been already or rather formerly before
the public;--but no apology is necessary for transferring it to the
columns of the "Messenger." Its elegant style and still more excellent
sentiments, will always command admiration,--and we doubt whether we
could render a more essential service to society than to republish it
annually, in order that every young married lady (at least within the
range of our subscription) should receive the benefit of its precepts.
Certain we are, that more wholesome advice conveyed in more agreeable
language, we have seldom seen contained in the same space. It is of
itself a volume of instruction, and we do most cheerfully recommend it
to the softer sex, whether married or single; for the married may
profit by it even after years of conjugal tranquillity--and the single
may at least _expect_ to profit. It is more especially applicable,
however, to her who has just sworn her vows on the altar of
hymen--whose life of bliss and peace, or misery and discord, may depend
upon the first six or twelve months of "prudent, amiable, uniform
conduct."
Let it not be understood, however, that we are believers in the
doctrine, that the pleasures of the matrimonial voyage are wholly
dependant upon the conduct of the lady. She is but the second in
command, and still greater responsibilities rest upon him who stands at
the helm and guides the frail bark of human happiness. We should indeed
be thankful if some of our highly gifted and experienced friends would
prepare a _counterpart_ to this valuable letter of advice, designed
more particularly for the edification of such of us lords of creation
as have either contracted or are likely to contract the nuptial bond.
As to the old bachelors they are an incorrigible race, upon whom such
advice would be wasted, and therefore they need not trouble themselves
to read it.]