21 DELAWARE PLACE, BUFFALO, N. Y., June 1, 189—.

DEAR MISS LOTHROP: In reply to your kind note, etc.

Truly yours,

GEORGE HARLAND.

To MISS JULIA LOTHROP,

110 Beacon Street, Boston, Mass.

The conclusion of a letter gives the writer fully as much latitude of

style as the salutation. Some graceful little phrase should follow the

subject-matter of the letter and lead up to the conclusion, thus:

I am, with love to the family, and remembrances to all my friends,

Yours cordially, MARY ROE.

Salutation and conclusion should always correspond in formality or

friendliness with one another, thus: MR. JOHN BRIGHT. SIR: would

appropriately conclude with: I am, sir, Respectfully yours, FRANK B.

FOLSOM.

A friendly letter beginning: DEAR BRIGHT: or, MY DEAR BRIGHT: would

terminate thus: Cordially yours, FRANK B. FOLSOM.

Other forms for closing business letters are: I am, respectfully, JAMES

ROSS. Or, Respectfully, JAMES ROSS.

These forms do away with the personal pronoun “Yours,” which, although

custom has in reality rendered it a pure formality, still retains

a certain meaning in the minds of some, as the man, who, in a long

correspondence, with his wife-that-was-to-be, never signed a letter

otherwise than “Truly yours.” “What more could I be,” he queried,

“than hers truly, body and soul?” and with this feeling could their

married life have been other than it was, beautiful to look upon?

Never abbreviate the conclusion to “Yours, etc.;” it has too much the

careless, thankless sound of “Thanks,” and neither can be sufficiently

condemned.

Letters beginning, MY DEAR MARGARET: or, MY DEAR DAUGHTER: might end,

respectively: Ever yours, or, Your friend, JANE BROWN. And, Your

affectionate mother, GERTRUDE MASON.

A gentleman, writing to a lady, could say: Very sincerely (or

respectfully) yours, P. H. GOULD. Or, Yours, with sincere regard, HENRY

GRAYSON.

The address need not be added unless the acquaintance is very slight.

At times a more elaborate closing is desirable and graceful, as when

the correspondent is very much higher in station, or older in years, or

you have been the recipient of some great favor at his or her hands:

I am, dear madam, with the most profound esteem,

Yours sincerely, JAMES TALBOT.

Or, to a gentleman, under like circumstances:

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