305 BEACON STREET, BOSTON, MASS., February 10, 189—.

MISS MARY WRIGHT, Cherry Valley, Ill. MISS WRIGHT:

Or, omitting the name, the simple address may be used. However, there

need not be the slightest difficulty in addressing an unmarried lady,

even should she be in her teens, as “Madam,” or “Dear Madam,” it

being a general term as applicable to women without regard to age or

condition, as “Sir” is to their brethren. This will be easily seen when

it is recollected that it is a derivation from _ma dame_, my lady, and

since our language is deficient in any equivalent term to the pretty

French _Mademoiselle_, or the German, _Fraülein_, and, as “Dear Miss”

is obsolete, we must be content to utilize “Madam” on all necessary

occasions. There is another form much used where the address is omitted:

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