THE ETIQUETTE OF BOATING.

There are certain customs and usages in connection with this

interesting pastime that deserve to be noted and observed.

Gentlemen unaccustomed to the management of a boat should never venture

out with ladies. To do so is foolhardy, if not criminal. Great care

should be taken not to overload a boat. The frequent boating accidents

that happen are in most instances due either to overloading, or to the

inexperience of the man at the oars. Men who cannot swim should never

take ladies upon the water.

Assisting Ladies to Their Seats.

When the gentlemen are going out with the ladies, one of them steps

into the boat and helps the ladies in and seats them, the other handing

them down from the bank or pier. When the ladies have comfortably

disposed themselves, and not before, the boat may be shoved off. Great

care must be taken not to splash the ladies, either in first dipping

the oars or subsequently. Neither should anything be done to cause them

fright.

[Illustration: A BOATING PARTY.]

Who Should Row.

If a friend is with you, he must be given the preference of seats. You

must ask him to row “stroke,” as that is the place of honor.

If you cannot row, do not pretend you can. Say right out that you

can’t, and thus settle it, consoling yourself with the pleasant

reflection that your confession entitles you to a seat by the side of

the ladies and relieves you from the possibility of drowning the whole

party.

A Popular Exercise.

Rowing has become a great fad among the ladies in recent years, and it

is to be commended as a wholesome and vigorous exercise. But it should

be indulged only on quiet rivers or on private lakes. If ladies venture

into more frequented waters, they must at least have the protection of

a gentleman. And in all cases they must wear costumes proper for the

exercise, which requires freedom of movement in every part. Corsets

should be left at home, and a good pair of stout boots should complete

an equipment in which a skirt barely touching the ground, a flannel

shirt and a sailor hat are the leading features. Rowing gloves should

protect the hands.

The ordinary rowing costume for gentlemen is white flannel trousers,

white rowing jersey and a straw hat. Peajackets are worn when their

owners are not absolutely employed in pulling the oar.

[Illustration: Lady riding long country lane.]

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